what do you guys think of Long distance relationships? I've been in one for years and I lie not, I'm tired of it, coupled with the fact that the guy does not call or keep in touch often. so it just goes on to feel like i just have a friend that's in Jand.
I want out, but i almost dunno how to tell him,
whadya think?

It doesn't always work!!!

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It doesn't always work!!!

some of them that works are 1 in 10,000 chances

Presumably.

how many more years do you have to waste or play with? if he is not calling when it is so cheaper to call you now then something is wrong somewhere. this is probably why you have 2 legs and 2 eyes

If he doesn't call or text often,then you should get out.
Long-distance relationships rarely work,but when they do there must be total commitment on both sides,and very constant communication.
Remember communication is the key.Once that factor is dead,get out fast o.

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could you add the link to such threads?

seablu:

what do you guys think of Long distance relationships? I've been in one for years and I lie not, I'm tired of it, coupled with the fact that the guy does not call or keep in touch often. so it just goes on to feel like i just have a friend that's in Jand.
I want out, but i almost don't know how to tell him,
whadya think?

It requires extra work and effort, u really must have to trust someone far away from u,

A log distance relationship usually doesn't last.

Abeg find your way out of the so called relationship. Abi of what use is a friend in JAND who is thousands of miles away ?
But if you can find your way there, then there is still hope.

It works for very few. since the guy doesn't keep in touch often, ma girl check out. one of ma friends is keeping a long distance relationship too but they are doin well, they talk everyday and he comes home once in a while, they are planning to get married soon but oyinbo's no gree giive ma friend visa. So girl time will not rewind, both of u should discuss it and tell him wat u feel. u don dey old o!

its bad neva works too full of mistrust and most probably disappointment its either d wholr enchilada or nada

It rarely works, if you can't handle it, then don't try it.

listen up y'all long distance relationship works like hell, its just an individual thing cos' am guilty of it enjoying mine for 6 years so i see no reason why it doesnt work it makes the relationship stronger meen.i think the two of you need to hang on to the fact that you got an aim and goal to chase.let me just drop this into ya head keep in touch always no matter how busy you could be,even if u get busy it souldnt last for 2 days without calling back.if you wanna make it count dont break the rules.peace.[color=#990000][/color]

It doesnt work believe me. You guys can be great buddies and leave room for friendship "upgrade" when u are still far apart. then when you guys are closer to one another, you can start the relationship proper.

But it's all sh*it. . . . . . . Even relationship with close proximity still sucks, talkless of a long distance one

sillyboy:

It doesnt work believe me. You guys can be great buddies and leave room for friendship "upgrade" when u are still far apart. then when you guys are closer to one another, you can start the relationship proper.

But it's all sh*it. . . . . . . Even relationship with close proximity still sucks, talkless of a long distance one

Exactly!

I bail out of long distance thingy, looks like u are dating an invisible person. Ur imaginative spirit need to be at work here. Lots of imagination to do. And a strong mind too.

I ve experienced it before, it doesnt work

It works.
It doesnt work.
There is no known recipe/rule here.just like everything in lyfe,we take risks and hope for the best.i have seen long distance affairs lead to marriage,i have seen some crash like a pack of cards.whatever,it is for matured minds,lots of patience and trust,Honesty is a must if it MUST work.

It works.
It doesnt work.
There is no known recipe/rule here.just like everything in lyfe,we take risks and hope for the best.i have seen long distance affairs lead to marriage,i have seen some crash like a pack of cards.whatever,it is for matured minds,lots of patience and trust,Honesty is a must if it MUST work

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Hey. In Life there are some "supposed risk" that are really not worth it and taking them just amount to simple stupidity. If you consider long distance relationship a risk, then my dear, it sure pass as stupidity.

If you would be quite honest pal, would you mind if u compare the numbers of those that worked out as against those that did not? the result should be self convincing.

Hey
this is soooooo helpful
will let you know what I've decided when I do

it simply depends on the objects involved in it

i can handle a long distance relationship.

i guess itt's good for me.

@Poster!
It can work and it will work!