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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 12:21pm On Mar 01, 2022
peksmay:



Welcome to March everyone, it will be our month of joy in Jesus name. Even though say I register late for team March, I'm here to give God the glory for making me see witness the birth of my princess, I welcome my princess yesterday February 28th, she decided not to wait again. B.S coming shortly. Safe delivery to all mums

Wow congratulations to you and your family
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 12:07pm On Mar 01, 2022
rosybabyy:



I woke up on the 14th of February with terrible stomach pains. I was rushed to d hospital and did scan . Was told d hernia in 3 places had become strangulated. That I and baby are in distress I was 34 weeks 2 days then. I planned for a C-section at 37weeks. I couldn't bear it cos d pain was not stopping. I was wheeled into the theatre ND brought out 3hrs later. A lot of repairs were made...the diasis recti, appendicitis plus patching of d ruptured uterus. I thank God for life. Baby came out 2.1kg not breathing well. We were referred to a general hospital. That's another story.. 4 cylinders of oxygen, treatment for high bilirubin. It was traumatic but I thank God I and baby are home and doing fine. It was just God all the way.. Team March..I don port oh..Edd was 26th March.. Birthday...14th February. Gender...XY

Abeg make una manage this.

The Lord is gracious and kind. Congratulations to you and your family

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 9:02am On Feb 28, 2022
Honeysweetest:
Sorry ndi nne,back to my story.
I insisted that they should refer me to another hospital,I told them that during my first birth,I was given oxytocin,I was in pains with just 5seconds interval between relief before contraction,from 11am to 4pm,I know the trauma I had then,I don't want to experience it again,my husband told them to refer us,that is when they calmed down,lol,they were doing that their normal harsh voice,madam this,madam that.
Kept telling me to calm down,let them help me,I said lie lie,I am leaving,we left the hospital to the place they referred us to,I can't explain the distance,it was far,bad road,with strong contraction if just 10 seconds relief.i kept screaming in the vehicle,thank God it was 5am in the morning,so no vehicle was on the road.
We got to the hospital,haaa,the doctor is not there,that he is coming ��,when he got there,I thought he will just take me into the theater immediately and do the CS,but he started asking questions,blood group,blood percentage,urine test needs to be carried out,he then said mam,you are already close to 9cm,but your cervix is still swollen,let me use the drip on you,you should not suffer in vain,I shouted at him eeh,I thought this is y u came here,don't try to do anything I have not consented to on me,if not eeh���,I said I don't want vaginal delivery again,na by force,I was in pains,after shouting,I will shout at the hospital staffs,loll, well,they took me into the theater,giving me lots of drip,to calm my BP,to prevent bleeding,I was told that I should not try to push oo, because the contractions was giving me the urge to push,since we were in the other hospital,I kept resisting,cus I won't bear suffering bleeding and C's at same time. Well the CS was carried out,I was given this general drugs and not the spinal cord stuff,cus na inside one thing rolling me round that I saw myself �,those that went through CS will understand this.
Now to y I made mention of not doing the 9months scan,my baby was cephalic in the scan,so I was careless enough not to check at 9months,I said there is no point since I did it close to the 9months.
When they brought out my baby,it turned out that my baby was facing up,oh my godd,how was I supposed to push a baby facing up? Is this y I suddenly became stubborn and insisted on CS,if I had taken the oxytocin,and my cervix softens,what will be my baby's fate while struggling to come out,since she was not in the proper position. The doctor just told me,your stubbornness saved you,I knew God was involved.
I can't put down all,but I know i have passed enough message.
We will be one month in two days,I am perfectly ok,the doctor is specially made by God for CS.
Hope I don't bore you with long story��
Writing this is hard,I am a very lazy writer,loll!
BS submitted.
Wish other mothers a complication free journey.


God be praised! Congratulations!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 7:27pm On Feb 17, 2022
Crownofwealth:
BA! BA!! BA!!!
EDD 10/03/22
DD 17/02/22 @9:30AM. VIDE ELECTIVE CS.
That fatherly feeling. The bone of my bones and the flesh of my flesh. I am now a father. Glory be to God. My pinkjet is here.

