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Education / Please Whats The Equivalence Of Trade Test Certificate To Olevel Results by kwenu: 7:59pm On Nov 05, 2014
Hey house please i intend registering for navy recruitment, but i m currently thinking of what result to use,
i have four o level credit but i didnt make english language, and now its required that i have english language before applying for the navy job, please i want to know the equivalence of trade test certificate to olevel result such as wassce or neco.


i await ur reply
thankyou all
Religion / Re: Why Pastor Bakare Left Deeper Life Church: Television! by kwenu: 10:22pm On Nov 04, 2014
reason scriptures from genesis to revelation , but understanding matters, i find no fault in the two preachers, the sttements from Pator Tunde Bakare just showed us Gods gretness, God is so big that u cant comprehend

see MFM will tell you, Pray against witches and wizards to die, (pls correct me if i m wrong)
a church like christ embassy could suggest that you pray for such a person afflicted with the spirit of withcraft
cananland faith teberncle's reaction to withcraft could be a slap (yes i understand the hatred from the man of God over withcraft activities)
how about the redeemed, they may call a witch out for repentance. salvation or deliverance.

now i wonder , because ye we say we worship and serve thesame God

but heres what i think Go is so big that u cant comprehend

Keneth Hagin said, christianity is like a mountain, the higher u go , the more u see, when u climb a mountain, u see from the angle which u hve climbed. so it is with our preachers. yet i think they re accepted of the almighty

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by kwenu: 9:19pm On Oct 30, 2014
Hello, house, is it advisable to apply for grants aid, when applying to a school in the usa, i visited a school website and i used thier online calculator there i discovered that if i choose to apply for grants aid,the school tuition will be less, or cheap.

after using thier online calculation, tution was less than 4000$ for yeearly tiution
Romance / Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by kwenu: 9:10pm On Oct 28, 2014
B|tch azz mutherfockerz
Romance / Re: Women; Becoming Assets Rather Than Liabilities by kwenu: 9:06pm On Oct 28, 2014
B|tch ass mutherfockerz
Romance / Re: If You're A Lady, Do You Like Being Called "Baby"? by kwenu: 10:48am On Oct 28, 2014
LazyTypist:


GTFOH.... what does it mean? Educate me pls.....

GTFOH Means GET THE FCUCK OUTTA HERE
Romance / Re: If You're A Lady, Do You Like Being Called "Baby"? by kwenu: 10:44am On Oct 28, 2014
marieolae:
Calling your lover "baby" is the best thing a guy could do


It makes my stomach turn, it gives me butterflies,it makes me blush, I feel special,crazy,happy,loved,amazing all at the same time

I think most ladies can agree with me on this

wink wink wink I can only take an objection, if the guy means nothing to me sad

Thankyou, honest truth
Politics / Re: Photo: President Jonathan And Patience in their University days by kwenu: 5:08pm On Oct 24, 2014
Dexema:


Bros its “critics“ not CRITICIZERS no wonder you love them so much. And by the way not all of us can/will be president/first lady some peoples purpose in life is to act best in supporting roles(che guevara),as critics(daniel defoe) or even in opposition. Meanwhile you have to be well prepared and seasoned (+luck,grace) to lead the worlds most populous black nation.no excuses.


thanks for correcting me mybrother, but note that i wasnt only refering to political leadership alone, leadership is common grace that can be found in everyone, in otherwords everybody is a leader, this is my belief, the gateman in your compound , though being an illiterate is a leader, even the mallam who polish your shoe, u may see them as servants but they are leaders, servants understand leaership better than any
but i tell you what, its one thing to be a leader and its another thing to be a great leader, when u see great leaders please do celeberate them, because u want to be great as they are tommorow, unknowingly to you , more grace transfer to you from them when u honour them you honour thier source ,

Take for instance ,tell me what u have ever gain whenever u complain or get angry with your God (wether u re a muslim or a xtian) but u sing worship songs and praises and there u recieve a blessing from your God. now thats same with these todays leaders and past leaders. or better still hate your pastor or imam and see if you ll be blessed through them.

