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First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Realismailakabir: 6:26pm On Mar 18, 2021
Question:

I know it is absolutely forbidden to gaze at women. If one accidentally catches my eyes sometimes I keep looking for a second or two and then I remember Allaah's command and immediately look down .
My question is for that very little time that I do look at the lady do I earn sins?

Answer

Praise be to Allah.

Jareer ibn Abdullaah said: "I asked the Messenger of Allaah (Peace & Blessings of Allaah be upon Him) about an accidental glance at a woman. He commanded me to turn my gaze away." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, who said: This is a saheeh hasan hadeeth. See al-Sunan, 2700).

Commenting on this hadeeth, al-Mubaarakpoori said: " Accidental means that his gaze fell on a non-mahram woman unintentionally. He commanded me to turn my gaze away means that he was not to look a second time, because the first glance was not by choice and would be forgiven, but any further glances would be counted as sin, and he should heed the words of Allaah (interpretation of the meaning): Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) [al-Noor 24:30]"

The Messenger of Allaah (Peace & Blessings of Allaah be upon Him) said: "O Ali, do not follow a glance with another, for you will be forgiven for the first, but not for the second." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 2701; see Saheeh al-Jaami, 7953)

In al-Tuhfah, he said: "The words do not follow a glance with another mean do not look again after the first glance. You will be forgiven for the first means that you will be forgiven if the first glance was unintentional, and but not for the second means that because the second glance was by choice, it will be counted against you."

So it is clear that deliberately looking at a non-mahram woman and continuing to look after a first accidental glance is haraam. It is forbidden to look at any part of her body, whether you think she is beautiful or not, whether it provokes sexual desire or not, whether it is accompanied by evil thoughts or not, and whether it leads to immoral deeds or not.

We ask Allaah to protect you and us from all haraam deeds. Allaah is the One Who guides to the Straight Path.


https://islamqa.info/en/answers/1774/first-and-second-glance-at-women

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 6:31pm On Mar 18, 2021
Realismailakabir:
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Mallam are you booking space to create your own topic?

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Realismailakabir: 8:39pm On Mar 18, 2021
first glance is forgiven by Allah, second and continuous glance(s) is a sin! Quran chapter 24 verse 30.

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Mogajunior(m): 9:35am On Mar 19, 2021
cool
A person does not have to be behind bars to be a prisoner. People can be prisoners of their own concepts, doctrines and ideas.

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by brainpulse: 9:35am On Mar 19, 2021
How do you want to marry the second, third and fourth wives if you do not gaze at them lustfully

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Lukgaf(m): 9:36am On Mar 19, 2021
JazaakumLlohu khaeran

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by kovic7(m): 9:37am On Mar 19, 2021
First glance alone can't convince you to make her your second, third or fourth wife though.......

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by MrIcredible: 9:41am On Mar 19, 2021
Pigs should avoid this thread o
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by drizslim(m): 9:49am On Mar 19, 2021
Red tight like a rapper
It hard to see my kinda man
Finished dem all d rappers am badda than
This niqqas too fast Ramadan

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Triangles1(m): 9:53am On Mar 19, 2021
The pictures use to illustrate, does guys are not Muslims.

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by marvin906(m): 10:09am On Mar 19, 2021
You think marrying ten wives is done by looking at her once

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 10:22am On Mar 19, 2021
JAZAAKALLAH

LUSTFUL LEERING AT WOMEN (except your spouse) IS ONE OF THE WEAPONS OF SHAITAN

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Adlac(m): 10:22am On Mar 19, 2021
theTranslator:
[s]but Mohammad took the first second third fourth glance at his adopted son's wife and later forcefully married her
And was a holy prophet of allah

Read Anatomy of the Quran and who is this Allah by GJO moshay.


Before you quote to say trash

I have a qur'an here with me
I might even know more about your religion than you do[/s]

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 10:26am On Mar 19, 2021
So what if my first glance lingers on.

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:28am On Mar 19, 2021
Alhamdulillah! May Allah forgive us our misdeeds and grant us piety.

brainpulse:
How do you want to marry the second, third and fourth wives if you do not gaze at them lustfully

marvin906:
You think marrying ten wives is done by looking at her once
kovic7:
First glance alone can't convince you to make her your second, third or fourth wife though.......

The western way of marriage is to lust over a lady turning her to an object of sexual gratification. Marriage in Islam comes with immense reward or otherwise. How do you lust over a covered woman that exposes no shape or body parts?
If you want to marry her you visit her in the presence of her father/guardian.