Congratulations welcome baby girl

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 10:56am On Feb 16, 2022
Yuzxy:
Finally, it ended in praise.
Edd 28 January
Birth 6th February
The birthing is a miracle.
God's blessings to other pregnant women.

Congratulations God is good

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 12:24pm On Feb 12, 2022
Splasshhh:
BS! BS! BS!

Finally I have the privilege to share my birth story.

For the privilege of testimony and thanksgiving, Quick throwback to 2018.

So I got married to DH in 2018 and before our white wedding, I experienced my first miscarriage. Like joke, I suffered recurrent first trimester miscarriages three different times, of course, Doctors cannot explain why this happens. Forward to Oct 2019, I conceived even when I was not planning. How did it end? I had IUFD at 9 months - 7th July, 2020 - accompanied with bleeding due to placenta abruptio. I was sectioned to deliver my beautiful baby girl but, then she was already lifeless. I was transfused 6 pints of blood to be alive today. Fast forward to 2021. I planned to take in, yes it was not accidental but, I was worried about the outcome. Really exhausted from miscarriages and disappointments. I remember saying that prayer, "God, if you won't grant me this honor, do not take me half way". If you have experienced evacuation as a woman, your prayers will almost be never to conceive than to miscarry along the way.

So the journey started in May, 2021. I prayed intentionally and I closely questioned every impossibility. My Dr. adviced me to do cyclogest treatment up to 20 weeks. But I am both stubborn physically and spiritually. So, I thought to myself, I did all the bed rest and progesterone treatment yet, I lost my baby to IUFD. Hubby was ready to embark on this journey at all cost but, I told him I was not doing any medical treatment except bed rest. He bought cyclogest and I personally called the pharmacy to return it and exchange it for prenatal vitamins. I encourage DH to meet me at the level of my faith. We prayed the prayers, had the bad dreams of course but we were determined to win this time.

Please, let me not be sounding like it was my capacity, No. God had me all the way because at the time I took in, I needed bed rest but, I am also a working class mum. I thought it through, then a program came up in my office that needed 2 months virtual participation, I was successfully selected to participate. Guys, see bed rest on a platter. LOL!
So, just before I finished the program, I was past my first trimester. Apart from the usual symptoms, I had no cause for alarm. Then I resumed work in my second trimester and everything continued to move well with lil anxiety here and there though.

Fast forward to this year, 2022. EDD was 14, Feb, 2022 - val things. I was excited, all of a sudden, my consultant started suggesting CS because of my medical history. I really struggled with this option. Not because CS was a big deal but because I always wanted to have the pleasure of jagina delivery too - all round experience - and a second time CS would mean a risk for jajina trial in the future.

Well, story cut short. I was told that 37 weeks it would be for me. I went home and prepared my mind. A week to my 37 weeks, consultant booked me for 29th Jan, 2022 - that is 38 weeks. I did not object. More time for me. I went home happily. A week to my 38 weeks, I visited and they insisted on admitting me and carrying out surgery the next day. Ah!!! Ogbeni is that how this butchering is easy for you people to mutter? Do you know how I have been adjusting psychologically? I refused o. Before they could gather in accordance to convince me, I packed my bag and ran home o without looking back. I called my mum and told her to start preparing for 29th is the date.

Finally, on 28th, I was supposed to check into the hospital against 29th but my spirit was cold. I simply stayed back and slept on my bed. Lol!!!
DH was just like, this my wife, please let us get this thing over with na. I said hubby, everything will be fine. That morning, we got to the hospital very early. We went to check in with the nurses that started giving attitudes as to why I did not come last night. I just said, I could not come but I have come now. After much drama, I asked them, do you want to cancel my booking and send me home? Lol!!!

Las las, they prepared my bed and dressed me up. Reality gradually started closing in on me. I started sleeping o. When they took me to the theater, I continued sleeping. Dr. came and tapped me saying, "I like the way you are just relaxed about this process. The only thing remaining in your disposition now is beer and fish". I laughed out loud and said, "Dr. CS it is and nothing else. So, let me be sleeping until we are ready".

