Jkfc:


U are not man enough.. Why even take her to your friend's shop? Haven't you heard three is a crowd? Why didn't you take her where both of you can have quiet time(not your house, obviously) instead you took her to your friend's shop... shop oo... chaiii...what shall I not read on NL.

And instead of asking her where would you like us to meet, tell her let's meet at so xyz place, you cool?
Bro, you lack logistics and game

that was where she met me and that were she had come to ask of me most times and insisted on sitting there when I asked that we use somewhere else.

Do u want her to think I want something else? Dude it's what she asked that I gave her.

Besides, you have had you entertainment enough, aye?

NaeChris:
Why una no fit understand simple grammar? He said MOST meaning NOT ALL. Haba!! You don take hand condemn yourself when you aren't condemned.

no mind dem jare.

GodsLastBorn:
motherfuckers go back and read my initial post, I didn't complete it before u read it.
Nkwuocha made good points too, the thing is do you still want this girl bro? (though u have to subliminally not take her serious but don't let it show)

Well, wanting her? may be at least I don't hang out with any girl around here as a new person lol. It certainly wouldn't be bad idea to get company at some time.

Right now, there is rift already, a friction because of what happened on Friday... will calling her make her feel proud? or how would you handle it?

nkwuocha:


The best way to win this game is through patience,observation and a mind of your own.You may not know the level of jealousy displayed on whoever.If I had listened to my friends of yesteryear,I wont have married my wife today.Many of them till date are still complaining about women,unmarried still.

Establish your facts first by knowing what went wrong.This your lady friend may not want your relationship with the girl for several reasons.Yes!she may be the one to pave way,but hey thus women can ne cunny at times.There are instances when ladies will introduce their friends to a guy thinking its just a one time thing,and turn around to show jealousy once they noticed the relationship is moving towards commitment.

Talk to her,employ patience while at it.If she is trouble,drop her like it's hot.

Okay bro... I will do. Thanks a lot!

GodsLastBorn:
hei are you not supposed to represent that name "motherfucker"?
A motherfucker does not give a fk! yes you're vexed she didn't show up after she said she would and for the fact that u had to sub ur dish cos of the bush! Dude one thing u should know is never get angry at this little girls and their shortcomings and how can u do that? by not taking them serious! you're hurt now cos u took d gal serious n for whatever reason she acted a fooll in her on way (ur views). The best thing I ever did for myself is LOVE MYSELF, most of you don't love urselves much. Instead thinking of subscribing cos of d gal y don't u sub cos even though u ain't got time to watch t.v u can watch a little during weekends, doing it for u n not for a gal that's one of d reasons y ur feelings were hurt bro. If i invite a gal to come over n she doesn't I'll enjoy myself with whatever goodies I prepared or bought or call a side chick.
If u call a gal don't trust whether she's coming if u want to fk, check d time. If the supposed time is 30mins late then u hit up ur side chick ask her to come and if she's on d way then call the initial simple chick n tell her something came up that u got to go somewhere but if the initial simple chick comes first then u call d side chick and explain to her that something came up and to cement ur word u send her some mtn, airtel or whatever card and she would find it easier to chill.
Sometimes you make them invite themselves, they won't ask u directly but they can put it in DC ways like
Girl: where do u stay? I've never been to that place/area before..
You: Really? its nice, cool we though our electricity ain't all that but thank God for the generator. or One of the reason I like/moved to the place is cos they have constant electricity. You can come around..( put, IF YOU WANT if she seems laid back)

Matter if fact maybe you didn't pull ur game well based on how u approached her first, sometimes its better to make ursef or place interesting to a gal and entice her to come over. For e.g since you discovered she like watching movies you would have found out what kind of movies she was watching n ask her what d story line is and after shes tru then u can say something like I watched a movie that has similar storyline on movie afric, African magic, MBC, movie3 or whatever channel she might be into and go on to say u plan to watch a movie d u programmed on ur decoder by ?? p.m (but don't sound cocky or pompous or like ur boasting) then like a chicken head she is, she will be interesting to know what kind of movies, channels, house, apartment and other things u got and if ur house is cool (Every G is supposed to make his house, room, selfcon or whatever look awesome, sweet and comfortable for u first before the gals. they love that). Her mind be like, if I go down with this guy I can get to stay at his home and see movies all day and do other shitt even invite my friends over (they love that too believe me) when he goes to work and bam she's at ur home and next time she's likely to sleep over or come over for the weekend bro. Hope u peeped game here though, more punnies to u

Thank bro. Seriously since it was first time and knowing how girls take first visit, I decided not to pressure her on that to be honest. That was why when I called for the visit, I always asked, "where will you like us to meet" You see? giving her the choice to choose her comfort zone... i didn't say meet me at so and so place.

Thanks for your time jare, the deed is done already and I will find a way to calm down as my bro nkwuocha had advised.

