jason123: OP
Most what you read here are from a woman's point of view except this:



The key word is: DO YOU TAKE TO CORRECTION WHENEVER YOU HAVE YOUR TALKS WITH HIM? As a guy, it can be frustrating when you have to correct your spouse especially after you two have been together for so long . . .it would seem as if you are deliberately trying to frustrate him.

Woman, your husband LOVES you! Take that from me! Now, he wants you to love him back by not frustrating him. Once he corrects you, take it to heart and work on it. I am sure when he sees your "EFFORT" in that aspect, he will not touch you again, not to talk of beat you! If you think he does not love you and you move out or do shakara. Trust me, MANY other women will take your place and actually work on themselves to make their him happy!

About working to start contributing to the home: It does not change a thing! If you try to frustrate him by not taking to correction or talk back because you now earn, he will be more frustrated! Be a submissive woman and he will shower you with more love! God bless!

Remember, he loves you o! Don't ruin your marriage! Take care and may the Lord give you wisdom!

maclatunji: OP, I think you are looking for attention. Did you tell us when you were marrying her?

harakiri: I am neither married or engaged but i can tell you this. . .When you open up everything to a woman, you should be man enough to take the backlash. Dude, WOMEN TALK ALL THE TIME! ! ! The only confidential information a woman is capable of keeping to herself is damaging information about herself e.g

(1)She didn't graduate from school and has a fake degreee
(2)She has had at least one dozen abortions before she met you
(3)She still loves her ex and they communicate often
(4)She had a child at the age of 17 that is being taken care of by her parents
(5)She has contracted STD's several times before she met you
(6)Etc

These are the ONLY types of secrets a woman is capable of keeping. If you tell her how much you earn, be rest assured that all your in-laws know how much you earn. If you are having issues with your own relatives, be rest assured that her people already have that info. If your "thing" doesn't work right, be rest assured that they already know (especially her mother). If you're broke, they know. If you came home on easter night drunk, they know.

Point is, do not reveal any info to a woman that you wouldn't want shared to third parties because THEY WILL ALWAYS TALK! Just do your best to manage the situation and talk less and less about sensitive issues.

Nuff said!

ifyalways: How did you make this "millennium discovery" and what secret did she leak to her family?

So you wanna divorce your wife because she talked to her family?why are you too secretive btw?why all the hush hush and why do you think your wife or her family might think of killing you?

What really is eating you up?the earlier you come out clean to your wife, the better for you. However, your wife too should know that some things are not meant for extended family ears.

Kechybee: Dis story is complete crap. Dats's all I can say. Cos if I say more about dat mean Kelvin, pple won't believe it. Let's stop at dat. Ogoo is late already.

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How come everyone now knows KELVIN but dont want 2 talk U didn't do anything to HELP or SAVE OGO when she was alive.
PROPAGANDA NIGERIA PLC.


All these argument/propaganda wont bring her back!!!
Let Move On.
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Efemena_xy:

No Sir, I don't get it - so I'm hoping you'll enlighten me?

And you still haven't answered my question - I'll rephrase the questions but using your own words:

* As the child, would you want your mother's spouse to refer to you as baggage that would scatter the house in future?

* As the child, would you want your mother to return you to your father (if he's still alive)
As the child, would you want your mother to make let you stay with your grandparents then your mother would pay you the ocassional visit if she so wishes?

* As the child how would you feel being refered to as "another man's child"?

Pls remember that [b]no child [/b]in this world asked to be born. It is the responsibility of the parents to look after the child - and not pass them off from pillar to post like an unwanted shoe. Moreover the mother needs to nuture and suckle her young one(s).

Efemena_xy:

Easier said than done.

Put yourself in the child's shoes. Would you want to be separated from your mother? Would you want your mother to give you up in favour of an intended spouse?

Tgirl4real:

No way. It's either the two of us or nothing.

lamiiii: For someone that has a PHd one would think he would @ least do his research properly Endometrosis doesn't mean fluid in the lungs. And for someone who isn't guilty why go thru this kind of stress to prove urself I mean 40 points is a tad bit much. Why disclose every penny spent on her after all you took the vow "in sickeness and in health" so this Kevin guy should go and lock up

javijabor: HELLO, PLEASE CAN YOU POST THE VIN LET ME DO A LOOK UP BEFORE COMING FOR PHYSICAL INSPECTION AND IM STILL WAITIN FOR THE INTERIOR PIX.

javijabor: can it go for 500k and can you post more interior pix

Miroslav klose: if i have 800K and i love altima, i would go for ur ride than pay even 500k for a used altima.

Max price for the cleanest maxima a friend bought is 490K

NaJoke2000:

This Car is Good Condition.
My brother , 600k is a good deal.