Finally, in the order of Sarah, my laughter has come. My cute princess was birthed on the 29th of Jan, 2022. Everyone who heard me has been laughing with me.

Yours will also end in praise.

Take home
- mean it when you trust God. Don't doubt Him.
-still do your part because faith must be accompanied with work
-the baby that will stay will stay.
-know what your problem is and handle it. Mine was first trimester miscarriages.
-mums we are and children must come. So, remain +ve against all odds

Congratulations!!! God is the greatest

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 12:24pm On Feb 12, 2022
Glozzy239:
My princess arrived yesterday.
Edd 11th of February
DOB 11th of February
BS loading..
Thank mummies for the advice and guidances
Safe delivery to all the mothers expecting their babies... There shall be no loss.
Congratulations to everyone that has welcome their babies.
God bless you all


Congratulations and welcome princess!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 12:22pm On Feb 12, 2022
TOHHAN:
Good evening mamas, so pls I av having stomach pain round under my abdomen on the 8th and went to do a scan which the scan confirm the baby is fyn bt I have fibroid, I went to the hospital with my scan result on d 9th and d 1 of d Dr said I'm having a false labour contraction bt ll still do dere hospital scan(bt d lab tell me dey v close around 2pm) den he gave me injection and ask to b taken paracetamol 3tyms a day. The second Dr said d pain am having might b due to the fibroid growing wit the baby. The pain has reduce after the injection day bt didn't go totally, d cramp ll jt hook me for a while and relief me den hook me again afta a while though was told to cum back for check up next week. I came back home now and sumone told me I had a stain, looking at the stain, it was like a water discharge that release out from my pant(though I wear only pant and a cloth nt so free). Is it sumtin I should be panic about or I can still wait and see by tomao because there's assurance I can't do scan from the hospital again tonit.
Am just 23weeks pls


God has perfected all that concerns you

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 9:33am On Feb 10, 2022
Splasshhh:
I have few baby items I wish to gift.

Fisher price Baby bath and
Lady bird Baby play cot

Location is Kubwa - Abuja

I'm interested
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 12:33pm On Feb 08, 2022
Halcyon123:
Una good morning my yard people grin



Na WA please take it easy with us o. I want cry
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 3:46pm On Feb 06, 2022
Layormiii:
Baby lists

Diapers (buy one pack newborn, 2 packs size 1 and one pack size 2, to get you through that first few weeks. Then buy according to size after). newborns can go through 8 diaper changes daily (!!!! ) and boys pee more, but don't buy too many because you can't predict size of your baby and you don't know quickly they will grow (I've seen a baby go from newborn to size 2 in 3 weeks). so at least 1 or 2 pack of newborn diapers will hopefully last you for a week and if your baby still needs newborn, buy weekly. If after it finishes your baby needs size 1, at least you have 2 packs at home to give you time before having to run to the supermarket or market to buy more.

Baby wipes: look for the unscented ones, less likely to irritate skin.

Diaper rash cream: Sudafed is what all my sisters used (especially the one who is a pharmacist). But try and change your baby once it gets wet so it's not sitting in a wet diaper that ends up causing diaper rash.

onesies (if you're in Nigeria, get the sleeveless or short sleeved version. Do the same, one pack of 5 newborn, a one pack size 0-3).

try not to buy too many newborn sizes as babies grow like beans (very quickly). Even better, inherit some from others (I just got a lot of onesies and newborn clothing from someone whose baby has outgrown hers, so I didn't bother buying clothes).

Same with clothes and shoes, try not to buy too many until 3-6 months (God knows how many times I have been driven insane looking for one leg of baby shoe or sock that fell somewhere. And it wasn't even my own pikin sef grin ) get a few mittens until your liver is strong enough to file or cut those really sharp baby nails (because they will scratch their faces).

