4ward4:


Low pressure madam. Marriage issue dem no the do I too know, it's like stray bullets...
With what this young man have described despite he kept repeating he loves her and don't mind taking her back, I believe getting married to the lady would have been a total waste of time, because a divorce is certain to happen.
When two incompactable fellow get married, even if they have 50 kids, they will definitely go their separate ways on day.
Young man do what makes you happy and right in the eyes of God , definitely alot of folks won't understand. So I advice you forger about what man will say.

nothing can justify cohabiting with a woman for 10 years. If she was so bad he would’ve left after 2 years. It doesn’t take 10 years for a man to realise he doesn’t want to commit to a woman. Truth is he will never ever marry that girl.. he has seen her finish even if he decides to take her back. He has pushed that girl to the limit and frustrated her life for the past 10 years, she has finally reacted by ransacking his home and now he wants to use that as a justification for his wickedness.

edoncast:


So i should not cry cos of my flash and certificates ?

if you like cry blood of tears, it doesn’t change the fact that you are wicked. She supposed to even throw acid on your body as per a true Yoruba woman, wasting her time for 10 years and thinking you can get away with it. I would’ve taken more than your property, I would’ve taken something you can never replace.

edoncast:



U r married on nairaland right ?

You don’t have any level. Serial baby daddy crying online because his girlfriend took his property. You are not a man, you don’t deserve any respect at all we look down on people like you. You do not hold any position in society, just creating broken homes and moving around like a child. This your new dumbo girlfriend, she will probably be the one to kill you sef. Nonsense.

edoncast:



Says a lady at 35 still hunting for a guy

im married baby boy, in my 20s. Try again.

edoncast:



In all these sa ,i will still love to marry her cos i still love her but i also love my new girl .She is the best thing that i have ever happened to me this year .She is a good girl and if my ex stays too late to come back ,i will marry my new girl this year .She is almost through in school .Just a session left for her in school.

My ex lack of patience and ability to think freely without her relative bad input caused her all these

your new girlfriend will show you worse if you marry her. You never see anything. Continue.

edoncast:



When she was not talking about marriage, should i be the one to talk about it ?

She was so comfortable she forgot about marriage. EVEN her relatives /parents never mentioned about marriage .This is someone i still love despite all odds .Even if she comes back now, i will gladly accept her back but she is so stubborn .Even her relatives are fucking stubborn too

Only God knows why marriage didnt come up all these years??

Only God knows

is she the one to talk about marriage or are you supposed to as a man, take charge to do the right thing? Or you expect her and the family to be begging you to pay her bride price? You are wicked.. and I completely understand why she ransacked your home.

edoncast:


I have already spent a lot replacing these items .The money i used to make these replacenents are the money i kept to get a new apartment after expiration of my rent this month.

Spent 150k already .The mattress alone cost 60k excluding marwa charge ..i have moved on but my documents and flash are important

why were you fckin this girl in your house for 10 years without putting a ring on her finger despite giving you a son? Answer this question because maybe that’s the reason why she ransacked your house. She is angry and bitter.. which is rightfully so.

edoncast:


So i should not have a gf for 3 months ?Do u know if she is already fucking too?

why did you cohabit with her for 10 years without marrying her, to me thats wickedness.. now you want to move on with your life like nothing has happened. You are wicked.

If women stop cooking, cleaning.. taking care of kids or perform their wifely duties just for 5 days.. most men will pack their load to a beer parlour to drink and smoke away their problems. Men cannot handle 1% of what they dish out.

My advice to you is to never have another child for this man, no matter what. The one child you have is enough to gradually get back on your feet. You have another child for him, you are on your own.

accordadoga25:
See as she fine for the first pic..

Worwor thing…

Give her better 👋

it’s not the same person.

Manydays01:


All these are useless if you're not good looking. You only need your looks bro. Nothing else matters

you need to listen to that man. Most men are average or below. It’s rare to see extremely handsome men, but how you carry yourself matters a lot.

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Go out with your friends and find another man to keep you company. That’s if you know you’re not ready to divorce.. that’s the only thing you can do in the situation. If you nag him, you will frustrate yourself in the process. You cannot stop a man from doing what he wants to do, so leave him and live your life. Collect any money he gives you and focus on your kids and your happiness.

