seseannie:
Tnx for your responses bt I was nt snopping on him. I came back n he complained of hunger I went inside the kitchen to cook n I saw the condoms. I knw some men cheat bt at least they respect their partners throwing away the condoms would have been a better idea

......girl, ask him what happened calmly. I suspect he's either testing you or setting you up for a breakup!
He put the used condoms in the kitchen, then told you he was hungry, knowing you would end in the kitchen to see the condoms. It could be a test of trust or of reaction. Or simply, a way for you to find your way out of the relationship!

Drilz:

Hehehe ur own don be!!! I wish she has my kindof mind, u testis needs to be macerated, u didnt only cheat, u had unprotected sex. OYO is ur case...

......pls, i would like to adjure you to use common englis when communicating on NL. To make matters worse i went to your profile and anoda grammar welcomed me:
Antaraxic
Your English needs to be macerated because it is antaraxic!

[size=20pt].........just tell your husband you don't ever want to go to his friend's house again, so when he asks you why, then tell him! I speak as a married man, TELL HIM, don't keep it from him and don't delay in telling him!
Friendships change and shift cos people change. Your husband's friend is manifesting new unhealthy tendencies, let your husband know his friend's "new" tendencies around you. Emotions and feelings are very strong forces that blind logic and reasoning. He blindly believed you would play along. If i find myself becoming attracted to my friend's wife, then i will keep a v-e-r-y long distance between us until the embers die out. You have to be strong to overcome it.
May God help us all![/size]

ekiloui:


Oga why should your wife be beating you? Are you married to the female mike tyson or something? How many women can actually beat up their husbands.

If you like beat your wife to death because u want to show how much of an animal can be. That's your biz

No real man will beat his wife and that's the simple truth...instead he'll hold her off from beating him

............madam, i don't know you, neither do i know your marital status. I don't believe in b***sh-t advice. I hv been with my wife for 14yrs now. I have seen different marriages at work and one of the evils i have seen is wives who ride their husbands. I thank God that this issue of discussion is a non issue in my home, because from the begining the right foundation was laid.
What many women don't see and realize is the battering of a man's esteem, respect and all that qualifies him as a man, is what a woman's tongue does when she lashes him with it. The scars on the outside are easier to heal than those on the inside! Have you seen a thoroughly beaten woman before? That is just a little representation of how a man looks on the inside after being battered by his wife!
I think there was a post less than a month ago on the.NL about a wife who stabbed her husband to death after less than a year of marriage. It was said she had stabbed him before. There was no reporting he was beating her, she simply felt she was in charge! So he's gone, and she's in prison. I guess if she was on this forum, she would be ranting: " No real man will beat his wife and that's the simple truth...instead he'll hold her off from beating him[/b]". Infact if i might add, "[b] he should even allow her to stab him!"
I don't beat my wife, but one look from me is enough!
Many of the single ladies, try to bring the control they had as spinsters into marriage. It might work for a while, but watch it, your husband is not just the head of the home, but your head!
If this is too much to accept, then i advice you don't get married!
You are here on a forum everybody talking their own, enter the marriage first and then know how far.....hmmm,.....i dey laugh!
God help us all.
***...by the way, a slap is not a gift to be kept, but one to be returned with profit........***

ekiloui:
The question is..What do u mean by if your wife fights you? Is it just a slap? Cos I imagine that's the most she can do. So u'll beat the devil out of your wife who you have more physical strength than.

[size=20pt]Op there's is no justification for beating up your wife, except of course u have animalistic tendencies. As a post said the best kind of punishment to give to a woman is the silent treatment.[/size]

God help you the day u beat the devil out of your wife and the devil enters you and kills her...your life will be ruined, and trust me..women have been beating to death.

As for my fellow ladies...under no circumstance should you marry someone who doesn't have qualms about beating his wife, because from that moment your life will be ruined. And if you do, pack your things and leave after the 1st slap, even the bible allows divorce under such circumstances.
And no...don't consider that you have children with a man who treats you like a punching bag, cos when he's done with you and no one can recognise you (if u don't die sef) he'll marry another woman and either u'll either be without your kids or with your kids alone.