Receiving blanket, a few caps and some wrappers for swaddling. Ejoor look for really thin wrapper (the old type they sold was better and cotton, a breathable fabric which means less heat. So raid a parent's cupboard for their old wrapper). Or buy muslin swaddle blanket (size 44"x44" minimum).

Burp cloths: I don't like the terrycloth ones (those ones that look like towels) because they don't absorb well. Instead get the cotton clothe diaper (that rectangular fabric that's thick). Works like a charm and sometimes cheaper.

Do you have a car? If yes, get a car seat (convertible preferred over infant but you will most likely find infant more in Nigeria). Chicco and Graco make good brands.

It's upto you to decide if you want to buy pacifiers. One pack should be fine.

Bassinet and cot: if you can also inherit this from someone, do (they tend to be pricey). If not, just buy a travel bassinet and remember some babies hate cots (though eventually you will want your bed back and kick the baby out to their cot).

Towels: don't buy baby towels, they are usually very thin and stay damp longer and breakdown faster (mine was from Mothecare). Preferably buy regular very soft towel (100% cotton) which will last longer. Same with washcloth.

lots of small nylon bags and big trashbags for diaper disposal and a pack of Baking soda and a good dustbin with a lid. When you dispose of dirty diapers, use a good bin with a tight cover and sprinkle some baking soda at the bottom of the dustbin (this helps to trap odours). At the end of the day, you tie up trashbag and take it outside (instead of constantly running after every diaper change to fling it).

Baby set: please look for one that has nail cutter, thermometer, comb, nasal pump, baby medicine spoon, nail file. Avent sells one like that.

No need for stroller, especially if in Nigeria. Which road is not dusty and uneven unless you're in the mall. Get a baby carrier (Bjorn makes good ones, they're expensive but I inherited my sisters own 10 years later. Quality is cheaper in the long run).

Diaper bag: lots of decent ones out there (I got a messenger bag type so my hubby could carry it, my sister used a strong backpack). Look for one that has changing pad inside it.

Olive oil and Shea butter for body cream rather than baby body creams. I hear most of the Johnson's on the market is fake and at least Shea butter is cheap, natural and does a beautiful job, same with olive oil.

Baby wash

Bibs (look for one size fits all).

Treated mosquito net

Bouncy chair and activity gym (so you can keep your baby somewhere if you need to have your hands free, like when bathing or cooking or just watching tv or answering the phone. Activity gym is for when baby starts rolling, put it on the floor (because I'm tired of hearing stories like "my baby rolled off the chair and fell on the floor, should I go to the hospital?? ".

an electronic sterilizer set (microwave) because all the doctors in my house dislike sterilizing tablets. But it is your choice sha. Avent makes one sterilizer set that comes with feeding bottles so no need to buy any more.

Plastic spoon and plate (but you won't need this for a while).

Are you breastfeeding, pumping or doing formula?

Please don't dress your baby up more than you. If you feel hot, your baby feels hot (even faster). If you feel cold, your baby feels cold (even faster). So unless you're constantly in an a.c. on blast, ejoor let your baby relax and use less clothing. Yes, Mama Nkechi or Mama Teni will have all sorts of unnecessary and unwanted advise to give you, but please listen to your common sense. Please listen to your common sense more.

Please don't give your child baby paracetamol or agbo to drink. The only person giving you medical advise should be a pediatrician (who will also tell you what to do and how to treat circumcision and umblical cord.

That's the basics. As time goes, you will need more and realise some stuff you don't need. HTH

