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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by merit1988(f): 10:35am On Mar 22, 2020
The application has closed... Is that true?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 2:40pm On Mar 20, 2020
I've responded to all PM's
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:49pm On Mar 15, 2020
merit1988:
Ratio..... guys 70%, ladies 30%......we are growing kiss few more to add and we are done...we have a specific number of members we need...too much is crowd and crazy drama....we want cool and mature minds... Flirts, pls stay off this thread and my DM.....go join other similar groups...this group isn't ur spec... thanks
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 4:56pm On Mar 14, 2020
miracle139:
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T CHECK YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE

1. It makes you into someone you don’t want to be.

Nobody likes the person that they become when they are consumed with waiting for their partner to go to the bathroom so they can pounce on their phone and quickly scroll through texts. Most people want to feel like they are honest people with integrity and self-respect. Nothing is a bigger hit to your self-esteem than snooping around, feeling like you’re a criminal, trying to get information that you know isn’t rightfully yours.

2. It sabotages closeness.

Many relationships never bounce back after one partner confesses to snooping on the other. Even if it turns out that your partner was in fact flirting with someone else, your sneaky behavior often cancels out their flirtation and you lose the moral high ground in your argument. It is very hard for anyone to trust someone who they now realize was going through their private messages, looking for evidence of their misbehavior. This lack of trust may be just as hard to forgive, in many ways, as an uncovered flirtation.

3. It puts you in a weaker position.

When one person snoops on another, it creates an unhealthy power dynamic. When you’re in a position where you feel empowered, you simply don’t sneak around and spy on others. You live your life without worrying about what other people are doing.

But if you become fixated on what your partner is doing rather than what you yourself are doing, you are effectively disavowing your own power and giving it away. This is not a healthy long-term dynamic.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by merit1988(f): 6:46am On Mar 10, 2020
ademmy102:


You can go for WAEC Attestation of result certificate. The Attestation of result certificate is thesame as WAEC certificate but it will take you like 6month before the WAEC attestation of result is ready after processing.

Because of how urgent you want to use the certificate now once you have the photocopy of the WAEC result you can just go to any high court nearest to your place to certified the photocopy as true copy and it will be stamp and accepted any were in the world.
sadly, I don't have the photocopy.. I only have the statement or results and the printout from WAEC website
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 6:43am On Mar 10, 2020
Tejusuper:
Hello babe,please how do I send a PM,I want to be added to the group.
08060318510
i have responded to ur Pm sir
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NSCDC Recruitment 2019: How To Apply For Nigeria Civil Defence Corps by merit1988(f): 4:58pm On Mar 09, 2020
WAEC certificate number, what do they mean? Ex/candidate number? Cos I'm yet to get another WAEC certificate after I misplaced the original without photocopy cry though I have the print out
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:33pm On Mar 08, 2020
Love is a beautiful thing
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 12:35pm On Mar 07, 2020
merit1988:
A young group, yet full of spice, sauce, energy and all shades of fun....3 more legends to add and we're done... Join us kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 2:05pm On Feb 29, 2020
A young group, yet full of spice, sauce, energy and all shades of fun....3 more legends to add and we're done... Join us kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 6:00am On Feb 25, 2020
I've responded to all Pms
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 4:53pm On Feb 24, 2020
Muyiwakelly:
I am interested.08094645645
send me a Pm
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 4:52pm On Feb 24, 2020
TheIlerioluwa:
Hello Merit, i just PM. Can you Kindly Respond
I've responded
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: INEC Recruitment 2020. How To Apply by merit1988(f): 7:29pm On Feb 18, 2020
Now, everyone is applying for admin officer embarassed I'm getting worried
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 5:09pm On Feb 17, 2020
I've responded to all dms
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: INEC Recruitment 2020. How To Apply by merit1988(f): 6:41am On Feb 17, 2020
I'm wondering why some are getting mails while others aren't.. mtchewwww
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 5:50pm On Feb 14, 2020
Love is a beautiful thing kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 6:16am On Feb 11, 2020
yemcoguy:
Sent a DM, kindly reply
responded
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 6:15am On Feb 11, 2020
BabbanBura:


