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Romance / Re: I Hate Men! Says This Lady Who Got Married At 19 (watch Video) by ola5858: 4:55pm On Aug 08, 2017
Did you listen and see their faces? These are oloshos who couldn't keep their homes. Dirty people.
Talk2Bella:
I fear who talk say marriage no de fear am.. (Isabella)

I have written severally about marriage, how it is an institution and not a home of restitution, marriage is a graduate school where if we choose we can decide to go for Masters and PhDs, it is a process of learning, what I'm I trying to say? Marriage is a continuous study where we learn everyday and also have patience with our teachers, in this case our spouses

I have seen so many people ( women especially) jump and rush into marriage due to pressure, money, envy, spite, or she just wants to be a MRS. It is worse when you see an 18 year old lady fantasizing about marriage, using Amara Kanu as an example, she is amongst the 1% early marriage will work for, she has sense, patience, charisma and a good tolerant husband.

I was with four ladies yesterday who had something in common, they'd gotten married too soon, too early and two of them have been chased out of their homes while the other two hate their husbands with passion, one of them is the breadwinner so she says her husband had no say in their home.

The lady lying down was sent out or her husband's house after he got rich, she gave birth to two boys before she was sent packing, before she was sent packing the husband impregnated a woman older than she was and brought her home, this older woman has kids who she in turn brought to her new husband's house lol.

The other lady has just one girl, while the one screaming she hates men has four kids, she says she hasn't enjoyed sex for one day that the husband only has sex with her to impregnate her.

The other lady says she doesn't respect her husband anymore so she does with him as she pleases.

They were all trying to convince me how men are scum and shouldn't be handled with soft hands, in my heart I wept, my father wasn't scum to my mother, my brother isn't scum to his girlfriend, no man has ever treated me like scum, how do I convince these Women that they have a share in the blame too? I sat there consoling these ladies crying, look at me in my 20's consoling women old enough to birth me.

Marriage isn't a do or die affair, I have heard mockery statements about how Ibo women don't marry early because they like to hustle and make money, but these early marriage traits are rampant amongst Ibo women, it is a thing of pride to see their daughters get married early and also give birth early, this doesn't mean only Ibo women are guilty, far from it, it has become a general issue; it might have worked for our ancestors but we live in different times now.

One day my mother said to me " Ifeoma 30 is the right age for a woman to get married" in my heart I said what's she talking about now, but today I can see it, most ladies aren't mentally matured enough to look after themselves not to talk of getting married.

My heart aches when I see children from broken homes, I was a product of one before my parents got back together and then my dad died, I do not wish single parenthood on any child, except death was the case. These women haven't seen their kids for long because their husbands won't allow it, they can't go to court because they aren't educated, they were chased out like common thieves and other women brought in.

Education and skills acquisition remains the best legacy, always have a backup\breakup plan because no one knows tomorrow. Marriage isn't a source or income, be financially free and independent. See where these women live, they don't have a dime to their names and no skills to support themselves.

I hope someone learns from this, I tried to convince them not all men are scum but their minds are made up, I fear for the husband of that lady who hates men I hope he amends his ways so we won't read a gory story about a wife murdering her husband.

Watch


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WFESpEUv2Q

http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/08/i-hate-men-says-this-lady-who-got.html?m=1

Isabella Ibeji.

Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa And Joe Ciroc Rumored To Be Dating (Photos) by ola5858: 1:14pm On Aug 08, 2017
You think he cares? Have u seen his cute son and homely baby mama? Maje calculated well after his mistakes marrying toke. Dis one will soon leave her too.
subtlemee:
A loss to maje

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Romance / Re: Will You Still Love Me If I Say I Am A Witch? by ola5858: 9:40am On Aug 08, 2017
Hey folake how are you today? care to chat?
folakemigeh:
As the topic really goes by. I have been offended by guys/boys/men/guyman/runzboys/ etc

I have dated some guys whom i shouldn't have even thought of dating at all



But the truth is i have had several multiple relationships


So i want to ask the guys now
. Will u still date me if you found out that i am a witch?

NB; i need mature responses
Celebrities / Re: D'banj: Why I Kept My Marriage To Didi Kilgrow A Secret by ola5858: 8:26am On Aug 08, 2017
Can you marry an Afonja like me from osun state? If yes, lets do it secretly. Do you look like didi and will give me their kind of son?
folakemigeh:
Very fine couple, the girl particularly is such an amazing beauty..