Thanks for the write up. Some parts in Nigeria are waterlogged so because of mosquitoes most people buy the long sleeved onesies and the cold sometimes in the north
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 8:56pm On Feb 04, 2022
bilsworld61:
BS
Sorry Mama's vigilanti delayed this bs....I got pregnant when my first baby was 23 months old...it was unplanned because I wanted my first child to be about 3yrs before trying for another baby....anyways my husband was very happy and the journey started...when I was about 9weeks I started having brown discharge,I was placed on progesterone but it graduated to bleeding and I lost that pregnancy at 16weeks...I was supposed to be team February last year....after that,I suffered from retained product to infections...I was scared I won't be able to get pregnant again but God did it after 3 months of trying..I got my bfp.
The pregnancy journey was not easy compared to my first, from first trimester vomiting and weakness that I had to take drip to brown discharge again but this time I registered with general hospital because I dnt want any story....I was placed on duphastone and other drugs plus bed rest and it stopped....I was so scared but God took charge....At 37weeks I was already prepared to receive my baby, hospital bag was packed but for where,baby refused to come,I did some exercises,sex but nothingI was so tired....I read somewhere about nipple stimulation and I stared having some painful contractions....at 41 weeks,the doctor booked me for induction,but I was already having some contractions and I told the doctor that was supposed to do the cervical ripening...but he dismissed it and my husband got the materials for the ripening....that thing was so painful,the doctor pocked and pocked untill he discovered I was already 3cm dilated....he let me be till the next day,I was in pains.... I was already 5cm in the morning and oxytocin was fixed around 9am...the real pain started but anytime they check,they will just tell me am close....it was a real battle..and those general hospital nurses were not helping....everyother woman already gave birth and left the labour ward,I was the only one inside...I will call and call that I want to poo but they will just ignore me that not yet..at a point I could not hold it and I was pushing on my own,they checked and warned me to stop so I dnt tear my cervix, for where.....I had already given up...I begged them for CS but they just shouted at me that am sturborn and I was delaying the baby cos I was moving my hand where the drip was fixed...I had to call my husband begging him not to allow me die and ask them for CS but they still refused....to cut the long story short,God just sent an Angel in form of the senior doctor....he instructed them on wat to do,told my husband to get glucose that I was exhausted and he asked me to push at the next contraction...that was how I pushed out my angel around 6pm....I had serious tear that I was screaming down the whole hospital while they were sewing....after that I discovered the placed was swollen,I could not move,they had to dip there hands there again,oh... another round of pain....I was given an injection and I slept off while they did their thing....I woke up around 10am ,very weak....took a cup of tea but I could not sleep again...the pain was much and swollen again by morning...the doctor dipped his hands again...pushed a pad inside and I almost fainted....he just asked that we watch it and it will go down gradually.gave me my drugs and we were discharged....my princess is doing great,I am getting better but it's still swollen there.
BS submitted
CC Semisola

We thank God for everything. God is good
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 9:48am On Feb 04, 2022
miracletoday:


We r fine o. Looking unto April. U a yet to give Gender, abi nah surprise baby?

Gender XX
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 9:47am On Feb 04, 2022
miracletoday:
Hmmm, I have been away for days. Thank God I m not back to share unpleasant stories.
Lesson Learnt. if u feel odd in a way, uncomfortable or pains u cant describe, pls visit hospital. And don't do Superwoman. I wouldn't want to bore u with details. It started with belly button poping out, and getting longer and longer, with abdominal pains. I google and asked around they said nah pregnancy.before I know it, i can't walk, stand,lie again.By 31st which was,my clinic day doc offered me to be placed on admission while I use drugs, I m like emi lion, cat with 7lives, just give me d drugs.i went home. To cut long story short, since feb 1 till now,I m still at d hospital.I feel better now,but baby is still under close monitoring.I would have saved more time if I had gone in earlier.thank God it wasn't too late for me. My pregnancy story is filled with testimonies.

Thank God for His faithfulness. It will always end in praise

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 1:58pm On Feb 02, 2022
Orlolahdey:
Tanx everyone for the prayers and wishes. Sorry I couldn't reply earlier, this second phase gat as e be o
BS BS BS
I got married in August 2019 and we've been trying since then to have a baby, went for different tests, scan and the likes but was told I have ovarian cyst at my right ovary, I was scared, depressed and confused because some nurses said ha u can't get pregnant at all with this ur ovarian cyst unless u remove it, while some said u can still get pregnant if ur left ovary dey function well.
I started treating the ovarian cyst with drugs and injections to the extent that I no feel my buttocks again due to too much injections, used clomid and vitE sotay but nothing happened.
Fast forward to year 2021, my dad just called me earlier on that day and told me not to use anything again, be it medical drugs or tradio-medical stuff. I was like y nw, he said his spirit just direct him to tell me that so I stopped to use anything and about 2mths later God answered my prayer unexpectedly.

