My friend's girl told him dt she had 2 abortions before & he wants 2 dump her,i am not sure i can handle it as well

so its now a crime for a girl to say the truth about her past right?

What if she decides to keep mute about it? wont you still love her then?

MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so its now a crime for a girl to say the truth about her past right?

What if she decides to keep mute about it? wont you still love her then?

MEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If he can't handle it let him simply move on.
It's a lot better that way than to punish her with it by putting it in her face anytime they fall out.
What's most important now is whether nor not she's a changed person.
No woman deserves a guy who believes he's doing her a favor by staying with her.

In a relationship, anything done in the past should be left where it belongs - in the past.
Personally, I don't care what my babe did in the past, before we got together.

So tell your friend to get a grip

4get abt it, it is her past and plz just leave it their if u really love her

Bolarge, i seem to agree with u,but still gathering

ITS HAPPENED TO ME. MY GIRL FRIEND TOLD ME ABOUT HER PAST. I WAS UPSET FOR A BIT BUT THEN I THOUGHT WHAT IF SHE HAD NOT SAID ANYTHING ABOUT HER PAST. SHE TRUSTED ME TO TELL HER PAST. WE ARE STILL TOGETHER.

I am sorry to say, but i think there are some past that ladies should spare the men of, cos if a lady tell the man that she has aborted few times, and during their marriage, if they cant have kids, that woman will be destroyed by the man, i will still be with the woman, cos i will appreciate her telling me, however, it will still crush, especially if it was for a man that aint worth thr trouble

@ $R ,it's better if she says it rather than keeping it cos if one finds out later it could be more catastrophic

thanks for all reasonable replies, i support them all

wait a minute, what if she decided not to tell you, or him, ow will u feel, you will feel that she is trust worthy shay, anyway

i thinks she really loves you 4 her 2 tell u abt her past

so Cheers and continue with the relationship, if u really love her

hell naw!, i could still continue with the r.lationship though but it will NEVER be thesame again, no matter what!, i mean the respect and love i have for her will start to be declining gradually untill i finally come to conclusion on what to do which i think is going to be unfavourable to her, sorry but i have better plans for my young'n, not from a crash ass mum!shit!

The gir did the right thing to tell him if they were getting serious. But if the guy couldnt handle him then its best eh bails out. Cause you know he's going to be bugging about it all relationship. Suspicion and jealousy will be the hallmarks of their time together.

Personally, 2 abortions might be better than 2 unwanted babies. Depending on the woman if you have connected and she's doing right by youI wont consider an abortions the worst thing in the world.

But it all depends on the relationship and the girl.

Sometimes one can only pray for guidance and direction in leading you to the right decision.

thanks 4 ur contribution,evrythin is stalemate now