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Holyfield1: I'm not atheist. ![]() 2 Likes |
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rinrin23: If he does not have an iota of understanding, he will never accept you. You may wish for him to understand in a way that you expect and hope, you should know upfront that that may never happen, but it might as well! If he ticks all the other boxes and you actually feel happy and content with him, my dear...you know the drill. I think the whole idea of marriage is complementation, right? ![]() Because I am a spiritual person myself, I have always liked the idea of partnering with someone who is wayy higher than me, but guess what, most times, their spirituality is just about the only amazing stuff about them, in other aspects......not so cool. Well, I made my choice! Oh, and I feel that it is okay if he does not fullllyyyyyy understand, but at least allows you the freedom to explore your convictions and desire to BE more. 1 Like |
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rinrin23: Hi rinrin24, Morning ![]() It is good that you found something up there helpful. I can relate with the bit about not wanting to hurt others' feelings when you begin to express your truth. What I tell myself is that everyone must not know who I am. I am free to share aspects of me with people, depending on how I perceive them or where they're at. I hosted my friends this weekend in a lil house warming gig. Lol. They talked about this guy called Dynamo, and how demonic he is because he levitates, and does other cool stuff that we'd normally term film trick. Well, I don't know much about him and I could care less. My observation when I mentioned that he might be a mystic is that this friend of mine just started calling devil and devilish o. That it is all demonic, that mystics are devilish people, that her pastor now told her this and that and that. Well, in my mind, I knew my truth, but I had the wisdom not to spill it there...I felt it wasn't necessary. But you see, someone you will share very intimate parts of you with deserves to be in the know. It may not matter that he doesn't dig the kind of stuff you dig, but it is good to be honest upfront about these things. For me, I believe that there has to be that one person in the world whom I am true to. Different people have different views of me based on how I relate to them, but there is that one person, or maybe a little more than one who KNOW me. They know that I have no clearcut answer as to whether God exists or not. They know that I do not believe in casting out devils and all sort, they know that I am very divergent as regards my religious views....they know a lot, but He knows much more. He is the one person I am truly, truly myself around...sweeet, good, bad, ugly. Now, he does not share all my views, I am sure most of it sounds tooooo spiritual for him, lol But at least, he knows and accepts me, and I don't have to feel judged and all that. It makes living fun. I also agree, that despite having this awesome gift in human form, there are times it actually gets lonely. What helps me is talking about it to my other sweethearts, or better still, allowing myself go through that emotion and not fight it or want to quickly escape the feeling. Sometimes, I feel like it is that deep part of me that's calling on me to come in, more like go within and spend sometime with it, and if I succumb, I find that I don't feel so lonely anymore. I realize there and then, that I am never alone. Even if the whole of humanity were to turn their back on me, I am never alone. It takes of change of mindset to grasp this truth. So all the best rinrin24. May your path be full of light and cheers. Let me coman go to school ![]() It actually feels so good to be back to a classroom again. 4 Likes |
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Hi there @rinrin24. I like the coherence with which you write. I want to be like you when I grow up. Lol. ![]() Okay, I can quite relate with your position. I was once there. Tell you what... You should not feel afraid to express your truth to the one you love, and whom you believe loves you. It takes bravery and courage to do so, but trust me, in the end, you will be better for it. I have struggled with feelings of being partially accepted because of my spiritual path and orientation. It was until I came "clean" that I found peace and such inexplicable freedom within and without. Again, I will say you should not feel fearful hesitation to express your truth and until you can do that, please do not get married to him just yet. You want to avoid being termed a pretender and names like that ![]() 1 Like |
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superhumanist: Hi there, Do you know of such groups? Preferably WhatsApp, Telegram? |
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Seun: Hello Seun, Supposing she is a Nigerian and living there, I do not quite agree with the emboldened, no - not in Nigeria. 1 Like |
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jazzyjazz: ![]() Diaris God. |
