To all those that has helpt this guy in one way or the other i will like to say thank you once again on his behalf.i have not experienced it but i understands how it feels to be discriminated by people and also been an orphan.God bless you @ all. and for you that they have just helpt never you 4get that in future.

Thanks so much for your concern,i didn't know it will turn out this way. i believe God has a way of helping every man may be this d way he has chosen to help me. Many spend money to called me, even when i can't hear what they were saying, they did not get angry at me. I'm grateful. I do not have low self-esteem as some said, if you were in my state. There is no way it will not tell on your psychic, may be that reflected in d way i sounded but it's not low self-esteem. The mere feeling that i'm a graduate will never let that set in. Again, i wasn't coherent. I was always making effort to correct impressions. I'm confident, i can do well verbally. Just imagine the way i handle some (present and past tense) words all was because of my psychological state. Notwithstanding, the person that i called in abj told me, he is accommodating someone at the moment, but if i finally get the offer he will contact someone that can help me, atleast for the first one month. Pls don't turn your back at me. I will not let u down. I will be the most foolish person on earth to mishandle any opportunity giving to me.

^^^^^^^^^
well done. God bless. aisha will keep us posted.

Thanks so much for your concern,i didn't know it will turn out this way. i believe God has a way of helping every man may be this is the way he has chosen to help me. Many spend money to called me, even when i can't hear what they were saying, they did not get angry at me. I'm grateful. I do not have low self-esteem as some said, if you were in my state. There is no way it will not tell on your psychic, may be that reflected in d way i sounded but it's not low self-esteem. The mere feeling that i'm a graduate will never let that set in. Again, i wasn't coherent. I was always making effort to correct impressions. I'm confident, i can do well verbally. Just imagine the way i handle some (present and past tense) words all was because of my psychological state. Notwithstanding, the person that i called in abj told me, he is accommodating someone at the moment, but if i finally get the offer he will contact someone that can help me, atleast for the first one month. Pls don't turn your back at me. I will not let u down. I will be the most foolish person on earth to mishandle any opportunity giving to me.

menek:

Thanks so much for your concern,i didn't know  it will turn out this way. i believe God has a way of helping every man may be this d way he has chosen to help me. Many spend money to called me, even when i can't hear what they were saying, they did not get angry at me. I'm grateful. I do not have low self-esteem as some said, if you were in my state. There is no way it will not tell on your psychic, may be that reflected in d way i sounded but it's not low self-esteem. The mere feeling that i'm a graduate will never let that set in. Again, i wasn't coherent. I was always making effort to correct impressions. I'm confident, i can do well verbally. Just imagine the way i handle some (present and past tense) words all was because of my psychological state. Notwithstanding, the person that i called in abj told me, he is accommodating someone at the moment, but if i finally get the offer  he will contact someone that can help me, atleast for the first one month. Pls don't turn your back at me. I will not let u down. I will be the most foolish person on earth to mishandle any opportunity giving to me.

You are welcome i wish i can assist you financially but i cant for am only a student dont worry God that has started it must surely finish it in your life. Have faith in him.

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[bthis is perphas  d most silly comment i have made and mite b d silliest ever. i study human behaviour, i discover d following 4rm d poster
1. this whole stuff would be a scam but i dont know d motive behind it
2. the poster called himself an orphan to gain sympathy
3. he, like most pple in his condition if that is true are very myopic @poster how do u choose a career u dont even know d job opportunity
4. your mum has thus far tried her best for u so she has nt disserted u like u claim.

in conclusion mr poster dont be angry wit me if am wrong. is my opnion anyway.i can not recommend a job for u since i dont even know your qualification.
y dont u post your CV[/b] on nairaland luck make smile on u. i discover from your writing dat if u r nt a scam then u have a low self esteem and dat must change b4 u can succeed


@OSIFRED, WHY DON'T YOU KILL ONE OF YOUR PARENTS SO YOU COULD GAIN PEOPLE'S SYMPATY? DO YOU HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT MYOPIC IS? MY FATHER LIVED A POOR LIFE AND A VERY WRETCHED ONE TOWARDS THE END OF HIS LIFE. DO YOU FRAKING HAVE ANY IDEA WHAT THAT DID TO ME? IT MADE ME KEEP TRYING AND WANNA SURPASS HIM IN EVERY ASPECT AND THEN ERASE ALL FORMS OF SUFFERING AND TEARS FROM MY MOM, SISTERS AND YOUNGER BROTHERS.

I PITY YOU, I DOUBT IF YOU'VE EVER BEEN IN NEEDS. DID YOU FOR ONCE IMAGINE WHY SOMEONE WHO'S A LIL BIT OK TO AN EXTENT BE ON NL ASKING FOR A HELPING HAND AND IS WILLING TO TRAVEL TO ABUJA AND TAKE UP A JOB OF 35K OR SO? IF YOU CAN RENDER ANY ASSISTANCE DO SO OTHERWISE, SHUT UP.

