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Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by Nobody: 4:34pm On Apr 17, 2010 |
Sagamite: You got it bro, that's why you see some single ladies at 30+ out there. They've used their youth age to do rubbish. |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by Orikinla(m): 4:35pm On Apr 17, 2010 |
Believe it or not, no man thinks he is ugly. Well in most cases, what makes a man handsome is how he presents himself socially. You can be as handsome as you can be or afford to. Have you seen any ugly rich man? If you want to marry a good looking man, you will get one if you know how to get him. Most handsome men do not even bluff women unlike the pretty women. |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by platinumnk(f): 4:41am On Apr 18, 2010 |
sofeco:no its not. you people should leave the bad women alone and look for quality women. after chasing after the women who chase after "bad boys" you then castiage all women. Sounds like bitterness. |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by Sagamite(m): 10:23am On Apr 18, 2010 |
platinumnk: Because a girl is going after bad boys does not mean she is a bad girl. She might be a good person but is just dumb/naive and more of a thrill-seeker, or what I personally call drama-hunter. Most girls under 24 are drama-hunters, if you go further down (U-21), then you can easily say the vast majority are. They are most likely looking for the guy with the funky hair, "I don't care attitude" and evidence of "all my life is spent in the gym - see my biceps". My profile was more of spending time in the library (although chics dey library too o, but at least I spend 10% of the time studying ![]() ![]() Then when they start growing up (late 20s to early 30s), they realise "OK, the drama relationship is risque-fun and is all good when you are young but it is not that appealling on the long term. The pain involved is more damaging than fun and my future kids should not go hungry because baby-father has a lot of mouths to feed and alot of concurbines to maintain on his low income even if he is not dead-beat dad". So they start looking for good, responsible man. The worst thing is when they now want a short relationship and are now in a hurry for marriage. Within the first month of wooing/talking, they have already somehow thrown it in the mix a question about your marriage plans or told you straight up their [rather short] timetable of marriage so that you better go and put down the deposit for the engagement ring the next morning. And the same retired drama-hunter would now label the good boy as "irresponsible", "immature" and "selfish" if he is not inclined to the fire brigade wedding or not even thinking of marriage. ![]() Most girls are at the prime of their looks in their youth (17-25), after 25, for most, it starts being a bit more of a hard-work to maintain that shape, glow and plumpness. So she gives all that to a bad boy, and expect the good guy to give her his own prime. ![]() Note: I am not saying anythin do girls above 25 o or that they are less worthy as partners, I am just stating the unseen dynamism of society the way I love to drop it like its hot. ![]() sofeco: There are some girls that have genuinely been disappointed by "good" guys they have committed to. Basically, the guys turnout not to be as goody as any reasonable person would have assumed. Or some girls realising late that there is no compatibility or the relationship wore out over time. But I still do think a substantial proportion were drama-hunters. |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by silentc(m): 10:41am On Apr 18, 2010 |
Sagamite: Man you are spot on! This is my personal experience too. Girls who kept on saying no to me while I was in University now keep calling me wanting a relationship and to settle down with me. But on the flip side, some girls stick with their men through university and the guys dumped them after school when they started getting on in life. |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by Sagamite(m): 10:51am On Apr 18, 2010 |
silentc: Anuofia to them! ![]() silentc: Although each individual case is different, there are some useless, cold and hopeless guys in this world. |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by mayboy81(m): 11:01am On Apr 18, 2010 |
I guess you guys are making a good point here, But I never looked down on myself each time a girl turned me down because of my present predicament. I always believe in my self because I know am going somewhere and I think every guy should have this character if you really wants to get there. Come to think of it, where are those Big girls when we were in secondary school? How about those ones that stole the shows when we were growing up? Like 60% of them are still strugling with their lifes right now. I always look back and give thanks to God for how far he has taken me. Though am not yet there but I have the assurance that more is to come. I think every gurl should realise the power of building a future with a guy, Would you now expect me to dump someone that has been with me when I was nobody for someone I don't even know why she wants me?, Mennnnn, I can't shout ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by polynesian(f): 11:44am On Apr 18, 2010 |
