healthserve:
The most important thing is what I want to hit on before this thread degenerates into a squabble. And it is take it easy on yourself. Your high moral standards and etiquette along with your principles, beliefs, values and self expectation has placed you on a pedestal where you expect yourself to act in a certain manner and form. So to win this war, you must first and foremost win the battle in your mind. Yes, every thing goor or bad in this instance is in your mind and to end this struggle the battle must first be won in your mind. Hence I recommend this tips:



1. You'll make new resolutions and you'll fail yourselves many times. But be prepared to forgive yourself before you fail. Being able to pick yourself back up and move forward is one of the routines you should embrace enroute your destination to get healing.


2. The mind is the largest sexual organ. Stop feeding your mind with crazy sexual stuff. Infact Place rules on yourself not be participate in anything sexual outside your hubby.



3. After you've forgiven yourself, adopt the belief that marriage isn't all sex sex and sex. And you'll sacrifice what you don't receive but stay contented. Mental contentment is one of the sure ways to deal with mental wandering. To win this war, you must treat yourself with love and kindness and not condemn yourself in anyway however bad, lest through your own cycle of thoughts you slip into being guilt tripped by your mind and loose focus on healing beyond scars



4. Try new things and fill up spare hours. Place yourself in a new fellowship or activity group where you'll use more of your free time to practice. The rule for change has always remained the same and one I recommend to myself many times is to replace a bad habit with many good habits and practice. Spend more time on activities to have your mind filled up.


5. What you feed your mind matters. In place of sexual arousing information, try spiritual affairs so the sector of your mind producing this thoughts would be flooded with light and you can fix the gaps within your walls and have the breech sealed.

Good points raised but that still cant solve d problems and constant desire for a coli lingua.
You skipped d part where she has to discuss with her husband abt her sexual needs, love making isnt just jumping on ur wife and pounding. It's more emotional than physical, abi isn't dat wat marriage is all about

dre11:


https://thenationonlineng.net/putin-caught-on-camera-making-fun-of-trump-with-assad/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8Wl1C5BEOU

Guy this is just banter it was not meant to be a gossip.

donstan18:
This guy has been acting since 2002/2003, the days of Labista and New Jerusalem.

That's to show how long he's been in the industry, but look at when he's getting a BIG mansion for himself. Something these generation hoes parading as actresses that can't even last in marriage are getting within 2 months.

Real hardwork I must admit. You know one when you see one. Having a beautiful family and a big house of his own.

A big congratulations to him.

U shud ve just congratulated him and left it at dat. I think u ve great inferiority complex for constantly judging d achievement of ladies while constantly making excuses for d men

ThierryJay:
Which war? That FAKE quote looks like something cooked up by Cristiano's fans rather than Simeone. I'm sure Simeone never said that after the Supercopa match. Even on twitter, it was labelled as fake as it was only @360 sources that published the quote. Major sport tabloids should have reported it as well if it was true. Simeone that publicly stated that he believes Messi was more dangerous than Ronaldo, Bale and Benzema combined? Find another lie please.

It can only be CR7 fans that can say he is now better than Messi using irrational logic. Just imagine, because he scored a mundane hattrick (2 tap -ins and penalty) against CAGLIARI, a relegation team, he is now better than Messi who was the best player on the pitch against Atletico madrid (scored two beautiful goals, dribbled the ATM players at will) for those that actually watched the match. How Can??

Where was CR7 in the war against Ajax last season, Barcelona over several seasons in La liga, Uruguay at World cup, even Lazio this season? Honestly, it's laughable the way CR7 fans like to turn logic on its head and delude themselves, or consolation is it?

6 will always be greater than 5.

Eyaaa u will be alrite

ghettokid1:
Nigerians is the most ungrateful bunch of people i have ever seen,
Or is it because he is an igbo?

You were making sense until u brought tribalism into it

matrix199:
So Iran plans using rockets to take revenge on the US?



