ubunja: What makes women tick at the most basic level.
FRIENDSHIP. Let's say two Laws are passed: one banning sex between men and women; And another banning friendship between men and women. What will happen?
Riots and mayhem that's what.
Men and women will riot and burn the country. But it is important to understand which gender will riot against which law.
Women will riot against the banning of FRIENDSHIP between men and women. Men will riot against the banning of SEX.
Men can not live without Sex, Women can not live without Friendship with men.
Friendship with a man is the only relationship that a woman can have with a man that allows her to get money and stuff from him WITHOUT giving him sex. That's a secret hidden from men.
For women, a man's friendship is more important than a man's love. And more important than a man's dick. Because with male friends, a woman can get ANYTHING without giving back ANYTHING.
A woman's guy friends don't mind helping her move, checking her car, fixing her place, helping her out with money, keeping her safe etc - for FREE. If the woman gets all that from a BF she has to PAY with sex. But with guy friends it's free.
ATTENTION AND VALIDATION. If all the men in Nigeria ignore all the women, and instead focus on 1 woman - every man adoring and worshiping her - that woman, receiving that infinite attention, will feel her need to have sex diminish to almost zero
There's a level of Attention and Validation that if a woman gets from men it cancels out her need for Sex. The female sex drive differs from the male sex drive in this aspect. While the male sex drive is a physical hunger like the hunger for food or the thirst for water, The female sex drive is VALIDATIONAL in nature.
The more important you make a woman feel the less she needs to impress you. (You're impressed already) And the less she needs to sleep with you to feel important (she's important already to you)
The more valued a woman feels the weaker her sex drive is because the less she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. And in the opposite way, the less valued a woman feels the stronger her sex drive is because the more she has to use her sexuality to get Validation. Or to feel valued.
A man can date a woman who seems to enjoy sex, But as soon as he marries her, give her comfort, security and peace of mind her pussy turn dry. Too many men are confused why the happier they make their women the less their women want sex. It's because these women are content and secure. And that has a chilling effect on their sex drive. It slows it down. To reignite the passion the men have to subtract the things that are making the women content and secure.
If your woman has lost interest in sex, bring in drama, uncertainty and confusion. Start acting funny. Have suspicious phone calls. Have female friends visit etc - Make your woman think she's about to be replaced. She'll stress, process a lot mentally and question her value to you, and in the process her legs will snap open. And pussy juices will flow.
THE SOURCE CODE. Here are the codes to female sexuality:
When a woman gives the least amount of sex for the most amount of money It's about money
When a woman gives the most amount of sex for the least amount of money it's about Validation
Women who participate in 3sums and gangbangs don't speak too much about enjoying multiple dick but speak more about enjoying being THE CENTRE OF ATTENTION. Because it is about seeking Validation not seeking Pleasure. A woman can pleasure herself better than any man can and no man can pleasure a woman better than a intimacy gadget can. Strictly speaking a woman doesn't NEED a man for pleasure. So when a woman chases men for sex it has more to do with Validation than pleasure. She feels valuable when she's valuable to men.
Most girls who do gang bangs do them free. And the most hardened sluts will be offended if you offered them money for sex. I once related the story of a Bleep addicted slut who, after we offered her money, told us she can do it free if we go hardcore enough on her. I had told her we were about 7 guys. Shît is crazy.
SELF-ESTEEM. A woman's sex drive is opposite her self-esteem.
The reason treating a woman like trash pays in sex is because it erodes a woman's self-esteem that she then seeks to replenish by opening her legs. The more worthless a woman feels on the inside the more she seeks worth through sex. The sex compensates for the inadequacies. It's the reason disrespectful men get a lot of sex from women. It's the same with men and money. The more worthless a man feels on the inside the more he seeks worth through money. The money compensates for the inadequacies. And a man with zero self-esteem will pay the most amount of money for the least amount of sex. Even paying for NO sex. And still feel good. A man's spending habits with women are opposite his self-esteem.
In women, things like sex addiction are more a symptom of deeper underlying issues than mere love of dick: Let's say a boy and a girl are going through problems at home. They will both act out. But in different ways. The boy will turn to petty crime. While the girl will turn to sexual promiscuity. Sex is how women deal with issues. Antisocial behavior is how men deal with issues. That's why in Society's eyes a man at his worst is a criminal. And a woman at her worst a whôré. And both whôré and criminal live side by side on the street because where there are prostitutes, criminals will be there. They understand each other because they're going through the same shît but expressing it differently.
The weaker a woman's self esteem is, the easier she becomes a slut. And Pîmps know low self-esteem women make the best prostitutes. While sexologists know the first step in treating female sexual addiction is raising the woman's self-esteem. Meanwhile to get the best sex from a woman you destroy her self-esteem. Everything with female sexuality hinges on Self-esteem. Everything with male spending habits on women hinges on Self-esteem.
When a woman loses her self-esteem - when she feels worthless on the inside - her Inner Self seeks to regenerate the lost Worth the quickest way it knows how: BY MAKING THE WOMAN OPEN HER LEGS. Because what's between her legs is the most wanted thing in the World guaranteed to generate the attention she needs to feel like a somebody.
The woman's Inner Self points to men's lust for the woman and says to her: "See, all these men want to fvck you. And you make them cum nicely. You're not totally worthless!"
As a young boy I remember two prostitutes from the neighborhood pub fighting and one shouting in vernacular, "ayisikho uthanda amadoda" (that's why you love men), and I remember the other throwing her ass in the air and defiantly shouting back, "Bayangithanda ngoba ngimnandi" (They love me because I'm sweet). Everyone burst out laughing at the shamlessness of the reply. I never forgot that incident.
She loved men because men loved how sweet her pussy was.
CHASING VALIDATION. Ever noticed this on Social Media? A girl posts a picture, and she gets a hundred nice comments. Then an asshole of a guy comes online disses the picture calling the girl fat and ugly. Then the magic happens: The girl ignores the 100 sweet comments and fixates on the 1 bitter comment. She engages the hater while the supporters look on feeling neglected.
It's a natural law.
We all fear rejection and a even 1 hater in a sea of supporters gets our Attention. We chase the Hater's approval wishing for him to be AGREEABLE. And as long as we're chasing the Hater's approval he has power over us.
If a woman meets 99 guys who compliment her but 1 guy spits in disgust, What will stress the woman that night?
The 99 compliments or the 1 spit?
That 1 spit of course: "Why did that guy spit? Am I not pretty enough in his eyes? I will show him". Then over the following weeks the girl will dress and act TO IMPRESS THAT 1 GUY WHO SPIT. She then LIVES FOR HIS VALIDATION. And once the girl does that, as far as that guy is concerned, with that guy, the girl is dealing from a position of weakness. She's chasing that validation. And as long as she's chasing, that guy has tremendous power over her. Power even to fvck her.
There is no sweeter girl than a girl that's chasing your Approval and Validation. Its how you deal with women from a position of Power.
DEALING WITH WOMEN FROM A POSITION OF POWER. A woman can size you up by your choice of words. There's a superior way of talking to women. And there's an inferior way of talking to women. Learn the difference:
Nice Guy: I know how to fvck. Bad Boy: Do you even know how to fvck?
Nice Guy: I feel so lucky to have you. Bad Boy: You should feel lucky to have me.
See the difference?
Back in my 2go days (about 9 yrs ago), I had a very different approach to getting girls than most dudes. In the chatrooms most guys would post: "I want a girl who wants me to lick her and I'll do everything she wants". But because I always opposed everyone, just for the hell of it, I would post: "I want a girl to suck me and do everything I want her to do".
I made everything about ME.
While just 1 or 2 girls responded, It was interesting dealing with those girls. They came to me with the mindset of PROVING themselves to me. The same mindset the majority of men came to women with. It was a power trip having a girl try to convince me of her sex skills all the while I'm trying hard to hide my thirst.
When you present yourself to a woman as someone ready to serve you lessen your value. You're chasing her validation. But when you present yourself as someone ready to be served you increase your value and have the woman chasing YOUR validation. It's a fun ride. The sex the woman will give you is sex to prove herself. The best sex a woman can give a man.
And it's not even that hard to set a woman on that road.
It's as simple as chatting with a 19 yr old girl and in an unimpressed tone, remark, "You're too young. What do you know!". And boom!!!! She wanna prove herself to you and show you she's grown.
It's as simple as chatting with an older woman in her 30s or 40s and remarking, "Is that pussy still good or you just saying these things?". And boom!!! She's telling herself, "I'll show this motherfvcker!"
Just like that you have women chase your Validation. Eager to PROVE something to you. While other men compete to prove themselves to women promising to fvck their brains out and lying about Dick sizes and the rounds of sex they can go, you have women doing the same to YOU.
The key here is to play on women's fears, envies and jealousies.
A younger woman envies the older woman for her Sex Skills and her greatest fear is never being taken seriously. The older woman envies the younger woman for her fresh body and her greatest fear is that she's past her time. A line that has delivered for me with teenage girls is: "I promise to fvck you like a grown woman!". Delivered in raw vernacular. It works wonders.
MAKE A GIRL WANT TO IMPRESS YOU. Girls start having sex earlier than boys and go on to have sex with more people than boys ever will. You can benefit from this extensive experience if you approach the situation right.
Like this: Next time, instead of boasting of your own sexual abilities to a girl, boast about how you're so hard to impress that even women with amazing sexual abilities have a hard time pleasing you. Make it about YOU. Come across as someone very hard to please. Bring the girl to a position where SHE is the one boasting of her sexual abilities. Where SHE is the one making promises to blow your mind. Even then, raise the stakes by remarking how women who boast about their sexual prowess turn out to be so-so when the time for sex comes.
That's how the fun begins for you. For when she comes to you, that girl is bringing along her entire sexual repertoire and may God have mercy on your sceptical soul.
#TheRedPill #MGTOW
I am increasing in understanding with this kind of stuff.
ubunja: Women will not buy the cow if the milk is free.
SEXUAL VS NON SEXUAL NEEDS. Women's needs are divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.
Men's needs are also divided into two groups: non sexual needs and sexual needs.
Sexual needs are sex, cuddles, kisses, MouthAction, massages, sex pics, sexting, phone intimacy etc. Anything that is sexual.
Non Sexual needs are food, shelter, money, clothes etc. Anything that has nothing to do with sex.
Women date for non sexual needs.
Men date for sexual needs.
That is, women date FOR THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX: i.e a man's resources, money, time, energy, protection, skills, investments etc. If a woman already has these things by herself she will see no reason to date: "I make my own money I don't need a man" Women don't see a relationship as a source of sex the way men do. Women ALWAYS get sex offered to them everywhere they go. They don't need a relationship to get it.
Meanwhile men date FOR SEX AND THOSE THINGS THAT HAVE TO DO WITH SEX. And a man who gets plenty of sex from plenty of women will see no reason to date, e.g a Player.
For men relationships are sexual. The loss of a relationship usually means the loss of sex.
Men and women do not date for the same reason: Women date for financial security. Men date for sexual security.
A woman dates to monopolize a man's finances and have exclusive access to his resources. A man dates to monopolize a woman's sexuality and have exclusive access to her body.
THE MILK. If the milk is free the cow will not be bought.
Women's milk is anything that is sexual - sex, BJs, kisses, hugs, sex pics etc - their Sexuality. If women give their sexuality free to men, then men will not buy the cow. The cow is the woman. And buying the cow is marrying the woman. Since marriage is the One thing women want from men. Since marriage is the One thing that gives a woman access to all his resources, even after he dies.
Men's milk are the things a man can do for a woman OUTSIDE of sex. THINGS THAT HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX : his time, energy, money etc. If a man gives these things free to women, then women will not buy the cow. The cow is the man. And buying the cow is giving the man sex.
In a marriage, you are a husband because you bring the Non Sexual Things.
And a woman is a wife because she brings the Sexual Things.
Hence a man who can no longer provide is replaced.
And a woman who is no longer sexually appealing is similarly replaced.
DADDY GOVERNMENT. When the government provides women with money, assistance, protection etc - things that have NOTHING to do with sex - we say women are now married to the government.
The government is now their husband.
Because a husband is not a husband by bringing in sex but by bringing in things that have nothing to do with sex. A wife is the one who is a wife by bringing sex and things that have to do with sex.
A WOMAN'S MILK. A woman's milk is her sexuality. And her sexuality are the things she does for a man she loves. Some of these things may not be strictly sexual, like cooking, washing and cleaning for him, but they're nonetheless intimate. A wife will be pissed if she finds some woman cooking for her husband or washing his clothes. Because it's as good as that woman is sleeping with him. Because no woman does those things for a man she's not intimate with.
Which is why if a man asks a female stranger to wash his clothes or cook for him she'll reply, "Am I your wife?" And if he asks for sex, again she'll reply, "Am I your wife?" Which is the same exact response to two different questions because household chores and sex fall under the same category of Wifey Duties. And Wifey Duties ARE the woman's milk.
If a woman gives a man this milk free, then the man will see no reason to marry her. Because already he has a wife without a wife.
BUT UNFORTUNATELY women give milk free to men.
Because of the way women's logic works.
When women date a man, they test his ability to provide by making him spend as a boyfriend. If he consistently provides at the boyfriend stage, women conclude, "There must be more money where that came from". And there usually is. Now, women take that same mentality, that same mindset, and apply it to sex.
Women feel they must do household chores for a boyfriend and especially sleep with him for him to see what they can do, for him to "sample the goods", to give him a taste of things to come, to show him what he can look forward to if he marries them. To show him "there's more where that came from".
But here's the problem; men NEVER view sex as a sample.
To men sex is a conquest. Always. As a woman, once a man tastes your pussy, he's NOT wondering how sweet it will be after he marries you. Or what he must do to wife it up. Instead he's wondering how your best friend tastes like, compared to you, since she has a bigger booty. He's wondering how your sister tastes like, since she's younger and fresher. You, he's done with you.
The only way a woman can give a man a foretaste or a sample of the goods, is in how she dresses. She dresses to feed his imagination. The glimpses he'll get of her thighs and breasts will show him there's more where that came from.
But it goes deeper than this.
If a man approaches a woman, it's because he's taken by what he sees and hears - her face, body and voice. All these are the woman's milk. And she must not freely give these away without compensation. Especially over the phone.
Phones have given men access to women's milk for free. And as a woman you'll have to severely limit your presence and availability over the phone and on Social Media. To guard your milk. This means:
No chatting with a man on WhatsApp or any chat app. Ever. If a man wants to talk to you he must call you - over the phone - not over WhatsApp or Skype. And even then you keep calls brief and push for him to come see you personally. If a man wants to talk to you for hours he must take you out on a date. Instead of spending on airtime he must spend on you directly on a date.
And this is going to sound crazy, but NO PICS online whatsoever. No dirty pics. No clean pics. No pics whatsoever on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter etc. And especially no profile pics on WhatsApp. A man must come see you to see your pretty face, not take out his phone and open your profile pic. If you absolutely must post a pic, then choose a dull one. As counterproductive as that may sound. While most girls use filters to enhance their profile pics and they become hotter in pictures than in real life, you oppose them: You post mediocre pics but dazzle in person. That way men will look forward to hanging out with you in person.
Be unavailable EVERYWHERE except face to face. And you'll score more dates from men.
