fonssy: you no get dictionary for your phone? Next time you see word way you no know, consult your dictionary first. Google am too.Even nursery school pikin know wetin be chimney.

Lol....do you know this guy b4 ? You sound like he just offended you....jeez

eldoradoxx: the bible says do no despise ur youth. The pride of a young person should not be messed around with. So if u slap ur 23 year old son and he doesn't hit u back, examine him well, something is wrong somewhere.

Bro, eph 6:1 says honour ur fada and ur moda dat it may be well with u. And its do not despise d days of ur yut. It didn't say, slap ur parents when dey do so

eldoradoxx: Try slapping back, it helps. That was how I stopped mine from hitting me and ever since then she respects me!

U slapped ur mum back ? D woman who carried u for 9 months ? Who fed u, and took care of u ? U need serious help to avoid your children doing that back to u

1. There must be somethings you are doing that can warrant that. At your age, that's grossly out of it. Maybe you rely on her too much for things, which shouldn't be at this age. Maybe she's discussing marriage or job or sth, and you are not responding well. Finally, maybe there are signs of immaturity in you, so she still qualifies you as a child, no matter your age once those childish characteristics are still there.
2. You said if it continues, you will move in with your dad. Maybe she feels she spends and has spent a lot on you, and so has full control on you. If that is it, then you have to contribute your own financial quota, and carefully, patiently explain to her, that u are no more a kid, and remove dose childishness

ANYONE'S OPINION, VIEW , IDEA IRRESPECTIVE OF WHO YOU ARE IS USELESS, WHEN THE BIBLE SAYS SOMETHING ELSE
1. GOD HONOURS VIRGINS.....E.G MARY, IT SHOULD BE A PRIDE TO YOU THAT YOU KEPT YOURSELVES FOR EACH ODA ONLY
2. GOD IS TOTALLY AGAINST PRE MARITAL SEX....
3. IF PRE MARITAL SEX HAS HAPPENED, THEY CAN'T BE JOINED. INSTEAD THE CHURCH SHOULD DISCIPLINE THEM E.G SUSPEND THEM FROM THEIR GROUP ACTIVITIES. THE PROBLEM OF MOST PEOPLE IS THEY WANT TO DO WHAT THEY LIKE, CHRISTAINS NOT CHURCH GOERS WHO MISTAKENLY FALL INTO SIN WILL BE SOBERRR NOT ARGUING ON GRACE.

osifred: Nobody is saying getting pregnant before the wedding is good but the church denying you wedding because you are pregnant is bad.

After my traditional marriage I will impregnate my wife before the church wedding. I don't see the essence of church wedding anyway and I think it is over hyped.

A pastor is meant to be a repesentative of God on earth, can God's blessings on your marriage be lightly esteemed ? The Elshaddai, your father, your creator, the one who owns the breath in you, the beginning and the end, the creator of the heavens and the earth psalm 24:1, psalm 19:1-3 and you thinj church wedding is over hyped Eeeew smh for you

patroccini:

No beef actually but if there is a way that they can find out whether they have had pre marital sex this issue will not occur but when someone goes for an abortion it is ok go and wed but when a couple decides that this is a gift from God and it should be treated as such you tell them they cant marry and you forget that marriage is not about the pastor but about the couple. The couple decides that they want to spend the rest of their life together the only thing the pastor comes to do is bless themso someone telling me he does not want to join three people is making a childish case because God is not a Child and if I have sinned by commiting fornication and I ask for his forgiveness he forgives me and decides to make amends by keeping the baby no pastor should play God.

Romans 6;1 says, shall we abound in sin, cos grace abounds more ? Bro, God's grace is there at all times, but the sin of fornication is a sin against the body...1 corithians 6:18. Should we say since grace abounds, fornication should abound more ? Pre marital sex should abound more ? Noo abstain rather 1 corithians says FLEE fornication. It didn't say God's grace covers it, the bible's standard is God's standard. Shall we say since grace abounds, sin should also abound ?

dammytosh: The last time i checked marriage in the bible, it is a union between A MAN and A WOMAN.

Not a Man , A woman and Her baby.

If you can not abide, look for another church that will allow you marry with 9 months pregnancy. Not a problem.

Had a quick laugh first...hebrews 13:4 says marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled. God ffrowns at pre marital sex, so the church have to make sure that it is done in accordance with God's will. Marriage is life long issue, and a covenant. The pastor which joins them, and the church should ensure that its done well, so no ones blood will be on his neck. Marriage is so important to God that its what symbolises our re union with christ revelations 21....any one's view, idea or perspective is irrelevant when the bible says other wise.

Lovethywilbedon: I think you are correct in all you said exccept in No 2. God is not against the use of image, otherwise He would not have ordered the use of the image of a serpent to heal the islealites, or the use of the image of the Cherubins on the Ark of Covenant. What He is against is Idolatry ie the worship of image as in the case of the Golden Calf. God can't be against the use of image and come back to order its use. But it is obvious He is against idolatry since He has not ordered it to be practiced but have punished those who practiced it in the past.

Bro, lemme explain better. The decree to hang a serpent on a tree is purely symbolic to repesent the lord jesus christ..'John 3:14' even as moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the son of man be lifted up' and their looking up to the serpent for healing is better explained by this 'hebrews 12:2a looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. God uses earthly things to explain supernatural things. Eg God told abraham to sacrifice his only son then provided a lamb as replacement, that lamb symbolises Jesus to take our place on the cross. Noah's ark also symbolises the coming rapture..john 3:12 says 'if I told u earthly things, and you believe not,how shall you believe if I told you heavenly things. The fact that God used noah's ark to explain the rapture, does that mean we should worship the ark If an example is given to us, does that mean we should look at the example more than the exam, d example is just to understand the exam. God is totally against idolatry, remember he was angry when aaron and israel made a golden calf