Ahmiee:
no need quoting you, you as confused as ur moniker

no, i am broke. ode

GodsLastBorn:
hei are you not supposed to represent that name "motherfucker"?
A motherfucker does not give a fk! yes you're vexed she didn't show up after she said she would and for the fact that u had to sub ur dish cos of the bush! Dude one thing u should know is never get angry at this little girls and their shortcomings and how can u do that? by not taking them serious! you're hurt now cos u took d gal serious n for whatever reason she acted a fooll in her on way (ur views). The best thing I ever did for myself is LOVE MYSELF, most of you don't love urselves much. Instead thinking of subscribing cos of d gal y don't u sub cos even though u ain't got time to watch t.v u can watch a little during weekends, doing it for u n not for a gal that's one of d reasons y ur feelings were hurt bro. If i invite a gal to come over n she doesn't I'll enjoy myself with whatever goodies I prepared or bought or call a side chick.
If u call a gal don't trust whether she's coming if u want to fk, check d time. If she wa

Thanks man.. I owe you much. God bless your brain!

nkwuocha:



You're getting all worked up unnecessarily.That her friend that told you Shiites about this lady,how sure she didn't say shittes about you tooThat's why I don't listen to third parties,I only hear their opinions.
Shebi na the babe been come find you for the guy shop?Same girl wanted to see you even sooner than you expected.The question should be asked,"who dey try put sand sand for my garri?"
You're quick to anger too.If you follow what women does with anger and not diplomacy,you will make a lot of mistakes.

Bros, I SWEAR, your words dey enter my head... but I will tell you one thing... I was never born to be quick to anger, in fact I am slower than snail with it when it came to that but I later realised in life that people will run over you if you give them the privilege to. I have had so much tales that I tend to even displease myself and please others while they hurt me so badly for my own stupidity because nature is all about "ME FIRST" I didn't realise it on time due to my inexperience.

Yes, my elder sister had complained about my anger but that isn't the real me, what you see is what life has turned me into

nkwuocha:


That's why many of you make mistakes despite showing wiseness.Simply because you don't understand women.The few men that understand women are the ones that knows well how to deal with them,either for good or bad.From what the op put up there,its clear that this lady is a very gullible one,the friend may even the wolf in sheepskins.Yes!She didn't call back,its not okay but finding out the reason why should be what the op should be concerned about.Its clear she likes the op,at least to a level that's enough for something worthwhile to happen,but there may be circumstances that may have caused the whole problems.

We do not know what her friend may also be telling her concerning the op.If I'm the lady in question and my friend tells me to stay away from his male casual friend,I will definitely react the way the lady did.I may not even give him an explanation.

Look,communication is one important thing in ALL relationships.Until the op find out the reason for the lady reaction,he shouldn't rule her out outright.

I will take your advice and calm down... The issue here is that I have had enough with these girls and I won't want to go another round with another, if not for sake of God, I would gladly live my life without them or adopt if it comes to that( the sad part is there is nothing like your own).

concerning the emoboldened, the friend told me personally to be careful of her ( they stay together) and not put all my mind or trust on her because of the way she behaves. She personally told me that she had advised the girl several times to mind the way she hang out with men that will never benefit her. The funniest thing before God and man was that I didn't believe her wholly; I thought after the first call, they had quarrel and so, she decided to spoil what she had arranged out jealousy.

You should have asked where I knew the friend and WHY she selflessly agreed to hook us.

HERE is the thing... that friend did all that because when she came from the east and had no place to sleep, we sheltered her for months until she decided it was time to move out... no quarrel and in those time, she knows me well and there were a few times I bought some stuff as a family so they can feel at home. That is how I treat people generally EXCEPT they abuse the privilege.

But I will take your advice, calm down and take everything calmly.

As you can see, she unknowingly confirmed what I had been warned earlier on...

Fourwinds:
did I hear u say right.? sometimes I keep wondering d number of people dat take a defence at this....now what stops her from calling d OP and inform him her change of plan.? example: She can just say please bear with me I will not be able to come to ur place....which is good..



and then again d shameless idiot couldn't even do dat and she went back to were she met OP earlier to continue her fanzy over d movie she was watching....can u see d stupidity d girl's way of life. there is something we call "Courtesy"

bro, they don't know what I am saying, They fail to realise girls are reading this and tomorrrow, they will have the nerve to do it on another brother because "some men don't see anything wrong in it"

The worse is they see me as being immature because i refused to accept the slap on my face. Several years ago, an ex did this same nonsense and I overlooked it. NOT ANYMORE!

nkwuocha:


Quit your rants Mr man.You're very very immature to say the least.If you can get easily agitated by a woman not turning up as promised,then I must confess you need some growing up to do.

Have you discussed this issue with her?Not like confrontation but a one to one discussion about her actions?

bros, it is not the issue of not turning up at my place that is the problem here... if she was playing safe with because she does not know me as some people opined earlier, why did she promise to come back and give the other guy her number and she kept her words. It is being disrespected that is the issue here.

Did i even bother to call her after the day she promised to come ? NO, SHE EVEN CALLED ME A TWICE on thursday and by friday she is giving the other guy audience because of what? PHONE? NA PHONE cause THIS BRO. I am using Q5, not like I can't afford to get a better phone but I have some things that needs money and i told myself i will not buy another phone till I am done. she concluded that my phone is representation of my pocket without knowing me. She also think I am just a friend there not knowing I am a customer to one of them there as a regular buyer.

A girl who wants to play hard to get does not act that way, a girl who does not want to act cheap does not promise a guy like that her number on second visit considering she came to ask of me from same dude.

But I get it, she wins, I lose, I am not worth it...i am immature. If a slap on your face is considered maturity, i don't want to be that kind of mature or what impression do you think that dude would have after the whole thing played out?

imma2:
I sit here wondering why you expect an illogical gender to behave in a logical way.

You have a lot to learn. Trust me.

lmaooooo... bros, i know they are illogical beings,including those forming boss on here and only a few of them will admit that they don't understand themselves but despite that, I never expect this one to announce her abnormality so quick

Ahmiee:
baseless story of a broke ass nigga .

This just came in while chatting with u here and i have not slept since 12 AM ( when you were probably dreaming of cumming on a coock)