lalasticlala:
How do you see this cake design?

I think it looks weird...


https://mobile.twitter.com/DOlusegun/status/586122594241380352

.[size=20pt].....there's nothing weird about it, it's representation of a baobab tree. Google it up![/size]

freecocoa:
You can still be understood(although there's nothing sensible in what you wrote or religion as a whole) if you write with normal fonts.

I didn't bother to read your post to the end, you people should just go and live in heaven na, since this world is not for you.

He has a kingdom, yet decided his people should live in the world, how does any of it make sense?

I don't mean to be rude[i] but anything religion kinda irks me.[/i]

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......i guess writing with big fonts irks you too, abi?[/size]

freecocoa:
What is this nonsense these hypocrites always talk about the way of the world and people of the world?

For feck's sakes, you live in the world, eat food from the world, use stuffs made in the world by people of the world, everything about you is literally in the world and you still say you are not of the world and talk crap about people you think you are better than, because they are supposedly of the world? How confused can someone be biko nu?

[size=20pt].......way of the world implies the world's systems and values. It's quite opposite and contrary to God's system.
For example, the world act as they feel, if it feels good then it's ok. If it's approved by men, then it's ok.
If you're not hurting anyone, then it's ok. It doesn't work that way with God and His kingdom. There is a lifestyle.
There is a King in this Kingdom who is Lord! That's why you can't just do anykind of business, e.g operate a brothel, etc
when you're in this Kingdom of Christ, you don't live for yourself to please yourself, you live for Him to please Him.
Then you discover that in pleasing Him is where you find the greatest, fullest and purest of pleasures!
Something's are better experienced than explained.
The greatest pleasures of this world, can't compare with the least of His pleasures! [/size]

Anugod:
Wow. Thanks for this educative and informative piece. 'Get rich quick syndrome' is what lures most people to fraudsters.

[size=24pt]When the offer is too good to be true, then it most probably isn't true![/size]

[size=20pt].....is paying 5-6.5% monthly too good to be true? It's VERY achievable. I have investors i have been paying monthly since 2011.
The fact there have been scams and failures doesn't mean you throw away the baby with the bath water!
Are you saying you cannot consistently on a monthly basis make N100k from N1m capital. My bro, without any hype it is absolutely
possible and even without stress. What you primarily need is good investment sense and very good money management practices. Ciao! [/size]

donphilopus:
I don't just know why I don't like this billionaire of a guy. BTW, these people have all deserted Jonathan. It ain't fair. I could still recall the number of times GEJ visited this guy before he was humiliated at the polls!

[size=20pt]......that's why it's called poli-ticks my friend. The ticks are there to suck the blood and life out of you.
Once you're through, they move on to the next prey!
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balaclava:
Congratulations.
Even if it was via connections, it is still God's hand work. No man can receive a thing except it be given from above. Connections r merely instruments in God's hand.
The person(s) that finally selected you were/was your connection.
Congratulations, I say again.
And to all seekers, Your connection are awakened to action IJN.

[size=20pt]......including the letter bomb that Dele Giwa received that killed him, nkwa?
And the stray bullets that were received by many lost innocent souls?
My bro, not all things we receive(including slap) are given from above, but they are allowed!
Why?..... i don't know![/size]

Kay17:


But money is an issue! When you hire labour, you would want to know the quality and the cost/price.

Standardized interviews, however do not warrant honest answers; they are meaningless exercises.

[size=20pt]
.......i know the above. i reacted to "the highest possible figure that you can think of"
Infact, that just makes a mockery of the whole interview![/size]

Akynzodeighbour:
If it comes to salary.... Say the highest figure you can think of, no time at all, if its not about the money its not making sense

[size=20pt]....are you employed and did you go through an interview?
Because if i were in a panel of interviewers, and you said this,
then you just sacked yourself before being employed![/size]

Dtrader1:
I can't answer all these questions without thinking for a moment

[size=20pt]......that's good, thinking is allowed, but don't think for too long![/size]

irunoobo:




I'm not on your level so I won't dignify u with response any further. You are a small girl compared to me. You are obviously jealous of my sexy boobs and guess what, it attracts classy rich men that can never look at you twice. Iddiot

[size=20pt].....naaah,.....not good, not good, not good. Bad publicity. Pls, edit! [/size]

irunoobo:




I'm not on your level so I won't dignify u with response any further. You are a small girl compared to me. You are obviously jealous of my sexy boobs and guess what, it attracts classy rich men that can never look at you twice. Iddiot

[size=20pt].....naaah,.....not good, not good, not good. Bad publicity!!!
Pls, edit! [/size]

MzNelly:
My brain.

