Ugosample:


hypocrite indeed

the jus sol issue is NOT my problem

if you want another passport for your kid, you have the right to

my own kids will not even use the Nigerian passport for anything, so what the heck, ?

what I am against still is the "corner corner" ways of Nigerians in general

And I am NOT saying any one should not do

But Do not justify such acts (that is if you want to use the corner corner way)
simple and short

Ugosample:


justwise was living elsewhere before he went schooling in the U.K.
So him returning to "Nigeria" is not even relevant here
back in the day you could apply for PSW or when dem Blair were in office HSMP, and your company, if you were lucky to get a job, could also file for you.

it is now that the Tories have closed the door to all those routes

So you bringing that up is not relevant at all...

Ugosample:


What does my living in CIV have to do with anything,?

I have gotten more than 7 visas to different countries since I started staying in CIV and on no account did I abuse any of the visas

why would I leave my thriving businesses in CIV and move to Brazil that I don't know anybody?


you think my life is like a rudderless ship with no direction like your own, which is just looking for any chance to run away from NiggerArea?

I'm bigger and beyond that.


what is wrong is WRONG, even tho people do it, that is what I'm saying, and that is the stance of civilised people

NiggerArea has so polluted you people's mentality that you dont see wrong in wrong things anymore
.the same society worship fraudsters, hoes, political and corporate thieves and drug dealers, because they have money, so I am NOT surprised by the comments I read here in this forum

How can one intentionally go to abuse ones system (nobody said you should or shouldn't) And still justify it?


what kind of country people do I have bikonu

everybody knows stealing is wrong, even tho many do it.
But justifying stealing for example is just madness


@AngelicBeing
you see your country people?

Fallawx:
We no dey follow you drag . But why you no go back naija after ur academic session. Abi uk passport don turn 2 for #5 . For your information I get family for Uk and they are doing fine . This table you are shaking .

Ugosample:


well I am NOT a Nigerian resident like that

(spend less than 3 months there)
and yea, Nigeria is a very hard country to live in

But still.....

all these we are doing to "escape Nigeria" is somewhat crooked

the end justifies the means, like many Nigerians think
But they should not justify such

justwise:


Yes I live abroad, yes I have lived here longer than 3yrs and no single member of family ever ever got involved in immigration fraud.

I’m not responsible for what my friends do neither do I have any friend who is into immigration fraud and actively support such and there is no compound to sanitise

Adjo10:
So he is even not in Brazil. I’m sure he has never been there too. No wonder . Well... maybe he is sad that people are getting a good Brazilian passport faster than one can in the UK. It is very sad how people cannot be honest. If you don’t know about Brazil, why do you waste our breath debating with you. I’m no more wasting my energy on these guys

NONNYG:
Nigerian passport?


hope not UK passport cos i read you went there to study not as a means to become citizen, if you acquire their passport, it's ILLEGAL

youngwifeinneed:



Thanks. I have been deceived by living on the opinions of most of the popular Nairalanders I mentioned. Now I know better that truly marriage is not a partnership, but a special and sacred union. I hope my husband will find a place in his good heart to forgive me for taken his goodness for granted.

youngwifeinneed:
He has become emotionally blank towards me, so I no longer feel loved. This is unlike before. To his credit, he has been a good husband and and father to me and our kid so far. Both of us work, he takes care of almost everything in the house and buys every property in our name as a family, while I support when I want to and I earn more than him.

He does not cheat on me, so also I do not cheat on him. However, I have one property I bought in my name, I told him my decision before making payment for it. He did not object my idea, and to be honest if he had objected my idea of buying the property in my name, I would have still gone ahead to buy it anyway, because I believe we are partners in the marriage and I have right to do whatever I want to do with my money. This emotional absence from him started after I bought the property in my name. Did I do anything wrong? What do I do to win him back? I am young, sexy and beautiful woman.

I buy the property in my name alone because I do not want to have regret in the future. Maybe if my husband die or marry another woman. I do not want my children to suffer.

I have been a quest of this forum for many years, and I always read and admire comments from popular people like pocohantas, funmisticqueen, cococandy, elder0001, lilian789, acidosis01, jakandeola, victorian, carammel, Eberechi24, NwanyiAwkaetiti, XhosaNostra. Also, I usually live my life according to your opinions because I do consider them brilliant. Help me people.

post=75069284:
This is interestingly interesting.

Some EXPENSIVE SH#T.