Whoever cares for Iran should advise her to apply wisdom. It's ok to rant, but don't get carried away thinking you'can keep up hit for hit with America. They better just rant and let it slide, for their own sake.

And pls remind them d war will b brought to their door step, killing their own pipo and destroying their own economy. Have they ever seen America fighting a war on her soil b4?

Timson01:
Some ladies are really very confused if you come out like this how do u want the guy to see ,if I am the one self I will be thinking in my mind like see prostitute now they make boys list after them and tell us they are only looking for attention what kind of stupid attention is that one they put men on too much pressure yet they pretend to only be trying to look good pure nonsense why will you dress out like this and all you want is the boy to see that you are fine ,ladies should understand that we men tend to address woman by the way they dress

Dats how u guys go about making excuses for ur devilish acts, u ve d mindset of a rap**t. Y dont u ho abt stealing fruits from stalls because they look attractive

DonFreshmoney:
They wanna copy bamteddy.... useless duo...

Gedoni just want UK Visa and passport.. foolish port Harcourt cultist..

Na wao on top person happiness o

ghettokid1:
Sowore is roting in cell because of us,
While we are here promoting ashawo's.
Btw, how is this news?

Y pipo achievement de pepe u 4 body. Dnt worry bb naija is not responsible for ur frustration pls shift

Awwww how sweet

Rilley:
I'm sure you are one of her stupid and jobless fan, anyways it's true I am jobless, that's because I don't work as a slave for people, I only work for myself and I've employed 10 of you.

Be deceiving urself there.

MisterJeph:
Hello Nairalanders.

I attended an interview yesterday, it wasn't my first interview but it was the first time a question caught me off guard. I was always prepared before interviews and do my research on the hiring company. But yesterday, when the interviewer asked me; "are you creative?, (I would have just answered yes, and he would have asked me what creative things I've done) my brain went blank for a second and I started looking for a suitable answer.

Don't get me wrong, I have creative ideas, but have I really done something creative? I can act, write plays, but my guess was the interviewer wanted my answer to be in line with the position I was applying for, so I started fumbling for the right answer, after a while uneasiness began to appear on the face my interviewer, apparently I was wasting too much time on this one question. So I let out only thing bouncing up and down in my mind; "I can act sir, if knowing how to act counts as being creative".

I was applying for a bank job for crying out loud, not auditioning for a movie role. How does acting correlate with banking?

Over to you guys. How should I have done justice to the question?

Hahahaha I dnt know y but I find this post really funny. U gave ur best ans jare

MiglioreStitchs:

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Ur site cant be opened

Olalan:
Truth is fans of all dem big brother celebs are unserious youths..........the women amongst this fans are mostly prostitutes calling them slay queen is trying to dignify girls with loose morals

U that is serious I can see wat u have achieved. Is it not hypocritical for u to criticize others for doing d things dat makes them happy?
Y call them unserious cos their hobbies r diff from urs? Live and let's live

IvarTheBoneless:
Height of stupidity to complain about someone's philanthropy.

Reno should go and donate where he feels help is needed.

At least no one would complain about his own charity

can u read his tweet again this time slowly

iCauseTrouble:
If your husband is tall, bearded and drives a black Venza, he is in my compound now cooking noodles for a female corper. His new name is baby

Lol try put d plate number of d venza I want to check smthing

nairalandposter:


Are you referring to the scripted bbnaija house? Or do you know her on a personal level?

Can any other perfume work or only the particular one you mentioned?