Becareful who you marry ooo...sometimes it's better to stay single than marry your murderer. Forget about societal pressure and marry a man that respects and loves you.

.....hmmmmmm, ...........silent treatment for a wife who is beating the husband?
It is well!
I think you should know ahead that someone who can beat silence into you, can equally beat it out of you.
Chikena!

kestolove95:
If my wife. Raise ha hands. On me...I will just leav d house and come back at nyt...by den d devil go don leav her..may. God not let me raise on on ma wife

.....a non-solution proffering thot,........ by then she would have had enough time to soak your cane in rain water, so when you have fallen asleep, as she begin whip you, you go dey dream say rain dey fall!
Better wake up from your dream strategy of walking away and returning to a repentant woman.
I can assure you that next time, she will break your leg first, before beating you.
Marriage is a partnership, and you had better wake up to the responsibility of defining who the senior partner is and who the junior is.
If not your wife will decide that!
Reverence for the husband is vital in marriage. It aids your role as the head of the union and family.
Any being with two heads is a monster!
It's important your wife knows you are her husband and not son!
By the way, have you ever heard of a devil leaving of its own accord? There is no willing surrender of territories by demons. They are forced out. So wake up!

Johnnoo:
[size=40pt]What do we gain from violence[/size]

[size=40pt] ........we gain the rapid elimination, extermination and extinction of Bokoharam [/size]

dmjinc:
Withdrawal Method/pull out method is okay































[size=80pt]Safe, easy, and convenient[/size]

.. .....sori to burst your bubble, but you're wrong!
[size=80pt]IT'S NOT EASY, DEFINITELY NOT CONVENIENT, AND I'M NOT REALLY SURE IT'S SAFE ENOUGH TO PREVENT PREGNANCY![/size]

SaintChukz:
Is this real? I thought there was already an on going recruitment from late last year?

........i believe it's real. It's normal practice to recruit regularly especially during war times.
In America, there is continuous recruitment in all the armed forces throughout the year.
This is because of the many wars America is involved in all around the world.

..........just tooooooooooooooooo vulgar and unbecoming!

..........i don't see blood, no wounds, no bullet holes, no scarring?
So how were they killed?
Definitely not with bomb blasts, but i suspect poisonous gas bombs.
These terminate when inhaled!
If you look at the posture of some of the dead, you will know they were gassed!
Kudos to our military!

zboyd:
Do you think that some people can curse or bewitch others?

Do you believe bewitching or curses only have power over those who believe that it can affect them?

Or...do you think such things aren't real and nothing more than superstitious fears?

....Op, do you think that some people can bless others?
Or.....do you think such things aren't real and nothing more than superstitious beliefs?

.....sex brings mingling of spirits, it's an intercourse of bodies, soul and spirits. It's a platform on which strengths & weakness are exchanged including individual character traits. t's not just the sex, it's the sin in the sex. The truth is that sin is a door or what you can call an access point to evil. A lot however has to do with the baggage each of the concerned individual is bringing to the table.
It's worthy of note to mention you might not even be in sin, but sex brings you trouble even within the marital commitment because one or both of the partners is demonized. So one of the parties experiences troubles not because of marital infidelity, but because of the spirits their partners are yoked with.
On the other hand, i have seen womanisers who seem to be doing quite well!
It like they inwardly and outwardly live an enviable life.
There's still much to be understood!
Ciao!

pinkycute:
I can't do that

........can i ask you a simple question?
What is the difference btw a girl proposing to a guy she has been dating, AND a girl asking a guy she has been dating what his marriage plans are for her. It's just a case of six and half a dozen, or half full vs half empty.
One question is, "....will you marry me."
The other is, "....what is your plan for me concerning marriage?( ..in other words, ...will you marry me in the end?)
Abi, are there girls out there in a relationship who have not asked either one of these questions?