Lemme go to the birth story gangan jare, if u could remember that I was always ranting when I passed my due date. I did a lot of thing kokoiye talked about to induced natural labor buh still mama dey gallant for stomach, na so I carry myself go see my doctor on jan28 nd he said I should come back that night with my hospital bag and I was like ok today na today. Was induced by 12am( as jjc wey I b, I was still wearing my pant and bra) at exactly 1: 15 na so I dey feel somehow dey tell d nurse say my stomach hurts buh she no look my side, she told me that nothing dey do me nw as I still dey wear pant, omo see me see speed as I throway everything. She checked nd she was like wow that was quick u are at 6cm. When it was time to push na so una sis dey defecate on couch oo, las las they gave me epi and I push my damsel out at 6:30am weighing 3.2kg


grin grin @pant and bra... Congratulations mama
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 4:57pm On Feb 01, 2022
Honeysweetest:
My baby girl is here through emergency cs at 39 weeks. Pls bs will come later,i managed to type


Congratulations mama!!!
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 10:58am On Jan 31, 2022
miracletoday:
Hallo,Team April, hope una dey do well?
As January is ending, remain February, n March o, meaning, we're getting there. N we will finish well with Mum alive, baby alive and Daddy rejoicing......
These are the registered mamas as at end of January

1. Nancyij
2. Toopee
3. Jcuttie
4. He2nuholuwa
5. ChizziCindy
6. Miracletoday...........22nd .................. XY
7. Jumyte29
8. Iwinne........................4th......................
9. Phaya.........................3rd......................
10. Cabasaa03...........    09........ XY
11. BeautyUche.

Correct me if I missed any.Pls tag quote, n give us EDD n gender biko.
Also, I take God beg una, as I no regular online, any mama who can always come online should volunteer for this cappo.

#TeamApril2022
#TeamBlessedBabies #TeamGodGotUs #Easybirth

Doing fine, hope you and LO are doing great too?

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 10:55am On Jan 31, 2022
Yuzxy:
My edd according to scan is 23 Jan and according to lmp is 28jan but both have passed without any sign of labor. I've done everything from walking, dancing, exercising, eating dates, pineapple, drinking zobo, sex, all to no avail. Right now, I feel angry at myself for still being pregnant, angry at the baby for refusing to come out. I'm even ashamed of going out as my tummy has been big for a while. Angry at my husband for travelling and leaving me with two hyper active kids to tend with pregnancy. Angry at God for ignoring my prayers. I just feel bad. Each day I wake up hoping it would be the day but it ends up the way it started.


Hey, it's OK to feel some type of way but don't worry just relax and take a breath for a minute. You will surely smile at the end. Lots of hugs
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 1:58pm On Jan 29, 2022
Orlolahdey:
BA BA BA
Mamas, my beautiful damsel is here via induced labor
EDD 17th Jan
DOB 29th Jan
Tanx for ur prayers fam, really appreciate it..wanna sleep nw. BRB


Wow congratulations and welcome damsel!!! Wishing you speedy recovery
Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 9:06am On Jan 28, 2022
whyworryPH:
BS! BS!

After having my baby girl in June 2020 through emergency CS, my husband said we were done with childbearing. I knew he spoke out of concern for what I went through (dilated up to 8cm and was stuck before I called for the cs)

Although I wanted another baby, we said we were going to wait for a while so that my son and daughter would come up a little. We thought we were very careful with the withdrawal method and would have bet our last money on it.

While my girl was about 8 months, prophecy came that God was going to bless me with another baby soon even though I wasn't ready. Mehn, me and hubby stylishly said God, we go jump and pass this one abeg cos we had no house help.

