good day doc

please i notice that anytime i have sex with my partner, the sperm doesnt stay ,

they all pour out when i stand up and even when i lie down and am so scared, although we are not yet married but we are planning to get married next year december and am scared that i may find it difficult to get pregnant

i want to know if it is natural or not

please your urgent advice is needed

this is so pathetic oooooooooooooooooo

infact na real ba common sence

@ poster, me nkor?

@storm0210


thanks too and to all that gave me a reasonable advice

its like a burden been lifted

@topic



this guy is lying

we is the link true true

@waterwork

at poster ok so you and dammy slept with the same guy and are going into the same family. ehen? so why are you worried? the only problem starts when jide tunde and adebola are friends. but you havent stated that. ehen you can be mad at dammy but as far as im concerned that wont make a difference. it was in both of you's pasts before you met your husband to be so where is the problem
the issue does not concern your relationships it is strictly between you and dammy (even thogh i dont think theres even a big issue) FEAR is not involved and to be honest self neither is WORRY. it should be more like dissapointment or anger that dammy never told u. which doesnt really matter as normally the problem between two friends dating one guy is that the first girl diddnt approve of her friend dating her ex.

youre going bck to dig up old dirt. like i said mountain out of mole hill.

i feel you

@waterwork

at poster ok so you and dammy slept with the same guy and are going into the same family. ehen? so why are you worried? the only problem starts when jide tunde and adebola are friends. but you havent stated that. ehen you can be mad at dammy but as far as im concerned that wont make a difference. it was in both of you's pasts before you met your husband to be so where is the problem
the issue does not concern your relationships it is strictly between you and dammy (even thogh i dont think theres even a big issue) FEAR is not involved and to be honest self neither is WORRY. it should be more like dissapointment or anger that dammy never told u. which doesnt really matter as normally the problem between two friends dating one guy is that the first girl diddnt approve of her friend dating her ex.

youre going bck to dig up old dirt. like i said mountain out of mole hill.

@debosky

@secretz

@ nigerbobo

Thank you, am grateful for your good advice

@DEBOSKY

Dammy didn't do a thing - according to you, the problem is that the two brothers (Tunde and Demola) will feel bad that one man has slept with their wives.

At the time you met Jide, you didn't even know that Tunde existed or that you would ever marry him. Why should she tell you she slept with a man when you were barely trying to recover? She didn't interfere in your relationship and you are blaming her for what exactly?

DAMMY did a lot , if she had told me that she had dated jide when i started the relationship , i would not have venture into such relationship

and i need to let you know that I MET JIDE THRU DAMMY , I NEVER KNEW THEY HAD A RELATIONSHIP WHEN JIDE SIGNIFIED HIS INTENSIONS, a least as a good friend she shouldn't have encourage me to go out with him when she knew quite well that they had history

that is the painful part of the whole story

@WATERWORK

DAMMY?
What did dammy do?
what are your fears really? is it that you slept with a guy who slept with a friend or that you slept with your boyfriend before you met your fiancee becaus e me i dont understand it oh!
abeg this poster just wanted to post story and there was no story so she started making a mountain out of a mole hill

IF YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THEN READ MY STORY

MY FEAR IS THAT JIDE SLEPT WITH ME AND DAMMY

DAMMY AND I ARE GOING INTO THE SAME FAMILY I MWEN GETTING MARRIED TO BOTHERS

ALTHOUGH DAMMY IS MARRIED AND AM GETTING MARRIED IN FEW MONTH

so it was dammy dat forced ur legs opened when d guy was digging u?

if you dont know what to say then you can keep your mouth shut


i met jide tru dammy and i loved him

nobody forced me on him

infact i am not happy with your comment

you didnt help my situation

i just pray that you will neva find your self in a compromising situation

THANKS TO ALL THAT REPLIED

I THINK AM GETTING A BIT RELIEVED

@ DEBOSKY

I NEVA TOLD MY FIANCE THAT AM I VIRGIN

I AM JUST FEELING GUILTY FOR WHAT HAPPENED

BUT I HAVE DAMMY TO BLAME FOR THIS

quote]Quote from: debosky on Today at 12:52:53 PM
@ spikey

Didn't Tunde know she was going out with Jide when they met at Dammy's introduction?


I don't know o but I got the impression Tunde didn't know. Maybe she needs to answer this by herself.