Mogajunior:
cool
A person does not have to be behind bars to be a prisoner. People can be prisoners of their own concepts, doctrines and ideas.

Of what importance is lustfully looking at a lady? If you call the ideology of lowering the gaze "a prison" ain't it better than your lustful spree, then masturbation and fornication?

theTranslator:

but Mohammad took the first second third fourth glance at his adopted son's wife and later forcefully married her
And was a holy prophet of allah

Read Anatomy of the Quran and who is this Allah by GJO moshay.

Before you quote to say trash

I have a qur'an here with me
I might even know more about your religion than you do
A woman is never married by force. And Allah destined the Prophet to marry her.
Did Abraham marry Hagar by force?
And was GJO Moshay a Prophet for us to believe he wrote the truth?
Try and read the rebuttal to his book too.
Having a Qur'an with your does not mean you know anything in it. Boko Haram too may have it yet it eluded them.
I don't think you know much sef cos empty vessels...!

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by offset67(m): 10:29am On Mar 19, 2021
>:ALL MUSLIMS ARE TERRORISTS

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 10:33am On Mar 19, 2021
LUSTFUL LEERING AT WOMEN (except spouses) IS ONE OF THE WEAPONS OF SHAITAN

JAZAAKALLAH

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 10:37am On Mar 19, 2021
dairykidd:
So what if my first glance lingers on.

THEN IT BECOMES SOMETHING OTHER THAN A GLANCE,

IT BECOMES LEERING,

IT BECOMES A SIN.

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 10:47am On Mar 19, 2021
motayoayinde:
LUSTFUL LEERING AT WOMEN (except spouses) IS ONE OF THE WEAPONS OF SHAITAN

JAZAAKALLAH
Okay according to the bold. I can look lustfully at my spouse right? I don't want to use lustful lemme just use admiration instead. So i can't admire the woman i want to get married to then how am i supposed to exercise my conjugal rights properly if i can't even be aroused by my spouse? Or does she suddenly develop to my spec when i marry her? Its not adding up if I can't admire a woman's beauty at least. Ijs

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:56am On Mar 19, 2021
offset67:
>:ALL MUSLIMS ARE TERRORISTS

And you are what?
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by yetunsbay(m): 11:08am On Mar 19, 2021
offset67:
>:ALL MUSLIMS ARE TERRORISTS
now that u hv said ur mind, are u now satisfied ?
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 11:11am On Mar 19, 2021
dairykidd:

Okay according to the bold. I can look lustfully at my spouse right? I don't want to use lustful lemme just use admiration instead. So i can't admire the woman i want to get married to then how am i supposed to exercise my conjugal rights properly if i can't even be aroused by my spouse? Or does she suddenly develop to my spec when i marry her? Its not adding up if I can't admire a woman's beauty at least. Ijs

IF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT A WOMAN YOU INTEND TO MARRY, THEN THAT'S A DIFFERENT MATTER.
ISLAM HAS A RULE FOR THAT AS WELL.

IN THAT CASE, YOU ARE PERMITTED TO LOOK (not glance) AT HER WITHOUT HER KNOWING, MOST TIMES WITH THE PERMISSION OF HER PARENTS/GUARDIANS, ALTHOUGH LOOKING AT HER FOR THIS PURPOSE MAY ALSO BE DONE WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT.

THE LOOKING SHOULD BE DONE WITH SINCERITY OF PURPOSE AND GODFEAR, TO LOOK OUT FOR DEFECTS OR ATTRACTION, THEN THE SUITOR'S MIND CAN BE MADE UP.

BELOW IS THE EVIDENCE FOR THIS:

''From al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah: “I proposed marriage to a woman, and the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Have you seen her?’ I said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Look at her, because it is more fitting that love and compatibility be established between you.’” According to another report: “So he did that, and he married her and mentioned that they got along.”

(Reported by al-Daaraqutni, 3/252 (31, 32); Ibn Maajah, 1/574)

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by offset67(m): 11:15am On Mar 19, 2021
yetunsbay:
now that u hv said ur mind, are u now satisfied ?
yes an satisfied

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by theTranslator: 11:33am On Mar 19, 2021
Rashduct4luv:
Alhamdulillah! May Allah forgive us our misdeeds and grant us piety.






The western way of marriage is to lust over a lady turning her to an object of sexual gratification. Marriage in Islam comes with immense reward or otherwise. How do you lust over a covered woman that exposes no shape or body parts?
If you want to marry her you visit her in the presence of her father/guardian.



Of what importance is lustfully looking at a lady? If you call the ideology of lowering the gaze "a prison" ain't it better than your lustful spree, then masturbation and fornication?


