Mvici:
1992 pikin still be child maybe na the way I take reason the matter.

Thanks anyway.

Check the number of likes on that comment you will understand that, that's truth...
All the best.

DontBullshitMe:
UI is a stressful school.

Countless TDB's. . .

No tangible regret though.

Greatest of the Greatest Uities

Kenneygirl:
-never really lived
-never been truly happy

Sorry about that dear, your time will surely come...

Dudotessy21:
Am so proud of my virginity

So proud of you, pretty you...

Ishilove:

Better cancellation than SS problem. I lost my cousin to sickle cell at age 14, and I have another cousin, a 20 year old SS boy whose medical needs have almost wrecked his father to the extent he is going around looking for who to beg money for medicine from as we are about to enter rainy season. His dad, my mum's younger brother told my mum that mosquito must not bite the boy otherwise he would have a crisis.

The pains of having a sickle cell child is better imagined than experienced.

Haemoglobin profiling test is key now, just doing a genotype test doesn't help anymore, if you are AA please go for HAEMOGLOBIN PROFILING TEST to be sure you are truly AA, to avoid the story of being AA and birthing SS

martineverest:
nope...my cousin lives there

Ok Sir...

martineverest:
I saw it coming..corona in bonny is something else

Are you in Bonny island?

Damidave1124:
More

Are you from Isanlu?...

Pe Baba, alafia re, wa oninia nmi.

Davash222:
As a kid, I used to believe Education is the key.

Education is still the key brother...

When your call finally come through, it's takes a nobody's kids/ children to eat with the Kings,
education makes you fly without a wing...


That call will definitely come through one day brother.

Lamanii22:
Just take your time... Think it through... Whatever decision you make I am in full support....

Wisdom... But this is a faceless platform

adontcare:
it's not some women that wrote the law. Face it and stop mentioning me.

Being mentally unstable or lunatic has many sides, some only see their view as the only valid point even when thousands of people are showing him/her the way... That's what are at the moment, check your self little girl, something is wrong somewhere, my little piece.

cococandy:
All these withdrawal method guys.
Una never see anything.

I 've done that over the years for a perfect child spacing and till date we have no reason to do family planning of any kind... It's all about discipline on the part of the man.

bukatyne:


I see two issues:

1. You both are earning below the standard of living you have set for yourselves. In what ways is your husband trying to increase his earnings?

2. Do you have a written budget where you can track income with expenditure so you see where you can cut expenses (I know what you have is not enough however, that will reduce the mental stress on you).

3. You have the classic egoistic Nigerian husband. How do you navigate them? By apologizing when issues crop up whether you are wrong or not. Yorubas call that apology 'gba je n simi' or 'sorry, let me rest.'
So issues come up, it is quickly 'sweetheart, sorry, I did not mean it like that.', 'sorry, no vex' etc.

4. His spiritual life: what happened to the man that wanted to be a pastor? Just how you leaned on him for spiritual growth, you might need to return the favour now.

And good that you have to wisdom to avoid his blows since you are still willing to stay.

Thanks for this analysis... You must have been long in marriage

simplepee:
Very cool but can WE wait?

I like this "CAN WE WAIT" so it's not about the man only, both of you are involve...

I discover the young woman is not married yet, hence her case is like an unmarried pastor counseling couples

Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa.. this your meme eh? I don laugh taya.
Well, like I said, there are other ways you can help relieve ogar without him necessarily penetrating. I mean ... It for your own good. As for me, that's what I'll do when I get married. Because after listening to complains of Young mothers who after child birth could not get their hooha back to size, I resolved within me to observe the full waiting period. Our mothers know better.

Hubby will have to chilax o because if anything goes wrong, they'll jump on the next available mhm.. Lol

Now I understand you perfectly... You are not married yet, you are just like the un-married pastors counseling couples

wittyt98:
Eyah! Congrats to her

but whether u choose Islam, Christianity, Buddhism, Hinduism, Jew, Orisha or amadioha. Religion will always be what it is.
(Opium of the people)

Very very true brother, I tot I'm the only one on that page...

Russo35:


Please Google and read more on "Patient 31"
I won't say more than that

Religion has turned them senseless... Leave them.

xendra:
you know what? I forgive you.

Perfect response...