Babatunjo:
Spiritual advice:

■Best age for girls to marry (I.e. their peak of beauty and maturity) = 22 years to 28 years

■Best age for boys to marry (i. e. their peak of success, wisdom, physicality and maturity) = 32 years to 38 years.


■If you were a girl, then I would have advised you to marry, but as a boy, you still need at least 8 years (minimum) to get to your peak.

■Don't let that your account balance deceive you, you haven't reached the peak of your potential yet and if you marry now, it will slow you down because your babe will be at her peak by now and rule (/and ruin) your kingdom for you.

how can a woman’s peak of maturity start at 22? Let’s not be silly here. If we are talking about beauty alone fine, which is the main reason a lot men marry women anyways, and it rarely ends well.

Chiraq77:
The Nigerian Standard for "Curvy" is laughable

honestly, because to me this woman is not curvy at all, she’s just huge. But each to their own.

DREAMHOMES6970:


I don't think so. I heard from someone in UK that there are places you can get 500 to 600 pounds accomodation monthly. With other bills included I don't you should be exceeding 50% of ur pay on expenses if you are someone that have target and purpose.

with the way prices are rising , there are no accommodations and inflation is a big issue here. You’ll be lucky to see a one bedroom house for 1000 especially if you are living close to London.

Good looking couple

Stagnancy in your life that you need to break

habsydiamond:
Na so dem dey do... always laying curse when they have been abandoned. I have never seen a man laying curse in a woman for leaving him to marry another but still ur brother needs to be prayerful. Cos some ladies can go extra mile to hurt u if u breakup with them

you can’t compare a woman’s time to a man’s time. Men can marry at 45 and have kids, women can’t. Huge difference, time is very important for women.

Dshocker:



Why are you jealous of her success, considering the fact that you are also a girl?

jealous? Lol okay

Life is what you make it. If you sit down and moan about xyz., that is what you will get in return. If you make An effort to mingle and meet people, you will surely recieve favour. U.K. is a place that you have to make serious efforts to build your network. You can’t sit on your phone all day, go to work and straight back home and expect to have people around you.

Use up your annual leave. Dont work yourself into depression because money is not everything, and depression kills faster. Get rid of your ego and be open minded, you will eventually adapt. Uk can never be as bubbly as naija.. but you can have your small fun here and there if you know the right people.

LordErrk:


People say a lot of things about people they don't like, you that, don't you?

these are her close associates. But I get you

LordErrk:


Mad o. How you know?

I know people that know her.

ante56:
What would you do if you are married, but your husband isn’t nice to you
Doesn’t show you attention, care or love but he has time for the ladies around him, gives them enough attention and care even though he claims he is not cheating
As a married woman who is lacking all these from her husband, is it okay for me to cheat on my husband?

if you want to cheat cover it well and make sure he never finds out. Sometimes you need to release the tension and let someone else shower you with attention, body no be firewood. But try to work it out with your husband and pray,

LordErrk:


Nigerian musicians dey ever date girl wey get sense like this? Na only werey people wey no get job dem like.
Abeg make dem leave this baby girl, na me go marry am

This woman is into money laundering and prostitution. Don’t be deceived.

Enemyofpeace:
How old woman like this go dey do pond? All the pond movies wey I don watch na young ladies full them and not old women like this one. Pond movies are for young people

milf porn is the most watched porn in the world. People seem to like mature women

Every married couple have their ways of functioning. Some married couples don’t even live together by choice. Some are living more like friends or business partners. Some see each other once every 4 months. My dad has never lived with his wife and they’ve been happily married for 20 years, they recently travelled to Dubai together last month. If they are happy and not chasing each other with knives then leave them alone.

nickxtra:
And you are married?

yes

Not a big deal. I use the emoji all the time . Try not to bother yourself About minor things.

Too big. Look at her neck. Wife is prettier

BlackZeus17:
A nairalander got wedded today as the hit the ronaldo's peace of mind celebration in their wedding photo

your wife is so beautiful, she looks like a model. Dark young and pretty. Congrats and welcome to the club.