And the more men take you out on dates, the more they're forced to spend and the more they spend the more they get invested and the more they get invested the more they'll take you seriously. We talked about this on Pleasures Of The Cash.
And on dates don't allow a man to take selfies with you. To miss you he must have no pics of you. And when he misses you he must know that the only way to see you is to come see you. Not open his phone gallery.
This is how a woman guards her milk.
A MAN'S MILK. Everything that a man does for, or gives to, his MALE FRIENDS (favours, money, time, connections, etc), these are called Non Sexual Attention and they are the same exact Non Sexual Attention a woman wants from a man.
These are the same exact things that fall under the category of "Husband Duties".
Husband Duties and Friend Duties are one and the same thing. They are a man's Non Sexual Attention. His Non Sexual Attention is the man's milk.
The difference between what a man does for his friends and what he does for his wife is a matter of degrees. Levels. He does the same for them, only in varying degrees.
If it always appears like your girlfriend or wife is always competing with your friends for your time, money, favours etc. IT IS BECAUSE REALLY YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE IS COMPETING WITH YOUR FRIENDS FOR YOUR TIME, MONEY, FAVOURS etc. All which are your Non Sexual Attention. Your Non Sexual Attention is the one thing you share with your guy friends. The one thing you share with women. That's why your girlfriend is always complaining about your friends. Because she's COMPETING with your friends.
The very things men share with each other are the same exact things women want from a boyfriend or a husband.
Men better learn to guard these things jealously. Because they are the only thing of value they have that women want.
Some guys last had sex months ago, because they're doing women favour after favour that women should have been paying for with sex. Some guys don't have girlfriends because girls have seen no point in dating them because the guys are doing boyfriend duties without being boyfriends.
No one is going to buy the cow if the milk is free. Not men. Not women.
YOUR SEXUAL ATTENTION IS TRASH. As a man your Sexual Attention, of which your dick is central, is worthless garbage. It literally has no value to women. A woman can't marry you for sex. Because women are offered sex 24/7 365. Everywhere a woman goes, men want to fvck her. Why will she marry for something freely available to her?
YOUR NON SEXUAL ATTENTION IS PURE GOLD. While as a guy, your Sexual Attention is rubbish, your Non Sexual Attention, of which your money is central, is the diamond mine.
No matter you're the ugliest baboon in the hood or the fattest pig in the township, no matter you're blind, or in a wheelchair or you don't even have a dick; your Non Sexual Attention remains as precious as diamonds and rubies to women.
Because when a woman has heavy items to lift, and the ugliest baboon offers his help, she won't say no. When a girl is stranded far from home and the blackest ugliest man offers her transport fare back home, she won't say no. When the prettiest girl in class can't get her assignments done on time and the fattest unsightly boy in class offers to write them for her, she won't say no. When Ms Nigeria is being robbed and Nigeria's brokest man intervenes to save her, she will gladly welcome it.
All these things that these men are doing for these women are the men's Non Sexual Attention. It is the only thing of value men have to offer women. All because men are stronger, smarter and faster. This is the selling point of men. It is their treasure. Their milk.
And they need to guard it jealousy.
WOMEN'S NON SEXUAL ATTENTION. Women's Non Sexual Attention - of which money is core - is worthless and has little value. That is why a woman can come into a marriage broke and empty-handed and a man be okay with it.
A woman's money and a man's dick have the same value: ZERO. Men don't date women for money, just like women don't date men for dick.
Meanwhile, A woman's pussy and a man's money also have the same value: IT'S PURE GOLD. Men date and marry for sex. Women date and marry for money.
"HEY! CAN YOU DO ME A FAVOUR?" A woman, instead of asking for money from men, she can instead ask for favours. And because men don't mind doing things for women as long as those things don't cost money they'll do it for her. But what men don't realise is that a favour or a free service is really money in another form.
A man's time, a man's attention and a man's money are the same thing because they're equal and have the same value. Since Attention = looking, and looking = Time, and time = Money. Giving someone your attention is giving them your time and your time is really your money.
That is why in Red Pill philosophy money and attention are used interchangeably as the most valuable thing men have. And the sweetest thing in the universe for women.
A WOMAN IS NEVER A STRANGER. Women are the weaker sex and they won't last one day if men dealt with them the way men deal with other men.
Men are hard on each other and don't do each other favours unless it's between friends. If you're a guy and the other man doesn't know you he will never give you a lift in his car, buy you a drink, pay your transport fare, fight for you, give you a place to sleep or buy you food. That only happens between men who are friends.
But here's the thing, when a man deals with a woman, a total stranger of a woman, a woman he has NEVER MET BEFORE whose name he doesn't even know and whom he'll never see again in this life, that man, by nature, deals with that woman the same exact way he deals with a long time friend who is a guy.
As long as he's dealing with men, A guy will only allow a close friend he has known for years to spend the night in his house. Yet a girl he met barely 10 mins ago he'll also allow her to spend a night at his house.
Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.
While Maxwell needs to be friends with Isaac to get favours from Isaac, Sandra here doesn't have to be someone Isaac knows to get the same favours. Isaac doesn't even have to know Sandra's name or where she's from. The fact that Sandra is a woman means that even if she's a stranger to Isaac, she automatically gets the same benefits from Isaac that Isaac reserves for guys he's been friends with for years. Sandra whom Isaac just met barely 5 mins ago will get the same level of favours that Maxwell has earned over many years of loyal friendship with Isaac.
Even if she's a stranger, a woman is never a stranger to a man.
A WOMAN WITH MANY MALE FRIENDS DOESN'T NEED A BOYFRIEND. The best strategy for a woman to properly benefit from a guy, without giving the guy any sex whatsoever, is actually to ask to be his Friend. To never make him her Boyfriend.
Men are raised to treat all women nice. That is what it is to be a gentleman. So even if a man is not in a relationship with a particular woman, he'll still treat her well. Now if a girl has many men regularly treating her well, that good treatment will add up to the treatment he could get from an official Boyfriend.
Which is to say, If a girl gets about, say 8 guys who give her platonic friendship benefits, if she combines all that help it will equal the help a romantic boyfriend will give her. Because what a woman needs from a lover are the same things she needs from a platonic friend. ---------> RESOURCES.
If a girl has enough guy friends he won't need a boyfriend. The more guys a girl has in her friendzone the less she needs to make any of them her boyfriend.
This is the reason why friendship with women is highly discouraged in Red Pill philosophy because it's like the woman is dating you but you're not dating the woman because she's receiving GF benefits from you but not performing GF duties on you.
Even if you're just helping a girl with a lift to work, that may seem insignificant to you, but if at the same time, another guy is helping her out with lunch money (something also insignificant to him), and another guy, living next door her, watches over her (something also insignificant to him), while three other guys help her out with her rent (something also insignificant to them), and the guy at the local store gives her free groceries (something also insignificant to him), at the end, combining all the help from all these men, A WOMAN WILL NOT NEED TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND. She'll simply get a vibrator and live her life.
The Milk has been given to her free so she doesn't have to buy the cow.
A girl won't enter a relationship for what she's getting without a relationship. She's not dumb.
You and those other helpful men, by being gentlemen, have disqualified yourselves from being made a boyfriend.
A girl gains far more from 10 guys in her friendzone than she gains from 1 romantic boyfriend.
That's why friendship with men is so important for women. And that's why men must not be friends with women. Because to be a woman's friend is to be her boyfriend but without her being your girlfriend.
If every man everywhere became as selfish and as stingy with his time, money and favours the way every woman everywhere is selfish and stingy with her pussy, kisses and ass, society would reorder itself in record time. And especially women, having been left to navigate a dangerous world without the male protection and provisions that they take for granted, will be kinder, gentler and more respectful to men. Most importantly every woman will seek her own man to get protected and provided by and there won't be so many single lonely men.
But instead the opposite is happening...
Guys are going above and beyond the call of duty for girls they don't even know. Doing women favour after favour, paying bill after bill, satisfying need after need, of women. For what? To be thanked and made to feel like a "real man"! For validation. SMH.
As a result women are seeing no need to date. They're just hooking up with the few pretty boys for sex and that's it. The rest of what they need they can get without having to date.
If The Milk Is Free, the cow won't be bought. Women are not stupid.
THE FEMALE SOURCE CODE. In the writeup The Female Source Code, we talked about how attention means so much to women that if a woman gets a lot of it from many men, it will cancel out her need for a man. And maybe some readers thought that was too farfetched a concept. Check out the first picture below and see a girl choose the attention of her Instagram followers over her relationship with her Boyfriend. Here's the original tweet: https://mobile.twitter.com/theebryonnaab/status/1327690562108084224
Maybe guys will have something of an idea of what makes women tick at the most basic level.
Gut feelings, and why you need to start paying attention when you have a bad feeling about your woman.
DREAMS. If your girl has a dream and you are in that dream and in that dream you cheat on her, in the morning she will wake up fully convinced that somehow, somewhere you indeed cheated on her with someone.
As crazy as it sounds, there is a method to her madness.
MINDS. Your mind is divided into two parts: the Conscious That you control. That you're using to read this writeup, which encompasses your IQ, your imagination and your thoughts. It's your cognitive mind. The Conscious gets tired, sleeps when you sleep and rises with you in the morning, refreshed. Its power varies with age, gender, race, level of education etc.
The second part is the Subconscious; many times faster, vaster, wider and deeper than your Conscious. From birth to death this marvelous processor never sleeps. Its power is out of reach from direct contact, meaning you cannot directly tap into its immensity, but it works for you. And it knows you better than you know yourself.
INTUITION. Imagine this scenario: You're walking in the crowded CBD and it suddenly occurs to you that a man wearing a black trousers, a blue T-Shirt and dark glasses has been following you since several streets ago, although you did not notice him till now and there is no way you could have consistently tracked him among the hundreds of people you have passed.
How is that possible?
This way: As you walk in town you take in the World around you through your senses. An endless stream of sights, sounds and smells feeding to your Conscious mind. A lot of this information will not register with your Mind because it's "out of range" (the information is presented too fast, too faintly, too inconsistently etc). but your Subconscious, a superior processor, picks this information up and processes it: connecting dots, reading patterns, noting repetitions, comparing memories, matching colours faces and smells - all without your knowledge or effort.
After processing this information your Subconscious picks out that one man consistently featuring in all your recent memories, decodes his body language and flags him as a possible threat, giving you a tip-off in the form of a feeling. a gut feeling, a hunch: INTUITION. It is intuition that makes you aware you are being followed.
Intuition is intelligent advice from your Subconscious but that's given as a feeling because your Subconscious processes information your Mind has missed so your Subconscious can't engage with your Mind for lack of evidence to support its tip-offs, so instead it engages the one avenue in us that accepts anything regardless of evidence: feelings.
Now, intuition is not the only avenue your Subconscious uses to present it's tip-offs. The Subconscious also uses: dreams. And we all have, at one time or another, dreamed a dream that gave us an answer to a problem we had. Maybe it was a name, or a face, or a place that came to us in our sleep. That was our Subconscious being of service to us.
Which brings us to the dream your girlfriend had of you cheating which angered her and prevented the Morning Glory from happening. To her it wasn't just a random dream that came to her pillow. It was Intuition. A heads-up from the Universe.
Women are Creatures of Emotion and emotions are feelings and intuition is a feeling, so it is women who are more in tune with Intuition, even though both men and women have it. But lucky for you, like all good advice that's wasted on their pretty ears, women rarely follow their intuition. They just pride themselves in having it.
"THE VOICE OF GOD IN THE SOUL." Because the Subconscious is the perfect logic engine unaffected by poor education, bad religion, feelings, bias, propaganda, bigotry and prejudice, the success rate of Intuition is so staggering its almost magic. Almost divine. Like the voice of God in the soul.
WHY YOUR GUT IS NEVER WRONG. When it comes to relationships Why is your gut feeling almost always right?
Because your Subconscious picks up hints that your mind can't see that a girl's Subconscious gives without her mind realizing it.
In other words; as humans when we do something wrong we do the best we can to act like we've done nothing wrong. We act normal like nothing happened. But there are hints we put out unawares, subconsciously, that betray us. Policemen are trained to pick these up. eg when a person is making up a lie he looks up in the air to his right. Such things. We do them without even realizing it. And most of us are not trained to pick these clues up.
But here is the thing; all of us, our Subconscious is built to pick up such clues by default. So even if untrained to catch an offender through body language, our Subconscious mind does so automatically. And because our Subconscious can't then feed these hints to our mind because "we didn't see anything" it reroutes it's findings to the gut. And we get a gut feeling that something ain't right. We might not be able to explain why but we feel this deep discomfort about a particular thing.
That's your subconscious doing its best to let you know you're being fed BS. It's nature's Lie Detector. An inner compass that will forever guide you right.
IN GUT WE TRUST. Listen to your gut. It will tell you when a girl likes you, when a girl is cheating on you and especially when a girl is about to dump you. Your gut always tells you. But you don't listen.
If you are honest before God you'll admit that just before your ex-GF left you there was this feeling of unease deep inside you that refused to go away. A feeling of impending doom that you couldn't quite understand that stayed with you for days. That was your gut giving you a tip off.
If something doesn't feel quite right, no matter how OK everything appears to the eye, but deep within you there's this feeling that somehow something is not as it should be NEVER EVER IGNORE THAT FEELING.
If there's this nagging thought at the back of your head that something is not quite right with your GF, even if her love appears unchanged and she still does all you ask and supplies all the sex you need, DON'T IGNORE THAT PERSISTENT THOUGHT. That's your sweet and ever-loyal Subconscious passing you a message. Dont try to look for proof and evidence of foulplay, you won't find any. If you could see it then your intuition wouldn't have been utilized.
Don't confide in a friend about your hunches and gut feelings because your friend will ask "What have you seen?" and you'll say "Nothing" then he'll convince you it's all in your head and you're imagining stuff.
But you'll have only yourself to blame when later, your gut feeling is proven correct in the most terrible and painful way to you.
Once your gut feelings start troubling you, start packing your bags.
IN TUNE WITH INTUITION. How do you tune into your intuition?
Through Meditation - Those quiet times when you switch off the world to hear yourself. Not to sound like some New Age hippie, but Great Intelligence always speaks to us in our quiet moments. God Himself says, "BE STILL and know that I am God" (Psalm 46:10, emphasis mine). And great inventors have always been loners dwelling in solitude unmarried and undisturbed.
So find time to be quiet. To be still. And the still small voices will come through. It will take time to amplify that voice and to learn to trust it. But practice is everything. Start small. Learning to trust your gut in little things and escalate as it proves itself. ------------------------------------------------------------------- # TheRedPill # MGTOW
PROLOGUE. here are 5 significant differences between men and women that you'll do well to remember as you interact with women...
1. MARRIAGE-WISE: YOUR SACRIFICE IS NOT HER SACRIFICE relationships are about sacrifice, but the sexes sacrifice differently.
a woman is always in demand. at any one time she's having sex with more than one man. while 5 more men are begging to Bleep her. and many more are eagerly doing her favors in cash and in kind without getting anything but approvals.
all these things a man isn't privileged to experience.
when a man proposes marriage to a woman the woman considers what she's already getting (the sex, attention and favors) from different men as a single lady; and battles with a decision between the pleasures of being single and the man's proposal. she's weighing multiple-dicks anytime, fun getaways, weekend club nights of booze, freedom to wear whatever, keeping her surname and all the fun things a single or unmarried woman enjoys against the torture of one dick, getaways that will come once a year when hubby finally gets holiday time-off, no more club nights, having her dressing regulated, having someone's surname replace hers and all the restrictions a wife undergoes.