lmao @ sagamite, ur funny |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by platinumnk(f): 12:35pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
@sagamite you prose is exactly what Im saying for your standards im barely in my 20s , under 25 and i can give a twats end about marriage, i have higher goals in life to just "settle" its appaling to hear even supposedly scholarly people attain that a womans prime is past 25 and that her main aim is to marry and have babies. dam i must be an alien. anyway you say the girls who chase bad boys are dumb or clueless, then you are the one that clue them in abi? i say you are no better that the chicks who chase after bad boys, the chicks are after the flash and u sir are after their pretty faces, after all what kinda head would u want in a girl who values flash and cash over anything else? do you know why i say this? I USED to be THAT girl in the libary! for every chick u see chasing, there is that chick in the library working hard. U guys can tell yourselves what you want, thus is my personal dibs! |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by Sagamite(m): 1:00pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
platinumnk: Let me put it this way, sweetie: What I said is that most woman are at their aesthetic prime within those ages (not at intellectual or any other thing else as you might have misinterpreted it). You can moan all you like, you can throw all the tantrums you like, you can scream sexism all you like, you can call me a misogynist from morning till night, you can run outside screaming about the virtues of political correctness if you wish, that is a fact. That is Biology. I don't recall saying a woman's aim should be to marry and have babies before 25. I have read my posts again. You do look human though. ![]() platinumnk: They are free to give their prettiness or not, I am free to give my giro/welfare cheques or not. ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by mayboy81(m): 1:03pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
I think you guys are taking it personal now, he he he he!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by Sagamite(m): 1:11pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
mayboy81: Nah! ![]() People that know me know I have always been a bizarre mix of abrasive and facetious in my posts. ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by platinumnk(f): 8:20pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
@saga- There are lots of women who can prove to you that their aesthetic prime is NOT 25. Please check your facts again. and you seem to be in cohorts with the other conspirators who attain that women waste their youth on "bad boys" and then they are itching to marry after their "prime" is used up. ![]() I STILL say you guys are no better than the women here you are trying to berate, the only difference is that the object is different. For every girl that you whine over that chases flash and cash, there is one who is the exact opposite. You guys should quit whining, ![]() mayboy81: Tryna break the generalizations dude ![]() Because Saga lusted after bimbos ![]() ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by platinumnk(f): 8:24pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
Based on what I read on this site, I am rightly justified to turn myself in to Area 51 as an alien ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by safeact(m): 8:45pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
What is ur definition of finenes? Is it in terms of acquisition of wealth which is i am perceiving here and in general, u girls definition of luv too. The level of a guys richness is d same level where his finenes reached! This is to analyse how much u will give a guy thus ur condition of luv. GUYS, UNA DON HEAR AM, IF U WANT TO BE CLASSIFIED AS A FINE BOY, U MUST HAVE MONEY, EVEN IF U ARE A ONE LEGGED MAN. Lol |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by Sagamite(m): 9:33pm On Apr 18, 2010 |
platinumnk: You no fit fight biology. A vast majority of women have the greatest potential of being at their aesthetic best in their youth. That is not saying once a woman is over-25 she is then ugly. There are tons of women over-25 that are hawt. But I repeat, the vast majority of women, according to BIOLOGY and the exception is so negligible it is safe to ignore, have greatest potential of being at their aesthetic best in their youth. In youth, it is effortless for a woman to maintain a fine figure and everything is plump and fresh. ![]() ![]() BI-O-LO-GYYYYY ![]() ![]() platinumnk: Me, I am not ashamed of my preferences o. ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by platinumnk(f): 6:34am On Apr 19, 2010 |
Sagamite: Shupppp ![]() ![]() ![]() Take your botched science and shove it ![]() Just glad to hear you admit you like bimbos which disqualifies your complaints and all your brethen who are he-hawing it with you! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Ladies: What Do You Think Of Women Who Are Married To Handsome Men by na2day2(m): 7:24pm On Apr 19, 2010 |
mayboy81: i owe u serious suya! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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