I luv u already wow wat a brilliant response

chieftroller002:


Why didn't you see your father that was begging for giveaway

Hypocrite

Na dem

chieftroller002:
;DD

Tacha is a useless hoe

But I saw u on her page begging for sch fees. Chai this life

File a police report, get a sworn affidavit from a federal high court (not magistrate) and take both documents to any immigration office near u and file for a new one.
NB: it will cost u more

Iboni1:
VISIBLE ACHIEVEMENTS OF GOV.YAHAYA BELLO OF KOGI STATE my governor of the year...
As much as we would like to crucifix his Excellence for a poor performance in the last 4 years, we must put politics aside and appreciate him for certain projects he has executed.
These among others include:
1. Construction of the ganaja bridge in our dreams
2. Installation of the 8 fingers economic plan
3. Institutionalization of poverty
4. Percentage payment of salary to selected sector of the State
5. Double INEC registration
6. Spraying of cash at Gwagwalada, the state capital if Kogi State.
7. Buying and sharing of cars for GYBist with workers money
8. Declaration of a public holiday upon the return of President Buhari
9. Construction of the largest rice mill at Ejigba with a 10% state ownership.
10. Empowerment of masquerades
11. A Governor who withheld the salaries n allowance of his deputy.
12. The youngest Governor in Nigeria
13. The Governor who received the highest amount of bailout from the Federal Government
14. The Governor who made business very robust for casket sellers. Evident in the recent donation of N1Mn and endorsement
15. The governor who built 350 schools without location and address.
Thank you Governor Yahaya Bello. KOGITES shall be LIBERATED by God Grace

Wow what an able governor just like his boss the president. Nigerians shud stop criticising them and enjoy d party they voted

ola33t:






Ronaldo would have been better as a video vixen or doing commercials and adverts than being a footballer.
Dude is just a boring tapping/scoring Robot and a runner on the field.


Little wonder he struggles everyday to be as good as Messi. But sadly for him, he can't.

Messi was created for football.
Messi is the glory of football;
Messi is the entertainment in football;
Messi is the salt of the world of football;
Messi is the high standard of football.

It doesn't matter if you feel otherwise, we can't all feel the same. But Ronaldo knows the truth, every other player knows the truth, great players have testified to the truth.


"Messi is the god of football, sent from heaven to earth, to do wonders on the field, and thrill the children of men."


All hail the GOAT of goats!

Unfortunately he cant achieve anything outside Barcelona hmmm goat indeed

partnerbizn:


Lol

What do you understand by God's omnipotence and omnibenevolence? Have you seen Thomas Aquinas' works on these?

I wouldn't say some things so as not to make people despondent.

Any philosopher here?
Can anyone engage?

Note that you aren't replying a neophyte or one who has no smattering of the issues.


So you must be a pundit a tad before you qualify to delve into these issues.

Waitin this one de talk now

majamajic:
when stop actually means " continue !

agbaya

Dats d same mentality sick rapist have .better check urself

Wait u went to US to woo investors then u give this kain punishment for desecrating d quran I am not understanding. Wat a joke u think they will answer u?

FuckDaMods:
I wonder why he is featuring that Ghanaian dwarf that opened his filthy mouth to say he is richer than dangote.
Ghanaians always disrespectful to Nigerians and yet they collabo with us. Rubbish

Relax it's all fun. All na hustle hes just trying to make himself happy.
Has life not treated him badly enough?

Wickedfacts:


Kindly disappoint everyone by posting something sensible.

For ur mind u ve said something sensible
Shu shu run along now kido

Wickedfacts:
Just for a minute imagine that Biggie was female and it was a male housemate that cursed like that. What would our dumb feminists say? Toxic masculinity, patriarchy, bla bla bla.

This is the reason she was unable to keep her marriage. Lack of self control.

Mind you, many feminists would turn a blind eye to this terrible behaviour, simply because they don't hate oppression, they only hate when they are the ones being oppressed.

Oga marriage keeper weldone sir

Op tx for d info with regards to car cover, 80% of d time our cars are parked around d office areas. Shud we then cover d car each day at d office? Wudnt pipo look look at us weirdly. Pls respond if there are other measures I can use

FarahAideed:
Which corruption again ? I thought Buhari has made Nigeria Corruption free

Good question