Her choice to walk away from the pleasures, freedoms and privileges of being single is how a woman sacrifices for the man. her giving up all her fun for him is a huge sacrifice for the marriage. she has done the man a huge favour by choosing his one dick over the dozens she was riding.
And so a woman enters marriage with that superior stance, demanding the man show appreciation for what she has given up to be with him. she may not say it in so many words but by attitude.
the experiences that a woman gave up to be with him will always be more amazing than those the man is offering.
meanwhile a man sacrifices in an entirely different way.
a man lives within his means and doesn’t over-work himself, until he gets a wife. and then everything changes... to keep his wife happy and comfortable he works harder and for longer; and may even take another job. he has targets to meet: house, car etc. he works himself to the bone, even when sick, even on holidays and birthdays. sometimes in dangerous occupations that take him in and out of hospitals. sometimes in distant locations that only permit him to visit home once a month.
he's doing it all out of love.
His giving of his sweat, life, labour and energy to build a home he himself will never enjoy because he's always away working and the few days he's home he's asleep because he's exhausted is how a man sacrifices for the woman.
and eventually his over-worked body will pay the inevitable price; seeing him go to the grave far earlier than his wife.
2. PARTNER-WISE: SHE'S DOESNT ENVY LIKE YOU ENVY. we all at one time or another envy our friends' partners. its an inevitable part of life. but women and men deal with this envy in different ways.
if Thomas' best friend, Andrew, is always raving about how much his fat cute GF Joyce rocks; Thomas will not go after Joyce but will go out there and get himself a cute fat girl just like Joyce, to experience that for himself.
That’s how guys roll. its how guys end up dating the same type of women as a crew. one guy inspired everyone.
it plays out this way because girls are PASSIVE in sex and do little of the work so what counts more is not her talent and skill but what her mama gave her - her beauty, figure, boobs and ass: her ASSETS. ( you can see this in porn categories e.g M.I.L.F, BBW, teen, Latina, Big Ass; all that group women by looks and appearance, not by talent and skill)
so for Thomas there's a 100% guarantee that a random cute fat girl with assets matching Joyce’s will rock just like Joyce. so Thomas doesn’t go after Joyce personally but finds his own cute fat girl with the same type of body as Joyce.
everyone goes home happy.
however!!! if Joyce's best friend, Cynthia, is always raving about how much her tall lanky BF Thomas rocks;Joyce will not go out there to get herself a tall lanky guy like Thomas, no!Joyce will go after Thomas Himself , to experience that for herself.
That’s how girls roll. its how girls betray each other. and why girls don’t brag about their men to their friends, and when and if they do brag its about his money or job (things the friends already see) but never about his dick game or dick size (things they haven’t seen).
to brag is to apply for your BF to be stolen.
it plays out this way among girls because guys are PROACTIVE in sex and do the bulk of the work so what counts more is his talent and skill and not what his daddy gave him.
so there's 0% guarantee that a random Tall Lanky Guy will rock just like Thomas since its not guaranteed the random will possess Thomas' skill set.
so rather than test drive a hundred random Tall Lanky Guys,Joyce takes a shortcut and steals the nearest "tried and tested" Tall Lanky Guy she knows: Thomas.
and bitches go to war.
while a woman's prime sexual duty is to maintain her figure and assets, a man's prime sexual duty is to expand his sexual repertoire. sex, like all skills, sharpens with practice; and the more women a guy fvcks the better he gets at fvcking and the more pleasure he can give a woman.
When a woman fvcks the average guy for the first time in her mind she doesn't have too much high hopes he will deliver. She is hopping against hope the guy doesn't leave her hanging... Turn her ON only to fail to satisfy her. That's her worst nightmare because it will leave it up to her to finish the job the guy started. Either herself or she'll have to find someone. The danger being that when a woman is mad h0rny she'll do the crazy just to deal with the itch... Even fvck "a man's best friend". Every woman knows the average man is obsessed with pussy but she also knows the average guy can't fvck. Because women play hard to get the average guy fvcks less than once a week unless he has a GF, so it takes a Player who gets a lot of pussy to be good at fvcking.
between two 30 yr old men, the man who started fvcking at 16 will obviously deliver a stunningly better performance than the man who started fucking at 27. 14 yrs of pussy will imbue a man with breathtaking skills women crave.
and should women get confirmation that a man blows minds with dick they'll steal him from whoever owns him - friend or sister.
3. PROBLEM-WISE: SHE SEEKS SYMPATHY YOU SEEK SOLUTIONS. here is a mistake that many men make. when a woman discusses her problem with you, because you think of yourself as this mighty Problem-Solver you try to SOLVE the woman's problem for her: wrong move!!! women want COMFORT AND SYMPATHY not solutions. solutions deny a woman a chance to solve her own problems and make her feel inadequate.
but comfort grants a woman that chance to solve her own problems while promising to support her in her decisions. men never discuss their problems with their women because by instinct they know women are only good for comfort not solutions. men take their problems to OTHER MEN because comfort doesn't help a man with his problems.
men are solutions-driven. women are empathy-driven. because women are emotion-based and men are logic-based. worse, when women attempt to give solutions they fail miserably by attaching emotion to it all ("he must take my advice I’m his GF" ) and if their advice is rejected they feel unloved.
men take their problems to their friends to avoid this.
If a girl brings a problem to you comfort and support don’t give her 2 hours of solutions and answers (UNLESS SHE EXPRESSLY EXPLICITLY DISTINCTLY CLEARLY ASKS FOR YOUR SOLUTIONS) otherwise listen and sympathize. Nothing more, nothing less! Example : Your GF : "my boss wants me to work this Sunday and has started this habit of asking me to do his grocery-shopping for him" You : [s] "tell him to go to hell. That’s how it begins. next he'll be asking you to do his laundry. you know what? you need to find a new job!" [/s] You : "he's an arsehole. what are you going to do?"
4. GIFT-WISE: SHE DOESNT ASK THE WAY YOU ASK.
women ask for things via hints. men ask directly
A man will say to his woman "Did you expect me to read your mind?" and the woman will be angry because all week long she's been dropping hints like crazy. leaving clues like a criminal that wants to get arrested
but men are hopeless with hints and clues that’s why the few men who are good with them make money as detectives. the same reason why men always get caught when cheating is the same reason why men cant pick up hints and clues: if you're hopeless with hints and clues it also means you're careless with hints and clues. here's a short story:
on a cold day a woman shows her man a jacket in a shop, she tries it on, parades it for him and tells him it will match nicely with his own jacket he has at home. reminding the man her birthday is around the corner and her jackets at home don’t look so good on her anymore since she got her new figure---------> as far as the woman is concerned, she has just asked for that jacket . can she be any clearer than this?
but to the man it was all chatter that flew over his head. and the man and the woman are headed for a showdown when her birthday comes and that jacket isn’t bought. the woman's anger will burst "but i told you I wanted that jacket!!" while the honestly baffled man will ask "when?? baby don’t expect me to read your mind!!"
but women don’t come clear and direct for two reasons: 1) Men have ego. and women have to tip toe around it. unsolicitated ideas are best given in such a way they appear self-generated: hints & clues and 2) No woman wants to be seen as demanding so some things will be asked for via implanting the idea: hints & clues. when the man buys the gift he doesn’t see it as one more thing the woman asked for; but "i saw how she liked it; i wanna surprise her with it!!" NEWSFLASH!!! you're not going to surprise her dummy! her liking it was her asking for it....
5. PUSSY-WISE: YOUR WASTE IS NOT HER WASTE. if a woman is no longer a virgin she considers it a waste of pussy if that pussy is not being pounded.
pussy and economizing are words that don’t belong together. if the pussy is there it must be fvcked. no excuses. No stories. No becauses. no saving it. go easy on a woman and you"ll lose her. be economic with pussy and a woman will give it to someone else. to get a woman you have to show you're prepared to destroy pussy and have no intention of saving, hoarding, preserving, economizing and storing it away.
"use it or lose it" is a woman's motto: The law of biology.(tie up one arm to "save it" and after a year it will grow weak, wither and waste away. Use it or lose it).
meanwhile men have a different outlook. the more a pussy is fvcked the less valuable it becomes in his eyes. Hence a woman's Body Count will always matter to him.
A married man likes to fvck his wife gently and softly so as to keep her fresher for longer because he takes pussy to be like money that should be saved for future use.
But it's all a big mistake.
Its the reason married women cheat and the reason everyone wants to cheat with a married woman. her pussy is always in mint condition. but this also means that pussy is not being properly destroyed and the wife is definitely unfulfilled.
"waste not want not" is a man's motto: The law of business. to a man a pussy that’s fvcked 24/7 365 is a wasted pussy. its being ruined. But to a woman a pussy that’s not fvcked, ever, that just lies there 24/7 365 is a wasted pussy. its not being utilized. while you take it easy on your girl and fvck her gently and sparingly, she feels like she's being squandered, toyed with, trifled with and her time being wasted. she's not getting any younger and she wants her body made use of NOW. a GF unfvcked is a wasted GF. a pussy unused is a pussy wasted.pussy is not money it cant be saved. to save pussy is not to fvck it and not to fvck it is to waste it.
same goes for dick. women pretend to respect that guy keeping it in his pants, "saving himself for his future woman" or whatever; but deep down they hate him for not making use of that dick. every study where girls are asked what they'll do if given a dick for a day shows they'll be no better than the Players and pigs they profess to detest. worse, as much as a woman publicly praises the chaste man she never loses her virginity to him but to the Bad boys, Players and Pigs. and no matter how much she tells the chaste man "you'll make a good father" she never gets pregnant for him, but for the Player that’s baby-daddy to dozens of other girls across town. a woman herself cannot explain the draw Mr. Baby-daddy has on her, especially when common sense is screaming "walk away bitch!!". its biology. its the woman's evolutionary impulses subconsciously propelling her into the arms of that man who can make good use of her perishable goods - the womb being the most perishable of her goods.
gender bias and romance aside, women view a man committing to one girl in a world of pussy as a man absolutely, totally, betraying the marvellous gifts mother-nature gave him. he was designed to impregnate the whole World his whole life: from adolescence to old age; that’s why he manufactures millions of sperm daily and his sex life doesn’t slow down for menstruation or pregnancy. a man's sexuality is a highway with no stop signs, no traffic police, no traffic lights and no speed humps. he can fvck everyday till he drops dead at 100 because his dick and his sperm are active till his last day. The only roadblock on a man’s sexual highway is the one placed by society: love. For love a man gives up all his privileges granted him by mother-nature and wastes everything on one woman.
in comparison, women see that their own sex life is like an inner-city road; corners, speed humps, stop signs, traffic lights, zebra crossings and traffic cops everywhere. always speed limits, slow downs and stops. if its not menstruation stopping sex play for days, its pregnancy taking the woman out of action for months. If its not motherhood putting her on the sidelines for years, its menopause putting paid to her sex appeal.
even if she wanted to or there were willing men, a woman can not have solid non-stop daily sex for a full straight month, not to speak of a year or a lifetime. that gift mother-nature gave to a man. a lot of women secretly envy men for the easy-going, non-stop, low-consequence nature of male sexuality, and see men taking chastity vows or being faithful to one woman as wasting a good thing. Oh what havoc they would cause if they had those dicks....!!! What fckery!! as it is they don’t fvck willy-nilly for fear of pregnancy; whats the chaste man's excuse?
a man is over-blessed. for him to commit to one woman is a waste of resources. it may be romantic but its stupid, biologically. sentiments and emotion aside; a man makes sperm till he dies while his wife's womb will only work for the first half of her life and all sperm the man will manufacture after that point will be water wasted on a dead plant. romantically this fact hurts but biologically its gratifying. As such, women are to be enjoyed timely because their bodies have a short shelf life. to store her away is to waste her. to keep her for tomorrow is to squander her. because her clock is ticking. just do it already. TheRedPill #MGTOW.
(Even Though Babies Are Not Made Everytime We Have Sex)
FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY VS FEMALE BIOLOGY. The psychology of women is always changing and ever-evolving, generation to generation, but their biology stays the same. Women are getting trickier and smarter but they're stuck with a 6,000 yr old biology.
THE WOMB WHISPERER. If you find you can't keep up with the current trend of female thought and ideas, what's in and what's out; how you're expected to act and dress and speak to attract a woman, just cut through the bullshit, and go straight to her core - her biology. That is, her womb. Her reproductive system. Speak to this ancient system because although primitive it holds sway over her more advanced psychology.
A woman's pussy is not controlled by her brain or her mind or her intellect. It's not even controlled by her heart. It's controlled by her womb, that is why ITS PHYSICALLY ATTACHED to the womb. Speaking to the womb simply means being that type of man with a proven record in Reproductive Success. Reproductive Success being your ability to reproduce your genes through babies successfully. Which is the literal definition of Survival of the Fittest.
THAT is what will bring pussy your way without you having to flash money, act rich or speak the latest catch phrases.
Let me give you an example; Ever wonder why if a guy makes one girl pregnant soon enough he'll make two, three, four girls pregnant? It's not coincidence. Wombs drive women to that man who puts wombs to work. All a womb wants to do is make babies. Not to be flushing out unused eggs every month through menstruation. The man who satisfies wombs gets the sex. That's reproductive success.
Next time you see a heavily pregnant woman check how other women look at her. It won't be with judgy looks (unless she's obviously too young) It won't be with shaming looks. But with longing looks. Their own wombs are whispering to them and asking "What about me?"
Ever noticed how, in a group of girls, if one girl gets pregnant others follow? Its the same womb whisper: "How about me?". And one by one the girls yield to the voice of temptation.
Impregnating women will have other women hanging around you. They won't come with the express intention of getting themselves pregnant too or to offer you sex. More a case of them just finding themselves subconsciously drawn to you. That's the wombs doing their thing. And one thing will lead to another, (as it always does) and the women, women who should have known better, will find themselves pregnant for a man that has impregnated half a dozen girls in the area. The psychological of these women just got overridden by the biological.
Make hoes pregnant and hoes will come to be made pregnant. Because all sex is for making babies.
Why do you think happily married women have a weakness for getting impregnated by some guy out there? IT'S A TURN ON. It turns a woman on massively to get a baby out of cheating with a man who makes her vagina tingle, then get her husband (who she's with only for financial support) to take care of the baby. It's a woman's wettest dream. Because it's the best of both worlds: The best genes for her child and the best lifestyle for that child.
When a vagina tingles it's the womb tapping the pussy on the shoulder to say, "hey, look! I want some of Him!"
WHEN YOU PROPOSITION A MARRIED WOMAN FOR A BABY. When you approach someone's wife and ask to make her pregnant she's not horrified by your stinking morals as much as she's IMPRESSED about your cunning. Women are cunning, not intelligent. Intelligence doesn't make their jaw drop as much as cunning, craftiness and stratagem does. When you attempt to "lay your eggs in another bird's nest" (like the Cuckoo bird does), you display uncommon cunning. And women find it ever-fascinating.