and know this, theres nothing like luck when it comes to matters of the future , but preparation with oppourtunity gives birth to success

if u re waiting for luck, that.. na.....Long ting
rather first Prepare, look for oppourtunities and then u become successful
Politics / Re: Photo: President Jonathan And Patience in their University days by kwenu: 2:45pm On Oct 24, 2014
Why all the hate for the president and his wife, cant we just be positive. today we complain , ooh the woman dosent speak good english , ohh his husband mr President is a daft, weakling, shoeless ect.
but u criticizers do not know one thing , that the more u criticize him , the more His God promotes him and u demote yourself unknowingly,

take for example if God has destined you to become a president tommorow, should you not love current serving president of today? so that you can become one tommorow, badmouthing and condeming these todays leaders could rob you off the grace of you becoming a leader like them tommorow.
i am not saying that its wrong to criticize,
“Criticism” can be good if it results in a positive behavior change or it can be bad
when it ends up hurting relationships and not causing the intended change.
Critism is not a good thing only constructive criticism is. some people only critize to just bring people down. there are diffeneces between the two

please lets all be positive and constructive whenever we criticize people
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by kwenu: 5:12pm On Oct 23, 2014
out of state student should mean , international students?
f -1 visa means what? and for who?
how about part timers? do u think part timers stand a beter chance in getting visas from the embassy, seeing that gives u the time to work in the states, how would the VO / embassy see this :
they d think u choose part time because u wanna work there during the day and attend classes during the night or evenings

why will u choose to go for part time seeing that u already presented a statement of account that shows that u have money to take good care of your self while over there.?

what do the embassy here think of students heading to the USA to study on part time?

in getting of visa , do part timers stand a better chance than full timers?

as for the list u ask of, please give me some time , i ll upload it here later
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by kwenu: 4:05pm On Oct 23, 2014
hey guys , what if a state university s tuition fee is less than $4000 , do u think the US embassy in Nigeria will grant visa to a person who is applying to such university, i say this because i heard someone here say that state universities have a better chance than other Community colleges, or a one building college,

please shed more light , share ur tought on this

i ju st saw a few universities that are this cheap,
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 6 by kwenu: 7:53pm On Oct 22, 2014
HAIL all House, y all tell me sume school i can attend in the states.
tell me good and low cost and affordable of which can be recognized at the embassy here in Nigeria if i wanna get visa

universities i mean

thanks
Romance / 8 Warning Signs Your Marriage Might Be In Trouble by kwenu: 7:53pm On Oct 20, 2014
8 Warning Signs Your Marriage Might Be In Trouble

1. You Pray for God to Change Your Spouse Instead of Asking God to Help You Bless Your Spouse.
The “default” attitude of consistently asking God to change our spouse is destructive in two ways: It fosters a spirit of selfishness and irritation, which will eventually destroy affection, and it makes us focus on what our spouse is doing wrong (which we can’t change) instead of on what we can do right (which we can change).
You realize you married a person who, in the language of the Bible (James 3:2), “stumbles in many ways,” right? Which means there will always be something to “change” about your spouse. But waking up with the desire to bless (i.e., serve) our spouse changes us into nurturing people instead of condemning people.
Nurturing people maintain empathy, which protects passion and affection. Condemnation is not only ineffective as a change agent, but it tends to make us feel negative. There is no guarantee you can ever change your spouse, but it is certain that you can bless your spouse, so focus on the possible.


2. You Define Your Spouse By What They’re Not Rather Than By What They Are.
The way our brains operate, we start to take the status quo as “normal,” which means our default position in marriage is to take the positive aspects of our spouse for granted (“that’s just the way they are”) and instead be acutely aware of what they’re not doing (but what we think they should be doing). If we don’t fight this, we’ll gradually grow more frustrated with our spouse, because even when they improve, that improvement eventually becomes the status quo, which we then start taking for granted.
Ask God to make you newly sensitive to the particular blessings of being with your spouse that you have become blinded to out of familiarity.



3. You Increasingly Look Forward to Seeing Someone of the Opposite Gender.
When we find ourselves particularly excited to see someone of the opposite gender to whom we’re not married, it signals that we’re “thirsty,” relationally speaking in our marriage. I never think about Gatorade when I’m sitting at home, but in the middle of a long run, I crave it.
You can rarely be too ruthless in the face of a growing infatuation—shut down that relationship as much as possible and force yourself to refocus on building your marriage. Being excited about seeing someone other than your spouse frequently signals that the marriage has become too “utilitarian” and that the two of you need to reconnect.



4. You Live in a Sexless Marriage.
Now, there are a lot of reasons that some couples might struggle with their sex lives, and not all of them are warning signs for your marriage. Past trauma, emotional scars and even physical ailments can all get in the way of sexual expression, and hopefully, anyone wrestling with those issues is patiently working with their partner to find healing.
However, as a general rule, when two spouses care about each other and want to serve each other, sex is a natural expression of their love. When this stops, there is often some relational poisoning that the cessation of sex can point to. Keep in mind, therapists define a “sexless” relationship as about 10 times a year (or just about once a month). If you’re even close to that, without a physical reason, your “canary” could be very sick. And remember, the answer is not necessarily to just start having more sex. The answer to open up a healthy, honest conversation.