RIP BABA 70!!


Chief wailer, God will grant your heart desires soon.
Take heart, you are not alone in this.
Their is always a first time.
All the very best for the future with this!

wetdick:


so dick sucker, you had to make a meme to express yourself. very interesting.

wetdick:


exactly coming from a known gay guy, go and join your gay colleague, i love pussy but pussy do not stop me from thinking logically, i am not one of you guys that depend on a woman for papers.

go and get your ass bleeped, it leaking as we speak. idiot

wetdick:


it seems you do not understand how i love licking, fingering and sucking pussy and the clit, ooh my god, it is something i love doing, i am sure that is why your mother coudnt leave me alone.

go and suck dick' dick sucker.

wetdick:


and don't forget my arrangement hahahaha

wetdick:


you dont have one common sense,have you read any of her comment where she wrote she have been everything, she works from home and have been the wife he wanted but mr man doesnt know what he wants and he is 41 years old, damn

you need to cut your head off, it is useless and doesnt think and ask questions

wetdick:


you need a brain replacement

Saffi:
You are so smart and I love you
I also watch sheras channel, she’s amazing and has helped so many women around the world.

Listen if the man continues acting up, that’s his loss not yours and I think that’s what’s bothering him. He wants to make your life a misery because he doesn’t have full control over the situation. He wants to waste your time as much as possible, just because he’s bitter. The man initially wanted to use you for visa, but the tables have turned and he doesn’t know how to deal with it, so the only way he can make you suffer is by depriving you of love and affection. No matter what, do not go back to work, let him provide for everything. The more he Invests, the harder it will be for him to keep up with the silly games he’s trying to play. Keep your money aside just in case. He’s trying to play a game that he’s bound to lose. As for wanting to have kids, keep on disturbing, use the art of seduction, do everything that you can he will eventually succumb trust me. If not the only thing for you to do is to look outside, and he will end up losing because he desperately needs the visa. He can only do this for so long, so just keep your head up.

wetdick:


you have been the perfect woman, i thought you were those muscular black women, just do what you planned for a romantic time with your husband and get to his heart, from there, if he is opened you can know his mind and decide on the next action to take.

2buffagain:


I see. He sounds like one of those useless Nigerian men then.
You can't demand all chores be done in the house and that she also works too.

That is illogical.

PharoahIII:
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You are a somebody my brother for that comment. In her previous comments, she said she doesn't want to work so that they'll only live on one income. This is very selfish and the reason she's doing this is so that the man won't be able to send money to his folks in Nigeria. She can even do a part-time job, for say, 20 hours a week or work weekends, but no Mr African must provide because he has no choice, because without me he'll be deported. I'm talking from experience, those nairalanders taking sides with the op have no experience. My ex wife refused to work for three solid years, she could not even cook so no matter what time of the day I came back home, I had to cook for myself. She also expected me to bath the baby and clean the house too. If I send any money home, oh that one na world war III. Even if at first you loved the woman, I can assure you that love will die a natural death--and a fast one too! Every time there's an argument she'll threaten to kick me out of the house--on top my own house wen I dey pay rent!

Triniti:
Op knows where the problem is coming from, she’s just looking for validation on a faceless forum,go back to your job and stop all this I cook,clean and iron for him. Those shits ain’t going to pay the bills, you have to support that man financially before he can ever think of having any intimacy with you, go sort your problem yourself, you planned all this out from the word go, all you wanted was a slave

Nene05:


He's got more than a decade to wait.
I sponsored to get him here now can no longer sponsor him.
He doesn't leave the country without me.

I have made the situation to benefit me.

He's not in a position to support anyone else I deliberately don't make an income for this very reason.

I'm not intelligent.

Nene05:


who's going to keep the home together? He refuses to do any house work says this is woman's job -refuses to cook etc

If it's just left he's not happy with unorganised house.
And buy the way there is money left over each month.

If I have to do the man's job AND women's Job may as well be single.

It's a team- you provide and I do everything
I'm not like one of those over weight women who's house is a mess no food on table no exercise etc. ..

Nene05:


My hygiene is 100
I have other men who want to bed me but trying to work my marriage out.

I think he's not happy I left my job -just thought he would come here get his permanent residency and that's it.
However always told him I'm traditional believe that man should provide and I cater to him.

When I was working he didn't help with any housework and said I was controlling.

Now I'm submissive and calm he likes that but not providing sex