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Romance / Re: How Did You Find Out Your Partner Was Cheating? by Michelle55: 7:21am On Oct 21, 2021
Generalwoodz:
who was counting it? You or your spirit
You gat no chills at all

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Romance / Re: My Experience After 1 Week Of Getting Married �� by Michelle55: 10:39am On Oct 20, 2021
Smartb0y:
i was only being truthful.
Still not fair for you to judge her like that. She's someone's else prayer point, never forget that.
Haven't you heard that one man's poison is another's treasure?
Romance / Re: My Experience After 1 Week Of Getting Married �� by Michelle55: 10:17am On Oct 20, 2021
Smartb0y:
you're not marriage material
You are? You have no freaking rights to condemn anyone if your blood can't wash away their sins.

Nobody holy pass! That you don't consider her marriageable doesn't mean she isn't someone's else prayer point.

Learn to be kind with words!
Romance / Re: A Nairaland Redpiller Found Love At Last, Please Wish Him Well(pre wedding pics) by Michelle55: 10:12am On Oct 20, 2021
OLDESTWARRIBOY:
I don't understand?? Is that his wife or his mother??
Be nice please.. That's someone's wife. lipsrsealed
Family / Re: Her Family Says I Can't Marry Her Because I'm An SSCE Holder by Michelle55: 11:57am On Oct 19, 2021
Move on jare.. Getting a piece of paper doesn't guarantee a happy home. Na her people go tire
Nairaland / General / Re: Have You Ever Walked With Someone That Greets The Whole Community? by Michelle55: 9:07am On Oct 19, 2021
My dad can do that very well and I find it annoying.

He will be the one to stop you sef if care is not taken to greet you that's why I don't bother going out with him. Once I'm going out, my face cap is my friend. Just keep my head down till I reach my destination and if you eventually greet me, I go just nod Waka pass.

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Romance / Re: Should I Confront Her Or Let Her Take All These Things? by Michelle55: 8:47am On Oct 19, 2021
It's not hard nau.. Simply remove those things you guys didn't agree for her to take along with her and leave the rest for her.

By the time she checks and discovers that her looting nature has been exposed, shame go catch her and she go comport herself. This is the problem I have with some people, when given a privilege to eat bread they want to carry the bakery.


Remove the additional things she added and then make her to understand that it's unhealthy to be selfish in nature, that you guys gave her rights to take some things doesn't give her the audacity to empty the whole house for her family. I don't care if she's a woman same measures will apply if it's a guy involved, I no dey side anybody wey do wrong.

If she has some dignity left in her, she will apologise and make amends but if she's the usual entitled woman we have in Nigeria then she will device means to hurt you for humiliating her. Be prepared for anything with these kinda people who cease every opportunity to loot their fellow citizens.
Romance / Re: . by Michelle55: 12:05pm On Oct 17, 2021
eldega:


Did you just call me a liar?

If you check my profile very well you did realize I have been on this platform for a very long time if not before you started using a mobile phone, so you know I'm not a kid moreso I've been on the street for a while and that's where I grew up from.

Because of the nature of scammers on this platform I tried as much as possible to limit my interaction and all, what made me develop interest in your case was because of the innocent baby you claim to presently have. My motive in life has always been no kid deserve to suffer for whatever decision their parent made. Either your story is real or not, I decided to contact you to see way (s) which I can help your situation, even though this economy is not friendly to all of us, we still have to thank God for where we are and continue the hustle.

So I contacted you & made you understand I'm willing to help but I need to confirm the authenticity of your claim first before rendering any help, when I asked where you were staying in Abuja, the location you mentioned was where I've never been to before so I requested if you could come to anywhere in town, the purpose of this was for me to hear you out physically and chart a positive sustainable way for you that won't made you to come online or anywhere to beg anymore.

I asked if you were ready for business which you said yes, we fixed Friday for you to come to town so we could see. After we agreed, so many thought came up on my mind, I discussed your issue with a friend and explained that my intention was to give you 10k & transport when you come to town, if your story & situation is genuine maybe I can make the 10k a monthly thing for the sake of the baby till you are back on your feet.

Then my friend call my attention to the fact that why not see if you can be set up for a business since there is a connection which we can pull for federal government intervention fund (Covid-19) loan which can be secured for you. This we know most people have enjoyed and be able to start something. So if you were able to secure 500k you should be able to start a sustainable business that will be able to take care of your immediate needs and future one. Moreover the repayment of this loan won't start until after 12 months at 5% interest rate per annum. This I even sent a nairaland link of it to you for you to confirm as I made you understand that so many people are looking forward to this kind of offer which is not coming their way but I'm giving it to you free of charge.

This I discussed with you for this option that instead of you coming online to beg people for money every now and then, this option is there for you to take since you somehow claimed in one of your post that you were into business before all this issue started which gulp all your capital and you can still do business.

I was stunned by your response that you were not interested in the loan because you are scared of loan, scared of running a start up business with 500k which might fail and where will you get the monthly repayment from if the business fail. My mind was like, so you will be more comfortable if I said I want to dash you 100k or 200k to start up a business rather than you working for your money bah?.

