OneCandleAway:


Its like some of you think children are blind when domestic violence happens in the home.

These kids might be little but they see and comprehend everything

-So that justifies pushing them into the public domain to voice their "opinion". Do you realise the damage a public criticism especially in this social media era can do to an adult let alone under-25 kiddo? Women; Act first and Think later. Smh

-Bringing children to your adult quarrel is an abuse in itself. #ChildAbuse. And adults who do it are the scum of the earth in my book. To have up to 4 kids, you would have had thousands of intimate moments (sexual intercourse) together, but to bring those impressionable minds into your issues; that's disgusting. Tufiakwa!

sandygechy:
Hope u are aware chores and child care are shared too alongside bills? U do school runs, cook and clean the house when it’s ur turn.
Just so u know..

-Those things you mentioned can be done by housekeepers paid for, equally, by the partners.

-Does anyone know where I can get weed for Lugbe? I bought a new lawnmower.

Harddiskng:


Lol You are assuming that her new UK lover no get job. Wrong assumption Nigerian women mostly tend to lean towards a higher bidder.

It's rare to find one that doesn’t

-Which UK lover will accept a woman, without permanent residency, carrying 3 kids? Lol. Na her puccy go hear am.

-Single women never see lover na woman with THREE kids. Mtchew!

10thTenthMan:


Also he should remember that as long as he remains and works in the UK You will have to pay child support to her. He also needs to Factor that too into his equation.

Also you don’t want to abandon the UK either. Japa is not something to easily abandon and return to Nigeria. So the child support thing is a necessary evil that must follow any separation.

-Nothing wrong with the principle of child support. If they are indeed his kids, he would provide for them regardless. However, if he doesn't have access to the kids as he wishes whilst paying the child support, then he should consider relocation ASAP. Let the woman raise the kids in the harsh UK environment, when all the kids are grown and left home, we shall then see what remains of the woman.

Messina123:
Tana common you bloody ini edo stan

-Hmm which one be "stan" again. You lazy youths of these days. Mtchew!

baralatie:

Hmm!

As long as she capitivates you
You a fan🤧
Forget all these yan

-Hmm. Oyibo. You better check your dictionary the meaning of these foreign words before throwing them around.

-Me, a fan of the girl? Ask me the name of any of the "movies" she was on..let's start from there

baralatie:

Ini edo get her fans sha🤔

-And am not one of them. Sorry.

-Stay within the law and ensure you record every of her abusive moves towards you. You can use those evidence to get permanent residency, if you really want to stay in the UK in your own right.

-At the moment, you have as much rights as her.

-However, I would advise you and any other man relocating to the UK or the West, NEVER assume full responsibility for your family. In the West it is a shared responsibility between you and your wife, that's why they call it partnership. If you must buy a property, make sure your partner contribute as much as you do as well as share your bills equally if possible, otherwise share it based on percentage of earnings.

-Never contribute more than you should. You're no longer in Africa.

baralatie:

Yinmu
You sure

-Sure. I fancy her and she has the most ridiculous gorgeous skin I have ever seen, but...

-I wanted to reach out and ask her out but this interview gave me doubts. Maybe I should jump and pass this one. I smell heavy baggage.

- I don't like chicken anyway. I prefer Kpomo/Kanda.

davies:
The rate at which the cost of feed keep increasing on a weekly basis go fear you to delve into the poultry business.
The present administration should do something tangible to address the many challenges that bedevils an average farmer in Nigeria.
Cheapest feed for now is nutriville and it gives error in production, Top feed is 10,800 which is the most average not to talk of Newhope and co going for 14kplus.

How do we expect agricultural products not to be expensive, bad road everywhere, petrol price is 600, insecurity in the farm etc... Yet, animals must eat and you can't eat wat you produce all alone.

-So you still believe there is a government administration in Nigeria? You wish abi?

- "A civil servant, Stephen Abidogun, said he could not afford to buy chickens for Christmas and had, therefore, opted for substitutes. "

-Mr. Abidogun... "had, therefore, opted for substitutes". Hmm, I won't say nothing until I start looking for my head.

-The only cancer-suffering politician in Nigeria. Soon you will pay for all those extrajudicial killings you carried out in Obigbo and Rivers state in general.