[size=20pt]......i mean no offense, but do you mean brain as in intelligence or wayo(cunning)? [/size]

Williamso:
I don't support political parties endorsing a rival party's candidate. Isn't that sheer cowardice? Even if it is obvious a candidate will win, why not put up a damn fight?

[size=20pt].......you should understand, nothing goes for nothing. There's a tradeoff somewhere.
They must have been assured of positions in the govt or juicy contracts.
It's just the way it is![/size]

chika4realike:
I am a student of a state university I am in my third year now.
My first and second year grade were very low not that I don't study but I always seem to forget what I studied during exams.
When my first year result was out it was far below my expectations because I really took my time studying so as to make good grade but it was not so
I prayed about this.
Again in my second year same thing happened I don't know if its the way I study
I even get mocked by my friends whu don't even study as much as I do. I actually get depressed and sometime think of committing SUICIDE.
Sometimes I will leave my place of residence for the library for almost 6-8 hrs just for good grade but it will turnout the opposite.
I am in my third year and with exams fast approaching I will not like what has happened in the past happen again
Please I will like u to suggest ways IN WHICH I can read as well as retain as well as recall during exam

[size=20pt]....just need to ask you this:
1) how was your performance in secondary school, waec or neco
2) did you choose the course(chemistry) you are currently studying or did it choose you?
3) do you like the course?.
4) if you had your way, what course would you study?[/size]

lyttmarine:
He use alah to swear all through his utterances, this alah must be a blood sucking god. As for the igbos there is limit to tolerance and wickness, I gues they AV push u guys to that limit. I rather lives in a tenth were I will be celebrateed than a palace where I will be tolerated. Wake up prove him wrong let's see how the heaven will fall.

[size=20pt]....oops.....oops...poor poor, really poor english.
Go improve your english, good english makes for enjoyable reading![/size]

ebonflex:


That's a very silly outlook.
So in your mind, a man is only a man if he is yelling and shouting and punching and making a scene?
Besides the guy's wife (who is a walking sack of warm vomit as far as I'm concerned), females like you are part of an even deeper problem in these dark final days.
Praising/rewarding emotionally weak and selfish behavior (especially from guys), yet penalizing/demonizing feats of true-strength, care, honor, calm and internal control.

Do you know how much internal control is needed to handle and maintain things the way he did?
If God himself was to "man up" according to you, there would be piles of smoldering ashes where human beings used to stand every second....including you.

I don't support him remaining with her, but as far as how he handled the situation, he has my 10 points.
Do the next generation of females a favor and work on your reasoning!

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......this is the conquering of ORUBEBETYTIS by the taking of JEGAQUINE!
....hmmm marriage is the ONLY institution that reveals who you are to you.
There's no no pretense that can survive that institution. However, i give hand
to those who successfully conceal children born outside till their death![/size]

eminentme:
I'm confused even as I'm writing this now. a friend of mine just confided in me that his broda abroad wants him to sleep with his fiancé here in Nigeria instead of her to get from some guy ourstide. pls advice me on this so I can pass the msg across. mature opinion pls.

.....a very generous brother!

farano:
She go brush cheating out of your life!

[size=15pt].....she's a guy just putting on a wig!
..Btw......if i wasn't married and brought this home to introduce to my mum, i trust her reaction.
She wouldn't utter a word, she would just get up and take her small cushion for kneeling,
then off to redemption camp, to return after 7 days of prayer. [/size]

Ausra:
Today is my birthday and I just turned 24hrs
And it's not by my power but by the grace of the Almighty today I'm very happy and for that I want to thank the Almighty for my live and show my appreciation by sending free data to all my fellow nairalanders at least you can make free calls and browse with it and may the Almighty bless the owner of this site and also bless Nigerians I like Nigerians and I'm happy to live among the Nigerian people

You can reach me on whatsapp and wish me happy birthday and I will send you a free data
08051599580

Everyone is welcome
Love ya'll

[size=15pt].......congratulations! How does it feel 24hrs into the world![/size]

achemedez:

Not atrosities man but
ATROCITIES
Btw... Pdp 'll never take PH eh? dnt be fooled ŵǏƫĥ wht happened durng d presidential election!

