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First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Realismailakabir: 6:26pm On Mar 18, 2021 |
Question: I know it is absolutely forbidden to gaze at women. If one accidentally catches my eyes sometimes I keep looking for a second or two and then I remember Allaah's command and immediately look down . My question is for that very little time that I do look at the lady do I earn sins? Answer Praise be to Allah. Jareer ibn Abdullaah said: "I asked the Messenger of Allaah (Peace & Blessings of Allaah be upon Him) about an accidental glance at a woman. He commanded me to turn my gaze away." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, who said: This is a saheeh hasan hadeeth. See al-Sunan, 2700). Commenting on this hadeeth, al-Mubaarakpoori said: " Accidental means that his gaze fell on a non-mahram woman unintentionally. He commanded me to turn my gaze away means that he was not to look a second time, because the first glance was not by choice and would be forgiven, but any further glances would be counted as sin, and he should heed the words of Allaah (interpretation of the meaning): Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) [al-Noor 24:30]" The Messenger of Allaah (Peace & Blessings of Allaah be upon Him) said: "O Ali, do not follow a glance with another, for you will be forgiven for the first, but not for the second." (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 2701; see Saheeh al-Jaami, 7953) In al-Tuhfah, he said: "The words do not follow a glance with another mean do not look again after the first glance. You will be forgiven for the first means that you will be forgiven if the first glance was unintentional, and but not for the second means that because the second glance was by choice, it will be counted against you." So it is clear that deliberately looking at a non-mahram woman and continuing to look after a first accidental glance is haraam. It is forbidden to look at any part of her body, whether you think she is beautiful or not, whether it provokes sexual desire or not, whether it is accompanied by evil thoughts or not, and whether it leads to immoral deeds or not. We ask Allaah to protect you and us from all haraam deeds. Allaah is the One Who guides to the Straight Path. https://islamqa.info/en/answers/1774/first-and-second-glance-at-women 7 Likes
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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 6:31pm On Mar 18, 2021 |
Realismailakabir:Mallam are you booking space to create your own topic? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Realismailakabir: 8:39pm On Mar 18, 2021 |
first glance is forgiven by Allah, second and continuous glance(s) is a sin! Quran chapter 24 verse 30. 7 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Mogajunior(m): 9:35am On Mar 19, 2021 |
A person does not have to be behind bars to be a prisoner. People can be prisoners of their own concepts, doctrines and ideas. 117 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by brainpulse: 9:35am On Mar 19, 2021 |
How do you want to marry the second, third and fourth wives if you do not gaze at them lustfully 163 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Lukgaf(m): 9:36am On Mar 19, 2021 |
JazaakumLlohu khaeran 3 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by kovic7(m): 9:37am On Mar 19, 2021 |
First glance alone can't convince you to make her your second, third or fourth wife though....... 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by MrIcredible: 9:41am On Mar 19, 2021 |
Pigs should avoid this thread o |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by drizslim(m): 9:49am On Mar 19, 2021 |
Red tight like a rapper It hard to see my kinda man Finished dem all d rappers am badda than This niqqas too fast Ramadan 1 Like |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Triangles1(m): 9:53am On Mar 19, 2021 |
The pictures use to illustrate, does guys are not Muslims. 2 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by marvin906(m): 10:09am On Mar 19, 2021 |
You think marrying ten wives is done by looking at her once 54 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 10:22am On Mar 19, 2021 |
JAZAAKALLAH LUSTFUL LEERING AT WOMEN (except your spouse) IS ONE OF THE WEAPONS OF SHAITAN 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Adlac(m): 10:22am On Mar 19, 2021 |
theTranslator: 3 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 10:26am On Mar 19, 2021 |
So what if my first glance lingers on. 6 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:28am On Mar 19, 2021 |
Alhamdulillah! May Allah forgive us our misdeeds and grant us piety. brainpulse: marvin906: kovic7: The western way of marriage is to lust over a lady turning her to an object of sexual gratification. Marriage in Islam comes with immense reward or otherwise. How do you lust over a covered woman that exposes no shape or body parts? If you want to marry her you visit her in the presence of her father/guardian. Mogajunior: Of what importance is lustfully looking at a lady? If you call the ideology of lowering the gaze "a prison" ain't it better than your lustful spree, then masturbation and fornication? theTranslator:A woman is never married by force. And Allah destined the Prophet to marry her. Did Abraham marry Hagar by force? And was GJO Moshay a Prophet for us to believe he wrote the truth? Try and read the rebuttal to his book too. Having a Qur'an with your does not mean you know anything in it. Boko Haram too may have it yet it eluded them. I don't think you know much sef cos empty vessels...! 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by offset67(m): 10:29am On Mar 19, 2021 |