Funny enough, it wasn't up to 2 months later, and I dreamt that I had twin baby girls. I don't dream that kind of dream, so when I woke up, I quickly rushed to the bathroom with pregnancy strip and this was about 4am. I haven't even finished dipping the stick in urine when the two lines appeared very thick.

I dashed into the room where my husband was reading and was almost crying when I showed him the strip. I wanted to accuse him of purposely doing it, but deep down, I knew he was as surprised as I was. I just wanted to blame someone cos I just couldn't imagine going through another 9 months with two toddlers tugging along.

Well, we accepted our fate but I just made up my mind that it was going to be another CS.

My first trimester wasn't so smooth but it wasn't so bad either. Second semester was wonderful. And then by 7 months, pelvic pain started creeping in. And my tummy became so big that I started doubting if what I had in my belly was just one baby.

Turning in bed nko? That one takes over 5 minutes for me to negotiate with baby and the pain before I would be allowed to turn or get up.

Although I was told that I was going to give birth naturally if I can trust God, but I didn't want to take chances. I knew that natural birth is always preferable by many, but I have never had an easy labour. So, I told God to give me supernatural birth before the scheduled CS date if He wanted me to go that route.

But you see, He is a wise God and knows that whatever way we bring forth our children, what matters is mother alive, baby alive. Besides, I could hardly walk well towards my 38th week so I knew I had to go in for the CS.

To cut the long story short (I sabi write long story sha, sorry grin ) I went in for the CS on 22nd January which was what my doctor calculated as my 38th week. And to the glory of God, it was successful. The CS was far much better as I felt no pain during the surgery unlike my first when the doctor cut me even before the anesthetic kicked in. I saw pepper then.

After the CS was carried out this time and the anesthetic started wearing off, I felt a lot of pain and still feel pain. I'm getting better, but still have to deal with pain (CS is no joke).

I'm thankful and grateful to Almighty God for safe delivery. My princess is worth all the pain and I couldn't have been more grateful.

I pray for our TTC sisters to experience the joy of carrying their babies just like we do in this forum.

To my lovely February team mates, I see you all. You gals are next in line to go and deliver your beauties.

And of course to all the mamas here, you all shall deliver safely with no loss of baby or mother in Jesus name, amen.

Sorry for the long read. One love!




Congratulations once again!!! God be praised

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 9:53am On Jan 25, 2022
whyworryPH:
BA BA BA!

Announcing the arrival of my princess through elective CS this morning.
Baby weight 4.2kg.
Team February I don port.
BS later.
Cc. Semisola

Congratulations!!!

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 9:51am On Jan 25, 2022
RhemaDavids:
B.A B.A
Mamas i have put to birth a bouncing Baby boy, just as my heart desired
Edd 30th Jan
Dob 23rdJan
B.S coming soon, let me rest small

Cc semisola


Congratulations!!!!
Politics / Re: President Buhari's Visit To Lagos: The Roads Are Free!(Pix) by phaya(f): 6:51pm On Dec 09, 2021
Lol... Usually when a president visits a state, people come out in numbers to see/greet him. Nobody send am, Sapa everywhere

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Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by phaya(f): 4:04pm On Dec 07, 2021
miracletoday:
Plenty gbosa for April 2022 mamas.We no even send ourselves. We suppose fine all our STM,TTMs. i b JJC for this roll arena.N na off and on i dey do here. These are names I ve on register.

Names    EDD    SEX

Nancyij
Toopee
Jcuttie
He2nuholuwa
ChizziCindy
Miracletoday............  22 .......... .... XY
Jumyte29

quote this,with your details pls, lets v n updated register.



Hallo
EDD April 3rd!!!
Properties / Court Orders Abuja Disco To Pay #10million For Illegal Disconection Of Prepaid by phaya(f): 9:27am On Nov 13, 2021
https://nairametrics.com/2021/11/12/court-orders-abuja-disco-to-pay-a-customer-n10million-for-illegal-disconnection-of-prepaid-meter/.


