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Politics / Re: How Buhari’s Low Bar Is Elevating Atiku - Farooq Kperogi by mcdude1(m): 12:45pm On Oct 20, 2018
''Actually it is practically imposible to be worse than Buhari'' that statement is legendary!

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Politics / Re: Proscribed Ipob Members Storm The Road With Flags In Ebonyi(photos) by mcdude1(m): 12:15am On Oct 13, 2018
APC Sponsored..
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Hugs Atiku Abubakar After Being Selected As His Running Mate. Photos by mcdude1(m): 6:32pm On Oct 12, 2018
I am Atikulated and Obified!
Fashion / Re: Meet Nia Franklin: Biography Of Miss America 2019 by mcdude1(m): 2:44pm On Sep 11, 2018
m i the only one noticing the Nigerian colors that are predominant in these photos? [color=#000000][/color]
Romance / 11 Types Of Ladies You Should Avoid Falling For At All Costs by mcdude1(m): 9:01pm On Feb 05, 2018
If you’re on the hunt for someone special, you might consider avoiding these types of girls to save yourself a lot of potential heartbreak along the way.

While pain, heartbreak, frustration, and loneliness can be inevitable in any relationship, you can minimalize these negative feelings by choosing the right person to be with. This will save you a lot of trouble, misery, and heartbreak in the long run. The general rule is to stay away from toxic people and rid yourself of anything that makes your relationship even more complicated than it already is.

Types of girls to avoid dating

Here, we cut to the chase and let our experiences be your teacher. Here’s a shortlist of the types of girls you should NEVER fall for. Behind the charming smiles, hot curves, bouncy hair, and sweet exterior may lie a personality that’s far from what you could have expected or even prepared for. Thus, be warned and avoid these types:

#1 The Material Girl. To her, your role in her life is to shower her with gifts as your way of loving her. After all, it’s all about the money and the objects and what you can give her. From the get-go, she’ll likely compliment your car and your watch, and she might even ask about your job and how much you make.

Her type seems to have a yardstick for the guys they date—and that’s your annual salary. She’ll be such a sweetie if you buy her a necklace, but never ever come to her empty-handed, because she’ll be the coldest witch you’ll ever know. [Read: 11 signs to know if you’re being used for sex or money]

#2 The Barbie Doll. She’s pretty, she’s charming, and she has a great body. Every inch of her is perfect—well, except for her low IQ. While she may not have retained anything taught to her in school, she seems to have a PhD in bed. Plus, she makes guys look at you in envy when you two go out together.

However, just hope she doesn’t open her mouth to speak her mind because that’s when it will all go downhill. These types of girls may be great to be with temporarily, but you won’t be able to bring her home to meet Mom, unless you want to witness a disaster. [Read: Why is inner beauty more important than outer beauty?]

#3 The All-About-Me Woman. She thinks the world revolves around her, so she feels entitled to everything, even your love. You may admire her confidence and strong will, but underneath this exterior is a selfishness and self-centeredness that makes her insufferable. Be in a relationship with her, and you’ll find yourself constantly drained as you try to do what it takes to keep her happy, while she languidly takes what you can give without any reciprocity. [Read: 12 subtle signs you’re being manipulated by your lover]

#4 Ms. Cripplingly Insecure. Men and women can both be achingly insecure, but this type of girl takes it to a whole new level. She’ll talk negatively about herself *or worse, about other people* just so she’ll feel good about her flaws. She’ll constantly fish for compliments and affirmations, completely believing that these will validate her self-worth.

#5 The Drama Queen. She’s the type who believes with all her heart that the world is out to get her. But don’t be fooled. Drama doesn’t just follow her—she has a way of whipping it up all by herself everywhere she goes. It’s like everyone and everything is against her, so you’ll hear nothing but how she’s the victim of everything her mind can conjure. The problem with her is that she’s incapable of owning up to her faults and taking accountability for her own actions. Soon enough, this blame game will seep into your relationship, making it all too toxic. [Read: 10 ways to handle your girlfriend’s dramatic tantrums]

#6 The Nitpicker Extraordinaire. She can be considered a perfectionist who prides in keeping her world pristinely spic and span, and expects other people to be the same… or else. That, or she just has something to say about any fault she finds in other people. She’ll crinkle her nose and raise her eyebrow at everything she sees in other people, never failing to miss a fault, but also never seeing the good side of things.

