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Computers / NO MORE AVAILABLE by PMIcon(m): 3:09pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
THIS PRODUCT IS NO LONGER AVAILABLE. PLEEEEEEAAAAASE!!!! STOP CALLING OR FLASHING ME. LOOK AT THE DATE! I don't know why my number was still visible online. |
Computers / Re: Buy This Laptop With 20, 000 Naira Only by PMIcon(m): 1:19pm On Nov 30, 2016 |
Still available |
Computers / Re: Buy This Laptop With 20, 000 Naira Only by PMIcon(m): 12:17pm On Nov 30, 2016 |
horllamy:ok. Got your message |
Fashion / Re: Smart Lagos Ladies Wear These Casual Slippers & Sandals by PMIcon(m): 12:14pm On Nov 30, 2016 |
You can also order at wholesale price. Minimum orders quantity (moq)= 12 pairs). |
Computers / Re: Buy This Laptop With 20, 000 Naira Only by PMIcon(m): 10:31am On Nov 30, 2016 |
horllamy:Ojodu, Lagos State |
Computers / Buy This Laptop With 20, 000 Naira Only by PMIcon(m): 10:19am On Nov 30, 2016 |
The laptop has been disposed. IT IS NO MORE AVAILABLE.
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Fashion / Re: Smart Lagos Ladies Wear These Casual Slippers & Sandals by PMIcon(m): 9:54am On Nov 30, 2016 |
Made in Nigeria for Nigerians. |
Fashion / Re: Smart Lagos Ladies Wear These Casual Slippers & Sandals by PMIcon(m): 8:39am On Nov 30, 2016 |
gabinogem:Buy for your mum, sister or cousin |
Fashion / Smart Lagos Ladies Wear These Casual Slippers & Sandals by PMIcon(m): 8:28am On Nov 30, 2016 |
Smart pofessionals like Accountants, Pharmacists, Teachers etc, footwear sellers, are buying them in Lagos and these are some of their comments: "Very strong and comfortable. I wear it almost carelessly and it has refused to spoil." "Although it is more expensive than those China types in the market, anyone who sees them knows they are worth the price in quality and really, they are beautiful." "So we can make something like this in Nigeria?" "I need more." " I showed the pictures to my colleagues at work and they are on my neck to help get them.. They need more... One of my male colleagues wants to buy for his wife.." "I can see that it's quality stuff. Just that I have not sold made-in-Nigeria footwear before[She sells ladies' shows and slippers]. So let me buy two for personal use so that when people see them on me, they can start requesting to buy." PRICE: #2,500 Smart professionals, business-owners and beautiful ladies yet to buy yours, contact me on Whatsapp or Call: 08132478757
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Fashion / Re: Beautiful Casual Footwears For Ladies, New Stock Available by PMIcon(m): 7:48am On Nov 30, 2016 |
[size=16pt] Strong, lasting, yet comfortable to wear. [/size] [size=14pt]These are not just made in Nigeria, they are made for Nigeria. [/size] |
Family / Re: Before You Divorce Your Wife Try This by PMIcon(m): 4:29pm On Nov 28, 2016 |
By the way,it's the way the topic is o. Not meant to say only men should do that. Marriage is both party's commitment and everyone has at least one major love language. |
Family / Re: Before You Divorce Your Wife Try This by PMIcon(m): 4:25pm On Nov 28, 2016 |
5minsmadness: Sorry for the late response please 1. Promote open communication between the two of you. When a woman (or man) is not persecuted or punished - socially (e.g. by isolation) psychologically (e.g. by silence when there is usually a gisting) or verbally and physically because she/he shows weakness or vulnerability then the other spouse would have promoted openness- creating room for better communication. 2. Asking direct questions e.g. "Is there anything you really love I should be doing that I've not been doing?" (Better to start with what your spouse really loves that you've been doing! And don't show too much shock and don't get into selfdefence if your spouse decided to be honest and said "Nothing" Just say something like, "What a revelation." and move on to ask the main question above. Remember it is about what your spouse receives as love not what you think showing love is.) |
Family / Re: Before You Divorce Your Wife Try This by PMIcon(m): 11:10pm On Nov 23, 2016 |
jaz:If you're married, know your wives love-language and be serious with it. That's the message. Men frustrate women and then start complaining they are hot-tempered. Marriage is responsibility. Not for boys. |
Family / Re: Do You Need A Professional Driver? by PMIcon(m): 11:12am On Nov 23, 2016 |
Great idea. 1 Like |
Family / Before You Divorce Your Wife Try This by PMIcon(m): 9:51am On Nov 23, 2016 |