To a woman a MasterMind is not an Einstein, or some other genius; but a man who can trick, deceive and cheat his way to accomplish his goal. That's the master mind. That's why women love hustlers and criminals. These cheat and outsmart the System that enslaves the majority. They're masterminds.
Women have their own Dictionary which you need to find and download to decode their speech.
A DOZEN CONTRACEPTION METHODS, BUT UNWANTED PREGNANCIES SKYROCKETING. Women hate contraception. Don't let any female tell you otherwise.
Women enjoy sex more with the POSSIBILITY AND RISK of getting pregnant because then their reproductive system is firing on all cylinders. The pussy and the womb are in agreement. And are working towards the same goal: Let's.make.a.baby. Result? Pleasure runs deeper and orgasms hit higher. Result? Babymamas mushroom all over.
Look, raw sex for women is not about condoms reducing pleasure because there's the injection. And it's not about the injection being painful or making them fat because there's the Morning After pill. And it's not about the Morning After pill being expensive or not being readily available because there's the Pull Out method. But the Pull Out method becomes the perfect opportunity for women to hand over responsibility to another person - the man.
Now the man, who can't get pregnant, must be the one to make sure no one gets pregnant? Does that carry any sense?
Not that the poor guy will succeed anyways because come ejaculation time the sperm-hungry woman will urge him to pull out while simultaneously holding him tightly as his hot sperm sprays her uterus. Raw sex is about pleasure, but pleasure deriving from the thrill of risking unwanted pregnancy.
Men always announce it when they're about to come, to give women time to make a decision: Take the sperm or Reject it. But women, being the Masters of Bad Decisions, rarely say "pull out" and mean it.
SINGLE FATHERS: PUSSY MAGNETS. If you can't make hoes pregnant, you can still take advantage of women's weakness for babies in other ways, scoring nice sex for yourself.
Do you have a cute little nephew or just a baby under 3 yrs lying around your house? Carry the little thing to the store and the female attention you'll get will be eye-opening.
Especially if, 1) it seems like it's your baby. And if any woman asks, tell her it's yours. Then add "and I'm all she has". Once you communicate that you're a Single Father, sit back and watch the sympathy pour out. Women LOVE single fathers. They adore them. If single motherhood communicates bad decisions, stupid choices and irresponsible lifestyle and low morals; single fatherhood communicates the opposite: bravery, independence and, in a world where guys impregnate and run, it communicates responsibility. All good things: https://nypost.com/2016/08/31/anthony-weiner-is-right-kids-are-total-chick-magnets/ https://philmeetworld./2009/12/27/babies-are-chick-magnets/
And Especially if, 2) it seems like you can't manage the baby and it's all too much for you. If you never seen sympathy from women, I promise you, you'll see it on that day.
It's the Mothering instinct that pulls women to single fathers. The same mothering instinct that pulls them to erring Bad Boys. That instinct is identical to, and as powerful as, the Provider instinct men feel when they see a pretty woman in poverty.
Babies draw women to men because all sex is for making babies.
Or look at it this way:
TWO SYSTEMS, NOT TOO DIFFERENT FUNCTIONS. A woman has two holes that take substance into the body.
The mouth and the pussy.
The mouth takes in food that goes to the stomach. Just as the pussy takes in sperm that goes to the womb. The mouth and the pussy are essentially the same thing. That's why what's meant for the mouth can be put in the pussy (cucumber, banana etc); and that's why, also, what's meant for the pussy can be put in the mouth (Dick).
And the stomach and the womb are also essentially the same thing: They receive, store and process what pussy and mouth bring in.
The stomach receives food it uses to produce nutrients that sustain the body and keep the woman alive. While the womb receives sperm it uses to produce babies that sustain the human race and keep it alive. The stomach is to the woman what the womb is to humanity.
Now, here is the thing; when it comes to food, the woman's tastes and appetites, what she eats and when, is not decided by the mouth itself but by THE STOMACH. The mouth is only an opening. A conduit. A pathway.
In the same way, a woman's sexual tastes and appetites, who she fvcks and when, is not decided by the pussy itself but by THE WOMB. The pussy is only an opening and a pathway. A gate. The womb is Central Command. With the menstrual cycle being the chief influencer of a woman's choice of men: https://www.nairaland.com/4963791/ubunjas-miseducation-season-thug
When a woman eats, food is only tasty so that the woman can enjoy eating otherwise if food was tasteless she wouldn't bother eating and would starve and die.
In the same way, Dick is only tasty so that the woman can enjoy fvcking because if sex was tasteless she wouldn't bother having sex and getting impregnated and humanity would quickly go extinct.
Yet the stomach has no use for the sweet taste of food, only the nutrients in the food; Just as the mouth has no use for the nutrients in the food, only the sweet taste of food.
In the same way, the womb has no use for the sweet taste of Dick, only the sperm that comes out of the Dick; Just as the pussy has no use for the sperm, only the sweet taste of Dick.
What does this all mean?
It means that when it comes to sex and reproduction, Mother-Nature sees women essentially upside down.
THE UPSIDE DOWN WOMAN. In Mother-Nature's eyes, a woman is walking on her hands with her feet in the air. Head down, pussy up. She interacts with the World without a face or a brain. So her beauty is inconsequential and her intelligence doesn't matter. She's just a headless, brainless, faceless entity with pussy for a mouth and a womb for a stomach.
It may be that you must also start picturing women like that.
Next time you walk up to a girl, ignore her looks and discount her brains. Imagine you're talking to her pussy and she's hungry for your sperm. Because at the end of it all, that's really what you're talking to everytime you talk to a girl. You may be talking to a girl face to face but all the time the girl herself is checking how her pussy is responding to you, not her brains, not her heart.
Women are emotional, not logical. What women think of you doesn't matter much. It's what they FEEL about you that matters. Because women act from a place of emotions not logic, reason or good sense. A woman may think you're a broke godforsaken loser. And indeed you may be that. But if her vagina tingles everytime she sees you she'll sleep with you. Simple as that.
And never does a woman's vagina tingle more than when sitting in the presence of a prolific impregnator or a Single Father.
(0) (Reply) (Un-Follow) (Go Down) UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: 4 Signs You Are A Vagina Worshipper by ubunja(m): 7:49am On Dec 02, 2017 cheers. (Modify) (Quote) (Report) 9 Likes (Share) UBUNJA's MISEDUCATIONS TO CONTINUE. Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: 4 Signs You Are A Vagina Worshipper by Miggs(m): 12:41pm On Dec 02, 2017 ubunja:
a vagina is a sweet thing to fvck, but a dangerous thing to worship.Fvcking a pvssy brings nice things like orgasms and babies.but worshipping it brings ruin and death.
every man must guard that his love for pvssy doesnt cross over to worship.and by worship i dont mean you skipping church to go fvck. though that may qualify.does it? whatever.
here are 4 signs to measure your love for pvssy and determine if you have made that hole your whole life or nah:
1.you see a girl being beaten on the street who you dont even kow and you promptly crossover to defend her.
never mind the fact that you are unarmed and never trained for kung-fu.nevermind the fact that you dont have any idea what weapons the guy beating the girl may be carrying.
WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO
you dont know their story.you dont know the girl. you are not paid to defend anyone,you are not a policeman or a soldier.you will get your face re-decorated for a stranger who wont even pay for your hospital bills.if the police come the girl WILL NEVER take your side.you are a stranger to her.and tomorrow you will see those two kissing and walking hand-in-hand again and look at you like the one who wanted to seperate them.worst case scenario you will get yourself killed over a quarell that doesnt even concern you.
learn to mind your own business.
MUST YOU LET A GIRL GET MURDERED AS YOU WATCH?
obviously no. call the police and remain safe, far away from the fracass.heros are dead.and two corpses will never be better than one corpse.
2.you always do favours for girls for which all you get is a Thank You.
this is most popular with friendzoned n!ggas. you are forever helping girls carry things,move furnisher,fix things etc and you never get any tangible reward for the very tangible sweat you just broke.stop it.
WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO
slavery is illegal.your time is also money.the food you ate to get that energy didnt fall from the sky like manna.if you work always make sure you get paid.if not thru sex then the girl must atleast make you a very heavy lunch. working for free makes you cheap and desperate.
MUST YOU LET A GIRL BREAK HER BACK WITH HEAVY WORK?
obviously no.but when she calls asking for your muscle-power ask her (playfully) what you will get in return. you will be suprised that she will actually make an offer (no not of sex you idiot)
3.you accept apologies too quickly from women.
a girl makes you wait for her at the bus stop saying she will be with you in a few,then turns up 45mins later.and it was raining.and she had the umbrella.... you are pissed as hell.but the moment she fakes a smile and says Sorry, its all over.your heart is suddenly as sunny as a new born baby's? mayor of vagina worshippers.!!!!!!
WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO
the easiness by which you forgive is directly proportional to the gravity or seriousness of the grievience or offense.if you forgive someone pouring hot water on you as easily as you forgive someone who steps on your foot then people will know you cant weigh offenses accurately and they will make you their playground.be harder to appease. it makes the one who offended you feel really forgiven when you do finally forgive her.
MUST YOU NEVER FORGIVE EVER?
obviouy no.but make women work for that forgiveness.even for Eve a simple "Im Sorry God i ate the forbiden fruit" wasnt going to cut it. she had to "make it right" by "working out salvation with trembling"as Paul puts it. if a girl offends you ask her one simple question: How are you going to make it right?
4.you think it matters that you make every girl orgasm during sex.
dude there is only one orgasm that really matters. YOUR OWN. if you dont ejaculate babies can never happen and humanity will cease to exist.humans have been on this earth for thousands of years and we have been going forward minus the female orgasm.coz the female orgasm is not essential for procreation.she will get pregnant whether she orgasms or not. so chill.
WHY ITS A STUPID THING TO DO
female orgasm doesnt bring visible signs you can see like the male orgasm does..hello $perms! so that means women can fake it if i)they see you struggling too much to make them orgasm and feel sorry for your fruitless actions.so a simple " im coming baby" is uttered to end the painful movie she is watching of you sweating for nothing.. ii) if they are bored and want the sex to end as quickly as possible. either case it sucks. for you.
MUST YOU NEVER TRY TO MAKE HER ORGASM?
obviously no.but dont chase her orgasm like its some crown for your head.like some medal you must win. just fvck her the best way you can.if she cums good.if she doesnt cum she was a who*re used to org!es anyways. u feel me. my n!ggar.
the D!ck is only organ worthy of worship in this world.
Adam And Eve is a series of Miseducations I will post, from time to time, revisiting the story of the First Couple in the Garden of Eden and how their mistakes changed dating, love and sex forever.
TWO
EMOTIONS AND LOGIC.
Emotions and Logic, before and after the Fall of Man.
PROLOGUE. Here is a little something hard to realize: In the beginning women were logical. Just like men. And men were emotional just like women.
GENESIS. We're all familiar with the Garden of Eden and the story of the Fall of Man where Eve meets a talking snake that convinces her to eat the forbidden fruit which she shares with her husband ruining everything for everyone for all-time (Genesis 3:1-6).
What most are not familiar with is how Eve fell in contrast to how Adam fell. And how that forever impacted each gender and permanently rewrote the rules of engagement between the sexes.
Lets go back to the beginning of time.
EVE IS LOGICAL. Eve's encounter with Satan in the form of a talking snake is a very logical encounter where Satan appeals to her intellect, stating facts but skewing them to his favour. Eve tries to convince Satan on God's words pertaining the Forbidden Tree, intellectually locking horns with the most intelligent creature in the Universe, but finds herself being the one convinced otherwise. seraph mind outplays human mind. Eve's logic is no match for a fallen angel's logic. Ultimately believing the Liar's lie, she yields to temptation, takes the fruit, eats it and brings some to her husband Adam.
ADAM IS EMOTIONAL. In contrast to the Fall of Eve, the Fall of Adam is an exercise in emotional thinking.
Adam sees the forbidden fruit in his wife's hand. He knows she has done the unthinkable. And the words of God replay in his head, "The day you shall eat of the forbidden fruit you will die". Adam knows his wife is a dead woman walking. But her beauty, her smile, her voice are full of life and (having been touched by evil) they have a new bewitching seduction about them that Adam finds hard to turn away from.
There is a struggle in Adam's head: Logic tells him Even though Eve is the only woman in the World, surely God who made Eve can make another Eve since this Eve has been compromised. After all Adam still has plenty more ribs! But Emotions have Adam so caught up in the beauty of Eve and their memories together that the voice of reason is ignored. Presently Adam's mind is made up: he will ride and die with his cursed wife. With one look at the Temptress's beautiful face and mischievous smile Adam takes the fruit and bites. And humanity comes undone.
Where Eve falls by trusting in logic, Adam falls by trusting in emotions. Where Eve uses Logic and fails; Adam uses Emotions and fails.
MEN BECOME LOGICAL, WOMEN BECOME EMOTIONAL. Because Adam abused the gift of emotions, God takes it away and detached unfeeling logic becomes his dominant thought process. His fall from grace has brought a harsh curse upon the World. The very ground he walks on is cursed. And to build and thrive in that harsh World Adam will need an equally harsh uncompromising thought process to lean on and that can only come from a Logic-based mind that puts duty above comfort and sense above good feelings. So logic becomes the sole property of Adam and his sons.
Eve's abuse of logic sees that gift taken away from her and emotions become her dominant thought process. And women's IQ levels take a hit for all time. Women still have brains, but those brains no longer work. Emotions are their new brain. Right and wrong is now a matter of feelings and No matter how sensible, reasonable, rational, coherent, valid and sound, something is, as long as it hurts their feelings that thing will be considered WRONG. (e.g, A Woman would rather see the World burn than work with her enemy. Emotions come before Sense. While men will put their personal vendettas aside to save the World. Sense comes before Emotions). And no matter how illegitimate, invalid, absurd, crazy, insane, nonsensical and stupid something is, as long as it makes women feel good on the inside that thing will be considered OKAY. This weakness, previously Adam's weakness, is transfered to Eve, and all her daughters.
This encompasses PLEASURE as well, especially sex. While men chase good sense regardless of source women chase a good feeling regardless of source or consequences just like Adam who ruined the World chasing a good feeling.
WHY WOMEN GET HOT FOR A COLD MAN. There are Emotionally Sensitive Men who are considerate and put the needs of women ahead of themselves, but Women are not attracted to the Emotional Man because the Emotional Man is another Adam, a conquered, self-hating man. In choosing to die rather than live without Eve, Adam was the perfect romantic every woman professes to dream about. But for some strange reason this Perfect Romantic does nothing for the pussy. Instead it is the selfish, self-serving, self-obsessed Narcissist putting himself first in everything who makes the pussy drip like a tap. Why? Because all women of all generations, have inherited Eve's triumph over the Emotional Man. Just as they have inherited the pain of childbirth from her. And just as they have inherited her thirst for power.
When you approach women with emotions you're just another Adam that their great great great great great grandmother Eve felled with ease. Your weakness is that you love a woman more than you love yourself. You have abdicated your position as the Head of the woman to be her Ass Licker. As the Head your duty is to issue instructions and take charge but you choose to be her ass licker, dealing with her shît.(Pun intended). No woman can respect that BS. Do you know why girls have crushes on their teachers? Because teachers act as the head and teach and instruct. Do you know why married women respect their pastors more than their husbands? Because Pastors act as the head and teach and instruct, while husband is busy simping not taking charge.
