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mother-in-laws are just mothers trying to hold on to the figment of their babies never growing up. they've been there forever taking care of those sons and getting all the attention so sometimes it takes a lot to let them go.

a ring is not what defines the commitment to a marriage, how many ringed women and men go about having affairs. there's nothing wrong with her wanting a ring, its cool to have a ring, but if she really wants it then she has to make her husband understand her.

i personally don't wear my ring very often because i find rings very uncomfortable.

if people don't want to make babies, they should reach the decision before engaging in the act, not afer. if they go ahead and have unprotected sex which results in pregnancy, they should definitley live with it.

Good Yarns Girl!! now we are going somewhere, Nbut can he convince his folks.& his mother -in-law.Who is also asking for a child.But they r not ready to disclose to her her daughter health?

they do not owe anyone any explanations. how they chose to live their lives is their biz and nobody else's. its time people in this part of the world learnt the meaning of the marriage vows. i have a friend who was married for 8years before she had a baby and from the word go, the husband told his people never ever to harrass his wife and beleive me, because they know the kind of son they had, nobody dared.

it is wrong for people under whatever guise to try and manipulate others. that someone is your mother or father does not give them the alienable right to harrass you. what the bible asks is that you honour them not to your detriment. i really feel for you wiseguy and wiffy, but i think you should first of all talk to your mothers about how they make you feel. secondly amke ti very very very clear to them that yuou would not be able to help them beyond your capabilities. it is absurd for you to want to get into debt simply to fund your mother's needs, if she loved you she would never want that to happen to you.

my husband had the same situation like both of you, even worse maybe, i still remember when he took me to his dad to introduce me as the "one". his dad said lailai, and he told the dad pointblank that he didnt come to ask for his permission, he just came to show me to him, as he had no right to determine his life since he neglected him, but that as a son he was just trying to do the proper thing. and taht was that. we have been very happily married since then.

as for his mother, he let her know how much he would be sending to her monthly and he has not changed his mind since then, i have been the one even trying to ensure thathe sends it regularly, because many times he feels very angry to send her money because according to him, she has no claim to his money or his person.

motherhood or fatherhood oges way beyond birthing a child, it is being responsible for your offspring. do not fall into the trap of sentimentalism and do yourself, your children, your wamily and your future harm by bending to the whims and caprices of manipulations.

lastly pray for them that God will change their hearts and make them appreciate your love for them.

babies generally like to touch and feel. i don't think that a baby really knows that he/she is actaully slapping you and i think it would be most cruel to smack that baby back. however you should gently try to teach that baby that smacking others is not good. and like they say, children are great copycats so maybe they see u slap others and try to mimick

tee a is good and i like omo baba

suture

I'm thinking i hope you do but shouldn't you have been studying instead of browsing?

1. problem with a lot of people is they go into marriage thinking if it doesn't work we can always divorce. this kind of thinking is what would make a guy like that even contemplate having an affair.

2. if an adopted child wants to know his origin, so what? let him or her know. does not mean the child would love or appreciate you less. you are the parent he/she knew.

3. even if the wife were not sick, what if she was unable to have children, would taht also qualify as grounds for adultery?

mennnnn this is serious.

what have you all been up to? c'mon share those roll in the hay formulas

and I have come to notice onething, many tend to empty their pockets because an upcoming wedding,

after wedding them begin look like empty bags of Casava

true

should be, would be, or is?

glad to report that i have created my site but still working on it to make it really great. but thanks to seun and kaizee

good for you da saint. like i said before, that someone came form a broken home may actually make him/her a better spouse. besides people who don't come from broken homes are all great are they?

What is (was) your (the),
First name: just call me niki
Gender:power to the women
Favorite food(s):amala and ewedu soup
Favorite color(s): none
Future child's names: not yet decided
Sign or b-day: june 18
Favorite number: 1
Biggest fear: none
Favorite quote: for God so loved the world that He gave His only Son.
Obsession(S): browsing the net
Addiction(s): browsing the net
Biggest turn off: odours and too much talk
Biggest turn on: kindness
First thing you notice in the opposite sex: face
Last book you read: the 8th habit of highly effective people (still reading)

Preferences,

Chocolate or vanilla: both depending on the time of day
Hot or cold: hot cocoa, cold water so depends
Coke or Pepsi: neither, bad of the health
Truth or Dare: truth
Rightie or Leftie: rightie but like lefties
20/20 vision or glasses: 20/20
Big or small: big[size=14pt][/size]


Do you,

Speak another language: french,
Own your room or share with sibling: share with my love
Have a sibling(s): 2 beautiful sisters
Think that God should be male or female: He is both and neither
Think that God should be white or black: He is all and none of them
Like your handwriting: of course
Type fast or slow: too fast
Think you're beautiful/cute: very very
Sleep with a stuffed animal("teddy bears" and the likes in case you don't know):used to until my beloved filled the space

Misc,
What is/are the thing(s) you miss the most: being able to run around in the rain
Are you straight/gay/bi: as straight as straight can be
Piercings: only the earlobes
How tall are you: 5' 8"
How tall do you wish you were: 5' 8"
What would you change about yourself:lose some weight
What wouldn't you change:my heart of love

THE END. Whew, that was long! fun more like!

wow desiree is that at all healthy?

anyways been drinking my water and felt better than i have been in a while. i used to be unable to stomach water very early in the morning, but its been getting much easier.

There is nothing like a fourth class citizen in the USA. Kokscity is an American Citizen and that is it.

yeah right

Well if we use that analogy, then each time i visit a third world country(Nigeria) i instantly become an Upper First class citizen based on my Income and social status.

nope you would be a nigerian citizen period! just like if you were truly a american citizen you would be an american citizen, any other thing no matter how long it was that you "got" citizenship makes you a second, third, or fourth rate citizen of that country!

You are sitting there and giving people false hope.

no my brother, you are the one who has got it all wrong, you have not doen any better than many nigerians, me inclusive. and i didn't have to run away to america for that. the issue here is having people throw their lives away simply because they want to go to america, that my dear friend is utter nonsense!

Please makes some damn sense in you next post, and stop assuming $hit

you have obviously tried to assume the identity of your host nation, but please be more civil in your posts!

@Topic

Someone here said that Nigeria is the land of Opportunities! Yeah Right!!! And then my name is George Bush, Ha.

If there is anyway you can leave the country(Nigeria), please do so!!!!!!

Nigeria Failed Kokscity
The US Embraced him.
Kokscity is now a Proud US Citizen.
Bleeding Red,white and Blue!!!!!!1

totlly disagree,if you know what you are doing, you can be whosever you want to be in naija. and you know what? at best you are a fourth class citizen in the US.

ever since i found nairaland i have not been addicted to it. its is actaully affedting my work as i now spend almost allthe time online? what about you? what has your experience been?

take it to the press for announcement cos if i take it to the police station it may never see the light of day again.

wwyd if you found out that you have another sibling your father never told you about?

Ladies,
What would you do if you found out that your lover boy knows how to cook more than you do? Will you take it lightly or get jealous or pretend to be happy with it or work on your cooking skills . What you think?

enjoy it while it lasts

well if no one has pictures of their true kitchens can we have pictures of kitches and houses we wouldlike to have? lets all leave snazzy be and move on

will wonders ever end?

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would someone please send me an invite? nxlevelconsult@yahoo.com much thax

that song is great

why all you guys sayin i will be happy to teach her,
so all ya'll know how to cook am guessing!!!

my husband cooks and my father taught me how to make amala