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seseannie: ......girl, ask him what happened calmly. I suspect he's either testing you or setting you up for a breakup! He put the used condoms in the kitchen, then told you he was hungry, knowing you would end in the kitchen to see the condoms. It could be a test of trust or of reaction. Or simply, a way for you to find your way out of the relationship! |
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Drilz:......pls, i would like to adjure you to use common englis when communicating on NL. To make matters worse i went to your profile and anoda grammar welcomed me: Antaraxic Your English needs to be macerated because it is antaraxic! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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[size=20pt].........just tell your husband you don't ever want to go to his friend's house again, so when he asks you why, then tell him! I speak as a married man, TELL HIM, don't keep it from him and don't delay in telling him! Friendships change and shift cos people change. Your husband's friend is manifesting new unhealthy tendencies, let your husband know his friend's "new" tendencies around you. Emotions and feelings are very strong forces that blind logic and reasoning. He blindly believed you would play along. If i find myself becoming attracted to my friend's wife, then i will keep a v-e-r-y long distance between us until the embers die out. You have to be strong to overcome it. May God help us all![/size] ![]() |
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ekiloui: ............madam, i don't know you, neither do i know your marital status. I don't believe in b***sh-t advice. I hv been with my wife for 14yrs now. I have seen different marriages at work and one of the evils i have seen is wives who ride their husbands. I thank God that this issue of discussion is a non issue in my home, because from the begining the right foundation was laid. What many women don't see and realize is the battering of a man's esteem, respect and all that qualifies him as a man, is what a woman's tongue does when she lashes him with it. The scars on the outside are easier to heal than those on the inside! Have you seen a thoroughly beaten woman before? That is just a little representation of how a man looks on the inside after being battered by his wife! I think there was a post less than a month ago on the.NL about a wife who stabbed her husband to death after less than a year of marriage. It was said she had stabbed him before. There was no reporting he was beating her, she simply felt she was in charge! So he's gone, and she's in prison. I guess if she was on this forum, she would be ranting: " No real man will beat his wife and that's the simple truth...instead he'll hold her off from beating him[/b]". Infact if i might add, "[b] he should even allow her to stab him!" I don't beat my wife, but one look from me is enough! Many of the single ladies, try to bring the control they had as spinsters into marriage. It might work for a while, but watch it, your husband is not just the head of the home, but your head! If this is too much to accept, then i advice you don't get married! You are here on a forum everybody talking their own, enter the marriage first and then know how far.....hmmm,.....i dey laugh! God help us all. ***...by the way, a slap is not a gift to be kept, but one to be returned with profit........*** ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
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ekiloui: .....hmmmmmm, ...........silent treatment for a wife who is beating the husband? It is well! I think you should know ahead that someone who can beat silence into you, can equally beat it out of you. Chikena! 7 Likes 2 Shares |
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kestolove95: .....a non-solution proffering thot,........ by then she would have had enough time to soak your cane in rain water, so when you have fallen asleep, as she begin whip you, you go dey dream say rain dey fall! ![]() Better wake up from your dream strategy of walking away and returning to a repentant woman. I can assure you that next time, she will break your leg first, before beating you. Marriage is a partnership, and you had better wake up to the responsibility of defining who the senior partner is and who the junior is. If not your wife will decide that! Reverence for the husband is vital in marriage. It aids your role as the head of the union and family. Any being with two heads is a monster! It's important your wife knows you are her husband and not son! By the way, have you ever heard of a devil leaving of its own accord? There is no willing surrender of territories by demons. They are forced out. So wake up! 4 Likes 1 Share |
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Johnnoo: [size=40pt] ........we gain the rapid elimination, extermination and extinction of Bokoharam ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
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dmjinc: .. .....sori to burst your bubble, but you're wrong! [size=80pt]IT'S NOT EASY, DEFINITELY NOT CONVENIENT, AND I'M NOT REALLY SURE IT'S SAFE ENOUGH TO PREVENT PREGNANCY![/size] ![]() 1 Like |
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SaintChukz: ........i believe it's real. It's normal practice to recruit regularly especially during war times. In America, there is continuous recruitment in all the armed forces throughout the year. This is because of the many wars America is involved in all around the world. |
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..........just tooooooooooooooooo vulgar and unbecoming! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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..........i don't see blood, no wounds, no bullet holes, no scarring? So how were they killed? Definitely not with bomb blasts, but i suspect poisonous gas bombs. These terminate when inhaled! If you look at the posture of some of the dead, you will know they were gassed! Kudos to our military! ![]() 1 Like |
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zboyd: ....Op, do you think that some people can bless others? Or.....do you think such things aren't real and nothing more than superstitious beliefs? |
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.....sex brings mingling of spirits, it's an intercourse of bodies, soul and spirits. It's a platform on which strengths & weakness are exchanged including individual character traits. t's not just the sex, it's the sin in the sex. The truth is that sin is a door or what you can call an access point to evil. A lot however has to do with the baggage each of the concerned individual is bringing to the table. It's worthy of note to mention you might not even be in sin, but sex brings you trouble even within the marital commitment because one or both of the partners is demonized. So one of the parties experiences troubles not because of marital infidelity, but because of the spirits their partners are yoked with. On the other hand, i have seen womanisers who seem to be doing quite well! It like they inwardly and outwardly live an enviable life. There's still much to be understood! Ciao! 2 Likes |