Lala247:



Sit there and be waiting ....

I can never oropose to a guy ,,,, just saying ...

........i agree with you! I would neva encourage any girl to oropose to a guy, but propose, definitely yes!

sexymoma:
My mother would curse me if i do this.

....trust me, she will bless you if you do it when you're over 40yrs

yuzjet:


Nothing we no go see for 9Ja. Your husband said he want styles in sex, u said No DAT it's ungodly. Well, don't marry him. Wait for God to come and f^ck the hell out of u with different styles. Mtchew....

....ol boy, u started well but ended warped!
Even if pissed, control your tongue especially in matters of divinity!
His fear is the beginnings of being wise.
Selah!

DICKtator:


How do you mean?
There is noting wrong in sending nudes to your boyfriend. It strengthens the relationship
In the case of the Ugandan singer,it was her estranged lover that leaked the nudes meaning the relationship turned sour.
The ONLY reasonable thing y'all ladies do not do or forget to do is also snap your boyfriend nude.
So when the relationship turns sour,you would also have something to hold on to.(hardly works though!!,leaking a guy's nude may just give him more pooossie scores if he is heavy within(no omo!)
It is no biggie if y'all wanna spice the relationship up and keep him thinking bout that body of yours and how he would want to devour it when next y'all meet


Still experrin yours though......

........ don't worry, you will know there's something VERY WRONG about taking and sending out your nude photos when tomorrow you attain an office or position you neva knew you would attain that demands certain character and carriage!
It is then your unclad photos will be used in calendars and stickers and given out free. Sent to media houses both print and electronic with no copyrights attached.
It is then your uncorrect head will become correct, but it would have been too late, because it would cross from Nigeria to Ghana, west Africa, whole of Africa, then reach Michigan, then the whole united states of America, then London, and the united kingdom, Germany, France, China, even North Korea.
By this time, your head will be totally corrected!
Of course, you know that your children's classmates will be coming to class to show your children the pics you took when your brain was overflowing with hormones, then you will say it's not you in the pics, abi?
By then that your smiling icon , will be showing black teeth instead of white!
...Mumuni

marieolae:
Sick individuals like him that make it hard for us to trust guys.

Good for him!

......why allow your nude photos be taken in the first place?
Such should only happen (if at all) within the confines of marriage, and immediately deleted after viewing!
I have always maintained that emotions are far more stronger and powerful than logic or reasoning.
Dats why ladies are usually the victims of such happenings.
God help us all!

marvel5star:
Chai see flexing! Can't wait to serve my fatherland

.....deviant!
Your wish be granted speedily as you will be posted to the northeast to serve your fatherland against the menace of bokoharam!

Flygeriana:
I was abouto go and take a dump, and she asked: "without tissue?" I replied: "There is tissue in there. Besides, I dont like using tissue to wipe my as$ after I finish takin a dump. I prefer using water to wash my nyash." And she replied: "Eewww! Disgustin." And I replied: "Your fada disgustin! Ajepako oshi."

So I decided to ask, which do u guys prefer usin after takin a dump?

Make una no shame talk o [esp, the girls] Lol

.....been using water since 1996, even just used it this morning. No matter the sophistication of the toilet, i look for a water source to cleanup.
Tissue can NEVER compare. Though always ensure a good handwash nearby!

lalasticlala:



http://eternal-destinations..com/2014/11/a-warning-for-christian-couples.html?m=1

.....e be like say na women this mata pain pass, with their vehement, vigorous and rigorous reaction.
Who then says sex is primarily a man thing? Personally, me thinks women are more into it than men!

Psalmwise:
sumtimes wen I touch d upper wan it feels asif am holding a burglary...its so hard...dat I wonder if clay soil was added to their own sand...it still baffles me y re dey so big and hard on d outside and yet so small and soft or too softerest on d inside...,I later heard dey use push up foam enabed iron bra

.....had to look at your profile to know if you were up to13yrs

sylviasilifah:
Her husband Alex, who himself tips the scale at 200 pounds (which is less than one of his wife’s legs), insists that the sex is anything but normal:
It’s hard to position her and find her pleasure spots as she has a lot of fat in the pelvic area. But it turns me on knowing she’s satisfied. Although once, when she got on top, I couldn’t breathe.