With this ya DP, are u actually looking for a husband or a fuxk man?
I choose to let this pass lipsrsealed ur clearly not reasonable sir .. ☮️
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:54pm On Feb 09, 2020
Stkriz:
Name's kris
Location plateau' Jos
I need a mature female chat mate we can be romantic or anything & can just be good chat friends.
Pls whatsapp: 08030533611 wink.
no here sir
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:11am On Feb 09, 2020
Ive responded to all DMs
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 9:52pm On Feb 06, 2020
zacchtoy:
Sent a DM @merit1988
responded
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 2:40pm On Feb 04, 2020
mzvyne:


Mzvyne

Divyne@
I've responded to your dm
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 12:36pm On Feb 01, 2020
miracle139:
WHY YOU SHOULDN'T CHECK YOUR PARTNER'S PHONE

1. It makes you into someone you don’t want to be.

Nobody likes the person that they become when they are consumed with waiting for their partner to go to the bathroom so they can pounce on their phone and quickly scroll through texts. Most people want to feel like they are honest people with integrity and self-respect. Nothing is a bigger hit to your self-esteem than snooping around, feeling like you’re a criminal, trying to get information that you know isn’t rightfully yours.

2. It sabotages closeness.

Many relationships never bounce back after one partner confesses to snooping on the other. Even if it turns out that your partner was in fact flirting with someone else, your sneaky behavior often cancels out their flirtation and you lose the moral high ground in your argument. It is very hard for anyone to trust someone who they now realize was going through their private messages, looking for evidence of their misbehavior. This lack of trust may be just as hard to forgive, in many ways, as an uncovered flirtation.

3. It puts you in a weaker position.

When one person snoops on another, it creates an unhealthy power dynamic. When you’re in a position where you feel empowered, you simply don’t sneak around and spy on others. You live your life without worrying about what other people are doing.

But if you become fixated on what your partner is doing rather than what you yourself are doing, you are effectively disavowing your own power and giving it away. This is not a healthy long-term dynamic.
nice article
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 7:54am On Feb 01, 2020
Still very active kiss The fun is out of this world... Marriage is a beautiful thing
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 8:57pm On Jan 28, 2020
The group is a small community of married matured mind people, so we are very selective on who we add up.

For all those that have sent me a dm and i did not reply, i am sorry, you did not pass the first screening.

For those dropping numbers here, i will not add you. The instruction is send a dm.

If you cannot send a dm, just quote this message or the original post.

Thanks for your understanding
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 1:42pm On Jan 26, 2020
leslieokoye18:


See what?!!!!
what u desire naaaa
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 8:49am On Jan 25, 2020
leslieokoye18:
Name's Czar
Location Lagos Abule Egba
I need a mature female call/chat mate we can be romantic or anything & can just be good chat friends.
Pls whatsapp: 07084496818 wink
u will see lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 11:15am On Jan 23, 2020
merit1988:
I've responded to all Dm's...pls for the records, this group isn't a dating group....if ur motive for wanting to join the group is for that purpose, then ur highly on ur own....it's just a group to make new friends and engage in daily vital discussions.....pls take note of that.... thank you all kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 4:08pm On Jan 21, 2020
I've responded to all Dm's...pls for the records, this group isn't a dating group....if ur motive for wanting to join the group is for that purpose, then ur highly on ur own....it's just a group to make new friends and engage in daily vital discussions.....pls take note of that.... thank you all kiss
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 10:34am On Jan 19, 2020
beatmonster:


Please Sir, can you modify your post and remove my number from the quote?

Thank you
how is that my issue sir
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by merit1988(f): 4:15pm On Jan 15, 2020
I've responded to all dms

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