After going forth and back on this, I was able to deduce that what you were only interested in was free money or manna from heaven. My instinct was that maybe your intention is trying to play on people's emotions to get cheap money from them, if you get like 2k from 20 people that's 40k without stressing yourself....well, I'm not in to help somebody who is not ready to help herself/himself somebody that will be comfortable begging rather than get herself up for business even when given the option of full funding.

After you said you weren't interested in the intervention fund, you still requested if our agreement to see in town by Friday is still in place and I responded in affirmative. So many thought kept creeping up on my mind that I needed to be careful for my safety & security, what if it's a guy that will want to use a lady as a decoy come Friday..I was ready to take the risk and waiting for you to beep me up on Friday to decide where you will be coming to in town for me to meet up with you but ALAS you NEVER chatted me or anything till late in the evening when you gave excuse that[b] "you forgot to meet me up due to some activities" [/b] please who will be in dire need as you claim & when she was asked to come and get help will suddenly forget to go due to activities? Na street we all dey nah...haba.

You suggested we can still see the following day which was yesterday but pending that, you said you were out of cooking gas and wouldn't mind if I can help, I had to ask you again if what you are requesting is for me to send you money which you answered in affirmative, I requested for your account number which you immediately send but I haven't send you any Kobo till now. This was the point that actually gave you out cos my instinct was that if I send you any money you might likely not see me yesterday, I also came online to check your profile on this platform, I realized you have edited some of your comments and posts you made earlier.

When you didn't see me send money, you chatted me up yesterday asking why I didn't send the money and I said I wasn't still convince you are who you claim to be, you suggested maybe we can do video call which I said yes, you called me immediately but I declined the call cos my street OT was that for you to have chatted me up to ask for the money, a lady who you might be working with might be beside you which will be the one to talk to me, I'm too wise to fall for this kind of cheap scam, meanwhile, when we started chatting you didn't have any picture on your DP but when you beep me up yesterday, what you have on your DP was a guy picture with a lady at the background which you removed immediately I responded to your chat...so I ex you and stop responding to your chat pending when I verify you are who you claim to be and for my safety.

I never even ask you for anything before proposing the help I wanted to render for you, the way you communicate gave you out to be a guy working together with a lady just to play on people's emotions, moreso actions speak rather than voice....
I leave you up to other people to judge my encounter with you as you claimed I'm a liar

Kindly note, if there's a lie in all I said, you can point it out or if I ever requested for anything in return for wanting to help you. Mind you, our chat history is still here for confirmation
Hmmmm.. This is more serious than I thought

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Romance / Re: . by Michelle55: 9:07am On Oct 17, 2021
FairlyUSEDpussy:
I tot autochick4u was really ni Ooo......
Ahhhh!!!
Was bout chatting her up to send some token.....
If you want to help, kindly do so.
May your haters never speak ill of you in the presence of your helper.
Romance / Re: . by Michelle55: 8:52am On Oct 17, 2021
Wick3:


Didn't get your message
Forgive me, will do that now.. When I remembered it was already 2am and I did not want to bug you then.
Romance / Re: . by Michelle55: 8:05am On Oct 17, 2021
AutoChick4U:
Thank you. Thats what I am doing, haven't gotten yet. Will try harder this week.
You will scale through, just don't give up yet.
Forget about online help for now and concentrate on making your own money, if the help comes along the line fine and if it doesn't still fine and good.
This country right now is more of survival of the fittest

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Romance / Re: . by Michelle55: 7:44am On Oct 17, 2021
AutoChick4U:
@Seun I thought there's a platform here that help people in need after confirming they are real?
Nairaland has helped people, this I know.
Darling, let's all assume there's no Nairaland for a sec, what would you have done to survive in this situation?

Will you let your child and yourself go hungry while depending on people whom you haven't seen before to raise money for you?


All these threads you are creating is actually fueling the predators and making you more vulnerable in their sights, most people's conscience is dead and long gone. To worsen the matter, the economy isn't smiling on everyone at the moment.

Even in Freetown nothing is free anymore, crying here on daily basis won't change anything rather you are only building yourself up for more snide comments from people who doesn't understand what it takes to be in your shoes thereby giving room for depression and frustration to set in.


Online begging doesn't go well these days, perhaps you should try getting job around you, I believe some schools needs teachers, cleaners and some homes might be in need of nannies. Start from somewhere, don't use your child as an excuse not to go out and hustle.

There are people who would be willing to help you when they see you with your child seeking for job but you may not get that opportunity online like you envisioned, leave that comfort zone and move.

Goodluck!

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Romance / Re: 5 Girls. Help Me Choose A Life Partner. by Michelle55: 2:36am On Oct 17, 2021
Follow your heart.. We can't choose your bride for you. You've spoken to these girls and I'm sure you know who your heart settled for already.