But approaching women with logic is no better. You are speaking a language that women no longer understand because having fallen through logic, logic is no longer a woman's forte. Emotions are more her thing now.
So, what attracts women then? It's the same old truth you have heard a billion trillion gazillion times: OPPOSITES ATTRACT.
But here is the thing; The opposite of emotions is NOT logic just as the opposite of logic is not emotions. Logic and Emotions are different ways of dealing with the World but they don't necessarily sit on opposite ends. The opposite of emotions is NO EMOTIONS just as the opposite of logic is NO LOGIC. When genius men (logic) marry it's usually to some simple minded girl (no logic). In the same way, women (emotions) are turned on by --------------->Cold Men (no emotion)
The Cold Man is the opposite that attracts the Emotional Woman.
The next logical question is...
HOW CAN A WARM, FRIENDLY GUY LIKE YOURSELF TURN ICE KING?
How the people who take our virginity, and the circumstances surrounding the event forever shape our sexuality.
THE IMPRINTED WOMAN. Ever heard a woman complain that she seems to be attracting only Players and Bad Boys? Or that she seems to attract only married men? Or that she seems to be approached by only a certain type of men? And that no matter how hard she tries to break the pattern, she always finds herself dating the same type of dudes over and over?
That's because of something called the Sexual Imprint.
The type of men a woman keeps falling for, more often than not, is the same type like the man who was her first. The kind of men she has a weakness for, 99% of the times, is the same kind like the man who took her virginity.
Human sexuality is PREDICTABLE that way: Our preferences are forever set by our First. Our first time, both the INDIVIDUAL and the CIRCUMSTANCES set a pattern than we follow for the rest of our life.
THE IMPORTANCE OF KNOWING A WOMAN'S SEXUAL IMPRINT. Ever heard of educated and professional women, married to successful respectable men, but who keep cheating with lowlife thugs who are goodfornothing losers? Ever seen those sophisticated polished females with everything going for them, familywise and careerwise, who, for some strange reason keep getting entangled with jailbirds and criminals to the complete embarrassment of their spouses and families? Why do thugs and other scum of Society have such a pull on these ladies? --------------->Because these are the same type and kind of men these ladies gave their virginity to back in their reckless impressionable teenage years. The lowlives IMPRINTED on these women. And the imprint bears its unfailing fruits throughout these ladies' lives.
Women get forever attached to the guy who takes their virginity. If the guy leaves, they gravitate to the guy's type and kind. For the remainder of their lives. A woman deflowered by a Player forever has a weakness for Players. Even if she marries a gentleman, Players will easily make her cheat. To see the type of man a woman gave her virginity to, look at the men she CHEATS with. That's her imprint. Not who she marries. Who she marries is not even her first choice, or second, or third. Who she marries is who she chooses to impress Society and to survive . Not who pushes her buttons and sexually satisfies her. That will be her imprint. Because her imprint determined her sexuality ages back. So after marriage, if a woman cheats, the men she cheats with will follow closely the Player archetype. That's the power of sexual imprinting.
The consensus on the Manosphere is that the imprint doesn't necessarily happen with her first man, but her first 3 men. The type of men a woman's first 3 men are, will be the type of men who'll appeal to her sexually. Even if she doesn't marry that type. But she'll masturbate to it and, more often than not, mentally picture it to orgasm while fvcking her husband, provided he does not fit her imprint, as the majority of husbands don't.
TYPE VS CLASS. Every woman has her type and her class.
A woman's "class" is her choice of men relative to her social standing or career level. It can be men on her level or men at the higher level that her hypergamous nature aspires to. Class has more to do with resources than anything else. Class is more to impress society and to survive.
While a woman's "type" is the sexual side of the equation. The men who catch her attention and make her vagina tingle. The men she masturbates to and cheats with. That's her type. She may not marry it. And society might not approve if it. The type is her imprint. And it has nothing to do with looks. A woman can say, "That guy is gorgeous, but he ain't my type!".
WHEN YOU MATCH A WOMAN'S IMPRINT. Ever met a girl and she told you, "You remind me of someone..." Or ever had a girl show you a picture of her Ex and you noticed striking similarities between you and him? (Maybe you're both extremely tall. Or fat). That means she has a TYPE. And you are it.
That type a woman develops directly from sexual imprinting: The first man she had sex with.
Imprinting makes women have a type that they gravitate to time and again. The closer you match your GF's Exes or men she cheats with; the safer you are because you match her imprint. If your girl's Exes are thugs, and you're a church boy, just know she's in uncharted territory with you. She's trying to break the pattern. And more often than not, it won't end well with you. Even if you marry her, thugs will always have something in her.
A WOMAN'S HISTORY IS HER FUTURE. Who a woman has messed up with can not be discounted. Her past is her future. The men she starts out with are the men her destiny is tied up with. Literally.
Women are receivers. Men are givers. That's why semen goes from men to women and not the other way round. That's why resources go from men to women. That's why love goes from men to women. Life begins with men, women continue it. Men are the Source. Women are empty vessels.
Literally and figuratively.
A woman's pussy is an empty hole that you fill with your Dick. A woman's womb is an empty space that you fill with your baby. Just like her bank account is an empty space you must fill with your money. And her head is an empty space you must fill with knowledge and wisdom.
Women take everything from men. Even character traits and behaviors. A woman who loves a man starts acting and speaking like him. And even looking like him. Because she is taking in his nature. She is receiving from him.
The more natures a woman takes in, from different men, the more her system becomes corrupted. Men hate virgins for the simple reason that they're clingy and become too attached. But it's a good thing. The very thing a woman loses the more men she sleeps with.
Men love sluts and whôrés but lament how sluts and whôrés easily cheat and have a hard time bonding with them emotionally. These men are looking for the living among the dead. What they're looking for can only be found among virgins. Not among whôrés with their numb pussies that have clocked tripple digit dick and to whom 2 rounds of sex no longer counts as sex but pre-intimacy. Definitely no love from numb hearts that have seen so much heartbreak they've hardened to steel. For the more men a woman has dated it means the more breakups she has endured and the more she has learned to harden her heart to make the next breakup less painful. At the end you've a woman who hardly sheds a tear after a man leaves her because she didn't allow herself to really fall in love to begin with. Which is where the majority of modern women are. With the exception of virgins.
THE VALUE OF THE VIRGIN. Between a non-virgin and virgin it is the virgin who will fulfill your fantasies better.
A virgin's sexuality has not been set.
Like the Earth at the beginning of Genesis, a virgin's sexuality is "without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep." (Genesis 1:2).
While a non-virgin is a clay pot or a vase that has already been shaped and can't change anymore because it's set; a virgin is a lump of clay unshaped, unmoulded and ready to be made into ANYTHING a man desires. The type of sex a virgin will lose her virginity to, will define her sexuality for life. A virgin who loses her virginity in a 3sum will find 3sums her weakness. If she loses her virginity to clean sex her sex life will be clean. If she loses her virginity to freaky shît her sex life will be freaky and shitty. And to make her cross the floor to the other side will be a challenge. She can pretend but secretly she'll search out for the sex that she lost her virginity to. That's how educated and professional women who are sophisticated and polished keep crossing paths with Players, thugs and Bad Boys, because it's these men that these women gave their virginity to as naive careless teens, and bearing that particular imprint, it's only sex with these type of men that will satisfy them. All other sex is duty sex AKA chore sex.
Virgins are pure. Sexually, as well as spiritually.
Spiritual purity here does not mean holy in the Christian sense, but innocence. Virgins are innocent and receptive of new light. That's why long ago God commanded the Israelites to kill all men and non-virgin women after conquering an enemy nation (Numbers 31:17-18). But spare the Virgins. Because 1) virgins were going to bond with the Israelite men who would take their virginity, forever tying the destiny of these heathen virgins with that of the Israelites. And 2) Because virgins are lumps of clay still unmoulded which can be easily shaped into anything. Even outside of sex. It's easier to convert a virgin to your faith, culture and way of life than it is to convert a whôré. Because first of all a virgin still respects men and is willing to submit and learn; while whôrés believe "no man can tell me shît" and "respect is earned" because so many men have let them down. That's the lesson God wanted ancient Israel to learn. The lesson modern men need to learn: Whôrés will convert you. You can't save a whôré. Just ask King Solomon.
Back in the days of our ancestors where tribal wars were the order of the day, young men had to prove themselves as brave warriors in battle to be given a wife, who was a virgin. This way all the women of the tribe carried the imprint of the warrior and never felt any desire whatsoever for weak and cowardly men effectively shutting these men out of sex and procreation to encourage all men to be warriors for the survival of the tribe.
I hear there are indigenous tribes somewhere out there that have their virgins deflowered only by the bravest warriors for the same reason of establishing that Warrior Imprint in their women.
OUR PARENTS ARE OUR FIRST SEXUAL IMPRINT. Sexual Imprinting is a broad and complex phenomenon that begins well before our first sexual encounter. With our parents. It is our parents who lay the groundwork of all our sexual preferences. It is also this part of sexual imprinting (as opposed to the first sexual encounter part) that the scientific world and mainstream media endorses and promotes: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imprinting(psychology)
For obvious reasons Society doesn't talk a lot about how our losing our virginity also imprints us. That would open a can of worms especially concerning women. Who are the most affected by the phenomenon because by nature they're receivers.
HOW PARENTS SEXUALLY IMPRINT ON THEIR CHILDREN. A young man searches for a woman like his mother. As a little boy he takes his opinion of what a woman should be like, from his momma. Not to say the boy is sexually attracted to his mother, but he gets the visual cues of what a male finds attractive from the female who raises him. If he's a white boy but raised by a black woman, chances are he'll be into Interracial dating. That's a mother sexually imprinting on his son.
There's more.
If the boy's mother was a heavy smoker, chances are the boy will have a fetish and an attraction for women who smoke. If his mother was older when he was born, the boy will find older women attractive; the opposite being true also. Furthermore, the facial dimensions of his lovers if measured will more or less be the same as his mother's facial dimensions.
All these apply to the boy child as well as the girl child.
So, Your desire to date a woman like your mother, girls have that desire too: To date a man like their father. Consciously or subconsciously. In every man she loves, a girl is always looking for her father - whether a man as good as her Father or a man better than her Father. Even if she never had a father. That idea of what a perfect father must be like, will be the standard with which she'll measure all men she dates. Her Father is ALWAYS her point of reference. Daddy issues or not. Present father or absent father. And all it takes is for a guy to look like her father, or act like him or even dress like him or use the same perfume like him, for the girl to be attracted. Or repelled. It works both ways. A guy who looks too much like her father can either freak her out or draw her closer. Again, that's imprinting. It begins with our parents, both for humans and for animals.
IMPRINTING IN ANIMALS. When a duck hatches from it's egg, the first and nearest living thing it sees within a certain time-frame it follows thinking that's the mother. If a dog is the first thing a baby duck sees, then the baby duck will follow that dog up and down. When mating time comes, guess what? The duck will seek to mate with dogs. It's a proven science:
PROLOGUE. There is a swelling chorus of complaints from men everywhere: "women have nothing but sex to offer" "without pussy women are nothing" "women bring nothing to the table!".
all very true. But all very subjective. because men forget: Its not about what a woman brings to a man, but what a man is man enough to get out of a woman.
DIARY OF AN UNDER-UTILIZED GF. Picture this: A man has secret sex fantasies involving crazy taboo acts like 3sums and bondage that out of fear and shame he never shares with his woman. He thinks she will be pissed and that she will judge him.
One day the man stumbles upon his woman's sex tape. In it she's participating in the most debasing of sex acts ...3sums, anal, homosexuality, bondage; you name it - she's doing it! The man is devastated. And a big part of that devastation is this: Why did his woman take her fantasies to strangers instead of bringing them to him? Especially since it turns out her fantasies and his own fantasies are similar!
But whose fault is it that things played out this way?
BEAUTIFUL FACES, ROTTEN MINDS, DELICIOUS BODIES. many men believe women are pure and perfect beings with sparkling thoughts and innocent imaginations. let's prove them wrong.
experiment 1 one day try this: find a new number and anonymously WhatsApp a girl that you know to be good and decent. Pretend to be a perverted stranger from a wrong number. Seduce her and tell her all the bad things you wish to do to her. I promise you this: 8 times out of 10 the way she'll flip from the good girl that you know to the bad girl that you didn't know will drop your jaw! Telling herself she's talking to a stranger, she will switch from decent to indecent with so much ease you'll think you're chatting to a wrong number.!
You have just witnessed her Slutty Side.
if you have the balls, do the same with your GF and you'll see that you've been playing it too safe, too cautious and too decent in your relationship. your GF can handle more. Her mind is dirtier than you imagined. She's sluttier than she made you believe. Remember the part in the movie True Lies where Arnold Schwarzenegger tricks his wife into expressing her fantasy to him in a hotel room; she, thinking he was another man? Most GFs and wives can relate to the wife's longing to express her less than innocent desires.
As a rule, unless you're dating a virgin, your woman is cruising on a lower gear just so you can keep up. Women are almost always more sexually experienced than men but for the Ego of men they play prude.
experiment 2 When you make friends with a new girl, at school, at work or even at church, (or when you talk to a stranger) make every effort to appear forward and sexually liberated. Talk about fornication like it's nothing. Tell her about that (fake) day you met a girl and fvcked her the same day without even knowing her name. Don't forget to share with her that time you almost had a 3sum with twins but the twins freaked out at the last minute. Mention that Ex GF you turned bisexual.
The point is for you at First Impression, from the word go, to present yourself as someone who isn't shocked by sex no matter how freaky, shameful or immoral. I guarantee this: The girl will open up and share with you what she's been up to. You might not be strong enough to handle it though.
Again, this is her Slutty Side.
experiment 3 If you're friends with married women, bring the conversation to the issue of children and how children carry our legacies after we are gone. Then half-jokingly half-seriously say "Can you give me a child?"
You'll be shocked when quiet a few bite.
This is their Slutty Side.
experiment 4 Let a female friend catch you reading a lingerie brochure. After discussing the products therein, offer to buy her a lingerie set (not from brochure). With one catch: You'll buy her the panties and bra only if you are the one who will dress her up in them. 99% chance she'll agree.
No girl can turn down a gift like this. But her agreeing to your condition just exposed her Slutty Side.
Conclusion: the above experiments demonstrate how impure women are. They teach, in very practical ways, that women may have beautiful faces and delicious bodies but their thought life, their imagination, their mind, is rotten.
This rot women conceal from all men except one, the Player. To the Player women drop all pretense and become their true debased hedonistic selves --------> because they know the Player can handle it. But this exposure to female nature unfiltered and uncensored forces the Player to develop a mistrust, a disdain, a negative view, of all sexually active women such that the only woman he will respect and commit to --------> is a Virgin.
The mind of a woman is ripe for mischief and miseducation. An open-minded BF can tap into that dark potential just like Satan tapped into it in the Garden of Eden. And if the woman of Eden in her holy perfect state could succumb to evil as readily as Eve did; how much more readily will today's woman, the weakened product of 6 000 years of moral degradation and depravity succumb? She's been ready.
