Platony:


See dis one....

U're nt married,...u knw notin abt marriage.

Soon dey wil reconcile ok. Dats d beauty of marriage, wen olofofo lyk u dey wish mk dem scatter wit ur comment wey no gt head.

Learner!!

True o. Very true.
Married couples quarrel like the marriage will end the next minute, but if you now see them loved up, you will be somehow regretting why you shook mouth in their palava.

Hehehehehehe.

I am happier for them if they rise above this issue.
At least some of our comments here will be instrumental in resetting their brains.

Nihilstjnr:


at all.

that's Griffon

I know nau. I also know he's a huge fan of nihilist.
Didn't know there were two of you, or more, I suppose.

Nihilstjnr:


sharrap.

He asked her to leave the house, and only moved out when he realised that he wasn't legally entitled to kick her out of the house.

Why do you think he's now asking for the deeds of the house to be transferred to his name only?

Is this Airborne....

You are saying the things I didn't have the liver to say initially.

I really wish to ask the OP this question...

Oga, are you a thief?

Yuugen:
You didn't ask if she cooked the meals herself when she gave you the pixs, or she lied that she did? I LIKED all the pixs (you've got them hidden now). It's disappointing to know she was passing off someone else food pixs as hers! If I were in Naija, that alone would make me not want to buy food from her. Truthfulness and credibility are important.

She posted food pictures on her status and asked us to patronise. As I am not in Naija to patronise, I pledged to do what I can as her friend.

I also did a preliminary image search on google to be sure. All the ones I checked turned out negative for plagiarism so I just concluded they are all hers. I have known her for more than fifteen years or so, and I can testify of her talent in cooking, her mom's too.

So it did not come as a surprise seeing her take it all to the next level. I genuinely wanted to help. However, for some reason, she did not mention to me that very few of the pics were plagiarised.

The moment that was admitted, I had all my posts in connection to the promotion redacted.

Notatribalist:
if you had used the money for ur parents Health only I would have sided with you,but you also used part of your money to build house for them,leaving ur wife with no choice than to use hers [/b]to build the the one you now claim you both built.. Did you add her name to the one u built for ur parents? If No So what's the fuse all about?to make matter worse u had the audacity to order her out of the house u rightly know she built with her MONEY,though u claim you didn't mean it,so how can u convince us now that u really didn't mean it?where were u expecting her to go?or you only wanted to torment her emotionally becAuse u knew she had no place to go?,my guy examine your [b]heart,you're very wicked..

Which probably explains why the woman was not comfortable to put both their names.

If your woman perceives you as a kind, compassionate person...she will always want to carry you along in her dealings.

God forbid that I'm married to a wicked somebori in this my lifetime or next.

Elfmannisback:

But she has been abusing him, accusing him of infidelity. Do u know how it feels?

Lol.
My dear...
Leave matter.

I am not excusing her bad character.
Noooo. I would feel betrayed if I learned that my name is not included. Even if I didn't contribute one naira, just put my name there...otherwise it defeats the goal of oneness in marriage.


But in those moments of weakness, what makes the difference is how the other party handles it.

I know what it's like to be a Choleric and a Phlegmatic because I am one. It means I am one of the most sweetest, nicest people in the world....until I feel cheated, or oppressed or simply can't take some kind of shit anymore. Hehehehehe....I pity you.

Like I said, it all depends on how the partner handles her moments of weakness. Except she is an out rightly bad woman, I want to believe that she does not feel proud of those moments, I really want to believe.

In anger he told her to get the hell out of his house.
If na you nko? Bros, be truthful.

I fault her for not putting the house in their name. I do. She should have seen to that. But maybe there are two reasons here:

1. She was wary of the man's nature, and felt that things might go sour one day, and she'll be left with nothing.

2. Since the man was away when the building started, the paperwork was done in her name as the man wouldn't have been able to sign.

This brings me to my other line of thought...