Futurejoy:

Are you referring to your husband as your “housemate”?

Sure, she did... Possibly that's how they roll.

megareal:

You know it is your type I would love to put in the same room with just one of my cousins who are leaders in the occult. Thirty minutes only, alone with one of them and this your supposed educated mentality will vamoose fiam. That is if your mouth will ever be able to say what you have seen. Or if your educated brain would even remain the same after the encounter.
You know why I know and believe God is real and I worship and serve Him? Because I have seen both worlds. The devil is very real too.

Can you please stop responding to some quotes, they know little about spiritism and they can only jab on a faceless platform like this...

megareal:

Yes, but i haven't seen nor call him in a while.

I will love to know him... That's if possible

Chi59:
I haven't been fortunate with guys.
My first attempt at a relationship failed woefully.
And so did the second, third and fourth.
It isnt entirely without a reason though.
I'm SS. I have been a Sickle cell advocate for many years. I don't shy away from talking about it on any level.

Apart from that fact, I'm beautiful, smart, funny, very lovely, outgoing (even as an ambivert). I poses a healthy level of empathy, self esteem and confidence.

Physically I'm tall, slim, moderately endowed. I have been told that I look healthier than some "healthy" people.
So I don't know, what am I lacking?
All the guys I've been in love with, for one flimsy reason or the other just disappear for no reason. Just like that.

Of course, I don't hide my genotype status, but then they seem cool with it. Months later, he disappears and leaves me heartbroken.

Now I find myself liking someone again (the fifth guy). We haven't gotten that close but I'm scared. Should I lie to him? What do I tell him?

Allow love to grow before letting such information out, it's take love to take some risk...

We 've seeing people that marry different types of human of one challenge or the other, imagine a man that marries a blind woman or someone on a wheelchair, what did you think happened? Love don't allow you to see danger and challenges.

Bottom line, let's love come first, don't let it be the first conversation as you have been doing and talk as SS advocate, reality is different from talk, LIFE IS REAL. Manage your personal life and leave what you have been thought in SS meetings and advocacy talk

Epositive:
My apathy towards religion

Same here... Religion is a no no for me

Yenefer:

Bad logic... Non is working

mharyamikeola92:


This is serious,taking paracetamol on top another person’s headache...pls let me know if u need any help...stay safe sweetie

Op, I just love your response... Stay safe.

Commonsense101:

I just came across this thread , and it's quite disheartening how people think and interact in that part of the world.

Oga who died and made you king exactly? ?

If this man was trying to sell a car and he posted "important" information that was inconsistent, I would understand your interrogative stance....

Dude wanted a car,
dude utilized the service
Dude shared a story and experience

There's a big difference between a Lie and an inaccurate account... The difference is human error.

Not all incorrect information is a Lie...

When you Lie you have a MOTIVE ..... One that makes you DELIBERATELY DISTORT , RELEVANT information with the intent to mislead. ....(Note "relevant" . He has no reason to do that.

If for instance he said the report was erroneous, when in fact it was accurate, that's distortion of am important information.

If he said he chatted the man at 1a.m. but it was at 2.am .... How the fvvck is that relevant?

Only someone who is " LOOKING" for a reason to fault will dwell on irrelevant nonsense while ignoring the big picture.....

Did he contact the VIN guy?

Did the VIN guy give accurate information?

Is this thread about his experience with the VIN guy?

Does he have a right to share his experience?

If the above are true then what the fvvck are you people On about!??

What is he lieing about exactly ?!

You need to calm your titties Inspector Gadget.

This is just another sheepish display of caucus mentality on this forum. I see that nonsense all the time, and I just shake my head. Some group of people consider themselves Lords of the
Manor, for place wey dem no buy land.

visit western forums where beta human beings with better skills dey, and see how civil thier interactions are. Some local champions go just dey here dey puff up for nothing.

Radarada!

My long time crush... No vex ( je-ebure), who is making you vent like this?
Regards to hubby, although I was not invited.
Cheers.

darlenese:
so plenary session has been suspended for 2 weeks , all these Senators nor won cash the virus , yet they allowed us to send our kids to school .

shouldn't there be two weeks holiday for school children as well

Op for safety purposes, if you are not comfortable sending your kids to school please do, we don't need to wait for government to keep our kids safe...