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Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 7:56pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: Funnily enough, what I see here is a young adult, a 24 year old blinded by "love" and itching to settle and have her own family. Efemena, Thats excatly the point I dont even tell my husband this things she does becos i know the next day she will be gone but i call her privately to talk like i will talk to my sister that is what i do with her ooo. cant let it repeat itself again because have tried. 1 Like |
Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 7:47pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
debrief08: Please Dont blame yourself, she is an adult and is capable and responsible for her own decisions. Even our parents make bad choices, you have done your part, left for her to think and if she makes mistakes learn from them. If she is wise she will listen but rarely do people listen to wise counsel. With the way the situation is now i may have to do regular medical checks on her for the sake of my family. if she can take to advice then we have got to protect ourselves... |
Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 7:34pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
chaircover: @nonylove, lock up your food and keep tabs. Also be careful with your money. You say that you have already called her and spoken to her about the opposite sex which is good. It will be a tragedy if she ends up getting pregnant. Chaircover, that's exactly what have made up my mind to do. thanks |
Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 7:32pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
[quote author=debrief08] So sorry for being quick to judge it is due to the fact that most people who act the way you described are teenagers. My apologies. Hmmmm, I am sorry about what you are going through but some quick questions: DO you pay her at least a minimum wage? Is she well compensated for staying over night? Does she stay with you and work in return for opportunities? I am really happy and impressed that you provided her with information, nice watching out. Please stealing I dont tolerate i really imagined she was a teenager, perharps she had a bad childhood background and those issues were not sorted out. Tell her stealing is a No No, if she wants to give her boyfriend anything let her buy from her salary. An adult that acts like this should be fired or be severally warned and put on probation. If you decide to keep her, get her to sign an undertaken, she steals again she is out. Thanks. before she started at all I asked how she wished to be paid that's what i pay her. i don't think she lacks anything because outside that i buy her cloths,pay for her hairdo. and she also makes some money from home too. I really don't know where i got it wrong. |
Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 7:23pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
debrief08: If she is an adult that she has a boyfriend or 2 boyfriends shouldnt be an issue, she is an adult and as long as you have educated her she is free to date, My employer doesnt have any business with who I date, or my personal life as long as it doesnt affect my work, the problem is taking your food to fund her relationship. I an not against her dating either if u see from my post but the fact that this boys she is dating are merely deceiving her otherwise they wont ask her to steal from her employer. i do not even mind if she introduce her boyfriend to us by so doing we can guide them cos i want the best for her as well but i dont want her to make mistakes. that's is the reason i preach patience to her always. 1 Like |
Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 7:16pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
Efemena_xy: I'm sure I agree with the "locking up food" aspect here. I'm assuming she's got kids and this girl is responsible for feeding and looking after them in her absence? She is 24years old, I got her sewing machine that she uses to even make money aside what i pay her because she has been trained in that line. |
Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 6:36pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
Julesbloom: cut her salary n lock up ur foodstuff if possible or u fire her cos such gurl can be dangerous. infact fire her b4 the worst n unimaginable happen. dnt put up wit thiefing maid. When i told her to pack her things she started crying and begging, promised never to do it again she also has the habit of calling people to beg whenever she does anything wrong. just imagine the situation but i must act on this particular issue cos i dnt trust her no more. |
Family / Re: What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 6:29pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
debrief08: When we advice that people stop looking for cheap labor with adolescent girls and hire professional maids they will say no be so. I have always loved your comments on NL but most times u are fast at judging people. My kind of Job will not allow me to hire sm1 that will work and go and besides this girl we are talking about is not a teenager she is a adult, I have educated her on all you mentioned and have always told her to be patient, I provided her with learning tools and ensured she has something she can do and be on her own in the future. but the fact that she is not patient by allowing those that cant even feed themselves to deceive her is the reason why am disappointed in her. |
Family / What Do I Do With My Maid? by nonylove: 5:51pm On Nov 03, 2012 |
My maid has been stealing my food stuffs and provisions to give to her boyfriends whenever am not around. she has 2 boyfriends that she feeds with my food regularly. I just discovered and she confessed to me. am not even sure she doesn't steal my money as well. please NLS what do I do with this girl? |
Family / Re: Strictly For Women In The House by nonylove: 5:39pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
saintvc: Y dont u try padding. Using foam to raise it up lol... noted |