Many women are living below there potentials to build a happy home. They don't really realise a lot depends on them. Even when they do, some end up playing out an evil script of divorce programmed into them from childhood by unrealistic expectations about marriage and what a man should be via love stories and songs etc. But there is something YOU at least can do to win your wife and family rather than become a loser through divorce. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHO INITIATES IT, IT IS WELL PROVEN THAT IN DIVORCE EVERYONE (INCLUDING THE CHILDREN) LOSES. You might have tried what you know to be kind and to be patient and to love her, but if you are not showing her love the way she will receive it as love, to you it is love, to her it will never be love. YOU THEREFORE NEED TO UNDERSTAND YOUR SPOUSE'S LOVE-LANGUAGE- WHAT SHE EXPERIENCES AS LOVE- AND DO YOUR BEST TO BREAK THROUGH HER DEFENSES SO THAT SHE CAN START TO ACCEPT IT AS LOVE (she may think it is manipulation at first. She may even be angry that if you knew them before why weren't you doing them. Don't mind her. Prayerfully and patiently continue. TRUE LOVE ALWAYS WINS.) [size=13pt]Love Languages Include[/size] - ACTS OF SERVICE: Help around the house and with the children. Go out of your way to do things for her. Open the door to the house, car. Get out the dirts. Wash her own clothes even if you have maids. IF THAT'S HER LOVE LANGUAGE make sure you do these things o, even if she insists you shouldn't bother. - GIFTS: Buy her things she want or give her money, surprise presents and EXPECT her to say she doesn't like it(don't take offence), just ask what she would have preferred and do it. - TOUCH: It's been said that women may need at least 7 MEANINGFUL touches per day generally. Now imagine what a woman whose love-language is TOUCH would need. Just do your best. 1. Kiss her when it is obvious you cannot be asking for sex 2. Embrace her and leave her there 3. Ask her to sit on your lap and caress her hair 4. Let her lean on you etc AND A COMBINATION - TIME: Force yourself to become a good listening even when your wife is saying the most irrelevant things in the world and make comments and gestures that shows you are interested(IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN HER TOPIC, AT LEAST YOU ARE INTERESTED IN HER. THAT'S WHY YOU LEFT OTHERS TO MARRY HER.) Even if she wakes you up to say irrelevant things, patiently listen until she sleeps off. IS NOT THE TOPIC THAT IS IMPORTANT TO HER, IT IS THE FEELING THAT YOU ARE AVAILABLE FOR HER. Take her out to spend time ALONE with her. No phone calls from your end. She can pick calls. If this happens to be your love language too. Let her know you don't mind spending time with her alone and this time is for you- no phone calls from anyone to either of you. - SEXUAL INTIMACY: It is supposed to be part of TOUCH but it is better separated because this primarily some women's love language. You must not just do it regularly but you must let her be open to you about what turns her on and puts her off plus her sexual fantasies. Let her be assured you will not be surprised or call her a slot even it is what you may find "inconvenient". If it is not a conscience or moral issue, give it a try even if inconvenient but be open about it if it is so she won't expect it often. LOVE LANGUAGES ALSO CAN CHANGE TEMPORARILY OR MAYBE EVEN PERMANENTLY. So listen to your wife's JOKES of what she wants and what she complains about. Don't live in her past. If you wife's love language is GIFTS and there is financial challenge (e.g. you are out of job or business is not moving), do your best to resolve the situation but in the meantime, expect her never to understand why you are not giving her money or buying things for her. Just reassure her as much as you can that things will change instead of arguing and fighting her. Let her say her mind, many times you will find what she says stupid but understand that she is releasing her emotions. It is better than committing adultery to get money or gifts just to FEEL LOVED again. (This is the reason women like this commit adultery. Not that they don't love their spouses again-- they may say so but it is rarely true-- but they want to FEEL loved. Understand this if it already happened.) If you can, beg for money just to give her things (DON'T BORROW PLEASE!) I'm not promising things will change soon but if you can BOTH commit to making your marriage work, there will be NO irreconcilable differences. AND ABOVE ALL DON'T UNDER-ESTIMATE THE POWER OF GOD IN ANSWER TO YOUR OWN PRAYERS. God will not do what you should do but He can help you do it well and make your intentions come to pass. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Does One Cope With A Short Tempered Wife? by PMIcon(m): 9:00am On Nov 23, 2016 |