5. You Spend More Time Thinking About How Your Spouse Could Love You Better Than You Do About How Well You’re Loving Your Spouse.
Throughout the Bible, both Christian husbands (Ephesians 5:25) and Christian wives (Titus 2:4) are told to study the fine art of loving each other well. Few spouses ever fulfill this charge; all of us fall short of these ideals, and yet we, who fall short, often fixate on how our spouse falls short.
Here’s the thing: we can’t dictate what our spouse does, but we can impact what we do. If you want a Christ-honoring marriage, focus on doing your part and let God take care of your spouse.



6. You Can’t Remember the Last Time You Laughed Together.
Couples usually consider “fun” as an essential aspect of continuing a dating relationship. If a couple never had any fun on a date, it’s highly unlikely you’d see the two of them get married.
Well, unfortunately, the same principle often applies in marriage; when the fun stops absolutely, after a while couples decide they want to stop being married. A sense of humor is high on most people’s “desirable” list, but that doesn’t mean you have to be Jerry Seinfeld or Tina Fey—it just means you need to be intentional about planning activities that the two of you enjoy together.



7. You’ve Stopped Being Totally Honest With Each Other.
Lying kills intimacy; by definition, you can’t be “intimate” (vulnerable, accepted and known) with someone you’re lying to.
Usually, we lie because we’re ashamed about something. But we should fear the sin more than the exposure and view marriage as an opportunity to become more like Christ via confession and accountability. That’s the only route to long-term acceptance and the satisfaction of being known and accepted and loved. This is one of the biggest payoffs in marriage—as well as one of our greatest fears.




8. You Stop Resolving Conflict and Become Friends With Resentment.
Saying “it’s just not worth it anymore” to resolve a conflict and expecting it to go away is like feeling a lump in your breast and saying, “If I pretend it’s not there, it won’t get worse and it can’t hurt me, right?”
Conflict is inevitable, but it can be positive if it reveals values and leads to greater understanding. When you stop caring enough to resolve a conflict, you’ve stopped caring altogether. Like cancer, resentment left untreated grows.







SOURCE: http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/relationships/8-warning-signs-your-marriage-might-be-trouble
Celebrities / Re: Ini Edo Acquires Brand New G Wagon Worth #38m-Photo by kwenu: 3:29pm On Oct 20, 2014
kennygee:
*In Omawunmi's voice*

If you ask me, na who I go ask?

monica
Celebrities / The Mavins – Adaobi Ft. Don Jazzy Korede Bello, Rekado Banks & Di’ja by kwenu: 7:41pm On Oct 19, 2014
The Mavins – Adaobi ft. Don Jazzy Korede Bello, Rekado Banks & Di’Ja

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigerian Navy Recruitment 2014/2015 Is Out by kwenu: 1:51pm On Oct 19, 2014
op who are you trying to decieve, u want to rip people off thier money ba.

hey all dont mind the op , heres the origina nigeria Navy website http://service.nigeriannavy.gov.ng/
Romance / Re: 12 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy. by kwenu: 9:55pm On Oct 17, 2014
see a wise man


There are three different kinds of human on earth,
they are,
1 SPIRITUAL GIANTS
2 MENTAL GIANTS
3 PHYSICAL GIANTS

in our todays world , spiritual giants rule the world codedly but u wont know
followed by mental giants
then physical giants, most of many physical giants work as security guards and earn peanuts


sometimes i wonder how most of our girls think nowadays, that they dont look inwards,
ever since i been developing myself on the inside, i got to realise that even presidents , great leaders, governors , list whatever successful career, men whatever , it all begins from inside,
there are men who are short but , they re very great, see most of your commedians, see almajinedad(president of iran) i guess hes former now. see former president of france, see i know one great preacher that is not popular but controls a very large crowd in his church, hes a short man and he married a short woman, but they re highly annointed and very successful, great successful women even run after the man but seeing hes got the fear of God, he wont allow such.
i have seen tall men, who are broke,

lADIES please learn to look inward, a short man could become your best of husband tommorow
Allow the holyspirit to help you choose

same applies to guys aswell

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Romance / Re: 12 Wrong Things Girls Check Before Marrying A Guy. by kwenu: 9:54pm On Oct 17, 2014
samuelemuobosa:
AFTER READING SHORT MEN COMMENTS ..I DECIDE TO DROP MY OWN ..FOR D FATE OF D TALL ......... HEIGHT DOES NOT REALLY MATTERS ... CUX IS NT ALL TALL GUYS DAT IS BAD ...SO IT GOES TO D SHORT GUYS ... BUT PHYSICALLY LOOKING AT A TALL GUY ... HE FITS BETTER .. BUT WAT REALLY MATTERS IS WAT U CARRY INSIDE .. .. LIKE SERIOUSLY ... D INSIDE MATTERS ALOT ... runs girls and sugar mummies knw wat am talking abt..

