Hello, guys i would like to say thanks for the replies and the answer is yes i am still in love with him. I am moving on though because yes he did cheat and told me he did not want me anymore. But i have been seeking god giving him more of my attention. I put god down for a human being which i should have not done. I learned this the hard painful way. Anyway thanks for the replies i just wondered why would he call from different places if he was so sure he wanted the others.

Hello, i have a question if your x-boyfriend broke up with you left you for someone else. which is what happened to me. He then turns around and goes to a business across the street from his job and calls my house and hangs up after i answer the phone. He has did this several times. I dont know why he is did this?

Excuse me what is okafor's law.

Hello, guys i got a question?

A guy that broke up with me for someone else said that maybe we would end up marrying if god was willing he kept saying this over and over. I aksed why would he bring god in this. Then he would say i don;t know i'm just not feeling the same for you i'm just torn between you. He said had not eaten for a weak upomn trying to make this decision which i don't believe. It seems he fell very deep for her.

Well i wanted to know do most nigerian men leave and never come back. I know that it is stupid question but i just don't know. I guess you guys might say how do we know. But i wonder what are there traits. I know there are a million beautiful women in the world. But not a million me!

Hello, everyone that replied or even read my passage. I want to say THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU for even sending me a reply. When i posted on this site i never expected a reply seriously. I just want to say regarding this guy i have prayed for him countless times. I have prayed that he will come to know the lord and that god will touch his heart. I know that he will. I have decided to move on its funny when you build all these dreams in your mind that you will end up with someone and yyou dont but we have to lean onto gods understanding and not our own. we also need to seek the kingdom of god and all things shall be added unto us. i had to learn this the hard way. I also want to pray for the nigerian culture really all cultures of men. That they can grow to love women wholey and Heartly and realise the blessing they have and how we are beautiful and smart and not just someone to misuse cause honestly they are misusing themselves when they hurt us. Cause we are the mothers and the sisters of them. I feel the devil is trying to take over our heart and soul. The lord created us we are his. Lets stomp the devil. As many time as i've heard this. It is not about africans not liking blacks or vice versa. It's time for us to come together and not fall for the devil's ploy. God bless all my african and african american people may god Grant you the fruit of the land. Signed with love and peace and hope!

Hello, everyone that replied or even read i want to say THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOU for even sending me a reply. when posteed here i never expected a reply seriously. I just want to say regarding this guy i have prayed for him so many times. I have prayed that he will come to know the lord and that god will touch his heart i know that he will. I have decided to move on its funny when you build all these dreams in your mind that youll end up with someone and you don't but we have to lean onto gods understanding not ours well also need to seek the kingdom of god and all things shall be added. I had to learn this the hard way. I also want to pray for the nigerian culture really all cultures of men. That they can grow to love women and realize the blessing. Think of your mother would you want a man to hurt your mother or sister. I feel the devil is trying to take over our hearts. The lord created us we are his lets stomp the devil. It is not about africans not liking black people or vice versa. It's time for us to come together and not fall for the devil's ploy. God bless all my african and african american people may god give you the fruit of the land.

Hello, everyone and godbless you all. I am a first time user on him and i'm nervous i don't want no one downing me or talking about me. I was involved with a guy from nigerian i met him we started off talking and things led to more. We would shop at the african stores for food he would cook for me on the weekends take me out and i would spend the night with him all the time. He talk to me about his family and how they had hurt him before i thought we were pretty close. But then i started finding other women numbers he told me i have a problem with commitment. So i knew then to leave but i was so in love. He said im going to get better things got worse. He obviously met someone else that drove him wild he could not even look at me in the eye when would talk and go out. He started putting me down out my hair my skin tone everything. The things he found so beautiful at first this hurt me. Because you know what i know i am not african but i am african american so i felt i related in some way but in the end he acted as if i was a dog not good enough for him. He almost destroyed me but by the grace of our god i am here and blessed. You know i got calls from across the street were he works someone would hang up i knew it was him. After he admitted i just dont feel the same for you i begged him to stay with me i cried i feel so so dumb for that. He left he said he had feeling for the other woman. He told one day maybe will be married he said i dont know what is wrong with me you are a good person i just dont know. But i know this he left me feeling like a fool a real fool.