And she won’t stop there. She’ll constantly nitpick you, too, from the way you wear your tie to even the way you kiss. She’ll constantly put you down until you begin to believe her criticisms yourself. [Read: 12 ways to stop negative people from sapping your energy]

#7 Queen-dependence. She has a handful of good, endearing qualities. For a time, you might even consider taking her to meet your parents. She’s the submissive type. In fact, so much so that she can’t make up her mind on her own. For a while, you’ll feel good because that puts you in a position where you can really feel like the man in the relationship. That is, until you realize that she depends on you for everything. Once you realize that she can’t live her life without you, you’ll quickly see that that kind of burden gets old really fast.

#8 The Desperate Chick. She’ll be needy, controlling, manipulative, and very talented in turning on the waterworks just to get you to do what she wants. She is motivated by a deep desperation to be with anyone, no matter who it is, all for the sake of just having someone. Hapless and desperate, she might follow you around for some crumbs of your attention, and if you don’t give her what she wants, she might threaten to hurt you or herself. This is definitely not the kind of added stress you want your relationship to foster. [Read: 18 critical signs of an unhealthy relationship]

#9 The Chatterbox. She’s nice, friendly, and great to talk to. However, as time goes by, you’ll notice that her conversational skills aren’t learned, they’re innate. Pretty soon, you’ll see that her ability to talk is awfully, insufferably, non-stop.

She’ll talk about herself, about her friends, her work, how her day went, about the barista that served her coffee that morning, and so on. Soon, you’ll learn just how much she LOVES to talk, and not just about herself, but about other people, too. Eventually, she’ll get herself *and you* into trouble because she just can’t keep her trap shut.

#10 The Playa. Charming and seductive, she’ll say and do everything that will make you fall under her spell in a split second. The problem is that she also plays the same game with other guys, even in your presence. She toys with your emotions, only vaguely committing to anything more than a casual relationship because her sights are still set on other guys. While this girl may be great for flings and one-night stands, you’d better steer clear if you’re looking for a more serious relationship. [Read: 18 sure signs the girl you like is just using you!]

#11 Ms. Jekyll-and-Hyde. You saw her, and it was love at first sight. She’s got everything you’ve ever wanted in a girl, and so much more. However, things take a different turn after a while. On the outside, she’s really great, but behind the curtains is a totally different person.

One way or another, you’ll begin to see her other half—the mean, manipulative, calculating, deceitful, and two-faced side. Sure, she’ll smile at your friends, but she’ll say the worst things about them behind their backs. This makes you wonder just what she says and does behind your back, too!
If you’re on the hunt for someone special, you might consider avoiding these types of girls to save yourself a lot of potential heartbreak along the way.

While pain, heartbreak, frustration, and loneliness can be inevitable in any relationship, you can minimalize these negative feelings by choosing the right person to be with. This will save you a lot of trouble, misery, and heartbreak in the long run. The general rule is to stay away from toxic people and rid yourself of anything that makes your relationship even more complicated than it already is.

Types of girls to avoid dating

Here, we cut to the chase and let our experiences be your teacher. Here’s a shortlist of the types of girls you should NEVER fall for. Behind the charming smiles, hot curves, bouncy hair, and sweet exterior may lie a personality that’s far from what you could have expected or even prepared for. Thus, be warned and avoid these types:

#1 The Material Girl. To her, your role in her life is to shower her with gifts as your way of loving her. After all, it’s all about the money and the objects and what you can give her. From the get-go, she’ll likely compliment your car and your watch, and she might even ask about your job and how much you make.

Her type seems to have a yardstick for the guys they date—and that’s your annual salary. She’ll be such a sweetie if you buy her a necklace, but never ever come to her empty-handed, because she’ll be the coldest witch you’ll ever know. [Read: 11 signs to know if you’re being used for sex or money]

#2 The Barbie Doll. She’s pretty, she’s charming, and she has a great body. Every inch of her is perfect—well, except for her low IQ. While she may not have retained anything taught to her in school, she seems to have a PhD in bed. Plus, she makes guys look at you in envy when you two go out together.

However, just hope she doesn’t open her mouth to speak her mind because that’s when it will all go downhill. These types of girls may be great to be with temporarily, but you won’t be able to bring her home to meet Mom, unless you want to witness a disaster. [Read: Why is inner beauty more important than outer beauty?]