May God bless your union


I just can't wait to get married cry
Sports / Re: Neymar And Friends Party On Yacht (Photos) by ola5858: 9:32pm On Aug 07, 2017
Yes and M.I is the MC
buchilino:
IS IT A GAY PARTY?.
Celebrities / Re: MI Abaga: "The Gay Law In Nigeria Is Stupid" by ola5858: 9:24pm On Aug 07, 2017
Dirty maaaan. Gay
tintingz:
I support M.I

I'm not gay and I'm not anti-gay.

Gays should be left alone, the law against them is bullshit, many homosexuals is not their fault they are gays, it is scientifically shown there are gay gene, while some gays are having gender dysphoria, a disorder that makes them feel they are in wrong body(assigned gender). People should be educated and tolerate homosexuals for thier sexual orientation as long they are not hurting anyhow, I don't see how gays are affect anyone, they are the not one killing, terrorizing, slaughtering innocent people everywhere.

I use to hate gays until when I did research about them and I realize there are biological and psychological reasons many people are LGBT.

People should stop using their religion to condemn gays or call for their killings, some countries kill homosexuals which is barbaric, killing is not the solution, there are gays among animals, I wonder why Yahweh or Allah didn't destroy gay animals like he did in that Jewish story book(if it really happened).

Let's love and stop the hate.
Health / Re: Lady Marks 10 Years Of Being Infected With HIV By Her Husband On Wedding Night by ola5858: 9:44am On Aug 07, 2017
Well i blame you woman. why didnt you get your own doctor to check both of you. This must be americans. Always love to fall for the wrong idiots
FlirtyKaren:
HIV/AIDS advocate, Ladybryd, is celebrating her 10th year of living with HIV after she getting infected by her ex-husband on their wedding night. 

She further disclosed that her husband kept lying about his status before they got married, but he took her life into his own hands and chose to lie in the most explainable way, even when she trusted him with her life. Here's her story;

"10 years ago on this date was the first time I was exposed to his HIV. Before this date we had NEVER had unprotected sex. I was very adamant about it. Your wedding night is the time to consummate the marriage. Well my wedding night we did that but he also knowingly exposed me to his HIV.

I trusted him with my life and he took my life into his own hands and chose to lie in the most explainable way! From that trip to the doctor when he said his HIV test was negative, to his mom telling me to ask him about HIV and he saying he didn't know what she was talking about just days before the wedding, to having unprotected sex with his WIFE on our wedding night, to the doctor telling me that I WAS HIV POSITIVE, to me finding out about other women and possibly men he was sleeping with, and ALL THE WAY UP TO SENTENCING he lied!

when the judge said, "we have you on a recorded conversation admitting that you had HIV since 2002" the lies stopped! I was 24 years old on this day August 4, 2007 and on this day my body was introduced to HIV."

http://www.lailasblog.com/lady-marks-10-years-infected-hiv-husband-wedding-night/

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Politics / Re: President Buhari Calls Obiano On Phone Over Ozubulu Catholic Church Attack by ola5858: 9:24am On Aug 07, 2017
Was in it igbo or hausa? grin grin grin grin
Politics / Re: Andy Uba Weeps, Assists Ozubulu Catholic Church Victims With Cash (Photos) by ola5858: 8:38pm On Aug 06, 2017
see aunty obi and faith pastor hubby don old finish oooo grin grin grin grin
Celebrities / Re: DJ Cuppy Shows Off Her Father's Ikoyi Mansion by ola5858: 7:33pm On Aug 06, 2017
Please can i be your house boy?
JamieNaija:
Nigerian DJ, Ifeoluwa Otedola aka DJ Cuppy arrived Nigeria not too long ago and moved straight to her father, Femi Otedola's Ikoyi mansion.

DJ Cuppy shared an outside view and also showed off her room which hasn't changed since she was 13, with all her toys in place.

Such a baby.