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pinkycute: ........can i ask you a simple question? What is the difference btw a girl proposing to a guy she has been dating, AND a girl asking a guy she has been dating what his marriage plans are for her. It's just a case of six and half a dozen, or half full vs half empty. One question is, "....will you marry me." The other is, "....what is your plan for me concerning marriage?( ..in other words, ...will you marry me in the end?) Abi, are there girls out there in a relationship who have not asked either one of these questions? ![]() |
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Lala247: ........i agree with you! I would neva encourage any girl to oropose to a guy, but propose, definitely yes! |
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sexymoma: ....trust me, she will bless you if you do it when you're over 40yrs ![]() |
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yuzjet: ....ol boy, u started well but ended warped! Even if pissed, control your tongue especially in matters of divinity! His fear is the beginnings of being wise. Selah! |
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DICKtator: ........ don't worry, you will know there's something VERY WRONG about taking and sending out your nude photos when tomorrow you attain an office or position you neva knew you would attain that demands certain character and carriage! It is then your unclad photos will be used in calendars and stickers and given out free. Sent to media houses both print and electronic with no copyrights attached. It is then your uncorrect head will become correct, but it would have been too late, because it would cross from Nigeria to Ghana, west Africa, whole of Africa, then reach Michigan, then the whole united states of America, then London, and the united kingdom, Germany, France, China, even North Korea. By this time, your head will be totally corrected! Of course, you know that your children's classmates will be coming to class to show your children the pics you took when your brain was overflowing with hormones, then you will say it's not you in the pics, abi? By then that your smiling icon ![]() ...Mumuni ![]() |
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marieolae: ......why allow your nude photos be taken in the first place? Such should only happen (if at all) within the confines of marriage, and immediately deleted after viewing! I have always maintained that emotions are far more stronger and powerful than logic or reasoning. Dats why ladies are usually the victims of such happenings. God help us all! 1 Like |
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marvel5star: .....deviant! Your wish be granted speedily as you will be posted to the northeast to serve your fatherland against the menace of bokoharam! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Flygeriana: .....been using water since 1996, even just used it this morning. No matter the sophistication of the toilet, i look for a water source to cleanup. Tissue can NEVER compare. Though always ensure a good handwash nearby! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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lalasticlala: .....e be like say na women this mata pain pass, with their vehement, vigorous and rigorous reaction. Who then says sex is primarily a man thing? Personally, me thinks women are more into it than men! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Psalmwise: .....had to look at your profile to know if you were up to13yrs ![]() 4 Likes |
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sylviasilifah: ........lies, lies, lies!!! |
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BrTune: ......she's not too old. I guess it's the pain and shame dat makes it unbearable. She will get a great and deserving guy who will appreciate and love her for who she is......also, GIRLS DON'T GIVE YOUR LIVES TO A MAN WHO HAS NOT WEDDED YOU,.....safe advice! |
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shedyman: .........if you respect the man of God as you posted above, you shouldn't have brought this matter to the market place(which nairaland is) for discussion. Why not report it to one of the pastors? If you consider the church, your family church, you will not bring such incident to the judgement seat of the world. If you feel something better could be done, why don't you join that unit and in time show them a more befitting way to carry out their assignment! We need to grow up in our actions and reactions concerning ecclesiastical matters which concern us. God Bless! 2 Likes |
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wastedsperm: .......your name sure befits you and it's not only dat you are a product of wasted sperm, but you're taking up space and using up vital oxygen a rodent would have been more profitable using. May your dumbness come upon you speedily. Accidental conception!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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priscaoge: .........can you actually do politics in Nigeria without these thugs? When your opponents surround themselves with red-eyed thugs armed to the teeth, you better know what you're doing or take anything you see. The bible says, "the horse is prepared for battle, but safety is of the Lord. Or would you prefer to surround yourself with pastors and imams, who will face off with opposition thugs when kasala burst & matter tear? Wise up my friend! |
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victor08: .........was porn mentioned anywhere in the original write-up? |
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pretydiva: ......that's not a wise advise. It's intimacy between a couple. Why don't you approach this as a prayer project. Use it as an opportunity to see the hand of God manifest in your marriage. Personally, i don't advise you to report him. It's his fantasy which can be changed patiently with prayer. Also it might be good to realize that MANY Christian wives do their husband this service. Cheers! 1 Like |
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jenniferjon: .....if you are the shy type, first, tell him the above story as a third party, i.e like if you are reporting it to him of someone you know (don't reveal its you). You can tell him it's a friend or cousin going through the situation who asked for your advice, then ask him for his advice on the issue. From his response, you can get a bit of his thinking process and value system as per the matter. Secondly, based on his response ask him if it was him and the reverse was the case, i.e, if the matter was about him loving a woman but was finding it difficult to tell the woman, how would he handle such? His response here will reveal a lot to you about whether he shares the same feelings as you are having for him. You should assess what he says he would do with what his current actions are with you. Then thirdly, tell him there is a guy showing you so much interest, but you are not sure what to do? He might ask you how you feel about the guy, just tell him that the guy has asked you if you are in any serious relationship, but you have refused to give him any answer. Study his reactions and responses, they will reveal a lot to you as per his state of mind! Mind you, you don't have to do all these at a go. You might discuss the different issues at different times with him! |
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