Tunde deosn't, i met tunde at dammys introduction but then i was already thinking of leaving jide becos i got to know that i was not the only one he was dating, it was when i called it off and he learnt i was dating dammy brother in law, that was when he decided to tell me that he has dated dammy. [quote][/quote]

@DEBOSKY

As long as you didn't sleep with Jide while with your fiance, what is the problem?

i neva did that , i called off the relationship EVEN before i staarted a relationship with tunde, he is so caring

u not even bothered he might have infected you both with the same disease.
well ur friend was the wicked one, not ur fault.
if u was not told then u have no reason to hide it.

but thats y we tell u young girls not to be in a hurry to sleep with just anyone.

i know but i was hurting from the previous relationship and i needed some one to heal my wound i neva tot it woould turn out like this

its so sad

@charmine

thanks for your advice

Check out this senerio, having a small get together and someone invited the jide guy and the both ladies are there, they will never feel comfortable

nairaland this is what am scared of

and i find it difficult to tell my fiance

am so mad at dammy, i see her as a betrayal

she new quite well that she had a relationship with jide and she went ahead and convince me to date him

i even call her once to my place and told her that
may be we should take the courage and tell the brothers what happened , to my suprise she said that i know she is already married to her own husband and that he would forgive her with time but me, am still not married and tunde can easily call it off and that would be the end for me

am so sad that i could find my self in this kind of situation


i need your advice nairaland

help me save my relationship

@phemzy

i did not eat my cake at the same time and have it
i never new they dated before i stated the relationship with jide

and i will not be so stupid to use the real names of those involve

Rule 1: says Don't sleep with so called boyfriends - Well you did so that's already out of the window

Rule 2: says Make sure you tell your boyfriend or fiancee everything about your past and ensure that there is no secret so that you would know if he loves you for you otherwise you'll spend the rest of your life keeping secrets.


Hence just as advised by someone earlier:

1. You don't really have anything to worry about apart from Shame of a guy doing you and your friend.
2. Tell your husband to be.
3. If your husband to be is not bothered then you yourself should not be bothered.

i am scared to tell my husband to be becos my fiance and dammys husband are from both parent , i cant just imagine what will happen if they get to know that same guy slept with thier wife

he will feel betrayed this this might lead to break up which i would not want to happen becos we have already done our introduction

please nairaland this is so difficult for me becos my conscience is really hitting me when i remember that both of us ( me and dammy ) are getting married to the same family

i dont know what to do


i just dont know what to do, this is killing me

please nairaland i need an advice on ths issue, i had a broken relationship in 2007 and a month later i met an old friend(dammy) , we graduated from the same polytechnic, so i told her about the guy that broke up with me becos she knows him well , she consoled me and advice that i should move on with my life which i did but later she came back and told me that when i was seeing her off one of his male friend saw us and really liked me , we went to his house and i got to know him well , his name is jide , i fell in love with jide, I was still in this relationship when dammy did her introduction , i went for the introduction too and there i i met tunde,

tunde approched me and reveal his intensions which i declined i never knew tunde was dammy brother inlaw, i gave him my no and we started communicating, i did not want to start a relationship with tunde, i told tunde to give me time becos then i had a feeling that all jide want is to sleep with me and dump me ,

i later got to know that jide was not the right guy for me, i left jide for tunde who is a junior brother to dammys husband to be . tunde works in a big private firm in lagos and i have my own job in a bank in abeokuta, but around march last year i got a call from jide and he said he learnt that i was going out with dammys brother in llaw and he said he heard that we will son get married, but to my shock he said he wanted to tell me something and that it has benn bothering him since he leant i was going out with dammys brother in law , he told me that he was dating dammy before he met me and they both knew the relationship was just a fling, i was shock, i called dammy and ask her if what jide told me was true

she confirmed it and was apologising saying that she wished me well and she never knew that my relationship with jide would not work and that she never knew that his brother in law would fall in love with me,

dammy got married last year and my wedding is comming up this december with tunde,

please nairaland i am confused at this point because i cant imagine this happening to me , i cant live with the fact that jide slept with me and dammy and am getting married to dammys brother inlaw (tunde)


please what should i do, brother ademola who is dammy husband and tunde my own husband to be are from same parent , i cant imagine what would happen if they get to know that jide slept with there wife