NEWS VIA: http://www.jamienaija.com/2017/08/dj-cuppy-shows-off-her-father-ikoyi.html

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Romance / Re: I Am Looking For A Pilot To Marry - Nigerian Lady On Twitter Cries Out by ola5858: 7:13pm On Aug 06, 2017
Tell Omotola husband to introduce you to his pilot friends. Oleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Family / Re: Sidechick Reports Husband To His Wife After He Cheated On Her With Her Friends by ola5858: 7:11pm On Aug 06, 2017
I love where the woman said her hubby is so sweet and care for the kids. whatesle should she ever care for? madam move on provided he doesnt bring them home cus you can never stop it. man are cheats in nature.

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Family / Re: This Couple Graduated From High School In 2015, Got Married And Bought A House by ola5858: 6:34pm On Aug 06, 2017
House on mortgage abi? come try am for naija na! even for sango wey dirty, una no go fit buy house. Thank God for good country like usa.
Celebrities / Re: Sophia Momodu Looks Hot In Davido Customized shirt by ola5858: 5:34pm On Aug 06, 2017
Never you make mistake and marry a baby mama cus she will everly be still chopping her baby daddy. That bond never dies as far as a child is involved.
Religion / Re: Gunmen Kill Worshippers At A Catholic Church In Ozubulu, Anambra State (Graphic) by ola5858: 2:17pm On Aug 06, 2017
But why must innocent people pay for the rich man's drug business he didnt deliver to his bosses? what a wicked world.
Family / For Single Mothers Or Single Ladies by ola5858: 7:37am On Aug 06, 2017
Any single rich mother for true love should holla at me.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: any lady for true love? by ola5858: 7:36am On Aug 06, 2017
ok
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: 2024!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by ola5858: 7:30am On Aug 06, 2017
But the deal is for ladies not a guy bro.
JoshuaAkinmi:
contact Sunday_joshua02@yahoo.com is interested
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: 2024!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by ola5858: 6:59pm On Aug 05, 2017
A guy in abuja is interested in meeting a girl who is well to do and can finance both of them to America. I already got two years visa and can carry any lady who is interested as my wife. But preferably someone who doesnt have a passport cus she will do a fresh one in my name. If we get to america and we wish to continue fine. I am yoruba and i am 35 years old. Single mother of one or two can also be great with kids of 4 & 3years old.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: 2024!! Marriages For Working Class: Drop Your Contact And Get Your Spouse Now. by ola5858: 6:40pm On Aug 05, 2017
I live in abuja too. care to chat?
Lovebliss2:
I'm a female.Live and work in Abuja.Interested?please,send pm.(Serious,matured and responsible guy.35-37 years)
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: .. by ola5858: 4:58pm On Aug 05, 2017
I am not a what you want but please if you have a friends that wants true love in the u.s, please hook me up. I am coming in september 17th. Thanks
aztec44:
Still open!
Dating And Meet-up Zone / any lady for true love? by ola5858: 3:37pm On Aug 05, 2017
ok.
Family / Re: Man Divorces Wife Born With No Vagina (Photos) by ola5858: 3:32pm On Aug 05, 2017
Doesn't enter at all.
czarina:
When a woman has vaginismus, her vagina's muscles squeeze or spasm when something is entering it, like a tampon or a penis. It can be mildly uncomfortable, or it can be painful.

There are exercises a woman can do that can help, sometimes within weeks.

Symptoms

Painful sex is often a woman's first sign that she has vaginismus. The pain happens only with penetration. It usually goes away after withdrawal, but not always.

Women have described the pain as a tearing sensation or a feeling like the man is "hitting a wall.".........where does it say no vagina opening? FYI.... Got that from webmd
Family / Re: Man Divorces Wife Born With No Vagina (Photos) by ola5858: 10:55pm On Aug 04, 2017
True i once dated an akwa ibom babe like that. check google on virginismus.
czarina:
Ayam not understanding this story Op explain , she no get vj yet her mama was 'dildoing' her, how's that possible and the mumu 'molds' pushed this incomplete story to front page.
Crime / Re: Man Who Killed His Banker Girlfriend Nabbed Along Uganda-kenya Border (photos) by ola5858: 6:38pm On Aug 04, 2017
I said yesterday his in rwanda from there to kenya and kenya to tanzania and to calabar. i saw it all with my mirror in abuja.
Celebrities / Re: Daniel Oyebanjo: D'banj's Son Cute In New Photos by ola5858: 2:13pm On Aug 04, 2017
If i ever put my sperm on any black woman without condom, make i die after cum grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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