Why is it okay that a man and a woman sweats to build a house, though the money came from the man, so he puts it in his name. But if the situation were reversed in favour of the woman - all hell is let loose?

Why is it then okay for a man to tell a woman to get out of his house because he owns it, but becomes awful for a woman to remind a man that he cannot tell her to get out because they own the house together, or in rare scenarios...that she built it with her money?

Pride is bad o.
It's bad. A marriage won't last long if you continue letting pride get the best of you. Sometimes, you need to fight it. You need to say YES to humility, whether you are man or woman.
Pride is a stumbling block to progress. If you know, you know...

Oga, I have read both you and HeSeesAll's post.

I agree that truly, you are letting your pride get the better of you.

When you told her to get out, did you not think of how she would feel knowing that the same house was built in her sweat?

How would you expect her to feel if you actually said that you are the house owner?

You are not even demanding for shared ownership, you are asking for The Whole, The Whole!!!!

Would you do it if you were in her shoes?

Don't even bring the "because I am man" leg, because it would defeat your earlier claim of gunning for equality in Marriage.

Asking to transfer the house solely to your name when you know she built the house in her own sweat and money is OPPRESSION. You want to use it as a means to subjugate her, and it is utterly wicked of you to think that way.

If you wont return, fine and good. But be ready to explain to your 21st century children that the reason you took them away from their mom is because she wouldn't transfer a property she built with her sweat and money to your name solely....not even shared, but to your name only.

Oga....
I reserve my remaining comment.

QuinieR:


You say what,pls explain better...
Did she borrow the pix to post or nah u help her borrow the pix
Is she the one that cook it or...........
Pls mummy ans our questions

I posted as I received....

Hello friends,

My apologies on my friend's behalf for the misdirection.

Every post on the promotion has been redacted.

Mariangeles:
Dinner...
It's ugu season, so we're taking advantage

I saw this food and I swallowed saliva.

Well done!

Mindfulness:


I will go out and get 12 more. Eat six of them and hide the other ones around the house.

Useless guy.

That's what she should have done after she was slapped.

It's not even this one you guys are saying that is paining me.

It's that "that's why most of you single part"

Oga, kip kwayet!

What temerity?

Because she vex waste your food?

But even the girl sef, she overreacted by throwing it away. If it's me, I will go out and buy 6 more eggs and restock for him.

Then the guy now had to slap her.

He is obviously a sadist with an unnecessary sense of entitlement.

It's not him I blame o, it is we ladies that will be giving guys the impression that if they don't marry us, our life can never be meaningful or complete per se.

I'm in a good mood this morning. I won't curse him.

But seriously, he needs to grow up, the girl too!

GoTV:




So your interpretation of my story is banter? I'm dissapointed in your fake love. Good day madam

You too.

MizMyColi:
GoTV,

Please gimme your number. I'm interested in you.
Abi should I drop mine?

GoTv, you there.
I really wish to talk with you. A listening ear helps.

Please reach out.

shaybebaby:

You can have mine.

I don't mind

GoTV,

Please gimme your number. I'm interested in you.
Abi should I drop mine?

Mariangeles:
I got you covered...

Thanks sis.
Lol

Now I feel like eating beans

GoTV:


You dissed me and think i won't respond. I'm dissapointed cos i don't expect this from you. O woman should earn more money than her husband if she wants peace in her marriage

But your position is not entirely true.
I think it's about the humans involved.
A person without too much money can choose to be a better person, and vice versa.

What you have or don't have shouldn't define you.

I urge you to change your thinking. That way, you will attract better people in your life.

If you keep having this mindset, it's not healthy for you.

Don't insult me o. Biko. I don't want to be tempted to return in kind. I'm talking to you from a place of genuine concern...

xynerise:


Which CL?

Oroboh toh badt

xynerise:


Chill

I'm as chilled as a bottle of Coke

xynerise:
I am here to read how the fat girls will make the best rebuttals here