Hello AbyDee ,
Don't be carried away. if your husband contributes 2 house running,does not beat u,stopped clubing,then u have 2 appreciate him. Maybe u are saying he is not romantic enough.But come 2 think of it, U are looking 4 a room /reason 2 start extra marital affairs.
See the basic fact guys will pretend they love u more than ur husband but they just want u 4 the fun of it . I know of many women that have taken this path and 2day they are single mothers without any man. Men just come 2 eat from the honey pot and run.U BETTER BUILD UR HOME. FIND WAYS 2 PULL UR HUSBAND CLOSE 2 U .
Please permit me 2 say that ur husband is a regular guy but u are on the groovy side and  ur body inch 4 man  every now and then.u have 2 work hard 2 make him come around and be as romantic as u want.  Don't consider extra marital affairs as an option else u end regretting.

Hello faraday62 ,
Its a pity things turned out that way .However u should ask urself this question. why did u go into the marriage? did u go in 4 love or did u go in for baby making? or did u go in 4 both? if u went in 4 love then u both can go 4 adoption.If however, u went into it 4 baby making then u should have allowed her 2 get pragnant b/4 going 2 the alter.
However all hope is not lost. since she lied about her age ,no body can call u wicked for any action u take. ços its ur life.but b/4 u think of another woman ,ask ur self this question: is she a perfect woman? is baby making the only issue u have with ur wife? if baby making is the only issue then u can go for IVR it is now available in Nigeria.