Family / Re: Strictly For Women In The House by nonylove: 4:02pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
Mrs mansson: thank you |
Religion / Re: Where Do You Pay Your Tithe by nonylove: 3:37pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
dorox: you are very wrong nobody is forcing you to bring money to church we are obeying His commandment by doing so. and we benefit more when we do it. am a living testimon |
Religion / Re: Where Do You Pay Your Tithe by nonylove: 3:35pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
obadiah777: APTyou are very wrong nobody is forcing you to bring money to church we are obeying His commandment by doing so. and we benefit more when we do it. am a living testimony. |
Religion / Re: Where Do You Pay Your Tithe by nonylove: 3:31pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
truthislight: 1st part i do not agree with cos it is not our tithe that is feeding them God has a way of providing for His servant . You pay tithe to secure your own future it is for ur own good. You should learn to control ursef by not calling pple names on NL. u kno usef |
Religion / Re: Where Do You Pay Your Tithe by nonylove: 11:42am On Sep 27, 2012 |
dorox: Thanks a lot. it is well oooo |
Family / Re: How Often Should Couples Be Intimate by nonylove: 11:37am On Sep 27, 2012 |
jennykadry: https://www.nairaland.com/860470/how-often-should-married-couples thanks Jenny. have just gone through that. |
Religion / Re: Where Do You Pay Your Tithe by nonylove: 11:06am On Sep 27, 2012 |
obadiah777: SCRIPTURE DO SAY-'LOOK OUT FOR YOUR BROTHER' . NOW THAT WILL BE RIGHTEOUS TITHING I CAN GET WITH. hmmmmmmmmmm... please read the scripture about tithing and offering. i still agree with your comment but they are two diff things entirely. |
Family / How Often Should Couples Be Intimate by nonylove: 10:56am On Sep 27, 2012 |
how many times should a man have fun with his wife in a week, month or day A man was sharing on naira land how he can stay away from his wife for 2 weeks without touching her except when she is ovulating and need to make babies or when they r in the mood. whats your opinion on this even when they share same bed. |
Family / Re: Strictly For Women In The House by nonylove: 10:45am On Sep 27, 2012 |
jennykadry: I know a cream, very good one. It is called ...."be comfortable in your own skin" point noted |
Family / Re: Strictly For Women In The House by nonylove: 10:45am On Sep 27, 2012 |
free2ryhme: can bisexuals be allowed to contribute useful comment highly welcome too... |
Religion / Re: Where Do You Pay Your Tithe by nonylove: 10:43am On Sep 27, 2012 |
obadiah777: I PAY MY TITHE TO MY OWN POCKET. ITS A PERFECT LOOP When you pay your tithe you are securing your future i bet you should try God by obeying His commandment and see what happenes |
Religion / Where Do You Pay Your Tithe by nonylove: 9:56am On Sep 27, 2012 |
Is it advisable to pay tithe in other churches that are lacking just to help them grow if your own church is already grown? Your contribution will be appreciated. |
Family / Strictly For Women In The House by nonylove: 9:32am On Sep 27, 2012 |
How do you achieve a firm breast after breastfeeding. Is there any type of cream or drug you can recommend to help. |
Science/Technology / Re: Woman Gives Birth To Her Granddaughter by nonylove: 11:06pm On Sep 10, 2012 |
touching... |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by nonylove: 12:54am On Sep 03, 2012 |
Thank you so much doc, I really appreciate! God bless you ! |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by nonylove: 5:49pm On Sep 02, 2012 |
ACM10: 30 days to be precise before the irregularity but now it is almost 36 days nd some times more than 36 days before i see my period. i have done the hormonal test b4 wn i didnt see my period for 3 mnths b4 i got married and the result came out fine with no issues with my hormones. normally i use 1 pad daily before which is usually full with blood and last f0r 5 days though last day is spotty nw i still use 1 pad but nt with so much flow which last 4 like 2 days with d 3rd day spotty. am 31yrs my problem is the irregularity. thanks |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by nonylove: 4:45pm On Sep 02, 2012 |
hi doc, please am in my 30s had my 1st child abt 1yr nd half ago foe sevaral months nw my period is irregular nd wn it comes it last only for 2 days without rushing. what could be the problem and how can i control this? thank u |
Family / Re: What Do You Do When Your Husband Refuse To Pick Your Call Anytime He Is In D Clu by nonylove: 8:25am On Sep 02, 2012 |
Richvkunt: i dont want to ask of ur age i can conclude u r one of those teenagers on nairaland who doesnt kno right from left. i also wonder if u r d one killing family thread on nairaland i admire the OP maturity in dealing with pple like u. CRAP |
Family / Re: Ever Felt Like You Married The Wrong Person? by nonylove: 1:14pm On Sep 01, 2012 |
kulyie: thank u very much.i giv u a standing ovation for dis post and i love u for it.uve spoken my mind in typing.gosh,women need to learn dat dey have to live their lives to please d creator of heaven and earth,b d best dey can be and other things will fall in place.haba.what is with all dis r u married now,wen will u b married,all ur friends are married,ure not gettin any younger etc.thank u once again,oshey am sure you are not married either so u really cant kno what God himself said about marriage. she asked a question for Christ sake, God Himself created marriage and He wants us to love without condition... |
Family / Re: Ever Felt Like You Married The Wrong Person? by nonylove: 1:06pm On Sep 01, 2012 |
Purist: I wonder too oooo, she only asked a question. haa oga 4 some pple sha. am sure she is not married so she doesnt ave an idea of wat d poster is asking.lo |
Family / Re: Ever Felt Like You Married The Wrong Person? by nonylove: 12:56pm On Sep 01, 2012 |
Jayloy: Hmmmm, my wife knows my username, i had better keep shut before my answer will instigate the obvious thought. lol... even now she will have an idea of ur thought 10 Likes |
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