A woman is never married by force. And Allah destined the Prophet to marry her.
Did Abraham marry Hagar by force?
And was GJO Moshay a Prophet for us to believe he wrote the truth?
Try and read the rebuttal to his book too.
Having a Qur'an with your does not mean you know anything in it. Boko Haram too may have it yet it eluded them.
I don't think you know much sef cos empty vessels...!
nonsense!

Book haram are the only people following the qur'an
They are practicing the real Islam
You're grasping at a straw
Where in the rebuttal
The problem with Muslims especially African Muslims is that you DONT read

Read those books
If you still practice want to Islam then there is no hope for you

I'd rather practice the religion of my grandfather's and worship Sango and Osun
At least I can get powers
Everything is by force

The sharia law is an evidence of Islam's brutality



I have a question for you
Would you choose the sharia law over thew secular,democratic law
Answer in all honesty

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 19, 2021
motayoayinde:


IF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT A WOMAN YOU INTEND TO MARRY, THEN THAT'S A DIFFERENT MATTER.
ISLAM HAS A RULE FOR THAT AS WELL.

IN THAT CASE, YOU ARE PERMITTED TO LOOK (not glance) AT HER WITHOUT HER KNOWING, MOST TIMES WITH THE PERMISSION OF HER PARENTS/GUARDIANS. LOOKING AT HER FOR THIS PURPOSE CAN ALSO BE DONE WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT.

THE LOOKING SHOULD BE DONE WITH SINCERITY OF PURPOSE AND GODFEAR, TO LOOK OUT FOR DEFECTS OR ATTRACTION, THEN THE SUITOR'S MIND CAN BE MADE UP.

BELOW IS THE EVIDENCE FOR THIS:

''From al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah: “I proposed marriage to a woman, and the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Have you seen her?’ I said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Look at her, because it is more fitting that love and compatibility be established between you.’” According to another report: “So he did that, and he married her and mentioned that they got along.”

(Reported by al-Daaraqutni, 3/252 (31, 32); Ibn Maajah, 1/574)
Permission from her parents to look.. it is well
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by kovic7(m): 12:34pm On Mar 19, 2021
who told you Boko Haram has the wrong version of Quran? if they have a wrong version or misconception of the Quran, why is it that when Sheakau warned Gumi on negotiating with bandits and said that democracy is of the Jews, citing the Quran, why didn't any Muslim use the Quran to counter him
Your Muhammad forcefully married a woman against her own will, it's in the Quran. go and argue with who wrote the Quran, just the way a real Muslim has no business with democracy and human rights...
I end this with telling you that every real Muslim is a potential terrorist.

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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by kovic7(m): 12:37pm On Mar 19, 2021
dairykidd:

Permission from her parents to look.. it is well

lolz, no mind the deluded fellow... You Tell me how u go marry woman by just seeing her Once.... according to Fela, kolo mentality...
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Tonytonex(m): 1:41pm On Mar 19, 2021
offset67:
>:ALL MUSLIMS ARE TERRORISTS
LOL
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Rashduct4luv(m): 1:42pm On Mar 19, 2021
theTranslator:
nonsense!

Book haram are the only people following the qur'an
They are practicing the real Islam
You see your life. A minority is the one practicing Islam while the majority is doing what?
If you have 1000 kids and 1 of them became bad, then that means all of them are bad. Isn't this kinda ideology madness?

theTranslator:
You're grasping at a straw
Where in the rebuttal
The problem with Muslims especially African Muslims is that you DONT read
Read those books
If you still practice want to Islam then there is no hope for you
Stop being ignorant and arrogant. Check the links below and find the pdf version of the rebuttal. The second link includes a write up i hope you read (if you do read as you claim). Anyways, your boss Moshay was invited to a debate since forever...but he no show.
https://rionnigeria.org/pub/introduction%20-%20God%20on%20Trial.pdf
https://newageofreason./2011/10/08/calling-out-the-devil-pastor-g-j-o-moshay-the-lying-author-of-%E2%80%9Cwho-is-this-allah%E2%80%9D/


I'd rather practice the religion of my grandfather's and worship Sango and Osun
At least I can get powers
Everything is by force
The sharia law is an evidence of Islam's brutality
To you is your way of worship and to me is mine.
There's no compulsion in religion. Truth stands clear from error....


I have a question for you
Would you choose the sharia law over thew secular,democratic law
Answer in all honesty

Of cos i would choose Shari'a over any other law. Which law dey sef? Laws coined with human brain that always need modifications here and there.

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