YOU TALK OF LOW-ESTEEM? HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED WHAT IS CALLED TRUE POVERTY? DID YOUR FAMILY EVER LOST ALL THEY HAD IN A DAY? DID YOUR FAMILY (EVERY MEMBER) EVER FASTED AND PRAYED TO GOD FOR OVER 4 YEARS FOR HELP ALL TO NO AVAIL THAT YOU DOUBT HE EVER CARES? DID ONE OF YOUR SISTER EVER LEFT HOME TO AN UNKNOWN LOCATION TILL DATE COS SHE JUST COULDN'T HANDLE IT ANYMORE? WAS YOUR FATHER EVER SICK OF A VERY STRANGE AILMENT THAT EVEN DOCTORS HAD TO ADVISE HE BE TAKEN TO A CHURCH? DID YOU HAVE YOUR FATHER KILLED BY HIS SISTER AND E.T.C AFTER A STRANGE ILLNESS THAT MAKES YOU WANNA KILL YOURSELF OVER THE SIGHT OF HIM EVEN AFTER A MAN OF GOD SAID HE WASN'T GONNA DIE BUT COME OUT OF IT A STRONGER MAN? HAVE YOU EVER LOOKED UP @ YOUR MOTHER ONLY TO SHED TEARS DUE TO EXHAUSTATION AND FRUSTRATION YOU SEE IN HER EYES FROM CRYING IN THE NIGHTS, PRAYING AND FASTING FOR YEARS? WORST OF ALL HAVE YOU EVER REGRETTED WORKING FOR YEARS TO SAVE A LIL SOMETHING FROM A SALARY OF 12K MONTHLY AND SENDING SOME TO YOUR DAD TO START UP WITH STH ONLY TO HAVE THE MONEY YOU SENT KILLED HIM? HAVE YOU EVER BATTLED WITH THIS QUESTION FOR TWO YEARS NOW "WHAT IF I HADN'T SENT THE MONEY?"?
LOOK MY BROTHER, AFTER LIFE'S THROUGH WITH YOU, YOU WOULDN'T BE FRAKING TALKING ABOUT LOW SELF ESTEEM BUT ABOUT SURVIVAL, ABOUT HOW TO GET A JOB THAT PAYS A LIL ABOVE 12K MONTHLY SO YOU CAN TAKE CARE OF YOUR MOTHER AND PAY YOUR YOUNGER ONES UNIVERSITY EDUCATION.
NOW, TELL ME I'M LYING COS I JUST GAVE OUT A SUMMARY OF MY STORY HERE.

I THINK THE POSTER DESERVES SOME COMMENDATION FOR HIS COURAGE WRITING THIS HERE COS I CAN'T DO THAT EVEN IF MY LIFE DEPENDED ON IT COS OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU. ALSO IF TRUE TO YOUR WORDS, THE POSTER'S LYING/SCAMMING, THEN I'LL SAY IT'S A PITY. I LEAVE IT ALL TO FATE.

AND FOR THOSE WHO'S DECIDED TO HELP HIM OUT, I SAY GOD WILL DIVINELY FAVOUR YOU AND GRANT YOU ALL YOUR INNERMOST DESIRES. AMEN

dude i can see u got me wrong and i will not bother to proof u rite or wrong.be more logical in ur write up and leave emotions our of this. hope to hear from soon nt as a foe bt as a friend

Aisha and dayowo I will be glad if u can take time to review my post d one u quoted and tell me where I was nt fair wit the poster in sincerity[b][/b]

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^^^^^what happened

menek:

I regreted sending my cv to some people. I'm sure u don't know what it means for a true orphan, (someone that is in tears) or someone that is after God's heart to pray against u

What happened ? I hope it is not serious, I know things are hard but try and stay positive. God Bless

menek:

I regreted sending my cv to some people. I'm sure u don't know what it means for a true orphan, (someone that is in tears) or someone that is after God's heart to pray against u

You'v really mastered the art of suspense!!
I'l jst have to wait till the next time you get into town to knw why you regret ur action

I will still send the 20k as a contribution to this guy's accomodation if Aisha vetts him and approves his moves (Aisha, your rep dey on the line o!!)but walahi, i don tire for the whole story.
The guy's story is generally incoherent and often out of point.
Aisha, try make your emai address available, i need to discuss ways i can be relevant in your ventures,irrespective of how this guy's case pans out.

cvibe:

Now that you have assisted, there are many others like him in same or worse conditions who do not have access to the internet to plead for sympathy. You see them on the streets everyday.

What steps will you guys take to ensure continuation of this type of support?

Are you guys ready to set up an NGO to look into issues such as this?

