yours or hers?

Married men, please come in and contribute to this thread!

hi everyone, how have you all been? has anyone practiced any of these tips successfully, please share your experiences. we need to revive this thread y'all.

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i really don't understand why they did this, the new guy will just have all his ooponents try to drag him down based on that and again, you have crisis in another state.

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why is this country ike this? why was it taht Orji Kalu could not wait until May 29 to swear in his replacement? not only did he resign to do this, he also swore the guy in in Lagos, why couldn't they just wait? na wa o! already some lawyers are saying it is unconstitutional, what will happen after May 29?

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if you dont know why are you answering?

i dont know about that.

i think couples should have joint accounts if they so desire and they can make joint payments from it.

very right

tpbm just woke up!

Therapyman:



O.K. so some of you are a little more foolish than others. "God Knows No Sin" means two things from a theological viewpoint, of which I have a masters degree- also one in Christian Counselling. First off it means that Sin is not a part of God's make up, Therefore if God is Love and God is not Sin - Love can not be Sin. Secondly, it means that if you are in Christ Jesus God does not look at you as a sinner - He sees you clothed in the righteousness of Christ. If you want to use shame and guilt tactics against this guy I guess that makes sense since that is something that misguided Christians are good at but when it comes to biblical truth they do not hold water.

Thanks for your 2 cents worth but maybe you should go back to school and keep your opinions to yourself until you know what you are talking about.

Of course I said to keep on loving the other woman. Love is of the nature of God. What I also said was NOT "to cut out sex" - as far as I understand it they have not had sex - what I said was to differentiate (big word there hope you have a dictionary) between Love and Sexual Impulse. May be a "yea Right" issue for you but for those whom have some integrity, motivation, and perseverance - it really is not that difficult of a task. More difficult is getting the junk - LIKE YOUR COMMENTS- out of ones head. Either way I suggested counselling so that a trained professional, which you ARE NOT and I AM, can come along side them and help them journey through this time in their lives.


I hope that JWdayise is wise enough to know the difference between your deluded immature rantings and the truth.

and your deluded and upside down thinking would be truth? indeed!

people like you just make me wanna puke cos you are like the pharisees Jesus talked about, you wont go in and you wont allow others to go in either, snakes and vipers.

anyway i am hopeful that right thinking people have made the right decision by now cos even JWdayise's consicence would have told him what is right.

she aint hot. and her attitude needs a whole load of working on.

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babonboard:

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proudly Nigerian and nothing can be done about it

you are most definitely not!

raheemah you know what angers me amongst other things is the fact that tv stations demand a hand and a leg from independent producers to air their programmes whilst they would pay a head and a tail to get those stoopid south american soaps. its just plain ridiculous. there's no way the local industry would grow thereby.

babonboard:

thanks for bringing our attention to it but i will advise u post it else where and not here, :-also see if u can help bring the thieves off the streets

typical of a nigerian!!

what does it have to do with whether they are complaining or not lets change nigeria for the better instead of just talking about it! this is what it is about. do you know how many would be thieves would be off the streets if they were otherwise gainfully employed. plus why the heck do we continue polluting ouir culture?

this thread is really informative. its really interesting to know what nigerians think about their governors, newspapers and the nigerian public should all sign on to nairaland to see this.

as for my own i would choose bola tinubu cos i ahve not sene one hting the guy has done in this lagos

i think it is way past high time that we all realised taht nigeria has become a dumping ground for all these south american and african soaps, and we should all discourage it. are we saying that nairalanders for example are unable to come up with intelligient soaps that can rival those things?

We should lal stop watching these things and giving credence to them.

i am also interested in printing by myself, i have a book i have written but have been sourcing for a good printer as well.

Orikinla (feel like calling you uncle or something, dont know why), please i have a question: do they print books as well?

there are some posts that are really not worth replying to and such is teh case fo that of therapyman, i think he is a deluded human being. did he say continue loving the other woman but cut out the sex? yeah right!!!
I wonder from what kind of wacked teaching he laernt thta God knows no sin.

Anyway please JWdayise, make your marriage work and realise like intelligient people have said on this thread that apart from the fact that what you feel is most probably infataution for the other woman, and also that you are hurting both women very badly, you are also huritng your son and wife on the long run. you are no longer just responsible for yourself bur for other people.

God loves you but he hates your sin, so quit it.

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unless you have valid sources please do not give arbitrary figures.

i have seen her and she is definitely not paloma.

thats thiefing!

Consultant:

I know i've mentioned this before on another thread but i will rehash here. This is what my husband and I practice (and what i believe is ideal). Both our incomes goes into a joint account. We both get a pre-agreed amount for personal expenses - it's not a lot, just for things you don't necessarily want your spouse to know about - like if you want to buy him/her a present, or for day-to-day expenses. This "pocket money" goes into our personal accounts. We also have joint savings and investment accounts. ALL spending decisions are made together. It doesn't feel onerous because we talk all the time and ask for each other's opinions on virtually everything.

For me that is the ideal. In this present day, i don't see how it is possible for the husband's relative to have access to a couple's joint account without the woman's permission except through fraud and if you both have a will, it should cover the other person in the event of one's demise. As for the issue of trust, i daresay if you don't trust each other enough to share an account, you have no business being married to each other. In Seun's words, that's characteristic of a dysfunctional family.

very correct. i imagine a lot of the fuss over this thing is coming from unmarried people. if you are unable to trust your spouse with something as mundane as money, then you really should not be married.

i have a sharing arrangement with my husband where we out in a particular amount (equal amount) in our joint account and this we invest in different projects from putting in the stock market to our capital projects, we have done this over the years, it has worked beautifully and has helped me to learnt to save more.

this does not stop my husband from giving me money when i truly need it.