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Religion / Re: Freethinkers- Do You Ever Feel Lonely? by MizMyColi(f): 9:55pm On Mar 05, 2018
Holyfield1:
Never knew you're also an atheist

Our community is growing

But that's not all that matters wink

I'm not atheist.
smiley

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Religion / Re: Freethinkers- Do You Ever Feel Lonely? by MizMyColi(f): 8:12pm On Mar 04, 2018
rinrin23:


Thank you Seun. I agree with the emboldened. I however dont think he will ever really understand, but will always accept me the way I am. I guess I should be content with acceptance.

As for the ratio and finding a match, haha it's highly unlikely (though maybe not impossible)

If he does not have an iota of understanding, he will never accept you. You may wish for him to understand in a way that you expect and hope, you should know upfront that that may never happen, but it might as well!

If he ticks all the other boxes and you actually feel happy and content with him, my dear...you know the drill. I think the whole idea of marriage is complementation, right? smiley

Because I am a spiritual person myself, I have always liked the idea of partnering with someone who is wayy higher than me, but guess what, most times, their spirituality is just about the only amazing stuff about them, in other aspects......not so cool. Well, I made my choice!

Oh, and I feel that it is okay if he does not fullllyyyyyy understand, but at least allows you the freedom to explore your convictions and desire to BE more.

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Religion / Re: Freethinkers- Do You Ever Feel Lonely? by MizMyColi(f): 8:03pm On Mar 04, 2018
rinrin23:


Lol. Hi MizMyColi, glad you could drop in.

In the past I have spoken my truth freely, but what I notice is people getting defensive. I understand that people are emotionally attached to their beliefs and tend to feel judged or insulted by anyone who poses a different view (even when not trying to impose it on anyone). It is because of this that I keep my views to myself so as not to step on toes. However the thought of doing this "forever" is terrifying, especially when you consider bringing children into the mix.

On every other aspect, I have never been more "compatible" with anyone as much as I am with him. I agree with the emboldened, I think that is very key.

Hi rinrin24,

Morning smiley

It is good that you found something up there helpful.

I can relate with the bit about not wanting to hurt others' feelings when you begin to express your truth.
What I tell myself is that everyone must not know who I am. I am free to share aspects of me with people, depending on how I perceive them or where they're at.

I hosted my friends this weekend in a lil house warming gig. Lol.

They talked about this guy called Dynamo, and how demonic he is because he levitates, and does other cool stuff that we'd normally term film trick. Well, I don't know much about him and I could care less. My observation when I mentioned that he might be a mystic is that this friend of mine just started calling devil and devilish o. That it is all demonic, that mystics are devilish people, that her pastor now told her this and that and that.

Well, in my mind, I knew my truth, but I had the wisdom not to spill it there...I felt it wasn't necessary.

But you see, someone you will share very intimate parts of you with deserves to be in the know. It may not matter that he doesn't dig the kind of stuff you dig, but it is good to be honest upfront about these things.

For me, I believe that there has to be that one person in the world whom I am true to. Different people have different views of me based on how I relate to them, but there is that one person, or maybe a little more than one who KNOW me. They know that I have no clearcut answer as to whether God exists or not. They know that I do not believe in casting out devils and all sort, they know that I am very divergent as regards my religious views....they know a lot, but He knows much more. He is the one person I am truly, truly myself around...sweeet, good, bad, ugly.

Now, he does not share all my views, I am sure most of it sounds tooooo spiritual for him, lol
But at least, he knows and accepts me, and I don't have to feel judged and all that.
It makes living fun.

I also agree, that despite having this awesome gift in human form, there are times it actually gets lonely. What helps me is talking about it to my other sweethearts, or better still, allowing myself go through that emotion and not fight it or want to quickly escape the feeling.

Sometimes, I feel like it is that deep part of me that's calling on me to come in, more like go within and spend sometime with it, and if I succumb, I find that I don't feel so lonely anymore. I realize there and then, that I am never alone. Even if the whole of humanity were to turn their back on me, I am never alone. It takes of change of mindset to grasp this truth.

So all the best rinrin24.
May your path be full of light and cheers.

Let me coman go to school cheesy
It actually feels so good to be back to a classroom again.

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Religion / Re: Freethinkers- Do You Ever Feel Lonely? by MizMyColi(f): 6:51am On Mar 04, 2018
Hi there @rinrin24.