A. Sometimes it's a sign of frustration or burn out. When ANYONE but especially a woman is contributing more to life than they can psychologically handle especially because 1. Resting time is inadequate FOR THE INDIVIDUAL 2. They are constantly seeing NEEDS (theirs or others', especially loved ones') they feel helpless about resolving They get short-tempered. SUCH PERSON NEED TO BE REMOVED FROM THE ENVIRONMENT PROMPTING OR CAUSING THAT. B. It could well be a sign of lack of personal DAILY relationship with God. You can't force this on people but YOU can only experience it yourself and that can help especially when you start praying for her. C. GET A BOOK ON TEMPERAMENT DIFFERENCES FOR BOTH OF YOU TO READ. READ TOGETHER IF YOU CAN. It will help her understand herself and to see the world through other people's eyes. A book like WHY YOU ACT THE WAY YOU DO by Tim Lahaye(not sure of spellin)will be of practical help. In fact I have heard a mental health specialist acknowledge the usefulness of the man's books. D. YOU OUGHT TO BE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN HER LIFE. SO YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND HER LOVE LANGUAGE- WHAT SHE CONSIDERS TO BE SOMEONE SHOWING LOVE TO HER. Love is patient but you can't give what you don't have. Fill her love-tank as much as you can and she can have more to give. [size=13pt]Love Languages Include[/size] - ACTS OF SERVICE: Help around the house and with the children. Go out of your way to do things for her. Open the door to the house, car. Get out the dirts. Wash her own clothes even if you have maids. IF THAT'S HER LOVE LANGUAGE make sure you do these things o, even if she insists you shouldn't bother. - GIFTS: Buy her things she want or give her money, surprise presents and EXPECT her to say she doesn't like it(don't take offence), just ask what she would have preferred and do it. -TOUCH: It's been said that women may need at least 7 MEANINGFUL touches per day generally. Now imagine what a woman whose love-language is TOUCH would need. Just do your best. 1. Kiss her when it is obvious you cannot be asking for sex 2. Embrace her and leave her there 3. Ask her to sit on your lap and caress her hair 4. Let her lean on you etc AND A COMBINATION - TIME: Force yourself to become a good listening even when your wife is saying the most irrelevant things in the world and make comments and gestures that shows you are interested(IF YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED IN HER TOPIC, AT LEAST YOU ARE INTERESTED IN HER. THAT'S WHY YOU LEFT OTHERS TO MARRY HER.) Even if she wakes you up to say irrelevant things, patiently listen until she sleeps off. IS NOT THE TOPIC THAT IS IMPORTANT TO HER, IT IS THE FEELING THAT YOU ARE AVAILABLE FOR HER. Take her out to spend time ALONE with her. No phone calls from your end. She can pick calls. If this happens to be your love language too. Let her know you don't mind spending time with her alone and this time is for you- no phone calls from anyone to either of you. - SEXUAL INTIMACY: It is supposed to be part of TOUCH but it is better separated because this primarily some women's love language. You must not just do it regularly but you must let her be open to you about what turns her on and puts her off plus her sexual fantasies. Let her be assured you will not be surprised or call her a slot even it is what you may find "inconvenient". If it is not a conscience or moral issue, give it a try even if inconvenient but be open about it if it is so she won't expect it often. I HOPE THESE IS OF HELP TO YOU AND OTHERS WITH SHORT-TEMPERED SPOUSES TOO. All the best. **I'll make the love language part a post for others not reading this to see.** |
Fashion / Re: Beautiful Casual Footwears For Ladies, New Stock Available by PMIcon(m): 8:39pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
Get yours while it lasts. Very strong quality leather, comfortable inner sole. Made to last. One(1) high quality slippers and sandal from us is worth more than four(4) low quality china products in the market. #BuyNaija |
Religion / Re: Should Pastors Have Bouncers/Bodyguards? by PMIcon(m): 7:01pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
payek:It is even not correct. Checked many translations, it is "watch with me" |
Religion / Re: Should Pastors Have Bouncers/Bodyguards? by PMIcon(m): 6:58pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
tartar9: NOT "keep watch over me", it is keep watch WITH ME" (Matthew 26:40) and the usage is like "watch and pray lest you fall into TEMPTATION" (NOT "fall into the hand of armed robbers or assassins" And He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, "So, you men could not keep watch with Me for one hour?" |
Fashion / Re: Beautiful Casual Footwears For Ladies, New Stock Available by PMIcon(m): 4:09pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
More..
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Business / Re: A Ladies' Footwear Business You Can Start In Lagos With Just 24K by PMIcon(m): 3:52pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
Also available this moment as I type
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Business / Re: A Ladies' Footwear Business You Can Start In Lagos With Just 24K by PMIcon(m): 3:50pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
New stock for retail or wholesale. First come(payment) first served.