- It's only a ripe fruit that gets the attention of a hungry man. Know this, and know peace.

aameyah:

Yes, it is her body. It is good she carries him along, but it is never 'by force' that he be the one to give her go ahead to do it.

Most times, women lock up because they are married to irresponsible men who do not care for them. You can't continue popping out babies with such men who don't deserve to be fathers.

-You're right. OP needs to go and marry another wife and have more kids for peace to reign. Nigerian law allows polygamy and OP, like everyone else, deserves to be happy. He should let the woman be.

onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

-If true, it appears she has no respect for you. However, you don't need to end the marriage, you can marry another younger woman that would have more children for you. Nigerian law allows polygamy, so it's your right to marry more wives and have as many children as you can look after. I don't even know how you young men of these days manage only one woman.

-He should contact the Citizens advice or charity to get his British passport back, then he can return to the UK and live comfortably on the welfare state. All he needs is the passport ID page or the 9 digit numbers.

AbuTwins:


I am not a terrorist and I didn't support Policemen or others to be killed like Ekpa and Kanu!

Wait till they kill you or your relatives!

-Shut up, if you don't have anything reasonable to contribute. The dynamics of this issue is beyond you and your empty stomach. Mtchew!

BreakingNews21:
He covered a lot intell. Good to see he's aware of the porus border and forest hiding issues in the north. Very bad that diaspora pple are funding terrorists that kill their very own in the SE.
I agree some countries don't want to see a strong, united, self-sufficient Nigeria.
.
Off topic the Simon guy strongly resembles the oga at the top of nl.🙃

-On what basis or common values do you want to "build" your so-called "strong, united, self-sufficient Nigeria"? Look around you, if you have eyes, and ask yourself what exactly you & your group have in common with other groups lumped into Nigeria by the racist colonial Britain. You think a stable united country is built on injustice, nepotism and forced patriotism? You lots are laughable. Smh.

AbuTwins:
They'll still meet their doom!

Ekpa and Kanu!

-You and your family will meet your dooms first. Coward desperate to have others in slavery with them.

GO0DHardDick:
Ekpa should be held in place of kanu

-Why?

-Many of you mentally-abused Nigerians can't think beyond your noses - always thinking crudely. Anyway, I don't think you people want peace in that una so-called "country".

-Whether Ekpa, Nnamdi Kanu or anyone else, the referendum message resonates with the Biafran People. And anyone with that Biafran restoration message will win a free and fair plebiscite in Biafraland against all your best Nigerian "politicians" put together.

-Anyway, enjoy your growing insecurities, unemployment, social vices and dwindling economy. Soon you will carry the Naira notes in a wheelbarrow to buy a loaf of bread.

Caseless:
The oldest liar on Nairaland, are you still alive?

-Lol. Miserable old fool, how is your Nigeria treating you idiot?

christejames:




Traffic aka Demand...


Simple economics

-Ah Mr. Adam Smith is that you? So which of the routes do you fly frequently and witnessed this one-sided demand?

Ogene001:

They probably fly empty to go bring people home and the people are willing to pay provided they make the flight available

-Are you a frequent flyer of any of the routes I mentioned?

Caseless:
you're a liar.

-The oldest tribalist on Nairaland. You're still alive?

Ogene001:


Probably Christmas rush for Eastern routes

-This is not even Christmas fares. Check the dates before and even after Christmas. And should the airlines be exploiting Eastern travellers travelling to see family members for Christmas and to that extent, whilst not doing same thing to those travelling to other regions?

-Why is their Abuja to Owerri or Eastern states a lot more expensive than Abuja to Port Harcourt for instance? Abuja to Port Harcourt: 95k, Abuja to Owerri: 125k, Owerri to Abuja: 150k, then Owerri to Lagos: 220k. Nde One Nigeria, una well done oo!

-Airpeace is behaving in the same manner- exploiting travellers to the Eastern states.

-Mr. Danjuma, how did you get your own billions? Crude oil thief!

-So this man is from Ikere Ekiti? That place is an epitome of poverty. When I last went there, the only storey building was a mud-house built by a photographer from Benin.

-Yoruber people should stop abandoning their villages. What I saw there was an eyesore. No toilets in most of the "houses". School self mchew!