#3 The All-About-Me Woman. She thinks the world revolves around her, so she feels entitled to everything, even your love. You may admire her confidence and strong will, but underneath this exterior is a selfishness and self-centeredness that makes her insufferable. Be in a relationship with her, and you’ll find yourself constantly drained as you try to do what it takes to keep her happy, while she languidly takes what you can give without any reciprocity. [Read: 12 subtle signs you’re being manipulated by your lover]

#4 Ms. Cripplingly Insecure. Men and women can both be achingly insecure, but this type of girl takes it to a whole new level. She’ll talk negatively about herself *or worse, about other people* just so she’ll feel good about her flaws. She’ll constantly fish for compliments and affirmations, completely believing that these will validate her self-worth.

#5 The Drama Queen. She’s the type who believes with all her heart that the world is out to get her. But don’t be fooled. Drama doesn’t just follow her—she has a way of whipping it up all by herself everywhere she goes. It’s like everyone and everything is against her, so you’ll hear nothing but how she’s the victim of everything her mind can conjure. The problem with her is that she’s incapable of owning up to her faults and taking accountability for her own actions. Soon enough, this blame game will seep into your relationship, making it all too toxic. [Read: 10 ways to handle your girlfriend’s dramatic tantrums]

#6 The Nitpicker Extraordinaire. She can be considered a perfectionist who prides in keeping her world pristinely spic and span, and expects other people to be the same… or else. That, or she just has something to say about any fault she finds in other people. She’ll crinkle her nose and raise her eyebrow at everything she sees in other people, never failing to miss a fault, but also never seeing the good side of things.

And she won’t stop there. She’ll constantly nitpick you, too, from the way you wear your tie to even the way you kiss. She’ll constantly put you down until you begin to believe her criticisms yourself. [Read: 12 ways to stop negative people from sapping your energy]

#7 Queen-dependence. She has a handful of good, endearing qualities. For a time, you might even consider taking her to meet your parents. She’s the submissive type. In fact, so much so that she can’t make up her mind on her own. For a while, you’ll feel good because that puts you in a position where you can really feel like the man in the relationship. That is, until you realize that she depends on you for everything. Once you realize that she can’t live her life without you, you’ll quickly see that that kind of burden gets old really fast.

#8 The Desperate Chick. She’ll be needy, controlling, manipulative, and very talented in turning on the waterworks just to get you to do what she wants. She is motivated by a deep desperation to be with anyone, no matter who it is, all for the sake of just having someone. Hapless and desperate, she might follow you around for some crumbs of your attention, and if you don’t give her what she wants, she might threaten to hurt you or herself. This is definitely not the kind of added stress you want your relationship to foster. [Read: 18 critical signs of an unhealthy relationship]

#9 The Chatterbox. She’s nice, friendly, and great to talk to. However, as time goes by, you’ll notice that her conversational skills aren’t learned, they’re innate. Pretty soon, you’ll see that her ability to talk is awfully, insufferably, non-stop.

She’ll talk about herself, about her friends, her work, how her day went, about the barista that served her coffee that morning, and so on. Soon, you’ll learn just how much she LOVES to talk, and not just about herself, but about other people, too. Eventually, she’ll get herself *and you* into trouble because she just can’t keep her trap shut.

#10 The Playa. Charming and seductive, she’ll say and do everything that will make you fall under her spell in a split second. The problem is that she also plays the same game with other guys, even in your presence. She toys with your emotions, only vaguely committing to anything more than a casual relationship because her sights are still set on other guys. While this girl may be great for flings and one-night stands, you’d better steer clear if you’re looking for a more serious relationship. [Read: 18 sure signs the girl you like is just using you!]

#11 Ms. Jekyll-and-Hyde. You saw her, and it was love at first sight. She’s got everything you’ve ever wanted in a girl, and so much more. However, things take a different turn after a while. On the outside, she’s really great, but behind the curtains is a totally different person.

One way or another, you’ll begin to see her other half—the mean, manipulative, calculating, deceitful, and two-faced side. Sure, she’ll smile at your friends, but she’ll say the worst things about them behind their backs. This makes you wonder just what she says and does behind your back, too!