The problem in Nigeria is a lack of sincerity and honesty in most ventures.
I attempted this NGO route months back.
A story that NEXT published was touching and i got in touch with the editor and told her my intentions.They hooked me up with the lady running the NGO in question.
Her story was so incoherrent and full of holes that i just gave up after wasting my precious airtime in international calls.
In addition,she semed to think my proposed contribution was not big enough but how will i contribute much from afar at the first instance when i cannot even vouch for the NGO and the story i was being told was not consistent.
most NGOs in naija are run as businesses, the image is hurting true NGOs that are passionate about human suffering.

I am from the Democratic Republic of the Congo. I have been coming on nairaland daily for a number of months now. However, i just registered today for the purpose of joining this subject. What a touchy story and development.

I also want to join the throng of donors. I would like to extend my support and sympathy to brother menek. Like most of the people on here, I want to see him succeed. Please let me know how i can help. I wouldn't mind sending money. 

May the Lord richly bless each and everyone of you. There is hope for Africa. Only in africa, you can cry out loud and people will hear your plea.

ONly in Africa you can ask and receive. Only in Africa, you can knock and the door will open for you.

Let us keep Africa a land of compassion and humanity.  Let us prove the world that Africa is the place to be.


I love you all.

The brother from TheCongo.

TheCongo:

I am from the Democratic Republic of the Congo. I have been coming on nairaland daily for a number of months now. However, i just registered today for the purpose of joining this subject. What a touchy story and development.

I also want to join the throng of donors. I would like to extend my support and sympathy to brother menek. Like most of the people on here, I want to see him succeed. Please let me know how i can help. I wouldn't mind sending money.

May the Lord richly bless each and everyone of you. There is hope for Africa. Only in africa, you can cry out loud and people will hear your plea.

ONly in Africa you can ask and receive. Only in Africa, you can knock and the door will open for you.

Let us keep Africa a land of compassion and humanity. Let us prove the world that Africa is the place to be.


I love you all.

The brother from TheCongo.

Thank you brother. We are still waiting for the Job offer to materialise whne he is ready to move to Abuja, we will search for accomodation and let you all know.

mbulela:

I will still send the 20k as a contribution to this guy's accomodation if Aisha vetts him and approves his moves (Aisha, your rep dey on the line o!!)but walahi, i don tire for the whole story.
The guy's story is generally incoherent and often out of point.
Aisha, try make your emai address available, i need to discuss ways i can be relevant in your ventures,irrespective of how this guy's case pans out.

Dont worry , I cross my Ts and Dot my I

menek:

I regreted sending my cv to some people. I'm sure u don't know what it means for a true orphan, (someone that is in tears) or someone that is after God's heart to pray against u

Ok, you need to stop this, I told you in your mail to expect all sorts, Some people will always be mean but when you let them get to you, you give them unnecessary power over you.

aisha2:

Thank you brother. We are still waiting for the Job offer to materialise whne he is ready to move to Abuja, we will search for accomodation and let you all know.Dont worry , I cross my Ts and Dot my IOk, you need to stop this, I told you in your mail to expect all sorts, Some people will always be mean but when you let them get to you, you give them unnecessary power over you.

Aint' you just a regular Mother Teresa! 

I'm not against your good works Aisha, beleive me, so there was no need for  you (and your followers) to get defensive over that Joshua comment. It was just an enquiry with no pun intended.

Newayz I'm outta here. I have people with real troubles who need my help! 

Ujujoan:

Aint' you just a regular Mother Teresa!

I'm not against your good works Aisha, beleive me, so there was no need for you (and your followers) to get defensive over that Joshua comment. It was just an enquiry with no pun intended.

Newayz I'm outta here. I have people with real troubles who need my help!

uju, am not finding ur comments on this thread funny at all

^^^ That's okay, I wasn't trying to be funny!

Uju,thnkGod u r leaving!

Uju,thnkGod u r leaving!

Aisha,
Please check your mailbox.

Cheers,

You dont have to annouce your exit Madam Uju, You really add no value here sso you will not be missed.

No. No,  That's not the direction i'm going. I meant, i actually push it to some that did not request it just to proof i'm authentic. U know when your details becomes flooded on the net is not good.

mbulela:

Aisha,
Please check your mailbox.

Cheers,

Replied, attached your information

@ TheCongo.
Welcome. You have a beautiful wife up there. Is she a Nigerian or a Congolese? i admire u and your big heart.

@ TheCongo.
Welcome. You have a beautiful wife up there. Is she a Nigerian or a Congolese? i admire u and your big heart.

the man is handsome and the wyfe is beauriful, i guess their children will be cute. what a wonderful couple!

Aisha is menek. She is trying to scam us all

Gaggi:

Aisha is menek. She is trying to scam us all

pray to God for forgiveness

Shut d f up Mr, even Aisha knws i'm joking

Gaggi:

Shut d f up Mr, even Aisha knws i'm joking

and dis makes you the bigger person right

Thank God, progress is being made.