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zaynie: Eh, mama, na basmati rice o, not our type of rice. You will not blame me o. Here, na only rice I fit chop. And wheat bread...fries, fruits. I don't know how I will start becoming used to Broccolli and Cauliflower. No beans either. Imagine, no beans. Please where there is no ewa, is that one a place. Let me focus o, before they say I am pressing phone in class. Coach Abeg, na public apology I dey tender so. I am still trying to adjust. 1 Like |
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Daisy17: Thank you. |
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jazzyjazz: Thanks Sis. Ehen, let me try this style later. Lmao @vigilante frying pan, you eh! ![]() |
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Please, how does one prepare fried rice with basmati rice. You know that type that will be looking loose on the plate, not like moi moi. I had to use the oven to complete the cooking today, I would prefer using pot biko. This baking style nuh pure for my eyes. All this oyibo style sef ![]() Jazzyjazz Please help me call them, you sabi this kyn mata well. 11 Likes
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Emmanystone: Ehn. We are saying same same nau. All I was trying to say in that mischief post is that everything should not always be viewed with this lens of spirikoko, you get? I think that there's some physical aspect to sex. In fact, it is even the physical that helps us connect to the spiritual. But seriously, maybe if I practice tantra, then I can be concerned about the spirituality of sex. As for me, na the unspeakable enjoyment na him my brain dey reason. Wait, sometimes, it's like the brain is turned off. Gosh. Let me coman go to school abeg. ![]() 1 Like |
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MuttleyLaff: I'm just passing by. ![]() |
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Emmanystone: ![]() Mbanu. I don't agree. Sex can't be spiritual in it's entirety. Pray tell, is moaning spiritual? ![]() |
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MuttleyLaff: Hehehehehehheehheheheehehehe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I didn't even know you mentioned me sef. I actually followed L oJ here, and I just felt like sounding mischievous. So, how'd I do? ![]() |
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Yes, it is carnal. I agree. People should not have sex in marriage. Marriage is not meant for sex. Sex in marriage, sorry, fasting, defies the matrimonial bed. When you fast, you should not talk to your hubby either. Remove your self from the world. Oil and water don't mix. The things of God and the things of man don't mix either. You are either here or there. No inbetweeners. Jesus will spit you out! 1 Like |
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sassysure: Ah my dear, breakfast is serious business here o. All my mentors keep urging me to eat breakfast. I'm actually doing my bit of Weight Management, and since the past week I started eating breakfast, I find that I look fitter. It could be that, or that I am more mobile. Writer? Naaaa ![]() |
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J2381: Hahahahahaha Man pikin dey hurry for appointments, no space in my head to picture the food. |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ma'am, for breakfast, I just chop 3 slices of Wheat bread, correct one o. I come mix am with fried egg with carrot and onion and green pepper. I come use one small cup of black tea with 55% reduced fat milk (na so dem write am for kom kom) dilute am. Ehn, I add small raw sugar o (the brown one). Very small ![]() Abeg, is that one healthy like that? Good morning ![]() Jazzyjazz ![]() KanwuliaExtra: 4 Likes |
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iomoge2: Hi, Can one use garden egg sauce to eat rice? How to prepare please? ![]() |
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Na wa oo. Please stop the tarnishing. Before that guy used dagger to collect my CAMON cX at lawanson, that's what I was using. Because of my present location, I can't get a Tecno phone to work here, so I use Nokia. Please CAMON CX is a very fine product. You can take it to the bank. I have used Xiaomi, LG, Tecno, and now, Nokia. 1 Like |
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zicoraads: Yimu |
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Sarassin: Multiple thousand billion likes and shares ![]() ********** NZ's a reality now. Thank YOU ![]() 3 Likes |
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Mujtahida: Hi Mujta. I am very good now ![]() Thanks for checking in on me. I still use my palasa phone, but I am happy nonetheless ![]() You? How have you been? |
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LoJ: Thank you so much dear. I have been up and about trying to effect sims replacement and then possibly register for National ID. A hearty so mote it be to your declaration. |
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Sarassin: Many thanks to you. It was terrifying indeed. This is the first I ever experience such all my life. |
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