HOUSEWIFE IN THE KITCHEN, HOE ON THE BED. Too many men blindly sing the chorus "i want a housewife in the kitchen, and a hoe in the bedroom!". But do they really know about a WH0RE? can they HANDLE a whòre??
They think a woman giving them sex every night in every angle makes her a hoe. That regular BJs need a hoe, when asking nicely from wifey will do. Not every man can handle a whòre. If all you want is sex a housewife will suit you just fine.
What is a Hoe?
A hoe is a sexually liberated woman who is prepared to explore her sexuality to the fullest and does so better when single and not tied to a BF but if a BF is present and he can play his cards just right and be open-minded enough with the maturity to distinguish between pleasure and emotion, he can preside over this process in such a way that although his GF is broke and doesn't bring much to the table in terms of material contributions, the man can feel compensated by the experiences his GF's sexual explorations will afford him.
SET YOUR GF FREE, STOP WORSHIPPING HER. Dale Carnegie in his 1937 book How To Win Friends And Influence People under the chapter Give A Dog A Good Name, says: "If you want to improve a person in a certain aspect, act as though that particular trait were already one of his or her outstanding characteristics...Give them a fine reputation to live up to, and they will make prodigious efforts rather than see you disillusioned".
This means people become what we call them. Call a person a cheat and he'll prove you right. Call a person lazy and he'll prove you right. But men don't understand how this every-day principle works out in relationships.
when a man loves a woman he worships her and treats her like an angel, even calling her such. he confesses she is a perfect being before him, his "better half" and that she can do no wrong. These words are sweet and romantic but they limit a woman. They put her in a cage and become her prison because she has to live up to them. You have given her a moral standard to live up to. Now she cant switch from housewife to hoe without feeling like you will lose respect for her. From here on, in her dealings with you, her hands are tied.
THE FULLY-UTILIZED GF. Men are dumbest where pussy is concerned, women are dumbest where money is concerned. money makes the pussy wet. pussy makes the brain numb. There's very little a man will not do for a pretty girl's pussy, and there is very little a woman will not do for a billion dollars...but if a man is persuasive, relentless and sweet-tongued enough, he can get a woman to do for LOVE what she's ready to do for a billion dollars . To successfully pull that off on a woman is to fully utilize her. If a woman has nothing but pussy to offer then there must be nothing about pussy she's not willing to offer.
Here is how you fully utilize your GF:
one: it begins with something as simple as telling your GF, "There is something I want us to try today!" Just like that you've indicated you want more than she's been giving. She'll be excited because women LOVE experimenting.
two: Tell your GF you and your Ex used to do freaky stuff (e.g 3sums and Anal). Everytime she denies you these she'll know you're thinking of your Ex. Add to her paranoia by telling her you ran into your Ex the other day. She'll soon warm up to your fantasy.
three: get her drunk. why do girls do crazy things when drunk? They use alcohol as a cover. the crazy things a girl does "drunk" with an uptight guy are the same crazy things she does "sober" with a Player.
four: Have an agreement that every weekend you try something new during sex. In no time you'll be doing freaky stuff.
five: or don't do anything at all. Just lie back nàkéd and tell your GF to fvck you. Remember it's always you fvcking her. Now hand her the steering wheel and let her do all the work for once. Encourage her. Tell her to do anything she wants. Create a safe space free from shame and judgement. She will leave you smiling.
Men demand too little in return for what they are offering women. A man clothes, feeds, finances, shelters and protects a woman but for all these services he accepts just one service from his woman: Sex. It's robbery.
Same with Anniversaries, Birthdays, Christmases and New Years. A man gets his woman real material gifts that cost him money, but his woman's response is always: "YOU'LL GET YOUR GIFT LATER IN THE BEDROOM!" Fvck!!! Is pussy so amazing that it must be a man's one and only gift and compensation on every occasion??
OK then, make it two. Or three. If a man is to be paid in pussy then give him all the pussy he can handle. It's only fair. Woman, 3sums are nothing compared to everything he is doing for you.
Next time you do something nice for your GF and she tells you she'll make it up to you later in the bedroom, flatly tell her not to bother unless she has something new on her mind.
Men must learn to drive a hard bargain. Next time a single mother expresses love for you tell her you'll love her and her child and make you all a happy family if she's prepared to compromise just as you have compromised in agreeing to love another man's kid. If she asks How she must compromise tell her she's a grown woman she can use her head. Let her kill herself with her own suggestions.
TEMPTATION IS A WOMAN'S BEST FRIEND. Women label the average man 'boring' because he is routine and predictable. The appeal of the Player is his unpredictability. A woman never knows what he will ask for next. that keeps her on her toes.
Women are willing to be persuaded. Willing to be tempted. But men don't sweet-talk women for more. Instead they complain women don't bring more. Meanwhile on their side women are going to dig for more. They'll ask for money for this, money for that. Ask that you do this and do that for them. It's not for nothing that men always complain women are demanding. Women fully utilize you. They expect you to do the same and make your own demands on their bodies. But men don't, to their loss.
Men have no idea that many of their fantasies over-lap with those of their women but because they never present themselves as freaky and mature enough to handle fantasies without emotional hang-ups; their women never suspect it. Instead these women secretly take their fantasies to the Bad Boys. opportunities lost. Women under-utilized. Men cheated on.
THERE IS NO NEED FOR HEARTBREAKS. What if I told you every fantasy you ever had since Secondary School, there is a girl out there who feels the same way? What if I told you that thing you saw and liked on xvideos, there is girl out there wishing to meet a guy who can do it to her?
The truth is every fantasy, no matter how childish or devilish, there is a girl out there who shares it.
You like beating women? There is a woman turned on by it. You like insulting women? There is a woman turned on by it. You like cheating? There is a woman turned on by it (Cuckqueans). Every fantasy has its woman and the Social Media makes it easy to find her.
The reason we hurt each other is because we settle for less. We are too lazy to search high and low for people who share our exact fantasy. We grab the first person who accepts us and try to force them to love what we love. But because our fantasies are not compatible someone is bound to be hurt when we seek to fulfill our fantasy with a third person. How about devoting time and energy to finding someone who shares our particular desire and with whom we won't have to pretend? Someone with whom we can live our fantasy in the broad daylight without having to visit prostitutes and Bad Boys in the cover of darkness. Someone we can't hurt when we do what we do because what we do is also what they love to do. Honesty is the best policy.
TURNING A HOUSEWIFE INTO A HOE. As a rule you can't turn a hoe into a housewife, you can only turn a housewife into a hoe. And the housewife needs you to. just as a man needs a woman who can turn a house into a home; a woman needs a man who can turn a housewife into a hoe. Are you man enough?
ubunja: the avarage guy worships women like some angel straight from heaven who has no weaknesses and can do no wrong.Players however know what women are like deep deep down and know things that if most men knew also they would never marry.
that is why women control discussions across all media and are quick to complain to those in power if they feel the least bit concerned that essential truths about them are about to be revealed which will hurt their reputations and value.
players become players coz their learn that women reward the bad and punish the good.here are 4 things players know about the women u worship,the same things that have made players vow never to get married:
1.a woman always has a Plan B ready in the wings.
thats why all her exes are still in her phonebook.thats why she has so many guys in her friendzone.to a woman being single and desperate is infinite humiliation.so while u delete all those gals in your phone to focus on her,she has a guy she sometimes acts like she loves sometimes acts like she doesnt love.she is doing this to keep him warm for herself in case of emergency.this can go on for a lifetime.and the flipside is that she doesnt want u doing the same.she will insist u delete all exes in your fone.its a master move.
2.a woman will forgive sexual infidelity under 2 circumstances
i)if u cheat with a MUCH HOTTER gal than her. she will get angry and get over it quick. some even view it as a compliment.but to cheat with a much uglier gal is gross disrespect for her.
ii)if u assure her IT WAS JUST SEX.sex doesnt mean anything to women.its like how breathing underwater doesnt mean anything to fish,but to humans its a miracle to go scuba-diving.sex is like tap water and air to women.they can get it ANYTIME ANYWHERE. whats hard to for them to get is friendship.coZ every guy that talks kindly to her secretly wanna fvck her. thats why when u cheat the first question a gal asks is "do u love her?" not "did u sleep with her". coz sex is nothing.its the emotions that count to her. thats why women are greatly offended when u discuss the secrets of your relationship with another gal. its emotional. but sex is physical. physical things are not deep and dont last. women know this.
3.a woman will choose to sleep with a total stranger than a man she knows.
this is because of 2 reasons. i)a stranger will keep the secret. and even if there is no guarantee of that,chances are she will never meet that stranger again in this life. ii)a stranger wont judge her.unlike that guy she knows who will forever give her that dirty look coz she licked his an_us , a stranger will brush it off as something of no consequence.to a stranger a gal can open up her dirtiest most secret most disguisting and shocking fantasies without fear of reprisals.her reputation wont suffer. thats why women do an_al sex, 3sumz, and org_ies mostly with strangers.
4.women care more about reputation than actual good behaviour.
if u can keep a secret and let women know that, u will never go hungry for sex.most gals dont give sex coz men just cant keep their mouths closed.always bragging.always sharing.and that ruins a gal's reputation in society.never kiss and tell. never even tell your best friend the things u do with women. THATS WHY MOST PLAYERS ARE LONE -WOLVES.no friends.no crew. only on good books with women.can u live like that?
THE ART OF SILENCE. One of my best friends, a beta simp who entered into a long term relationship with a single mother of two, recently showed his redeeming qualities.
I will call him H.
So H got into this huge fight with this other lady friend of his (let's call her Lady X) and it got so ugly that their friendship was left hanging by a thread. In the days following the fight, friends of Lady X, came to H to congratulate him on how much of a "real man" he was.
See, it turns out H and Lady X had been having illicit sex all along. Lady X herself had shared the secret with her friends. Now, what had impressed X's friends, was how my man H, even in the heat of the fight, had demonstrated emotional maturity and exercised enough self-control, NOT TO EXPOSE LADY X AS A SLUT. In all his insults and verbal attacks not once did H speak of the secret affair he shared with Lady X.
This impressed these women no end. And they came and told him personally how much of a real man he was. And I wouldn't be surprised if one or two of these women started something of their own with H.
After all, he's been tried & tested and he's proven he can keep a secret.
CHARACTER ASSASSINATION. If you've seen two women fight publicly you've probably heard them call each other names. Like Whôré. And Slut. And Prostitute.
Why do women do that?
Because that's more damaging to the other party than mere slaps and hair-pulling. Fists damage the face. But the face can heal. Public accusations of Whoring and Sluttery damage REPUTATION and reflect badly on character. Character will always be a woman's most valuable asset. More valuable than the face and the body. It's that thing we call Inner Beauty. Whatever puts a woman in a bad light, characterwise, especially in matters of sex, impacts negatively on ALL areas of her life. From her marriageability to her employability.
THE SECRET LIFE OF WOMEN. So what do women do when they're feeling freaky? What do they do when the inner whôré wants to come out to play? Play away from home, that's what.
To indulge their lust without judgement and repercussions, to act out their whorish desires; women make arrangements to consume dick far from home where no one knows them.
But that can be costly and time-consuming. Not to mention risky and physically dangerous.
So, it is a good day when women discover that here, right in their hood, is a fella who's not only open-minded and nonjudgmental but is also DISCREET. A guy they can feed pussy but who'll keep his mouth shut. A guy who'll eat but will not snitch. That means no more out of town trips for dicks! Hooray!
THE AGE OF THE SLUT. In the age of Social Media, this generation of women has come upon a bumper harvest of Dick the likes of which no other group of women has ever come upon in all history. Never has sex been so freely available to women than it is now.
With Feminism cheering them on; with dating apps Tinder, Instagram, Facebook, WhatsApp, 2go etc delivering an endless stream of men direct to their phones; with multiple contraception methods on hand and with the best medications for various STIs, women are overdosing themselves on sex and accumulating pussy-numbing Dick counts.
Marriage, with its 1 Dick, is increasingly becoming a prison no woman wants to enter and every woman is eager to exit (as shown by the sky-high divorce rate and the fact that 80% of all divorces are initiated by women)
The genie is out of the bottle. Female sexuality, long kept in check by the Patriarchy, has finally broken free. There is no going back. The Age of The Slut is upon us. It's either you run and hide under a rock and wait for Society to collapse, or you ride the wave of female lust like a pro surfer.
You fornicate the hell out of these hoes who dress like they don't have boyfriends. They can't keep their panties on. They have an itch between their legs they need all manner of dick to scratch. A thirst they need all manner of semen to quench.
SILENCE IS GOLDEN. Should you elect to enjoy the current female depravity, the most important thing you've to know is that discretion and secrecy are the watchwords.
You have to zip your mouth and unzip your trousers. You have to chew with your mouth closed. You've to eat and wipe your mouth so no one can see what you just ate. No one can know of the things you do with these women. Society has indeed come far in accepting women's sexual liberation, but it hasn't come far enough. Attitudes of prejudice that can harm and disadvantage women in the enjoyment of their newfound sexual freedom persist across the World, especially here in Africa, one of the last centers of the Patriarchy.
So secrecy is the name of the game. NOT EVEN YOUR BEST FRIEND can know. Infact in this game, THE LESS FRIENDS YOU HAVE THE BETTER. Ever wondered why most Players are lone wolves with very few friends? Women like men like that. The less friends you have the less chances you'll snitch on these women.
Now, before you read any further, listen to this song carefully. Focus and ponder on the chorus by the girl:
Sex these hoes. but never tell a soul. Let them do the telling. Women always discuss these things amongst themselves. But they never snitch on each other. Even when they fight, women stick to calling each other hoe and slut, but will never get into specifics and details. It's the Girl Code girls never break.
As women discuss your willingness to partake of their bodies and your unwillingness to share of their secrets they'll direct their lust your way. As more and more women realize your style you'll come come upon a season of pussy that will rival your wettest most slippery wet dream. A regular GF of your own will be the last thing on your mind. You'll finally understand why Players and Bad Boys find virgins so appealing - It's a chance to breathe.
So, the next obvious question is:
HOW DO YOU GIVE WOMEN HINTS THAT YOU'RE GAME AND YOU CAN KEEP A SECRET? Easy. Make up stories.
A girl once found me angry about something and asked me why I was angry. Instead of telling her the truth I lied and told her one of my friends had exposed a girl he was sexing as a slut. She seemed surprised that something so small that didn't even concern me could make me so angry (for I was really genuinely angry, but about something else differently. I wasn't faking). I made her understand, in a serious tone, that I detested such behavior. Secrets must be secrets no matter what.
No. We didn't become fvck buddies, but our friendship definitely improved. She became less uptight around me in dress and demeanor. She was more touchy-feely and her speech lost much of its filter. She would say the craziest things without fear. She became interesting.
Since then, i have used this fake scenario and its variations to get a couple of girls to drop their panties for me.
Another surefire way to assure women secrecy is your game is to SEX OTHER MEN'S WOMEN. If your preferred type of women are the married and already taken ones, women will get the message. It will seem like they're giving you judgy looks and they may appear revolted by your antics, but between their legs the story is different: A man who loves women is a man women love. A man who loves other men's women is a man other men's women love. It's a formula that never fails.