I like the coherence with which you write.
I want to be like you when I grow up.
Lol.
grin

Okay, I can quite relate with your position.
I was once there.
Tell you what...

You should not feel afraid to express your truth to the one you love, and whom you believe loves you.
It takes bravery and courage to do so, but trust me, in the end, you will be better for it.

I have struggled with feelings of being partially accepted because of my spiritual path and orientation. It was until I came "clean" that I found peace and such inexplicable freedom within and without. Again, I will say you should not feel fearful hesitation to express your truth and until you can do that, please do not get married to him just yet. You want to avoid being termed a pretender and names like that wink

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Religion / Re: Freethinkers- Do You Ever Feel Lonely? by MizMyColi(f): 6:42am On Mar 04, 2018
superhumanist:
The path of the righteous is difficult and lonely.

It is normal to feel loneliness when you are different or in the minority.

This is why group meetings or associations are important.

Hi there,

Do you know of such groups?

Preferably WhatsApp, Telegram?
Religion / Re: Freethinkers- Do You Ever Feel Lonely? by MizMyColi(f): 6:40am On Mar 04, 2018
Seun:
Yes, I do feel lonely sometimes. Don't marry the person you want to spend your life with until he understands and fully accepts the new you.

The male to female ratio in the freethinker/atheist/humanist/agnostic/pantheist/deist community is very high, so you will find someone easily.

Hello Seun,

Supposing she is a Nigerian and living there, I do not quite agree with the emboldened, no - not in Nigeria.

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 10:29pm On Feb 28, 2018
jazzyjazz:
Rice and veggie sauce

Very delicious something

Mizmycoli and sansa143 come chop

embarassed
Diaris God.
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 10:28pm On Feb 28, 2018
zaynie:




Coach!!!!!
Comman see your student?
Later dey will say scale is lying grin
Hunniesuzzie see your bestie here
Jina24
Ammy5565
Bimsusy see your person
Ahmeen ...... grin
Babylove01
Mizmycoli shebi you sef dey chop fried rice when no be Sunday? grin all ye pretenders grin grin grin

Is only coach I wee nor mention. cheesy

Eh, mama, na basmati rice o, not our type of rice.
You will not blame me o.
Here, na only rice I fit chop.
And wheat bread...fries, fruits.

I don't know how I will start becoming used to Broccolli and Cauliflower.

No beans either. Imagine, no beans.
Please where there is no ewa, is that one a place.

Let me focus o, before they say I am pressing phone in class.

Coach
Abeg, na public apology I dey tender so.
I am still trying to adjust.

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 7:19pm On Feb 28, 2018
Daisy17:


Parboil the rice, that is, do not fully cook it. The rice will get fully cooked when you fry it.

Thank you.
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 5:27pm On Feb 28, 2018
jazzyjazz:


My sister I nor de use basmati rice cook o

But I guess you should cook the rice with little water first, don't let it get too soft. Add ya curry to the rice while it's on fire to give that famous color.
When e Don done, carry ya wok abi na vigilante frying pan, put small oyel fry ya veggies, you can add spices when frying but be careful not to add too much.

I always fry in batches

Thanks Sis.
Ehen, let me try this style later. Lmao @vigilante frying pan, you eh!
grin
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 8:18am On Feb 28, 2018
Please, how does one prepare fried rice with basmati rice. You know that type that will be looking loose on the plate, not like moi moi.

I had to use the oven to complete the cooking today, I would prefer using pot biko. This baking style nuh pure for my eyes.

All this oyibo style sef undecided

Jazzyjazz
Please help me call them, you sabi this kyn mata well.

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Religion / Re: Is Sex In Marriage Carnal? by MizMyColi(f): 12:52am On Feb 28, 2018
Emmanystone:

This is so not correct, at least from the stand point of the scriptures.
grin
Religion / Re: Is Sex In Marriage Carnal? by MizMyColi(f): 12:52am On Feb 28, 2018
Emmanystone:

Hahahahahahahaha. Kai. You just said exactly what my friend said. She even went further to demonstrate a doggy asking if that too was spiritual. She asked what was spiritual about kissing and her husband sucking her breast. Laf wan kee me.

My sis. Everything about Sex is Spiritual. That we enjoy it and moan doesn't make it sinful. No.

God intends that we enjoy it, that's the only way we can keep doing it to fulfill his commandment, 'Go into the world and multiply'.

lolzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Ehn.
We are saying same same nau.