see a wise man


There are three different kinds of human on earth,
they are,
1 SPIRITUAL GIANTS
2 MENTAL GIANTS
3 PHYSICAL GIANTS

in our todays world , spiritual giants rule the world codedly but u wont know
followed by mental giants
then physical giants, most of many physical giants work as security guards and earn peanuts


sometimes i wonder how most of our girls think nowadays, that they dont look inwards,
ever since i been developing myself on the inside, i got to realise that even presidents , great leaders, governors , list whatever successful career, men whatever , it all begins from inside,
there are men who are short but , they re very great, see most of your commedians, see almajinedad(president of iran) i guess hes former now. see former president of france, see i know one great preacher that is not popular but controls a very large crowd in his church, hes a short man and he married a short woman, but they re highly annointed and very successful, great successful women even run after the man but seeing hes got the fear of God, he wont allow such.
i have seen tall men, who are broke,

lADIES please learn to look inward, a short man could become your best of husband tommorow
Allow the holyspirit to help you choose

same applies to guys aswell
























brb ...

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Celebrities / Re: I Could Not Woo Women During My Undergraduate Years – Saka by kwenu: 5:42pm On Oct 14, 2014
timilehing:
Clowns do not have courage to woo ladies. they fade away

fool u think u re doing urself good whenever u woo a lady, instead of concentrating on how to grow a better future
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by kwenu: 5:10pm On Oct 13, 2014
Wheellz:
am an introvert and loving it.
gals think introverts get easily manipulated bt introverts differ.
my typ watch u nd giv u mr freedom to dis tinz
and u tink u r manipulating us bt rather deceiving urself cos lyk u sed we r introverts we v got our energy source frm d insyd.
OUR COMFORT ZONE DSNT NID SECOND PARTY.

AM AN INTROVERT WIT XCPTIONS APRT FRM D FACT DT I HATE CROWD I GET LOST IN IT.
I SHAKE TO TALK IN D CROWD.
GUDNEWS
I DO DEM NW.
IT WSNT HARD AT ALL.
I TALK ALOT,
BUT MY COMFORT ZONE KIPS ME ALONE ND I
REGRET TALKIN MCH.
I PARTY DEN FRNDS WLD SAY I DIDNT KNW U CN PARTY HARD.
D DAY I JOKINGLY HIT D WORD BRA A GAL WHISPERED IN MA EAR " NNAMDI U V CHNGED "
DIS IS FUNNY.
INTROVERTS DO TINS TOO LYK XTROVERTS JST DAT DEY TINK TOOMCH. DEY GET WITHDRAWN SHY OR RSERVED ANYN U USE.
BT WEN DEY KNW DIA FAITH U NJOY DEM
DEY KIP PROMISES
DEY DO UNEXPCTD TINZ
DY LOV WIT DIA WHOLE HRT IF BRKN SM CRY ALONE SME C IT AS NATURAL.
DEY STAIR SINCERELY
DEY SMILE ALOT(CALL IT BLUSH IF U LYK)
WEN DEY GET QUIET DNT PANIC ITS JST DIA NATURE
WEN DEY GET LOUD DEY EASILY CHNG BCOMING QUIET ALL OF A SUDDEN.
DEY TINK TOOMCH DATS Y CONVERSATION AINT A BIG DEAL TO DEM. DEY JUST DO IT.
WEN DEY LYK SMN EVEN GOSSIP CANT CHNGE D WAY DEY FEEL ABOUT U
START LOVING US

guy u re right, u must be speaking from experience, we love with our whole heart, this is why sometimes we dont like getting into any relationship,
if there were any unmarried man,that loves lonelyness and didnt get married. then it must be an introvert
.only introverts cry when heart broken cos our hearts is tender
we love to meditate
we love and embrace inner peace, yeah we long for it
we are well informed, with first class information and from a reliable source, e.g infinite intelligence, God.
an unsettled mind or soul can not hear God, even if God speaks he d trhink, its his own mind
People will sometimes call an introvert, saying, YOU DEY DO LIKE WOMAN in pidgin
i love to think and so my mother complains alot about it and whenever alone, she always tell me to socialise with people, but whenever i try to socialise, i feel uncomfortable, my room is my temple, i love lonely street,
i dont patronise shops where 3 or 4 of women are, its a turn off for me, i rather go where theres only 1 person (gays i m not one of u oo)
and i dont like passing through the company of extroverts and female gatherings,
as i speak to you my cousin an extrovert is a turn off for me, seeing he hates quiet times.
ladies think we re cool
in my secondary school days girls were liking me for reasons i dont understand but these days they wanna friendzone and take advantage of me, but i have learnt not to loose guard whenever they re arround

somehow i think the holyspirit himself is an introvert but not shy,

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Politics / Early Photo Of Martin Luther King & President Barrack Obama by kwenu: 12:48pm On Oct 13, 2014
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