If a woman sees you with another man's wife, you've nothing to fear, she'll never snitch on another woman. That's more a man's thing. A woman who sees you commit adultery, especially if you're the most unlikely type (you appear innocent and quiet around people), that woman is way too busy battling the temptation you present to be telling on you. She'll start giving you that dirty look that will hover between disgust and fascination. But believe me. She'll never tell.
Understand these 4 things about women:
1) A woman is more loyal to other women than she is to the man she loves for the simple reason that she is with the man she loves because other women gave their approval.
2) Other women are a bigger threat against her relationship than men will ever be. Because it is easier for a woman to steal another woman's man, than it is for a man to steal another man's woman. Because it is easier for a woman to get the man she has on target than it is for a man to get the woman she has on target. All this means a woman who sees you with someone's wife has MORE to lose than gain by telling and provoking another woman. It is in her best interests to zip it.
3) If Sandra sees Joyce cheat on Matthew, whom she considers a good man, (if she sees a good man being wasted, so to speak), Sandra will try to have Matthew for herself but very rarely will Sandra snitch on Joyce to gain that advantage. Because first of all Sandra has her own skeletons which she doesn't want dragged into the open as revenge. (In the Game of Sex no woman is innocent). Second, and more importantly, Sandra exposing Joyce as a filthy whôré to Matthew, a man who holds women in high esteem, will be counterproductive in that it will overwhelm Matthew with disgust, driving him away, from not only Joyce, but ALL women. Women snitching on each other to men is always a bad idea and women know it and thus don't do it.
4) If a woman you've been secretly sexing discovers you're secretly sexing more women besides her, you have no cause for alarm. There's nothing that excites women more than to realize they're cheating with the same guy. Especially if each woman wholeheartedly believed she was the only one enjoying his Dick in secret. It's major points for the guy. He's a master of the game of secrecy. Their trust in him will be deeper.
No, they won't dump him! What for? Where would they find another like him??!! Who can keep secrets like a girl?
Women can share a man for lust but will not share a man for love. They don't mind passing a good Dick among themselves. Hell they'll even pool money together and support a good fvcker financially. The manslut is every woman's man. These women are eager to give him 3sums and whatnot but if their BF so much as looks at another woman for longer than a second it's war!
Love is jealous; but Lust, like misery and everything bad, loves company.
MORE WAYS TO DROP THE HINTS FOR WOMEN. There are plenty other ways to let women know you're not the kiss and tell type.
When you see a girl you know getting freaky with a guy you know is NOT her BF, don't put that judgy look or appear shocked. Just smile faintly and go your way. Show you don't care what she does and with who. Let her feel it's her business and she has nothing to worry about from you.
Never snitch on a cheating woman and also never blackmail her: "I know you cheated, have sex with me or else...". Don't do that. Never put a woman in a corner. It can get ugly fast. Women are psychos. Your best move is to ignore her.
Other ways to drop hints:
It may appear to cheesy, but Always repeat such slogans like "A gentleman never kiss and tells" and "Stolen sweets are best" etc
Cheating songs like "Whatchamacallit" by Ella Mai and Chris Brown are a great way to introduce the topic of cheating and keeping secrets.
Show you've zero qualms about sexing other men's GFs and wives by letting your home girl notice you ogling the same. Pass a lusty comment along the lines of "That guy is not sexing his woman right. If she were mine she would be pregnant by now!"
Have that SNEAKY LOOK that implies dirty intentions. Eyes communicate a lot. The way you look at a woman can tell her a lot about your thoughts and intentions. A married woman I sexed later told me she knew I wanted her because I used to look at her "with the corner of my eye" everytime I visited her husband. I only did that so her husband wouldn't catch me lusting after her. But the more I look at women everywhere that way, the more I find it gives a certain impression to women; that I'm sneaky manhoe.
WORDS TO WATCH OUT FOR WHEN DEALING WITH WOMEN. A man who'll never be invited to the world of secret sex is the drunkard. If you regularly get drunk then trashtalk people, male or female, forget about being called to the side and offered sex. You're a risky investment.
On the other hand, If you're sober and women consider you a potential Secret Lover; they will drop you hints.
Everytime you hear women say the following just know its a compliment and they see you as a prospective cheat partner.
- "You're so quiet" or "why are you so quiet?"
- "You don't have many friends do you?"(of which you agree with "I do my things alone", or "I don't want people judging me" if she asks why you'll be judged tell her you sometimes do crazy things)
- "You look like a good guy" (of which you should disagree with "if only you knew", or something like that)
If you seduce a married woman, or just any taken woman, she'll tell you "It's wrong". Your job is not to convince her it's not wrong. Yours is to convince her NO ONE WILL FIND OUT. To women to be good = to appear good. Women are creatures of appearance. How people perceive a woman is how she perceives herself. If she can do the most debased shît and people still think she's pure then she's pure. You capitalize on her nature by always saying "No one has to know".
PROLOGUE. What you want from a woman is her body. But between her body and you stands her mind, còckblócking you. To get the body first capture the mind because where the mind goes, the body follows.
HACKING THE FEMALE MIND. Common Sense tells you that if you're good to a person that person will be good to you. But men and women process goodness differently.
Treat a man with respect and honor and he thinks YOU ARE awesome and a great guy. He will like you and make you his friend. He will want to hang out with you because he finds you likeable.
But treat a woman with respect and honor and she thinks SHE IS awesome and a great woman. She figures SHE DESERVES IT. That's why we call women ENTITLED and "princesses" because in everything it's about them. Honour a woman and she feels exalted and because she feels exalted she feels free to deal with you like you're nothing. Treating you like some worthless piece of shît.
That's the female mindset. It's backwards and reverse.
That's the reason why being Nice to a woman gets you nothing but disrespect and insults. Because women have a psychological tendency to mistake Kindness for Weakness and Niceness for Manipulation. They reason if you have to be Nice then you are powerless to enforce your will ( girl: "Mom! Jason doesn't want to open the door for me" mom: "ASK NICELY and he'll open it for you". So the girl grows into a woman that thinks: Kind=Weak and Nice=Manipulation). But this mindset can be hacked with surprising efficiency:
When you mistreat a man he thinks YOU ARE a worthless piece of shít. And he'll avoid you like the plague. It's to be expected.
BUT!!!! When you mistreat a woman she thinks SHE IS a worthless piece of shît. She figures SHE DESERVES IT. She concludes YOU ARE awesome and a great guy. She will like you, seek you out and befriend you. According to her, you're likeable.
Is she crazy? Not really. The foundations of her psychology were laid in her childhood. As were the foundations of all our psychology:
Every boy begins as a Bad Boy. No boy is born nice. When you were young Mother-Nature implanted in your mind an instinct that appeared counterproductive: the instinct to be mean to the girl that you like. . Then in the mind of the girl that you liked Mother-Nature implanted a nurturing instinct that pushed her to you: the belief every girl has that her love can change a boy . These instincts are two sides of the same coin. They work hand in hand.
While 80% of boys eventually have the Bad Boy instinct extinguished by Society, virtually all girls find their Bad Boy-seeking instinct amplified by the same Society through fairy tales like the Beauty & the Beast. The result? A female population attracted to Violent Expressions of Love and a male population that thinks women are stupid for it.
HACKING THE FEMALE MIND THROUGH COMMUNICATION. What if I told you there are secret languages you never heard of that Players and lustful Women use to communicate and hook up right under your nose? What if I told you there are sex languages spoken everyday in public that don't contain a single dirty word that "those in the know" recognize and respond to with the masses none the wiser? And what if I told you these languages can be learned?
Secret Language 1: the language of double meaning words.
Every public language of every country has words with two meanings: one clean one dirty (e.g "Come" ). These words are not necessarily slang. While these words can be used on national radio, on TV, at work and at church it is very well known that when said WITH A CERTAIN LOOK ON YOUR FACE, OR A CERTAIN TONE IN YOUR VOICE, OR WITH A WINK OF THE EYE OR A GIGGLE IN YOUR VOICE you intend to convey the dirty meaning of the word. These words or phrases are called double entendre. You can build a whole language with them. Women and Players communicate secretly by using these ordinary words publicly but hinting they intend for the dirty meanings to be understood.
For example; you can stand in the street and shout "I'm Coming". Most people will not even raise their heads and will assume you're telling someone you're headed their way. But the hòrny he-goats who live on xvideos will look at you and smile. They picked up on the second dirty meaning of the phrase: "I'm ejaculating". They are "in the know".
Especially that phrase "I'm Coming" works wonders: Back in the day I worked as a Librarian and Lab Technician at a boarding school for girls and the H.O.D I reported to was a dumb guy who used to call me to his office to ask me even dumber questions and on the phone I would say "I'm coming". Eventually he told me to stop using that phrase because it was making him feel uncomfortable, coming from me!
Women use such words to try to identify and connect with like-minded men AKA the Players. Watch out for when girls use words like Big, Pound, Slide, Come, Penetrate, Enter, Deep, Hard, Long, Drill etc (words that also apply to sex) ESPECIALLY WHEN THE CONVERSATION OR TOPIC HARDLY CALLS FOR THE USE OF THESE WORDS. OR IF IT DOES, SHE KEEPS REPEATING AND EMPHASIZING THESE WORDS NEEDLESSLY. The girl is sexualizing the conversation. . It's the secret language.
The beauty of this language is that it is 100% safe to use anywhere. The ability of a person to catch the message entirely depends on how dirty his mind is . To a clean minded man the message will never register. no harm done. But to a dirty mind even clean words bring up dirty ideas. Remember those "clean images for the dirty minds" where you look at an innocent picture but because your mind is dirty you see something else entirely? That's exactly what this language is all about. except it's using words.
My earliest encounter with this language was a decade or so back, at Church, of all places! The Pastor said something like "sizingane sasijabula sishaye inyawo" ("as children we would be overjoyed and beat our thighs" ). this is a very innocent phrase in my vernacular that denotes happiness (I'm sure in many African countries people, especially women, slap their thighs during arguments to make a point. Pastor was referring to something along those lines). Now, my mind was ready to let the phrase go but the girls next to me burst into giggles. Naturally I asked if the Pastor had said something funny. One of the girls said "uPastor uthi babeshaya inyawo" ("the Pastor says they used to beat their thighs" ) and I was like "so?" Then she whispered, "that's sex! ". My eyes were opened. Indeed the phrase was also used to mean sex. But my clean mind never went there! And apparently neither did the Pastor's. I asked myself how many times had I missed messages delivered to me this way??
INCEPTION. All sex begins in the mind. You can nudge a girl's mind towards sex by implanting ideas in her without being dirty, disrespectful or obvious. Take this whole language thing and reverse it to implant thoughts into a girl's mind faster and far easier than Leonardo DiCaprio and his crew in the movie Inception.
One day I was in a supermarket queue and a lady left her queue and joined mine. as she arrived I pointed at the queue she just left and absentmindedly remarked "it's too long? ". She giggled. I asked why she was giggling, she replied "You said it's too long".
We both laughed looking at each other in a funny way. I had just given her a dirty idea. What can be "too long" except a Dick!
Every single day is full of dozens of circumstances begging to be sexualized like this. Learn this language and you'll be amazed how women naturally find sexual connections in innocent conversations.
Secret Language 2: the language of opposites. Ever talked to a girl and she told you what she wanted in a man and you took her words as a tip, rushing to do those very things, only to hit a brick wall and be rejected by her? What went wrong? -------------> You took her words at face value. Women will never be straightforward with you. Why should they make it easy for you? . But luckily for you women have never been smart and their idea of being cryptic is to say something but mean the opposite. It's a code. It's a language.
If you watch Dr. Phil, Steve Harvey, or any of those Dating & Relationships TV shows DO NOT DO the things the women on these shows tell you to do because YOU WILL FAIL. 100%. Women will never be straightforward with the World. Why should they make it easy for the World to call them whòrés and sluts? It's a man's World. Women have a lot to hide. A lot to lose. The answer that a woman gives on live TV with her family, relatives, neighbors, bosses, friends and pastor watching is not the same answer she gives in private. Players know this. Apparently Nice Guys don't.
What a woman says in public concerning her sexual desires NEVER take it to heart because Women are so used to hiding their desires by denying them that it has become their default response to speak in opposites. It serves as a SHlT TEST: Women speak in opposites to separate the wheat from the chaff. If you take a woman's words at face value you are the Chaff. Men like you are NEEDED. Women don't want every man to be a Player. Players give Dick only. But Women don't live by Dick alone but by the Dollars of guys like you.
And by the same token, whatever women as a group say they hate about men, GO OUT AND DO THAT THING. You can never lose. When Women complain about something it's because they are seeing it in the men they are fvcking which means to be a man that women are fvcking you have to do that thing that women are complaining about because the thing women are complaining about is the thing that attracts them. They are only complaining because they had hoped to CHANGE that behavior in those men but failed. Women love you to change you. It's not rocket science. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.
How do you become the Wheat/Dick? By not being so damn literal. women live in a world of opposites. Learn the language of that World:
When you talk to a girl and she tells you she likes ABC in men, go out and do XYZ. oppose her words. You'll see results. And by the same token, when a girl tells you she hates ABC in men, go out and do the same ABC she told you she hates. She will like you for it. Everything is in reverse. It's a code. A language.
when a girl tells you "I'm fine", she's definitely not fine. When she tells you "Go, I will be OK", don't go, she won't be OK. And when she starts a sentence with, "I don't usually do this... ", just know, she has done it a thousand times. Using the same formula by now you know if Dick size matters or not.
READING WOMEN LIKE AN OPEN BOOK. A woman wants men to think she is complicated and impossible to figure out. That "mystery" is part and parcel of being female. It's a lie that only appears truthful because men evolved to be straightforward communicators (its a man's world they have nothing to fear or hide), while women evolved to speak in opposites (it's a man's world women have everything to fear and hide).
The immortal saying "A Woman's No Is A Yes" originated with men who figured this out.
Women long to be inscrutable and impossible to understand but because they have never been that intelligent, their idea of being "impossible to understand" is to say everything in reverse. Simple. But extremely puzzling to your straightforward mind. Figure this out and women will be simple as toys.
WORDS VS ACTIONS. Is a woman confusing you because her actions are contradicting her words? Believe her actions. Actions never lie. just MUTE THE AUDIO CHANNEL and work with the video channel:
- A woman will tell you she doesn't cheat and she loves her BF with all her heart MEANWHILE SHE IS TAKING YOUR PHONE NUMBER DOWN. Reverse her words to understand her actions.
- When a woman tells you she's coming to your place but "there will be no sex", SHE JUST TOLD YOU SHE IS COMING FOR SEX. Take that shower and prepare those condoms. you're getting laid.
- When a woman tells you she's leaving in 2 mins MEANWHILE SHE IS TAKING OFF HER JACKET AND SITTING ON YOUR BED. Again, the message is reverse: she's hopping sex will begin in 2 mins.
THE OPPOSITE GREEN LIGHT. There is a Green Light that many guys miss. It's hidden. But guys who understand the game of opposites never miss it:
Every guy encounters this girl atleast once in his life. and im guessing you have too. That girl who's sweet to everyone else but sour to you, that girl who's happy in the group until you arrive and she leaves, that girl always the first to mock you or your attire, that girl who always seems to be angry at you for no reason, that girl behaving like an angry Ex except you dont have a history with her or her friends or her sisters, that girl about whom your friends keep asking "dude what ever did you do to that girl?", that girl you always try to avoid because you know she hates your guts but for some strange unexplained reason you keep bumping into her ... what the hell is her problem?? --------> she loves you
Believe is such a complex word. If you say, if I believe 'in' jazz,witchcraft etc its different from asking if I believe such things exist.