All I was trying to say in that mischief post is that everything should not always be viewed with this lens of spirikoko, you get? I think that there's some physical aspect to sex. In fact, it is even the physical that helps us connect to the spiritual.

But seriously, maybe if I practice tantra, then I can be concerned about the spirituality of sex.

As for me, na the unspeakable enjoyment na him my brain dey reason. Wait, sometimes, it's like the brain is turned off.

Gosh.

Let me coman go to school abeg.
cheesy

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Religion / Re: Is Sex In Marriage Carnal? by MizMyColi(f): 12:11am On Feb 28, 2018
MuttleyLaff:
Want is not the same as do
One doesnt leave HRH in positions not to be pleased about

I'm just passing by.
grin
Religion / Re: Is Sex In Marriage Carnal? by MizMyColi(f): 12:06am On Feb 28, 2018
Emmanystone:

Why not have it during fasting? I believe sex in its entirety is Spiritual. You and i are on the same side. But, why not have it during fasting is my querry.

?

Mbanu.
I don't agree.
Sex can't be spiritual in it's entirety.

Pray tell, is moaning spiritual? cool
Religion / Re: Is Sex In Marriage Carnal? by MizMyColi(f): 12:04am On Feb 28, 2018
MuttleyLaff:
[img]https://s1/images/muttDuckEyed.jpg[/img]

Hehehehehehheehheheheehehehe

grin grin grin grin grin

I didn't even know you mentioned me sef.

I actually followed L oJ here, and I just felt like sounding mischievous.

So, how'd I do?

smiley
Religion / Re: Is Sex In Marriage Carnal? by MizMyColi(f): 7:03pm On Feb 27, 2018
Yes, it is carnal.
I agree.

People should not have sex in marriage.

Marriage is not meant for sex.

Sex in marriage, sorry, fasting, defies the matrimonial bed.

When you fast, you should not talk to your hubby either.

Remove your self from the world.

Oil and water don't mix.

The things of God and the things of man don't mix either.

You are either here or there.

No inbetweeners.

Jesus will spit you out!

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 10:12pm On Feb 20, 2018
sassysure:

Now,this is funny cheesy
Are u a writer?

I don't eat breakfast. Had been my tradition since when I was small. And I don't eat 3 times a day too.

Ah my dear, breakfast is serious business here o.
All my mentors keep urging me to eat breakfast.

I'm actually doing my bit of Weight Management, and since the past week I started eating breakfast, I find that I look fitter.

It could be that, or that I am more mobile.

Writer?
Naaaasmiley
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 10:03pm On Feb 20, 2018
J2381:
pictures, or we don't believe it. tongue

Hahahahahaha


Man pikin dey hurry for appointments, no space in my head to picture the food.
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 8:54pm On Feb 20, 2018
grin grin grin grin


Ma'am, for breakfast, I just chop 3 slices of Wheat bread, correct one o. I come mix am with fried egg with carrot and onion and green pepper. I come use one small cup of black tea with 55% reduced fat milk (na so dem write am for kom kom) dilute am. Ehn, I add small raw sugar o (the brown one). Very small smiley

Abeg, is that one healthy like that?
Good morning smiley


Jazzyjazz kiss

KanwuliaExtra:
SHYTE-HOLE-PEOPLE!
Una don skip breakfast again? grin
It is 7:18AM!

Mine is ready o! tongue
Oatmeal and tangerine. wink
Una dey wait to combine breakfast with lunch to save NAIRA? wink

Una still dey chop “left overs” from last night to continue “breakfast + lunch” aka BRUNCH? cheesy

Wey doz “I am not a breakfast pesin” poverty-line-level(PLL-PLC) group? tongue

Please, take notes for PRESENTATION! Don’t let your “Quacker-Oat” look like POOOOOOOOOOOO! cheesy

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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 11:09am On Feb 17, 2018
cheesy
daveP:
cause trouble cause trouble grin
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by MizMyColi(f): 5:19am On Feb 17, 2018
iomoge2:
COmman eat

Soft yam n garden egg sauce

Hi,

Can one use garden egg sauce to eat rice?

How to prepare please? wink
Phones / Re: Pls Be Careful Do Not Buy Tecno Phones Read My Reasons by MizMyColi(f): 9:43pm On Feb 16, 2018
Na wa oo.

Please stop the tarnishing.

Before that guy used dagger to collect my CAMON cX at lawanson, that's what I was using.