.....btw...why is there no spell check on .NL?

suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.

.......why does she expect to be forgiven becos she confessed? Did he promise her that?
When we sin and ask God for forgiveness, we expect Him to forgive us becos He promised to forgive when we confess:
...1 John 1:9 "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
We expect from man what only God has and gives capacity for.
Let her pray to God to touch him, and his heart will be softened.
Its important to note men all have different capacities. Don't assume the capacity of others!
The wrong things we do and sometimes get away with with God, might not be easily overlooked by man!

sprinkles14:

I'm 28 years old,
No, he's not my first
Yes, have had guys but haven't given anyone chance to get close to me
I'm not sexual active with..I tend to turn him down most time and when I'm in a fix..I just do it with satisfaction which he often complains about that I'm too rigid
Presently I'm not working..
I don't know your definition for being attractive, but I can say I'm petite and good, presentable and attractive
Yes I would love to..and besides marriage isn't just on my list for now
No serious relationships in the past.
Thank you

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.......my dear, don't plan to fail. You already have a plan to fail in marriage. It's your escape plan, but it's actually a plan to fail. Don't let him say in the future, "why didn't you tell me?"
Pls, call him and tell him what you have told us, don't hide it from him. Don't let him say in the future, "why didn't you tell me?"
He will be bitter and may hate you in the future if you carry out your plans as stated. You're already planning to destroy his marriage, but can prevent it today by telling him exactly how you feel.
Have the strength of character enough to pull out. If you're finding it difficult, get across to his best friend and tell him what you have told us. Then let him help in breaking the news. Don't walk in with eyes wide opened with the awareness you already have. You have seen the future from the beginning, but he has not. If you break it now, he will hurt, but will heal, but if you do as you have said, you will destroy him. It's better he's hurt than destroyed. You owe him that!
If you marry him, you will certainly be irritable in the marriage, and he will not understand why. He will then put in much more to please you, which will irritate you even more. You will be choking with irritation cos your heart neva accepted him in the first place. If you think it will be easier to divorce him, you are greatly wrong! You will feel trapped in misery, "oh, had i known. I should have told him!"
I feel sorry for you cos you will eventually meet someone you will be attracted to and will feel imprisoned, then you will reason,: "don't i also have the right to be happy?". There will be stress and pain beyond anything you can imagine now. It's better not to tread that lane!
Your husband will hate you in the future for destroying his joy and life. But you can prevent it now. Pls tell him and maintain your stand.
May God help you![/size]!

sprinkles14:

As I write you this letter, I'm not happy and not fulfilled. I'm getting married in less than one month to my boyfriend of 4years, but I must confess that nothing and I mean absolutely nothing interest and excites me about this guy. I don't feel complete with this guy at all..
I've been turning deaf ears to this inner voice but I kept pretending and forcing it on myself hoping I will get along sooner or later.
I must confess, this guy is a complete gentle man with a good paying job, full of ideas, loving and caring and everything about me is his priority. He's loved by all my family members and everybody around me. Calling of the wedding ceremony will be an outrageous thing to do because of the embarrassment to our families, friends and the guy in particular.
Have made a conclusion within me...after getting married, I will convince my the guy to allow me travel out of the country, maybe if I'm away, I can start a new life out of Nigeria chore and if this doesn't work, I will either file for a divorce after one year or cheat on my husband to make me happy.
Please a very constructive critics and advice will be highly appreciated.
Thank you.

unfulfilled bride to be.

[size=20pt]
......hi, can you tell me how old you are?
Is he your first?
Have you had other guys chase you in d last 4yrs?
Are you sexually active with him or anoda?
During your courtship, have other guys sparked your interest/feelings
Do you work?
Are you attractive?
Would you like to marry anoda you may have feelings for, or is marriage off your list?
How was your relationship b4 this one?

......expecting your reply, but i just feel i should write this phrase as i await your response:

...."WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ME?"
Waiting.........
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IYANGBALI:
there are some things that you do not do,why would a woman sleep with another man the same day her husband died or even before he is buried? There is what is called respect to the dead. A woman can do whatever she wants to do with her toto,but she must wait until her husband is buried,no matter how preek hungry am,that is why she has fingers to service herself.

