Humblebloke:



...... I understand your plight,about a year ago.... I was a muslim too.... I still speak arabic,I love the language.


Its not an arabian religion.....originated from arabian land, an arabian man was the main character...... Texts are written in arabic which is the language allah loves the most.... Stories are basically about the arabian way of life...



You bought their culture and neglected your own culture....it's .really pathetic

You should try going through the history books......

The other middle eastern religion.....christianity..... has got more adherents.....its ''worldwide'' too

I get your point, but then if religions have certificates then that of Islam is the Qur-aan and of Christianity is the Bible ( I am mentioning Christianity because you referred to its universality). In the texts of the Qur-aan, it is a message sent to the whole of the world, but for the Bible it is a message sent to the Israelites, so that distinguishes them about being universal or not.

As per you happening to being a Muslim in the past, no offence mate, but the truth is at that time you haven't grasped what exactly you were practising.

So, if I may ask, from a brother to another, which do you practise now?

MrOlai:


Wonderful!

May Allah(SWT) reward you for this wonderful piece. Jazakumullah khaeran.

Wa iyyakum

Reski:
please enlighthen us with the procedures.

1. Seeking the consent of her Waliyy (Father or any figure of such if father isn't available)

2. The consent of the lady

3. Agreement of Mahr ( this stands as dowry and belongs to the wife)

4. Availability of at least two witnesses

5. Sighatul 'Aqd ( the statement of agreement that would be said between the giver of bride and the receiver or his representative)

6. Publicising it (this refers to allowing people come together for this purpose, but within the financial capacity of the organisers)

I hope the brief is OK. Each of them has its own explanations, but bottom line is for serious minded individuals who aren't searching for angels, none of them isn't achievable given that a genuine interest exists.

And Allah knows best.

Humblebloke:




This will not work for everyone..... It's the 21st century



The arabian religion is really outdated

I truly laughed when I saw 'Arabian' religion. The moment it is Arabian it isn't Islam. Islam is worldwide, there is nothing Arabian about it. It is applicable everywhere except where isn't created by Allah.

daridex:

that was then.....looking at how things are right now, people are shadows of themselves...many are fair weather.... so its better you know your spouse too well before jumping into hell

Well, then, take a sample of those that dated for as long as it takes them around you and see if they all got married. Most won't, some will. For the some, check if they don't have troubles; it impossible.

We fail to understand that we are getting married to human beings and they stand to have their deficiencies.

You know where peace of mind is, if you marry someone who is conscious of Allah, believe me, you will understand that humanly they are incomplete, but as far as what is due to you is concerned, you are guaranteed. Because they deal with Allah first before passing it to you.

Most homes today that find it hard to work with are either of Muslims by name or partially practising Muslims. If fully practising, only experience can convince them.

daridex:
op. if we didnt date or court, how i go marry am

jazakallah khair

If you don't date or court, the number 1 thing that would spur your interest towards marrying her would be because of her religion and thereafter, the genuineness that you REALLY want to marry her and not just use and dump (no offence meant, just explaining).

Marrying someone without the kind of courtship that we know today goes a long way to tell that this person I'm getting married to has a 60% chance of marrying me for who I am and not possibly an angelic figure.

It isn't a matter of meeting someone in a day and marrying such person that day all in the name of no courtship, no; only that Islam has procedures WHEN YOU ARE READY TO GET MARRIED. A lot of us want to enjoy the companionship of the opposite sex WITHOUT accepting the responsibilities of legal spouses, that is what Islam detests.

The danger in having a longterm companionship is the risk of committing fornication, which is a capital sin as far as Islam is concerned.

To think of it, if courtship is the solution to getting married to the wrong person, why then do we have breakups here and there?

I'm married and i am happily married, nothing brought myself and my wife together other than knowing that she is a muslim and a human being. She has her deficiencies and I have mine. We cope with each other like brother and sister and know how to manage our communication. We got married in August of a year and I met her the December preceding that August. What else could have made us marry like that if not the INTEREST to marry.

tubiqaasim@gmail.com

Please, these invites I guess are for the Graduate Management Trainee Applications, because I applied for the Graduate Analyst and haven't got any invite. Relevant info pls.......

It is a statement of fact that there is unrest in d northern Nigeria, but it has also been clamoured overtime that Islam doesn't support such tinz and should not be in anyway related to Islam.
on another end, if one so claims that we are clamouring over a piece of cloth, then I wonder what understanding of a religion that person has (no offence meant). Perhaps, his/her religion stops in the house of worship (so to say). It is worth noting that Islam as a religion is a 'Comprehensive way of Life', that keeps u in contact with God EVERYTIME (that I can categorically state). So, anyone who claims to be a Muslim is affected spiritually, economically, socially, philosophically and appearance wise, by the TENETS of God's rule.

People should take their times to study what Islam is all about before resulting to blasphemy.
In Allah we trust and May He grant us Success over this.....hijaab for eternity#

Qualitygoddy:
the admission list is stil undergoing update nd uploads. Ur case is dat dey r stil working on yr admision status. Check back lyk at 9t time or 2moa mrning u'll c dat u've been admitted. So a little advice, stay off ur portal 4 abt 5hrs to prevent any alteration. Congrats in advance

Thanks, man. Will take 2 d advice

Please, guys, I need 2confirm this, PLS. I can see the portal to upload my results and etcetera, but my 'Admission Status' still reads : You have not been admitted check back, please!

PLEASE< HELP!

Please, is there anyone who has been admitted for SOCIOLOGY, PLEASE. Especially if it is chosen as a Change of Course form alternative? PLEASE< need replies ASAP

pls, if I write my exam today (p.utme), what is d earliest possible tym for me to check ma result and who knows the cut off for Sociology? Thanks

pls, how do i get to Unilorin from lagos? Where to drop at and relevant info as such. Thanks

youngsoye: @all,plz help me check my rsult cuz i don't wanna check it myself exam numba:26086513gb surname:adesoye

you have to provide ur password, not ur surname.

ilomacbelll: enybody who is yet 2 regsta shud go to deir center wit acknowledgemt slip cos they wil attend to u.dont worry we shal meet in ilorin by d special grace of Allah.

Please, which centre r u referring to, Lagos or Ilorin? Please, reply. 'cos the lagos centre has being removed from the centres' list.

guys, help. I'm still having problem scheduling. It's really frustrating. What do i do?

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u scored 46%

Please, help o. i can't schedule for my test o. All other things solved, but wenever I input my Jamb Reg numba into the UNIQUE ID port it returns this

"We are unable to locate your record at this time and so scheduling cannot be completed. Please ensure that the information you provided is correct".


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