An Abuja High Court has ordered the Abuja Electricity Distribution Company Plc. (AEDC) to pay a customer, Ifeyinwa Ikeatuegwu the sum of N10 million for unlawful disconnection of her prepaid metre.

Justice K.N Ogbonnaya made this ruling in Abuja on Friday, December 11, 2020, following a suit filed against AEDC by Ikechukwu Ikogwe, the plaintiff’s counsel on her behalf.

In her ruling, Justice Ogbonnaya ordered the defendant (AEDC) to pay the plaintiff the sum of N10 million as exemplary and punitive damage for illegally disconnecting her electricity without due notice. She also ordered AEDC to pay the plaintiff the sum of one thousand naira daily until the day AEDC reconnects her electricity supply.

What you should know
The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission is an independent regulatory body with authority for the regulation of the electric power industry in Nigeria.

The Nigerian Electricity Regulatory Commission’s customer service standards of performance for distribution companies 2007, exempt prepaid metres from routine checks.

Tampering with an electricity metre is a criminal offence.

The law governing connection and disconnection of electricity supply is the Nigerian electricity regulatory Commission’s connection and disconnection procedures for electricity services 2007.

The law stipulates that before disconnecting a customer, you have to issue a notice for at least 10 days. And whenever a distribution company disconnects electricity supply to a customer’s premises they shall leave a written notice of disconnection advising the customer the following:

The date and time of disconnection
The reason for disconnection
The action to be taken by the customer to have the electricity supply reconnected; and
The contact address and telephone number of the distribution company.
By Regulation 10 sub-regulation (2) NERC’s customers’ service standard of performance for Distribution Companies 2007, AEDC and its officials are not legally enabled or empowered to check, touch, Reed, and fiddle prepayment metres of customers.
Regulation 10 (1) states that: “ Every Distribution company SHALL obtain through its authorised representative an actual reading of all metres in all supply address within its areas of supply every month but not later than once in every three months.
However Regulation 10 (2) (b) states that “The provision of sub-regulation 1 of this shall be inapplicable where the customer has a prepayment metre.”
Family / Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by phaya(f): 6:08pm On Sep 29, 2021
Lashist:

True...not telling your spouse the truth about a child elsewhere is cheating but in this case, the man takes care of the child elsewhere with his money while in OP's case, she is ready to give her man another man's child through lies and make him train the child


Well what some people don't know is how messy is this thing can get. some married women get pregnant for another married man so the parties involved start lying and deceiving their spouses
Family / Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by phaya(f): 5:53pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
is that not the same Paternity fraud? undecided


Yea it's fraud from both a man having a kid outside his marriage without his wife knowing and also when a married woman gets pregnant for another man

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Family / Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by phaya(f): 5:47pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
How many men, knowing the damage it will cause their current situation, would dare to bring a child from a marital affair into their home? undecided

If a man doesn't bring his child from extra marital affair home, then most likely means another man is taking care of that child unknowingly

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Family / Re: Why Are Men Outraged Over Paternity Fraud? by phaya(f): 5:44pm On Sep 29, 2021
Sonnobax15:
undecided
It's only a foolish man that'll still keep his mouth shut to the extent of swallowing his anger even after discovering that his trust has been compromised by his wife undecided.

Personally,I dey pray make I no be a victim of this paternity fraud cha.. Because it isn't something any man should wish for.



Amen but what of women that are not aware that their husband have another kid outside or atimes a whole family somewhere else

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: ICPC Recruitment Test Result by phaya(f): 11:26am On Aug 27, 2021
Ogunsetire:
good morning all, please I got the text message for test rescheduling but am yet to receive an email from them. have checked my spam and also refreshed my mail.


Just log in with your email and write the test
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by phaya(f): 7:19am On Jul 21, 2021
Samson0599:

Wow do you still work there?

undecided I never said I did
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Strictly For Those Interested In Teaching Jobs by phaya(f): 5:41pm On Jul 20, 2021
kafeii123:


Like how much Pls
Depends on the subject you applied for but people who take maths or french are usually paid higher. Again it still depends on if you can convince them that you are good at what you do... U could get more money

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