IF DON'T HAVE A GOOD PLAN DON'T ATTEMPT TO TRAVEL OUT. YOU WILL BE FRUSTRATED. CANADA, UK, S/KOREA HAS BETTER OPPORTUNITIES IF YOU DONT HAVE ANYTHING SOLID IN NIGERIA, BUT IF YOU ARE EARNING UPTO 400K AND YOU CHOOSE TO TRAVEL; YOU MIGHT REGRET IF YOU DONT HAVE A GREAT SKILL OR PLAN.

YOUR FRIENDS DONT HATE YOU, THEY ARE REGRETING THEIR ACTION & DDONT WANT YOU TO SUFFER. ONCE YOUR IN WITHOUT A GOOD SKILL OR PLAN, THE RAT-RACE BEGINS AND IT IS ENDLESS. YOU CAN EARN AS MUCH AS 3000 CANADIAN DOLLARS AND NOT BE ABLE TO SAFE A DOLLAR EVERY MONTH. TAX WILL TAKE 31%. YOU ARE LEFT WITH 2070 DOLLARS, RENT, UTILITIES, TRANSPORTAND FOOD AND OTHERS CAN TAKE 2000.

It is clear from the scriptures below that sexual immorality (sex with who is not your wife) can bring poverty. You dont have to believe me, read the scriptures.

Proverbs 5:3-17 NKJV
For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil; But in the end she is bitter as wormwood, Sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, Her steps lay hold of hell. Lest you ponder her path of life— Her ways are unstable; You do not know them. Therefore hear me now, my children, And do not depart from the words of my mouth. Remove your way far from her, And do not go near the door of her house, Lest you give your honor to others, And your years to the cruel one; Lest aliens be filled with your wealth, And your labors go to the house of a foreigner; And you mourn at last, When your flesh and your body are consumed, And say: “How I have hated instruction, And my heart despised correction! I have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, Nor inclined my ear to those who instructed me! I was on the verge of total ruin, In the midst of the assembly and congregation.” Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you.

Proverbs 6:26 NKJV
For by means of a harlot
A man is reduced to a crust of bread;
And [a]an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.

It is clear from the scriptures below that sexual immorality (sex with who is not your wife) can bring poverty. You dont have to believe me, read the scriptures.

Proverbs 6:26 NLT
For a prostitute will bring you to poverty, but sleeping with another man’s wife will cost you your life.

Proverbs 5:3-17 NKJV
For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil; But in the end she is bitter as wormwood, Sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, Her steps lay hold of hell. Lest you ponder her path of life— Her ways are unstable; You do not know them. Therefore hear me now, my children, And do not depart from the words of my mouth. Remove your way far from her, And do not go near the door of her house, Lest you give your honor to others, And your years to the cruel one; Lest aliens be filled with your wealth, And your labors go to the house of a foreigner; And you mourn at last, When your flesh and your body are consumed, And say: “How I have hated instruction, And my heart despised correction! I have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, Nor inclined my ear to those who instructed me! I was on the verge of total ruin, In the midst of the assembly and congregation.” Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you.

Brother you need to understand that God said someone is your wife does not mean that everything will just gel from day 1. You need to work out stuff, get to understand each other and love your self before getting married. If you cannot or have not achieved understanding and love, you cannot marry even if God said. Prophecies give direction, they are not an end in them self. For instance, if God tells you you will become a governor and all you do is to get drunk every day celebrating the prophecy or revelation. The prophecy will never come to pass. The prophecy gives you direction, it narrows your path in life. You will have to join a political party, be of good behavior, work from grass root to the top.

For the sister you are dating now it is obvious, there is no future in that relationship. I will advise you to call it quits immediately with her. Then go to God with a neutral mind, willing to accept what he has for you, in case you are not ready to go back to the first one. There are consequences each time we walk out of God's perfect will. the acceptable will of God is a dangerous place to dwell, by all means avoid it. Remember Balaam and Balack, the donkey and the angel with the sword..... read Numbers chapter 22.

There is a lot i presume you have not told us. For insatance, when you know you cannot come home as usual did you call her? Did she call you and refused to pick her calls while you were hanging out? Are you fond of this sort of hanging out? Her actions can only speak of two things:
1. She is tired of your selfishness and immaturity, and she feels insecure in your hands. It is not just about the slap, if that was actaually your first attempt. No normal person will judge you by a singular mistake you are sorry for.
2. If all you have said is true then she is immature and childish and requires marriage counselling. I honestly doubt if she loves you. She has stronger attachment and allegiance to her previous family than the one she is to build with you. If this is true, i can assure you begging is not a permanent solution. Begging can bring her back but will not build your home. She needs proper counselling. With the action of her mum and brother, i actual doubt if this 2nd premise is correct. But if it is correct you don't need those kind of inlaws. you need to draw the line and make your wife understand why, after she has succumbed to counselling, if not i bet; this will happen again and again.