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Politics / Re: Obi: ₦‎1.5Bn For First Lady Unconstitutional, Her Job Is To Care For Her Husband by Meritupdates: 9:31am On Nov 07, 2023
MS2471:
cool


Buhari also scrapped the office of the first lady, Aisha simply abandoned him and flew to Dubai and UK

Women are the people with highest number of PVC, during election women vote more

Ministry of Women affairs and Office of the First Lady are meant to cater for Women and children rights

The ministry needs opreational vehicles, Haice Van for staffs and press , Hummer Bus, Hillux truck for security, bullet proof SUV for VIP

I hope women supporting Obi get a clear picture of who he is beneath the feminine voice and tricks

He supported SUV for lawmakers

He drove in SUV convoys

Can mannerless Obi deliquent supporters stop qouting me no be me cause una family poverty


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Politics / Re: Obi: ₦‎1.5Bn For First Lady Unconstitutional, Her Job Is To Care For Her Husband by Meritupdates: 9:29am On Nov 07, 2023
MS2471:
cool
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Buhari also scrapped the office of the first lady, Aisha simply abandoned him and flew to Dubai and UK

Women are the people with highest number of PVC, during election women vote more

Ministry of Women affairs and Office of the First Lady are meant to cater for Women and children rights

The ministry needs opreational vehicles, Haice Van for staffs and press , Hummer Bus, Hillux truck for security, bullet proof SUV for VIP

I hope women supporting Obi get a clear picture of who he is beneath the feminine voice and tricks

He supported SUV for lawmakers

He drove in SUV convoys

Can mannerless Obi deliquent supporters stop qouting me no be me cause una family poverty


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Votes are more important than constitution, he Sighted an unconstitutional allocation and all you care about is vote. Ministry of women affairs is a ministry ans should be managed by a minister
Family / Re: I Want To Divorce And Live Alone by Meritupdates: 4:03pm On Sep 12, 2023
ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...


Wrong approach, she has a reason which from what I can see it has to do with exhaustion from her role you mentioned.

Take a moment before you jump into conclusions.

Take a vacation with her and you alone try reconnecting with her and see if she doesn't change.

Not all like sex but when you add exhaustion expecially mental exhaustion it can make sex unattractive.

Find out 'the why' and try resolve the why(employ domestic staff, buy gadgets that make house choas easy, Just reduce her domestic work load.)

You should tackle tendency and not jump out a beautiful Home. This issue can be addressed if it's just sex.

Divorce is not an option.

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Foreign Affairs / Why Russia Didn't Colonize African Countries. by Meritupdates: 6:54pm On Aug 28, 2023
The Untold Story of why Russia didn't scramble for Africa like the European counterpart, even in the wake of it rising influences in the region.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-a2_jnJ_01o

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Foreign Affairs / Stop Rigging Elections: Niger ECOWAS Envoy To African Leaders by Meritupdates: 6:05am On Aug 28, 2023
At the wake of the Niger ECOWAS Envoy, more lights shed on what happened in the first Vist and a surprising advice to ECOWAS leaders not like it was unique or entirely surprising.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQaoXHNHLqA

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