But slowly but surely, Potter is continuing to trim down. She claims to burn 500 calories in a single love-making session.WebMD places the average for calorie expenditure for 30 minutes of sex at 85, but Potter doesn’t specify how long one of her sexathons lasts, so it’s possible her estimate may hold some water. see other photos here http://www.rayvenmay..com/2014/07/i-have-sex-7-times-day-to-keep-fit.html

........lies, lies, lies!!!

BrTune:
My people I greet una o.
This Valentine don Red 4 my Cousin o.
Her fiance whom she has dated for 11 years and whom she helped get a Job in Shell just dumped her.
My Cousin is turning 32 this year, and began dating this hediot immediately after NYSC. This man, she helped get a Job, through a retired senior officer in Shell.
When she began dating him he was a nobody, hopping around with his CV from pillar to post, until my sister started pushing his CV in Shell, until reluctantly a family relation gave this man the job, because he thought the Man was gonna go through with the marriage.
Fastforward to this day, after making my cousin turn down suitors in powerful positions, and so many eligible bachelors, he left her heartbroken this morning, when he informed her that he was in love with another girl.
My cousin is currently suicidal, infact sef, My family just hired a matured lady as a personal escort because we cant trust her with her life anymore.
This pig wasted 11 years of my Sisters life, when we were telling her to dump the man, she was forming love, now it haf done her like Nigerian movie and he even had the guts to buy a Range say na reconciliation gift, like my Sister needs his money.
To all the ladies out there, better shine eyes o. If the man is not ready 4 marriage better leave him bcoz time is not always on a Ladys side. Now na to start do night vigil 4 husband na him we dey o.
MoD move this 2 the approprait section so NL ladiea can see this n wiseup.

......she's not too old. I guess it's the pain and shame dat makes it unbearable. She will get a great and deserving guy who will appreciate and love her for who she is......also, GIRLS DON'T GIVE YOUR LIVES TO A MAN WHO HAS NOT WEDDED YOU,.....safe advice!

shedyman:
As is customary of me, I attended Dunamis Int'l, Abuja today, the 25th day of January 2015.

I parked my car at the garage created for that purpose. One of the ushers in grey suit menacingly approached me and sternly warned me not to park there. Cars were parked beside me without any warning issued to the other drivers.

I had to look around so as to be sure I was not missing anything, after doing this, I told the usher from the pit of hell that the spaces between my car and surrounding vehicles was wide enough for entry and exit (true to my word, the cars that were in the garage when I parked had moved out and other cars had parked in their stead).

At the close of service, I was shocked to discover my tyres had been maliciously deflated. Instinctively, I had to look around for the usher from hell who took offence that I had the audacity to challenge the reasonableness of his instructions, I was not surprised to find he was no where to be found.

Consequently, I approached one of the ushers on ground to make a harmless complaint, I was dumbfounded when he threatened he was going to beat me up if I don't take my car in the state of its deflated tyres out of the garage. I dared him, but sensing I was a little enlightened he exercised restraint.

These two attitudes I experienced today got me wondering what the church of today is turning into. Are these really the signs of end time? If workers in church put up these attitudes (albeit unjustly), can it be said that the preaching that comes up from the pulpit is in anyway purging society of evil, looting, corruption, prostitution and malice?

Whilst I respect the grace and will continue to respect the grace and anointing of the Senior pastor of the church, Dr. Paul Eneche, I wonder what a christian whose faith is still shaky will do in my circumstance.

This post is actually a clarion call for pastors to be wary of the character that surrounds them, because these workers are the image the public has of the church.