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Fashion / Re: Beautiful Casual Footwears For Ladies, New Stock Available by PMIcon(m): 3:42pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
New and available for retail sales. buy yours, get for your mum, spouse, sibling, staff etc. Whatsapp:08132478757 with your the desired size(s).Thanks
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Family / Re: A Doctor Shares His Story With An Abortion Seeker by PMIcon(m): 1:55pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
Ishilove Lalasticlacla |
Family / A Doctor Shares His Story With An Abortion Seeker by PMIcon(m): 1:31pm On Nov 22, 2016 |
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Religion / Does God Want You To Be Rich? Is Seeking Wealth Biblical? by PMIcon(m): 1:13pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Does God Want you to be rich? Based on God's word as revealed in the Bible, wants His people to be have both "shalom" (peace; completeness; welfare; health) and wealth or riches (Isaiah 26:3; Proverbs 10:22). God however never intended that we should seek wealth or riches. In fact, it is written: "Don't wear yourself out to get rich; stop giving your attention to it." Proverbs 23:4(Holman) Also, 1 Timothy 6:5-10 (NIV) reads: "...people of corrupt mind, who have been robbed of the truth and who think that godliness is a means to financial gain. 6But godliness with contentment is great gain. 7For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. 9Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. " Nothing is wrong with money. That passage didn't say "for money is the root of all kinds of evil", it said "for the love of money is the root..." The eight verse stress that God is not against comfort. You are expected to work and earn something for your good and that of others but not to seek to be rich (that is to have more than you need). QUESTION: If God wants me to be rich, how then will I be rich without it being part of my goal? Consider these scriptures: - Proverbs 10:22(NIV): "The blessing of the Lord brings wealth, without painful toil for it." - 2 Corinthians 8:9(NIV): "For you know THE GRACE of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that YOU through his poverty MIGHT BECOME RICH." (Capitalization is mine) Note that "might" is past tense. It is already done for those who come to God through Christ Jesus because by the death of Jesus for us, the blessing of Abraham became transferable to us who are non-Jews too. (Galatians 3:9,13-14) Don't let Satan deceive you to start looking for what is already yours. It leads to frustration and sorrows and you were not even designed that way. Just ask God for what you need and do whatever He tells you to do. He will lead you into your wealth even by doing things that seems totally contrary to making money. He is Lord. The Lord still remains our Shepherd and on Him we should rely. His voice we should follow and He it is Who makes us rich. James 1:25 tells us that those who practice the word of God they hear are the ones who will be blessed in their doing. One thing He told us is to do is to love one another as Christ loved us, not with words only but with action. That's why it is written, "Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work." (2 Corinthians 9:7-8,NIV): Love God and honour your parents with what you have and stay where God put you- don't let money dictate what you do and where you work. You cannot serve God and money. When you focus on doing what God says to do, especially in the area of serving Him, you will soon find out that you don't need to look for money like the rest of the world. God will take care of you no matter how much you have in your bank account. Don't live to make money. Work where you ought to be, not where you think there is money. Grace will always meet you where God put you. NOTE:THIS IS MEANT FOR THOSE WHO BELONG TO THE KINGDOM OF GOD WHERE JESUS IS LORD AND THE BIBLE IS FINAL AUTHORITATIVE REFERENCE- NOT THE PASTOR/BISHOP/ REVEREND etc |
Fashion / Re: Beautiful Casual Footwears For Ladies, New Stock Available by PMIcon(m): 5:21pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
LIMITED OFFER: If you want to buy just for personal use, contact me now ON WHATSAPP. Let's know your size.We have a few special designs for retail purchase. |
Health / Re: Sickle Cell Crisis-Halting Nutritional Supplement Now Available by PMIcon(m): 5:10pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Make up your mind you or your child(ren) will not be stopped by Ss genotype. Be life conscious and health conscious, NOT SICKLE-CELL-CONSCIOUS. |
Health / Re: Sickle Cell Crisis-Halting Nutritional Supplement Now Available by PMIcon(m): 5:07pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Drinking adequate water, good personal hygiene and eating adequate balanced diet cannot be replaced by Dioscovite. Take care of yourself! People who don't have the Ss genotype also fall ill from Malaria and even non-communicable diseases. So everything is not sickle cell crisis, though the crisis can be provoked by other diseases too. That's why it is important you are health-conscious-- like everyone else should be. |
Health / Re: Sickle Cell Crisis-Halting Nutritional Supplement Now Available by PMIcon(m): 4:59pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Don't allow your health to deteriorate to the point of hospital admissions and blood transfusion (which is dangerous for you because of the risk of overload). Just start Dioscovite and halt the crisis. |
Fashion / Re: Beautiful Casual Footwears For Ladies, New Stock Available by PMIcon(m): 2:00pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
In Lagos? Do business with us and start making more money. You can start with just #24,000 Naira worth items. |
Business / Re: A Ladies' Footwear Business You Can Start In Lagos With Just 24K by PMIcon(m): 1:57pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Start making money. Do business with us. |
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