While you may come across many types of girls along the dating road, life is too short to put up with people who make your life hard, miserable, or even unbearable. Just remember that a great relationship allows both partners room to grow and thrive, while also continuing to grow together as a couple.

http://www.lovepanky.com/men/dating-women-tips-for-men/types-of-girls-you-should-avoid
Career / Re: Firdaus Amasa Insulted Those Who Begged Her To Remove Her Hijab - Twitter User by mcdude1(m): 10:46am On Dec 17, 2017
All I see is stupidity
Politics / Re: Nigerians Recreate Governor EL-Rufai's Name "FAILURE" (See What They Got) by mcdude1(m): 9:50pm On Nov 27, 2017
Trust me Nigerians are 1 of the worst pple in the world to 4uck up with. This is epic and savage lol grin
Music/Radio / Between Davido's 'fia' And Wizkid's 'manya' Which Do You Prefer? by mcdude1(m): 12:21am On Nov 23, 2017
Hello Nairalander's these two great Nigerian singers recently released hit singles
So, between 'Fia' and 'Manya' which do u prefer. And please i just need opinions and not childish tantrums. Thanks
Phones / Re: Samsung Galaxy S9: Specs, Features, Price And Release Date by mcdude1(m): 3:47pm On Nov 14, 2017
$749 abi $849 dat money can rent u a 3 bedroom flat for a full year o and someone will blow it on one phone undecided O di ok!.. O di olryt!!... Lemme coman be going
Phones / Re: Samsung Galaxy S9: Specs, Features, Price And Release Date by mcdude1(m): 3:43pm On Nov 14, 2017
$749 abi $849..
Na almost money for 3 bedroom flat Rent 4 one full year b dat o.. Just for one phone. O di ok! O di olryt!! Lemme come an b going. undecided

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Music/Radio / Re: Wizkid's "Ojuelegba" Played At Anthony Joshua Vs Takam Fight by mcdude1(m): 11:59pm On Oct 28, 2017
The referee stoped the march to early..
Politics / Re: Statues Of African Presidents Erected By Okorocha In Imo. Photos by mcdude1(m): 11:09pm On Oct 15, 2017
''Rochas is beyond Afrcan level. He now operates on a continental level".. Am I the only one noticing that these 2 statements contradict each other? Please Say no to weed in Douglas House Owerri. :/

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Crime / Re: Man Released By Ritualists After 2 Years In Ibadan Because He Wasn't Useful by mcdude1(m): 5:55pm On Oct 14, 2017
Useless or useful. One thing I'm certain of is that God saves and God loves this boy.
Education / Re: Advantages & Disadvantages Of Staying In School Hostel by mcdude1(m): 8:37am On Oct 14, 2017
I think the biggest disadvantage of staying in a hostel is the lack of privacy..........
To kpansh wink
don't quote me biko

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Is Quitting Because I Don't Call Her, At Least Three Times A Day by mcdude1(m): 8:29am On Oct 14, 2017
I've noticed that many people misunderstand the concept and meaning of communication in a relationship. Communication does not necessarily mean how many times a day ur partner calls And how long u spend talking. Most important in the act of communication is the abiliy to b open and truthful to ur partner and being able to really sit down talk to him/her about certain things about the relationship and general welbeing of ur partner.
Op don't worry sha these things happen trust me.. I've seen breakups on more flimmsy excusses than hers.
Romance / Re: She Gave Me Her Facebook Password Voluntarily, Why? by mcdude1(m): 10:46pm On Oct 13, 2017
Search no further bro.. She wants u to marry her. Be happy man wife fall on u. O di easy?
Politics / Re: The Rise And Fall Of Nnamdi Kanu By Shaka Momodu by mcdude1(m): 2:41pm On Oct 13, 2017
Who wrote this piece abeg? Whoever wote this know exactly what he's saying. Very very straight up, logical and unbaised write up. smiley
kudos to the poster

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Celebrities / Re: Bernice Burgos In Nigeria For D'banj's Album 'The Kingdom Come' Club Tour by mcdude1(m): 1:38pm On Oct 13, 2017
In DJ Khaleed's voice... ''Billie gat u''... [quote author=NairalandCS post=61375212][/quote]
Crime / Re: Comedian MC Kind Slumps & Dies After Being "Poisoned By Friends" (Graphic Photos by mcdude1(m): 1:27pm On Oct 13, 2017
Why are these kind of things happening? Somebody works hard, start making little progress and someone go just kill am..
Wickedness unsensored
RIP cry
Romance / Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy Who Doesn't Spend On You? by mcdude1(m): 11:39pm On Oct 12, 2017
OrestesDante:
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Women! Firstly, Money.
secondly, money.
Third money.



Finally, money!

Well he might be testing you. Or might be a
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OrestesDante:
grin
Women! Firstly, Money.
secondly, money.
Third money.



Finally, money!

Well he might be testing you. Or might be a

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