>:ALL MUSLIMS ARE TERRORISTS 7 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 10:33am On Mar 19, 2021 |
LUSTFUL LEERING AT WOMEN (except spouses) IS ONE OF THE WEAPONS OF SHAITAN JAZAAKALLAH 4 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 10:37am On Mar 19, 2021 |
dairykidd: THEN IT BECOMES SOMETHING OTHER THAN A GLANCE, IT BECOMES LEERING, IT BECOMES A SIN. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 10:47am On Mar 19, 2021 |
motayoayinde:Okay according to the bold. I can look lustfully at my spouse right? I don't want to use lustful lemme just use admiration instead. So i can't admire the woman i want to get married to then how am i supposed to exercise my conjugal rights properly if i can't even be aroused by my spouse? Or does she suddenly develop to my spec when i marry her? Its not adding up if I can't admire a woman's beauty at least. Ijs 1 Like |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Rashduct4luv(m): 10:56am On Mar 19, 2021 |
offset67: And you are what? |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by yetunsbay(m): 11:08am On Mar 19, 2021 |
offset67:now that u hv said ur mind, are u now satisfied ? |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by motayoayinde: 11:11am On Mar 19, 2021 |
dairykidd: IF YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT A WOMAN YOU INTEND TO MARRY, THEN THAT'S A DIFFERENT MATTER. ISLAM HAS A RULE FOR THAT AS WELL. IN THAT CASE, YOU ARE PERMITTED TO LOOK (not glance) AT HER WITHOUT HER KNOWING, MOST TIMES WITH THE PERMISSION OF HER PARENTS/GUARDIANS, ALTHOUGH LOOKING AT HER FOR THIS PURPOSE MAY ALSO BE DONE WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT. THE LOOKING SHOULD BE DONE WITH SINCERITY OF PURPOSE AND GODFEAR, TO LOOK OUT FOR DEFECTS OR ATTRACTION, THEN THE SUITOR'S MIND CAN BE MADE UP. BELOW IS THE EVIDENCE FOR THIS: ''From al-Mugheerah ibn Shu’bah: “I proposed marriage to a woman, and the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘Have you seen her?’ I said, ‘No.’ He said, ‘Look at her, because it is more fitting that love and compatibility be established between you.’” According to another report: “So he did that, and he married her and mentioned that they got along.” (Reported by al-Daaraqutni, 3/252 (31, 32); Ibn Maajah, 1/574) 5 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by offset67(m): 11:15am On Mar 19, 2021 |
yetunsbay:yes an satisfied 1 Like |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by theTranslator: 11:33am On Mar 19, 2021 |
Rashduct4luv:nonsense! Book haram are the only people following the qur'an They are practicing the real Islam You're grasping at a straw Where in the rebuttal The problem with Muslims especially African Muslims is that you DONT read Read those books If you still practice want to Islam then there is no hope for you I'd rather practice the religion of my grandfather's and worship Sango and Osun At least I can get powers Everything is by force The sharia law is an evidence of Islam's brutality I have a question for you Would you choose the sharia law over thew secular,democratic law Answer in all honesty 1 Like |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 19, 2021 |
motayoayinde:Permission from her parents to look.. it is well |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by kovic7(m): 12:34pm On Mar 19, 2021 |
who told you Boko Haram has the wrong version of Quran? if they have a wrong version or misconception of the Quran, why is it that when Sheakau warned Gumi on negotiating with bandits and said that democracy is of the Jews, citing the Quran, why didn't any Muslim use the Quran to counter him Your Muhammad forcefully married a woman against her own will, it's in the Quran. go and argue with who wrote the Quran, just the way a real Muslim has no business with democracy and human rights... I end this with telling you that every real Muslim is a potential terrorist. 2 Likes |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by kovic7(m): 12:37pm On Mar 19, 2021 |
dairykidd: lolz, no mind the deluded fellow... You Tell me how u go marry woman by just seeing her Once.... according to Fela, kolo mentality... |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Tonytonex(m): 1:41pm On Mar 19, 2021 |
offset67:LOL |
Re: First And Second Glance At Women (Photo) by Rashduct4luv(m): 1:42pm On Mar 19, 2021 |
theTranslator:You see your life. A minority is the one practicing Islam while the majority is doing what? If you have 1000 kids and 1 of them became bad, then that means all of them are bad. Isn't this kinda ideology madness? theTranslator:Stop being ignorant and arrogant. Check the links below and find the pdf version of the rebuttal. The second link includes a write up i hope you read (if you do read as you claim). Anyways, your boss Moshay was invited to a debate since forever...but he no show. https://rionnigeria.org/pub/introduction%20-%20God%20on%20Trial.pdf https://newageofreason./2011/10/08/calling-out-the-devil-pastor-g-j-o-moshay-the-lying-author-of-%E2%80%9Cwho-is-this-allah%E2%80%9D/ To you is your way of worship and to me is mine. There's no compulsion in religion. Truth stands clear from error....
Of cos i would choose Shari'a over any other law. Which law dey sef? Laws coined with human brain that always need modifications here and there. 1 Like |
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