No come stress us for here biko.. Take it to the Lord in prayers if you are truly confused.
Romance / Re: Question; Can You Have Sex With The Same Gender For 1 Billion Naira! Be Honest. by Michelle55: 7:13pm On Oct 16, 2021
Hmmmm.. Let me sit back and enjoy the comments cheesy
Romance / Re: Opinion: This is how to prevent a Heartbreak by Michelle55: 2:23pm On Oct 16, 2021
Wick3:


True, almost like most of us are just surviving and not living
True!
Romance / Re: Opinion: This is how to prevent a Heartbreak by Michelle55: 2:09pm On Oct 16, 2021
Wick3:


Someone wants to meet me? I hope her name is "Ego" or if he is a dude "Benjamin"

Strong woman, what you can't handle does not exist
Benjamin? Most likely but you would need to work for it smiley

One has got to survive in this harsh economy you know
Romance / Re: Opinion: This is how to prevent a Heartbreak by Michelle55: 1:54pm On Oct 16, 2021
Wick3:


I know right. The search party are yet to find me, hopefully they will. How body?
Hahaha.. They had better find you quick, someone wants to meet you. Perhaps, that would make the search party put in more effort in locating you cheesy

Work is a bit stressful but it's nothing I can't handle
Romance / Re: Opinion: This is how to prevent a Heartbreak by Michelle55: 1:48pm On Oct 16, 2021
Wick3:


Was expecting to see you here. You'll be wondering "who is this?"....

Olaniyi
Olanike grin
You went MIA
Romance / Re: Opinion: This is how to prevent a Heartbreak by Michelle55: 12:04pm On Oct 16, 2021
Lesson learnt.. The best deal is to move on

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Romance / Re: Is She Really Dumping Me by Michelle55: 11:46am On Oct 16, 2021
Nna eh, the kain topics person dey see for this Nairaland is tiring.. Nwanne, get something doing with your life and time and leave women matter alone biko.

No be only flowning, na fleeing face

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Romance / Re: Why Are You Not Married? by Michelle55: 11:33am On Oct 16, 2021
Here to read as usual... Hope reading is allowed or has it been banned already?
Maka achorom nsogbu taa

Family / Re: Bored In Marriage by Michelle55: 11:15am On Oct 16, 2021
Effects of pressure! For the singles, don't let anyone pressure you into getting married. They won't be the one to live with your spouse in your home, take your time to explore and be mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially and psychologically ready when it's time to settle down.

Dem no dey catch latecomer for that institution called marriage!

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Romance / Re: Trouble My Friend Faced Trying To Break Up With His Girlfriend by Michelle55: 9:11am On Oct 16, 2021
NLHoodlum:

It has ended
Thank you.. You are indeed a good friend!
Violence doesn't pay rather you will end up incurring debts that should have been avoided if only you curtailed yourself. Serves her right!
Relationship no work be say e no work, no need to force it.

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Romance / Re: My Hot Temper Has Killed Me by Michelle55: 2:50am On Oct 16, 2021
Let her go. She deserves someone better!
We don't want to see any bad news about you on front page

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Romance / Re: Trouble My Friend Faced Trying To Break Up With His Girlfriend by Michelle55: 2:35am On Oct 16, 2021
We dey wait for the completion of this story.. Please don't keep us waiting for too long, I would like to know how it ended.
Romance / Re: What Is That Thing That You Cannot Do Without In A Day by Michelle55: 2:16pm On Oct 15, 2021
Drinking water.

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Health / Re: See What Fixing Of Nails Did To Me, Never Will I Fix Nails In This Life Again by Michelle55: 12:11pm On Oct 13, 2021
You will be fine.. The annoying part of all these makeups that I detest is the eye lash thingy.
I honestly don't understand the concept of that thing called artificial eyelashes
Nothing beats being natural jare

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Celebrities / Re: Ned Nwoko’s Wife, Laila Unfollows Him And Co-wife Regina Daniels On Instagram by Michelle55: 12:07pm On Oct 13, 2021
Na siddon dey look mode I dey now.. They should settle it privately since it's a family issue lipsrsealed

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Romance / Re: Photographer Shares Couple J.S.S 2 Picture, As They Finally Got Married (photos) by Michelle55: 11:39am On Oct 13, 2021
This is awesome... Me likeey! Congratulations to the couple
Romance / Re: When A Wife Or Girlfriend Sleeps With Your Brother. by Michelle55: 10:14am On Oct 13, 2021
January thread naim dey make Frontpage by October.. Nairaland, which way na undecided
Romance / Re: Nigerian Lady Lashes Out At Feminist Group After Being Called Out On Facebook by Michelle55: 1:30pm On Sep 16, 2021
Lemme kuku Park my kabukabu for here oh, this thread go make sense. The fight between feminist and redpillers is about to begin, kindly grab a seat and settle down with me cheesy

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Food / Re: Easiest Way To Prepare Simple But Delicious Afang Soup (Video) by Michelle55: 7:29pm On Sep 15, 2021
E be like say Op get plenty children for house, na this kain soup person dey cook when e get battalion so that e go go round sad
Umu m bara uba kinda soup!

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