Because of my present location, I can't get a Tecno phone to work here, so I use Nokia.

Please CAMON CX is a very fine product.

You can take it to the bank.
I have used Xiaomi, LG, Tecno, and now, Nokia.

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Romance / Re: What Are Your Plans For This Valentine?? by MizMyColi(f): 11:44pm On Feb 13, 2018
zicoraads:

MizMyColi lipsrsealed cheesy

Issa Valentine eve jor. Limme grin tongue

It's already 14th feb 11:44am heregrin
Romance / Re: What Are Your Plans For This Valentine?? by MizMyColi(f): 7:59pm On Feb 13, 2018
zicoraads:

Ha!

You and my Mom would make a great pair tongue

I like them though. I'm a hopeless romantic, I think embarassed

I love those nights out, candle lit dinners, written notes, poems and the likes grin

Life is short anyway. So why not live it to the fullest cheesy

Yimu
Religion / Re: Why Generational Curses Still Affect Many Christians by MizMyColi(f): 6:35pm On Feb 13, 2018
Sarassin:
What we term “generational curses” are greatly misunderstood, very often these are egregious patterns of behaviour that have been perpetuated through a particular family’s ancestral bloodlines and then given form and essence. It is necessary to understand the underlying issues. For instance, in many homes it is easy to detect unreasonable and inexplicable anger, the occupants communicate amongst themselves with great anger and sometimes terrible language for no discernible reason, they are in fact inured to such behaviour, but, if you possess “second sight” then it is easy to glimpse the demonic entity of unreasonable anger sitting with pride of place in the home with a commanding overview of matters and simply draining the productive energies of such families. That is a “generational curse” and it is by no means the only form that it takes.

In some cases the damage is done inadvertently. One particular harrowing case was that of a woman who had been repeatedly sexually abused from a very young age by a close family member. In order that her young mind could cope with the terrible experiences she had endured, she had invented an “imaginary friend” at that young age, an alter ego that grew with her and vowed to “protect” her against all men, she had given it a name but as she grew older she found that she could neither have nor sustain relationships, nor could she rid herself of the malign influence, she would experience amongst other things, swellings and unexplained cuts on her body, the alter ego had in fact become a full blown demon of her own creation preventing her from having any male relationships whatsoever, according to her she eventually got married but paid a heavy price.

The lady in question had been to all the usual suspects for assistance with no resolution in sight. Suffice to say the entity was expunged with the use of the Clavicula Salomonis in a three hour ritual and before our very eyes the lady in question swelled in size and then, in an instant it was all over and for the first time for the best part of 40 years she was completely free of insidious influence.

But it did not end there, nature abhors a vacuum, a year later her son, hitherto a model student, committed suicide troubled by the same entity. These are some of the ways in which humanity either for the right or wrong reasons creates its own problems. Given the right motivation, we each have within us the ability to create and give life to the worst aspects of ourselves, these are in fact, aspects of generational curses.

Multiple thousand billion likes and shares cheesy
**********
NZ's a reality now.
Thank YOU smiley

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Religion / Re: In The Beginning There Was An End. by MizMyColi(f): 11:08am On Feb 05, 2018
Mujtahida:

I'm just seeing this now. I'm so sorry about the incidence. Glad you are safe. Be comforted. I hope you are good now


Hi Mujta.
I am very good now cheesy
Thanks for checking in on me.

I still use my palasa phone, but I am happy nonetheless cool

You?

How have you been?
Religion / Re: In The Beginning There Was An End. by MizMyColi(f): 1:24pm On Feb 01, 2018
LoJ:

Hello my dear,

I am very sorry for this experience of yours. I have not been online for sometime, only to come back and read this. The most important is that your life has not been taken, and you still have all you need to continue to move forward and upward.

I believe there is still a blessing hidden behind all negative circumstances, so take heart and move on. Have a great smile and be assured that Life has other great treasures for you, and it is not yet time.

Remain Blessed

Thank you so much dear.
I have been up and about trying to effect sims replacement and then possibly register for National ID.

A hearty so mote it be to your declaration.
Religion / Re: In The Beginning There Was An End. by MizMyColi(f): 1:14pm On Feb 01, 2018
Sarassin:


Really sorry to read this, it must have been a terrifying experience, just glad that you are safe and unhurt, items can be replaced. Hope you're back posting as soon as you can. All the best.

Many thanks to you. It was terrifying indeed.
This is the first I ever experience such all my life.

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