Looking for a serious, hardworking and reliable seamstress can be based in UK or Nigeria for an upcoming fashion business which is looking to launch in the new year for the fashion week in the UK.... You need to be reliable as you will constantly be used for the business production so pretty much part of the business...
This is a very serious business and if you know someone who will be highly interested please drop their emails or contact so I can speak to them directly and discuss.

Thank you

Help Help Help please!

So I'm bored of Nigerian food can you share any of your ingredients please!

I love being in the kitchen but bored of cooking same thing.....

I would appreciate it!

How do you handle a situation where as a person you do your very best to make the family happy especially your mother putting your own emotions aside!
However, your mother prefers your other sister to you even when that particular sister can be selfish, self centre and disrespectful at times.
But your mother see you as the old one in the family even all you ever care for is her happiness to the extent you will do anything for her unlike the other sister!
So how do you deal with such reject and hurt?

Dapo4u:


Are you seeking for advice or you want us to tell you what you think we should be telling you? It appers to me you have made up your mind and you want to know if we all agree with you. No one is saying you shouldn't test the water with the new guy, but it is a taboo to have sex with someone who isn't the father of your unborn child. I am even surprised that your new guy doesn't know about this.

I haven't made my mind up about the whole sex thing..I wasn't sure if it was a taboo that's y I asked I wasn't raised in Nigeria n he is Ghanian not Nigerian so don't think he knows either.... So it's jus an advice bwt the whole taboo thing not on the relationship! Thanks

cr7lomo:
Mayb I dont rili understand ur post cos u said his been there for u all thru d heartbreak for the past 2yrs . Are u carrying a baby for 2yrs?

Just think of a friend who has been there for you through other relationship that hasnt worked out.... And this suppose to be a new relationship i was suppose to be going into then found out he still with his ex and she has a baby for him... And its only my friend this guy that has been there that i could confide in. So no the baby is not 2yrs oo just months

Please can people explain this especially Guys! And for Girls why do you feel the need to be in a relationship as long as over 5years and the guy hasn't pop the question!

In my opinion have always thought guys know exactly what they want in a woman and when they meet her it really doesn't take them as long as many years before proposing or introducing their partner to the family!

Girl if a man can be as heartless as that there is no boundary or limit the guy will not go.... Reading this to me he likes the girl but its only cus of his family he let go just because she wont abort.... No doubt a baby mama will always be in the picture and even as much as much as he doesnt want to have anythin to do with the child, the child will later ask of her father and you never no what the future holds! My take is with a man like that you dont need complications in your life.... As much as he may claim he loves you, he should never had made you the side chick no matter what the situation is.... Your school is your priority at the moment and i will suggest you just focus on that and what will be will be!

Beamborla:
I was expecting to see I've decided to stay without sex for 20 yrs. It's not ideal, my sister.

Even if you give it a go anyway, taboo or not, human beings can be funny. Sometimes in the future, he can use it to insult you.

Sex is not a payment for any form of help not mentioning the fact that you have another man's child in you.

I really do appreciate your comment and that is very true, Humans are quite funny and you are quite right he could use it to insult me if we get into an argument later thats true and that is one comment i truly appreciate and respect! Thank you

Nneka123:
you see the reason why they keep bashing us (ladies) on this section! Jeez! why do you want to have sex with another man, even when you're already pregnant! that he made stupid promises to father your child, doesn't really mean you should have sex with him! have some dignity! and get out of the first mess you created already, before thinking about sleeping with this new man of yours, okay!!

I can't go in details about the type of person he is but can definitely say he is way better than majority of game playing Nigerians who just lie about everything... His promises are not stupid but i ain't dump to rely on promises... I Know his character well enough to know when someone is up to no good! I do have dignity please just because I'm in a situation doesn't mean i have no dignity... People make mistake nobody is perfect and if its jus stupid promises we wont be discussing marriage or him introducing me to his mother and family... He is my bestfriend who had loved me from a far but too stupid to see what was in front of me.... Call him dumb and foolish for wanting to be with a pregnant woman but you can't help who you love period!

ronald4lif:
OP on another note do you love this guy sincerely or you are going out with him because he promised to take care of your unborn baby?

Genuinely i love him, he is like my best-friend who i confide in with everything..... Its not because of the promise, people break promises is because of how real he has been with me since we been friends..

Hi people,

I would like sincere response please.

I was dating this guy based in Nigeria. I'm based in the UK. So I went to visit him in Nigeria and one thing led to the other, we slept together and later found out i was pregnant! I'm against abortion so i decided to keep the baby.

Later found out he is still with his ex girlfriend who has a child for him and this lead me to disconnect communication or any relationship with him. However, for the past 2 years i have a friend who has been there for me through everything through my breakups and messed up times he supported me because he wanted to be with me.

So i explained the situation about the pregnancy and he was still willing to stand by me and be the baby father if i let him... My question is because I and the guy now decided to give it a go and see if we work out is it wrong for me to want to have sex with him while still pregnant and its not his pregnancy?