FOR WHAT HUH??
ITS OBVIOUS THT I DONT BELONG HERE

@ lynn26

I am still trying to figure out what your issue problem are, have u lost it Or u just love the attention?? Honey let me tell u I AM a damn FINE looking EAST african SOMALI chick OK!!? Now expose that you sad low life women, u really need help.

Anyways, sunshinemi much luv to u hon! and I really appericiate ur advice
And to rest of yall peace the Bleep out, guess I dont belong here, now just drop my story and post on others forum.
Im outta here,

lynn26:

miss 83 whatever you call yourself!! She is an imposter!!! You are not East African. Come on admit it slutty bitch. You are a Nigerian(Yoruba Woman) You are not livng in the UK somewhere close to it.(maybe west of it). You F**KING IMPOSTER. COME ON NAME AND SHAME YOURSELF OR DO YOU WANT ME TO DO IT FOR YOU!!!

HUH Watta hell, ??
whts wrong with YOU? come n kill me if u can!!! hahaahah DAMN AND stop calling me names, I AM EASTAFRICAN LIVING IN THE UK so what??,even tho im not nigerian I can still write my story here OK, after all we all AFRICANS. STOP BLOODY CALLING ME NAMES, U SICK BITCH

sunshinemi:

Ride on girl. Give it to them!!! That's the spirit.
Why should the man stay in a relationship that he is totally unhappy with. A disrespectful wife? OMG ! What could be worse.
Ya'all fail to get it: The man will still leave his wife whether the poster marries him or not.

miss 83
Follow her heart. Be smart. 4 months is still too early. Give the relationship more time to grow. If 8 months from now, you still feel the same way towards him and he feels much more towards you, then go for him.

Yh thnxx hon, I will do tht and I will keep u updatet
kunze80 nah its just I went bck to him and got more information,thts all. He told me this story today.
@ lynn26
Im sure u would love me if i invited u on my wedding thts going to happen on Hilton Hotel

@ lynn26


Listen hon, relax and take a chillpill,call me whatever u want but the truth is tht u have no idea what or who u chattin about!!! We see everyday men leave their wives, whats the BIGGIE ABOUT THAT IF NOT WITH ME,,HE WOULD LEAVE HER ANYWAY, AND LEMME TELL U THIS , He iS DAMN LUCKY TO EVEN TAKE SMELL OF MY P***Y AND HIS LUVIN IT AII!!
I can get any man out there cause im conceited but u know what HE IS the one I WANT for the meal.

kunze80:

People please stop dissing Miss 83. You never told us how long you've been dating this man (days, mths, yrs??) When you started seeing him was his wife still living with him? What exactly do you have that his wife dosen't? We have to see the full picture before we can really judge. You're not exactly getting a great feedback here only insults. You say that he never talks bad bout his wife and that he says that she just dosen't make him happy. Is that the only vague explanation he can give? What sort of prblems were the having or did he even tell you? Is he actually any bit honest with you at all?

Um, well he does tell me that he cant deal with her dissrespecting, she never have respect for him and always embarasses him infront of the guys and one day she even slap him in the face,she likes the attention, and she goes around and tell ppl what sort of problem shes having at home and he doesnt like that. And shes not a fit mother for his child, she just big mouth and they been together for 4years, I haven been seeing him only for 4months but believe it or not those 4months seem like forever.
And when I met him he already left her, he lives at his own place.

And guys,,,stop the insult, I havent done anything wrong here Ok, the man left his wife without me on the pic!

@ kunze80

I dont wanna sound desperat or a homewrecker when I tell him to do something he is planing to do on his own,even tho I want it to happen I dont wanna push him, but believe me it will happen soon,

@lynn26

Believe me hon I might be blind for him but I aint stupid!!
when I say time will tell, he already know it, its the matter of time I give him to sort his life out n get divorce and if that dont happened Im just gonna walk away, but dont think guys tht ima sit around months or yrs, thts not going to happened!

When I say its all about me I mean its my time to show him true love and what his looking for tht he saw in me , Im here to give it to him

@ gabrywyl

I understand ur point, and I do love this guy, but the trust part im bit confused with, I mean he has made promises but I guess time will tell and I just have to wait n see if he is getting his divorce paper and move in with me  
I have to trust his words at the moment, and thts all I can do,

@cooldude62

Love IS blind hon, and I am inlove with this guy and everythings he says im blind for, I admit tht. But u know anything is possible,and like gabrywyl said tht he already wreck his home before I got into the picture, it aint my fault,Im not the one to be blamed for and if he runs to me I have to show him nothing but love,

gabrywyl:

Poster, sometimes I feel like blaming you to destroy other people's family but at the same time I was thinking that it takes two hands to clap. It is obvious that the guy you're in love with will cheat no matter what. If he is not with you, Im sure he would find other women and leave his wife and children to rot.

Girl, if he divorced his wife and end up with you, dont be surprise that he will soon find another mistress behind your back and do the same process all over again.

Oh u know what, this is the kind of advice I was looking for, and I thank U gabrywyl.
U didnt blame me for this, and u understand where I come from,because I never wanted myself to be a homewreck but I cant change his choise of life. And Im not saying he will be good to me, but at the moment its all about me,I cant talk for the future and like they say a cheater is always a cheater, but I just hope really hope that he wont cheat on me too

kunze80:

HI Miss 83. Could you ellaborate more on your relationship with this man (e.g what he says is exactly wrong with his wife etc). Are you living in Nigeria or elsewhere? is he Nigerian? Is his wife also Nigerian? Maybe then we'd know exactly what advice to give you?

Im here for advice only, cause Ive seen this website from Google but Im not Nigerian or live in Nigeria, I live in London,Uk and Im eastafrican.
and My man dont talk bad about his soon to be x wife, he just tells me tht he dont wannabe with her for reasons tht she cant keep him happy and tht he was planin to leave her long before he met but just didnt get the right time cause he really care about his son.
And I can talk for the future but if he wants to be with me and he tells me he loves me, maybe I am the one?

kunze80:

Does his wife know about you? Is he still living with his wife?

Well I hear rumors that she heard about me and stuff,and NO he doesnt live with her,
and at the moment I live with my sister but when I get my own flat he will move in with me, thats our plans!

Sapphic, is your man cheating on u? Cause u sound like u could need help urself, and dont take it out on me pls.
Anyways and to the rest of yall, im here to get sum advice not to be eaten OK!
Remember, alot of ppl these days get DIVORCE and the guy is CRAZY MADLY inlove with ME, dont make it sound like HUGE thang I mean how many single mothers r out there, there is no reason for me to not believe him when his telling me his going for divorce.
But I just needed to talk out about this, even tho I have it all in my hands, Im still not sure about this relationship,

Thank u all for ur reply, and for the negative parts pls dont judge me, cause i am NOT a homewrecker, okey. And the reason im so confused and cant leave him is not only that I love him but I also think i am pregnant for this man,

I dont know how to say this, but this is not me ,Imean i dont do this but im so madly inlove now with a marriedman and its getting out of hands, he tells me that he
is inlove with me and cant be without me,and that he had problems with his
wife before he get to know me and now he is going for divorce her but just not at the
moment cause his scared of loosing his kid.

What to do pls?