[size=20pt]......so i guess it all boils down to what religion. If one has to wait for the burial?
For the religions that bury their dead the same day, then the widow/widower can start an affair almost right away.
I think it's pretty difficult to respect in death who did not respect or treat you right in life.
I personally feel many do this but are never discovered.
And why is it that when men do this it's not much of an issue, but the same act becomes a mighty issue when done by a woman.
I feel that any woman who held herself from adultery when her husband was alive, when being abandoned for so many years by the husband,
has shown her husband a GREAT DEAL OF RESPECT AS HE IS ALIVE! What good is your respect for me after I'm dead if you never respected me when alive?
This is all a societal expectations issue![/size]

kunlenkirol:
;Dthe fact that u had sex with a woman who just lost her husband is bad enuf. For you to have d temerity to sleep with her in her husband's house is worst. You just need to go and confess. Its important!

[size=20pt].....i think it might be good to hear from the woman.
I have an older friend who lost her husband abt 6 months ago, he's buried now for some months.
She confided in me that he hadn't slept with her for over 10 years. He packed from the house, built
a new house and married a younger woman, but REFUSED TO DIVORCE HER. She was left hanging for
about 14yrs and couldn't move forward with her life. She had been handling all bills for the house.
.....now, would you blame such a woman if she slept with anoda man the same day her husband died?
Hope you realize marriage can be used to cage and imprison. Especially those who believe in remaining
faithful to their husband's irrespective of how they are treated. Women are most times the victims of this.
So, when a spouse dies, it's actually an escape and release from prison for some of these women.
It is well![/size]

softapple:
TO summarise it, "this woman has been trying to seduce my friend before the death of her husband, eventually when her husband died my friend went to console her three days after but the unthinkable happen, he was seduce by the woman in her room and he had sex with her, mind you it was rainy and people that came to console her have all left except the woman's younger sister who was sleeping in her room based on the heavy downpour. "are there any implications to a guy that had sex with a woman three days after her husband's death or does he need any spiritual cleansing? he is scared for his life but the widow in question is not a little bit scared at all, though she is still young and withouth a child, pls what should my friend do?

[size=20pt]......hmmm. My thots:......
1) is this adultery?
2) does the marriage contract continue after death?
3) who did the guy/woman sin against.?
4) would it be different if it was a woman that went to visit a man that lost is wife, then ended up having sex?
5) who would be blamed if the above was the case?
6) what claims do the dead have over the living?
7) can a dead spouse make marital claims of infidelity against a living spouse?
8 ) what does marriage vow mean, "till death do us part"?
9) in the above story, has death done them part?
10) is this issue just a matter of societies expectations of the living spouse when one of them dies?
......anyway, ....just thinking![/size]

eleko1:
Jonathan is indeed a gentleman but found himself in [size=15pt]wrong company/useless pipu[/size].Wish Him journey Mercy to OTUOKE

[size=20pt].......wrong company/pipu.........hmmmmmmmmmmm,.....would part of the wrong company/pipu be patience Jonathan?[/size]

Femiblacky:
After the money ish part of it,I started to unravel some mysteries about her,remember she told me she was single,that was a big fat lie,she was infact dating a guy in my skul,dis guy happens to be a cultist,wen I found out,I asked her abt it and she denied it again! That they ve dated in d past but now that they are just platonic friends,and I dnt knw why I believed her again...I left skul oneday very late in d nyt,and I was ambushed by some hefty men,two of them,they accused me of dating their babe wich I denied,long story short[size=15pt],I left that place with broken ribs,nose and some dislocated bones...I was so much angry that I promised never to relate with her again,she came to see me at d skul medical d next day[/size] and to my suprise,all I Ve rehearsed in my head to say to her turned Vacuum on setting my eyes on her,she was her always charming self and she was at d medical with her bag of lies,this is what she have to say...

....... ol boy, you still fit vex after dem demolish you? Where you get the power to vex?

DarkAngel86:
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat. If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings:

www.m.webmd.com/men/.../why-men-ch.. 

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex:


Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says

These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated


I would like us to discuss this issue in a matured manner.

My question is if you've experienced being the cheater or cheated on why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship. This is of course if both parties love each other.

Pls no insults or derailing.

[size=20pt].......i once asked a randy colleague why he was so much into women even though he was married, he just simply replied me, "my brother, it is greed".
So i guess that there's such a thing as sexual greed[/size]!

NegeduGrace:
Ah ah is he dat rude n mannerless?imagine dat lady crying

......what lady? I tot that was a guy!