.........if you respect the man of God as you posted above, you shouldn't have brought this matter to the market place(which nairaland is) for discussion. Why not report it to one of the pastors? If you consider the church, your family church, you will not bring such incident to the judgement seat of the world. If you feel something better could be done, why don't you join that unit and in time show them a more befitting way to carry out their assignment! We need to grow up in our actions and reactions concerning ecclesiastical matters which concern us.
God Bless!

wastedsperm:



THE MAN IS AN IDIOOT HOW COULD HE TREAT COCA-COLA LIKE THAT ARE THESE THE SO CALLED MEN OF GOD BIBLICAL SCAMMERS


qoute me and run mad

.......your name sure befits you and it's not only dat you are a product of wasted sperm, but you're taking up space and using up vital oxygen a rodent would have been more profitable using.
May your dumbness come upon you speedily.
Accidental conception!!!

priscaoge:
Silly boy For ur plastic mind You wise abi? Or You don upgrade?

Why do some Nigerian youths allow d politicians use them like a tissue paper(Use and dispose)...Their kids stays n study abroad,and You are here been used ....

They actually lied to us about "Youths been leaders of tomorrow" Which tomorrow when they surround themselves with their fellow Old corrupt minds and subject our youths to thuggery and all sorts of crimes? It's obvious that Youths are the leaders of NEXT TOMORROW!!!! Because those that ruled yesterday are ruling today and still wants to rule tomorrow!

Wise up n say no to Thuggery!!

.........can you actually do politics in Nigeria without these thugs?
When your opponents surround themselves with red-eyed thugs armed to the teeth, you better know what you're doing or take anything you see.
The bible says, "the horse is prepared for battle, but safety is of the Lord.
Or would you prefer to surround yourself with pastors and imams, who will face off with opposition thugs when kasala burst & matter tear?
Wise up my friend!

victor08:
[size=20pt]Please tell your husband to visit this site

http://www.quitpornreport.com/blueprint/[/size]

.........was porn mentioned anywhere in the original write-up?

pretydiva:
*Pukes*....ewwww...God forbid I swallow any man's sperm,jst 2 prove my luv 4 him. @ op try n mk him c reasons wif u,buh if he his stil adamant, then report him 2 any higher authority.

......that's not a wise advise. It's intimacy between a couple.
Why don't you approach this as a prayer project.
Use it as an opportunity to see the hand of God manifest in your marriage.
Personally, i don't advise you to report him. It's his fantasy which can be changed
patiently with prayer.
Also it might be good to realize that MANY Christian wives do their husband this service.
Cheers!

jenniferjon:
I'm in love with a guy, we ve been friends for a while now but we beginning to get intimate and my feelings r rapidly developing for him, I really want to share how I feel with him but am scared that this mite freak him out n he may just run away or this cud get awkward between us but I bliv telling som1 how u feel either u a guy or a girl is d right thing to do..
I rily do need to know if I sud tell him how I feel or just keep my feelings till he tells me if he has feelings for me ..I bliv som guys find it awkward wen gurls tell dem how dey feel bou dem... wat will u advice I do pls?

.....if you are the shy type, first, tell him the above story as a third party, i.e like if you are reporting it to him of someone you know (don't reveal its you). You can tell him it's a friend or cousin going through the situation who asked for your advice, then ask him for his advice on the issue. From his response, you can get a bit of his thinking process and value system as per the matter.
Secondly, based on his response ask him if it was him and the reverse was the case, i.e, if the matter was about him loving a woman but was finding it difficult to tell the woman, how would he handle such?
His response here will reveal a lot to you about whether he shares the same feelings as you are having for him. You should assess what he says he would do with what his current actions are with you.
Then thirdly, tell him there is a guy showing you so much interest, but you are not sure what to do? He might ask you how you feel about the guy, just tell him that the guy has asked you if you are in any serious relationship, but you have refused to give him any answer.
Study his reactions and responses, they will reveal a lot to you as per his state of mind!
Mind you, you don't have to do all these at a go. You might discuss the different issues at different times with him!