Lets put it in scientific terms since everything exists as vibration, energy and wavelengths. At higher energy level, something with lower energy level will give you some respect ..right ? Just like we 'worship' other beings at higher frequency dimensions. Thats food for thoughts.
Electricity happens when positive ions (cations) and negative ions (anions) interact in the presence of an earthed neutral. They cancel themselves out and produce electricity, which powers everything based on the resultant effects on the electromagnetic spectrum. Same electricity that is so useful in heating our water, turning our fans and playing our music, can also kill you, cause fire hazard and destroy TV sets etc. It seems that electricity has laws that must be obeyed to keep it safe and useful. When you disobey those laws, you have so many bad things happening like burning gadgets, electric shocks, etc.
Many times, people lament about witches and wizards. There is a neutral force in the cosmos, when you adhere to the cosmic laws, the Force works for you, makes you succeed, makes you feel great, you become wealthy and all good things come to you. When you break cosmic laws, bad things start happening. And we now complain of spiritual attacks etc. We are looking at the same force with different attributes based on your adherence of cosmic laws. We have policemen, they enforce laws. If you do no wrong, you shouldnt worry about anything. Nothing bad will ever work on you, as long as you are innocent and adhere to the laws of nature.
These are some of the greatest books I have ever read in the past few years for mental and spiritual development: 1. Book of Universal History compiled by OtemAtum (I suggest starting with this one; you can get a copy from Otem, the author's email —otem2016@gmail dot com; it's better to get the PDF as many key parts of the book have been hidden by mods/spambots on the main thread) 2. The Kyballion, a Study of the Hermetic Philosophy of Ancient Egypt and Greece 3. The Secret Teaching of All Ages by Manly P. Hall 4. Sapiens, a Brief History of Humankind by Yuval Noah Harari 5. The Code to the Matrix by James Evans Boemer 6. The Way of Intelligence by J Krishnamurti 7. Beyond Einstein - from the Big Bang to Black Holes by NASA 8. Revealing the Hidden Nature of Space and Time by US Board of Physics and Astronomy (National Research Council) 9. The Master Key System by Charles F. Haanel 10. The Hindu-Yogi, Science of Breath by Yogi Ramacharaka 11. Cosmic Consciousness by Richard Maurice Bucke 12. The IAC's Essential Guide to Consciousness and Out of Body Experience by Dr. Tiller 13. A Brief History of Time by Stephen Hawkins 14. Stolen Legacy: Greek Philosophy Is Stolen Egyptian Philosophy 15. Homo Deus, a Brief History of Tomorrow by Yuvval Noah Harari 16. 21 Lessons for the 21st Century by Yuvval Noah Harari
The rest are all available online. Just copy and paste the title on Google and add "pdf" to it.
You may pick the ones you find interesting out of all the books and read gradually.
Any book one reads, it's crucial to note that anything called "book" is man-made. All books (including religious texts, so-called holy books) are/were written by men.
So one needs to think critically about and research any claim or assertion in any book one reads before accepting it as the truth.
These 5 books helped me the most in life. Let me see yours.
These are books I'm not supposed to reveal to anyone. They're my secret weapons.
Revealing it will make me expose my secrets.
I'm thinking of not posting this. I'm not really cool posting this, but I know this will definitely help somebody.
Something is pushing me to press the submit button!
I hope the wise boys/men in the house will take advantage of this.
If you're a lady let your boyfriend or male friends know some of these books. But the side effect is, if they know all these you'll probably lose them to other women.
Women can't resist a man who has the qualities contained in these books and it does not require money, height or looks to acquire them.
I can kill for these books. I guarantee 100% success on these books!
These are my Top 5 Practical Books Ever.
5. Comedy Writing Secrets by Mel Helitzer. (I have a natural sense of humor, but this book amplified it. Be careful with this book. You might become funnier than Okon.)
4. 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene (Some people love to use others, but this book stops it or make you become a better player on deception. Be carful with the dangers of this book.)
3. Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo. (I never knew my ways around women. This 90 page book changed me in hours and I couldn't believe it. This would've been my number one.)
2. Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. (I was boring in bed, but this book stopped it. This is only for bad boys that want to get a girl addicted to sex. Be careful, you're about to hurt another man's daughter via sexual addiction. Being so good in bed is FAR better than being so good with books.)
1. Eja.culation Trainer (ETrainer) by Matt Gordon. (I never lasted long enough during sex, but this book practically blew me away and placed me among the 1% of men that can last forever in the bed without any enhancer. If not for this book my sexual ego or my overall confidence would've been on ground floor.)
Notable Mentions:
— Dangerous Man Adventurous Woman by David Dida. (About women and their crazy wishes.)
— Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hills. (About business and being rich.)
— My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday. (About female fantasies and how naughty women truly are.)
— Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki. (About money and being rich.)
— How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. (About humility and being a leader.)
— English Blue Grammar by I can't remember. (About simplified grammars and punctuations.)
— Too numerous to mention.
I don't know if I still have these books again. I had all the soft copies of these books, but it's better you buy them from the Authors, else you'll not value them.
My secrets are gone! God, I hope I won't regret this.
I'll probably take this down if I wake tomorrow morning feeling bad!
Share your top 2, 4 or 5 books with us. The ones you are practically applying in your day to day activities.
— iLegend.
Modify: Yes, we all know the greatest books are religious books like the Bible and Quran, but we ain't talking religion here. Please bear with me on that. Maybe I'll post top 5 Evergreen Books!
blazepascal: Good day nairalanders This was a post created by ilegendd I so much love it thats why I'm going to publish it again.
Forgive me for posting it in romance section but I've found out that most nairalanders here including me are wasting their time Yes we are wasting our time . time is money. We need to get something doing that can fetch us more money.. OK here it is.
If you want to stay in brokenaire, do the following
1. Watch TV or TV programs day and night.
2. Spend the little you have playing bet and watching football.
3. Spend the little energy you have watching porn and masturbating day and night.
4. Spend the precious time you have falling uncontrollably in love and being on social media chatting with her 24/7.
5. Just be lazy and don't do productive things — just come online and debate, argue, and fight with everyone as you abuse them while pouring your anger on them.
6. Finally, impregnates the girl and starts having as many children as her womb can handle.
7. Or, go deeply into fraud and in one way or the other, face the repercussions 10 years later and end up as a zeronaire or in jail like Hushpuppy after enjoying other people's hard-earned money.
Anyway is not a way — the right way is the way. Majority of nairalanders are still in broke naire including me I dont want to sound innocent
If you want to stay in thousandnaire, do the following
1. Go to school, but focus on grades only and making your parents proud and not developing social skills.
2. Graduate and get a teaching job or a 200k job or less.
3. Have poor financial management skills and get married to a slay queen who loves spending and f*cking and start having as many children as your salary can't handle.
4. Send those children to expensive schools because your rich neighbors are doing the same.
5. Now, struggle for the rest of your life (while appearing fly on social media with your wife) as you try to manage yourself into depression.
6. Start going to Church as you think enemies are after you and that's why you haven't made much progress financially or had a good promotion.
7. Recession comes, you lose your job, your unfaithful wife leaves you, and you're back to brokenaire with your 6, 9, or 12 kids.
8. Depressingly start searching for another job, even if it's just 50k per month.
If you want to go into the millionaire zone, do the following
1. While in school or out of school, own a computer, learn social skills and digital skills like giving a speech, building confidence, interacting with people, web development, programming, graphic design, video editing, how the brain works, copywriting, playing musical instruments, etc.
2. Find out the problems you have and solve them so you can help solve it for others in the future. Are you fat? Hit the gym. Are you too skinny? Hit the gym. Are you nervous around your crush or the ones you like? Learn how to overcome it. Are you boring during a conversation? Develop a sense of humor. Are you an introvert? Learn how to be an ambivert. Everyone has at least one problem or insecurity to solve and finding it is like finding wealth.
3. Use social media, but don't be addicted to them and mostly use them to be up to date with news and the skills you're interested in.
4. Now you've solved your own problem and you're confident in the solution, start solving it for others by creating tutorials, books, audios, video, apps, websites, software, etc.
5. Monetize what you've created globally and with proper marketing and audience + copywriting skill, you're on your way to becoming a millionaire.
If you want to go into the billionaire zone, do the following
1. Stay focused.
2. Reinvest the money you made as a millionaire wisely in numerous ventures which I term RENTALS (an acronym for a set of businesses/ventures which we'll discuss later.
3. Build a system and empower people around to make money for you while they take a certain percentage.
Note: The more people you make millionaires, the faster you'll become a billionaire with less stress — ask Jeff Bezos and co.
If you want to go into the trillionaire zone, do the following
1. Stay more focused than ever. 2. Do everything you did to become a billionaire in 10 folds and you'll get there.
Now you've milked the world dry like Jeff or Bill, don't forget to wet the ground by giving back to the society more than ever and God will continuously bless you with more wealth in your lineage from generation to generation.
So what path are you on right now?? its a process .i pray we all get to where we want
Ene,you want me to be honest with you ? I will advice you to leave these thread. You can't stand your innate disposition in the mirror. It's not hate,but the harsh reality don't give a rat arse about our emotions. But then ,I know you will keep coming back for more,which I appreciate if you're going to do something for me with these knowledge. Spread it to your love ones ! Your brother,your son [ when you got one ] and those you genuinely care for. They will come to ever appreciate you for having the courage to point them to the harsh reality of men --women dynamic of relationship . No,not by one on one conversation,I will direct you on how to go about that. First and foremost ,I have a collections of books I will want you to send to them for now,they should start from there. You actually know how to introduce them to those books without actually coming across as strange. Here are the books ;
--The Rational male by Rollo Tomassi
-- The Rational male [ preventive medicine] by Rollo Tomassi -- The rational male [ positive masculinity ] By Rollo Tomassi
-- The manipulated man by Esther Vilar
They should study them in that order. You can download them for free at www.pdfdrive.com . I know you may definitely not grant me my request,but that won't dissuade me from making one.
For biginners, genuinely willing to start these journey of delving deep into woman nature, and understand how they are innately programmed and hardwired, I have decided to compile a list on books I found helpful when I started my journey and strongly believe it will be of great help to you or anyone out there genuinely ready to learn the bitter truth of the woman nature, make peace with them and stop seeing women for who they are not. Read them, rinse and repeat. And most importantly, drop everything you think you know about women before you open any of the books because they're likely an illusion, and be willing to be open minded about the harsh reality of the human nature as you flip through the books that has been staring you in the face ,but you're took blind to see them. Enjoy ! -- The Rational Male --- The Rational Male [ preventive medicine ] --- The Rational Male [ positive masculinity ] --- The manipulated Man --- No more Mr nice guy -- The myth of male power
--- The book of pook -- The war against boys --- The predatory female --- The feminist lie etc
I found these books as basis on these journey,so start from them. Of course ,there are more out there,maybe others in the journey could help with more.
You can download them from www.pdfdrive.com and by generally Google searching about them. For now ,take care and do have a wonderful day.
BuddhaPalm: Since you are passionate about things like graphic design and animation, learn how to use Maya, Adobe Illustrator, and Photoshop, then register on Upwork. Some Nigerians have made tens of thousands of $$ doing this.
They likely won't accept you with just Illustrator and PS.
There are free tutorials on YouTube, and lots of $10 ones on Udemy.
ecomalchemist: Long read but imma be with you shortly !!!
In Nigeria, graduates who are worthy both in character and in learning are roaming all over the streets with no jobs, but hoodlums, illiterates, political thugs, mentally unstable people who were used to cause unrest during the election time are recruited into the police force by politicians. This is what we will continue to get in return.
If you are yet to get a job, you might want to read this.. .....
Cheers !!!
Let me give you a brotherly advice, and I hope you work on it... First of all I counsel people and I have done that on nairaland for a while... I have met great and good guys... I dropped a story about my experience teaching in two schools as a corper and would not mind partnering with schools in abuja, but some accused me of looking for teaching job... Never ever mind what people say... Back to the matter... As a graduate, teaching and earning 15k, e no bad... But once you have a good (android) phone, go to any car stand of your choice around your area... Listen well, any good car stand and ask to see the manager... Tell him you want to help him market his cars and get good buyers... 90% of car stand managers will sign u on... Tel him you will be paid a small commission after sales... Pick up your phone, snap as many cars as your phone memory can take, open a dedicated twitter ac, IG ac, Facebook ac, WhatsApp ac, ac etc... Take out time to post this cars, make sure you have the actual prices of this cars... You can add as much as #250k on it... Bring down the negotiations to as low as making #50k if need be just so I can sell. Set your monthly target... I assure you, if you get I client in a month, u make around #100,000k once you start growing, you can get as much as 5-10 client from all over the country and that hits you over #1m for just helping others sell their cars, Note all you invested was your time, energy, phone and data... No big financial capital... Do not restrict yourself to cars, go for industrial machines as well, caterpillars, mikano gens, any thing, then you look for those big companies that need them and try to call their attention to it or market it to them... You may not sell in 3 months but when you manage to get a client to buy just 1 caterpillars, my brother you will instantly forget that u suffered before... A friend of mine was marketing a silo for a local wielder, he received a call all the way from kebbi state, the purchase was made in Ilorin, he made #1.8 mil from buyers and #400k from seller... He still got a referral from that deal. Wake up bro... Within a month or two, come and pay (tite). I drive uber/bolt in abuja, market cars, sell commodities such as beans, maize, wheat, ginger,onions, name it... In bags and tonnes And I make nothing less than half a mil monthly...We all blessed my nigga !
Reach me privately if you are interested in gadget importation and sales from US.
abbey621: Lots of Nigerian youths are too comfortable with mediocrity! Yes the country and the government is no good but are we really that worse than India, Pakistan or Yemen? Yet we see many of the youths in those countries excelling on Fiverr, Upwork and other freelancing sites.
Most youths don't graduate university before 24, most while in the university never bother to learn life skills or side gigs that can bring in income, y'all keep dreaming about graduating and starting an imaginary job earning 200k and above. Nigeria produces over 100,000 graduates a year, the number of available positions paying 100k or more starting salary is less than 20,000, how una wan do am?
The sooner you realize the future is innovation the better! Someone bringing in zero income is a lot worse than someone bringing in 100-300k per month from side gigs alone. BE WISE, there are lots of things you can do as a freelancer and still have time for other things, invest in your damn self and stop worrying about the things you cannot control like the Nigerian economy.
lekanation: Learn how to operate heavy duty machineries such as payloader or wheel loader, bull dozer, excavator.. If you can drive a car, go for tipper. 20tonnes upward most expecially howo trucks. You can easily make close to 10k daily by learning one of these
Even at 200k mentorship, I'm still declining. 99% of all you need in this business are free online. The only thing I have is the 1% missing puzzle.
You don't need that 1%, you'll discover it yourself as you grow in the business with the 99% free info you have at your disposal on Google and YouTube.
Formatting paperback is unique and you can't learn it via text. Just Google "How to format paperback Amazon KDP" and you'll get some videos to put you through.
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