Here we go again....
What do you mean what is she bringing to the table?

Is it no longer sufficient to be a stay at home mum? Do you guys think its easy combining the rigours of child bearing with work?

Or you now want a visionary wife who will put work and academic pursuits ahead of childcare?

Can you guys stop being confused?

Sanchez01:

1. If all we need is a woman to give us children, we could as well lean towards baby mamas.
2. If all we need is a woman to wash our clothes, we can as well get for ourselves a laundry machine while we remain single.
3. If it was for food alone, most males out there devote time to worshipping the kitchen.
4. If it was just someone to welcome, I could choose to never leave my parents house since I'd be returning to them and other family members everyday.
5. And if it was someone to share my problems with and seek advice, I may as well lean towards my buddies since they know me inside out, or possibly book an appointment with a counselor.

It is really beyond these things. The role of a woman is not to give births as pigs while you use their remains to decorate your home like a trophy won in 1975.

Please can u kindly state wat u want from ur wife beyond these things...

MrHighSea:
Maybe true. My lovely cusin before before, whom u dere not hurt even wen i'm nt around, played dt pranks on me, we av nt done dt even in our childhood. She made me trek appr. 2km under sun. She said she was coming to our place and was short on t-fare and kinda lost since she took a diff route, I was damned busy at home. I will be calling for her to exercise patience. Behold, i arrived our rendevous point, she was nt there. I phoned her, she said april fool. I was nt vex nor shouted. Just told her what you av done will affect us negatively for a long time. Happened in 2013, till date, I have zero cousin feelings for her. She keeps complaining. We dnt just connect anymore. I feel for her sometimes. I find it difficult to place her where she belong. No care. She got admission, got a job, got a fiance. I'm d first to know these things even wen the bf almost slept wit her. I even share her monthly pain wit her even wen i'm in the east n she south. I know she z weeping but...d last person dt loose my trust wen I was 7 have nt gained in back. I told my gf, MY MUM GOT MY TRUST BAK-BAK and me hers and I am willing to die for her. I dnt knw, i dnt forget things. Wat sort of person am i, I am afraid...

Yours is extreme jare.

The beauty of a man is .... The beauty of a woman is her character

Op, your life dey inside bottle, baby oku bottle to be precise...

@op, you made reading the story very difficult. Very poor writing.

Sorry your intentions cannot be camouflaged by the disclaimer.


That aside, so any lady who changes her mode of dressing cos she's searching was once a harlot? Quite a myopic point of view, don't you think??

A bleep that has been given has been given..

Ladies una don hear, dust your asses, pick up what's left of your pride and move the hell on!

When next you feel like giving up the cookie, just remember this thread. These dudes ain't loyal.

In Craig David's voice...
I'm walking away, from the troubles in my life...

2 minutes....
By the way, Wtf is a receiving lady

Confront her and get her response, what's the confusion about?

Hadez:
89% of guys will always try something funny

Make dt 99 percent

Oshee!

Which Kain ruff play be that? And by d way, that first bf becomes 'EX'. Unto the next abeg.

Wetin nyt call do NCC?

Lezzlie:
Nice try, darl!!
But you and I know you aren't married!
Don't ask me how I know.
Don't push too hard, Allah has a way of unknotting puzzles.

Lezz... Lolz.... Ever the Charmer.

Abeg be flexible a little,
So If d wife isn't home to serve his food, d husband will not eat?

I don't like you.... I bring my friend... You code, you buzz off.

lezz:
A man's first and primary responsibility is to provide for his family. This is instinctively ingrained in every man!

A woman's natural disposition is to nurture and groom the home.

I see no qualms preparing bread toast and tea for my wife when she's a little I'll or having a lazy morning in bed. Or when she's having pregnancy associated weakness. And on weekends, I'll love her to watch me cook a tomato sauce.

Similarly, it'll be a small relief if she does a little domestic expensive that skipped my mind like power bills or paying for a fixed electronics or the like.

There's no absolutism in spousal responsibilities.

I understand you.... And totally agree with you.
The
problem I have is that most guys want to marry a super woman who supports them in every possible aspect (financially, spiritually and otherwise), that they won't support in doing her own responsibilities.

I once asked if husbands should help the wife with her responsibilities around the house, the reply I got was.. I shouldnta expect him to, but should be grateful if he does..

I'm giving OP the same response.. You shouldn't expect her to help with your financial responsibilities, but if she does, be grateful.

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Just because of woman...

manners

How early? 1 week? 2weeks?
If it was this early, then probably the lady didn't believe you.

Hmmm, this thread was really fun to read thru...

Lolz.... Kudos to cococand.y, freecoco.a and all the other vibrant ladies(and guys) who gave OP a run for his money.

Blueeyedboi:
Just tell him you're a lesbian...he'll disappear into thin air I tell ya..

Lai lai! This one won't work.

ronald4lif:


Hehe. But if he tells you there won't be any dinner dates and spendings from him will you stay?

The whole point of the story is to make him disappear.

About dudes u've been with, ladies, pick a numba and stick with it. Gud luck. .

Always better to lie about that.

CINDY74:
i just can't thank you enough. thanks so much for ur advice. But i just wanna know from now till when I'll be...may be 25 or 26yrs its gonna increase right?

Only pregnancy (or divine intervention) can change that.

CINDY74:
haa! that was so mean.

Oh please! Ignore him. I don't think he's serious.

I think you should shower your affection/attention on someone else... If she comes after you, fine, if she doesn't, good, atleast you are outta Friendzone.

That Friendzone shii kills like cancer.