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Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Daguccizgreat(m): 2:50pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Joana has been a good friend and Colleague of mine since 2009. We have never been involved in any romantic stuff together before. Our entertainment biz take us round a lot and any time she comes to work at my base she wud want to stay in my flat Instead of wasting money in the hotel. My gf recently saw a female bag in the visitor's room belonging to joana and confronted me. I explained every thing abt joana to her bt she insisted that I ask her to carry the bag and neva to come to my house again to spend even a night. She came around again last weekend for a job that will last up to 2 weeks. My problem is, I don't knw how to explain this to joana who has been a very good friend all these years. Should ma gf get the hint that she is around again, it will surely create serious conflicts bw us which I don't want to face...what do I do in this unwanted situation |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Andy790(m): 2:57pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Johnny give uche belle & i dnt knw wt to do..... 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Antidote123(m): 3:00pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Tell joana to come to my house :PT |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Afrok(m): 3:10pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Trust me it'll be hard for U to tell her and since ur gf has gotten the hint that she (Joana) is around, just set up a match between them (I mean they should meet each other) in ur house. Am sure if Joana knows and sees ur gf, maturity should tell her what to do without u altering any word of explanation. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by LORETA: 3:13pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
PUT your self in her shoes..can you leave any guy wit your girlfriend to spend night alone in one house.....my friend be matured..go and see one or two of your female friends they will accommodate her..or better still look for hotel 2000k per night for her..i don talk my own ohh..better girlfriend dey hard to get..na we still dey find...NO USE YOUR OWN PLAY OHHH 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by tayoxx(m): 3:14pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
my house is free o |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by LORETA: 3:16pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
guy dont do that because of future reason..ohh one day she will come and tell you thsi is her friend back days in school or broder..dont start wat you cannot finish 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Daguccizgreat(m): 3:25pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
I don't want to offend joana bc she did something I never imagined she cud do for me some years bak. I feel accommodating her any time she comes is my own little way of paying her bak. My gurl is a jealous specie that's my problem Afrok: Trust me it'll be hard for U to tell her and since ur gf has gotten the hint that she (Joana) is around, just set up a match between them (I mean they should meet each other) in ur house. Am sure if Joana knows and sees ur gf, maturity should tell her what to do without u altering any word of explanation. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by LORETA: 3:30pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
OK BETTER still since you know the town well..leave house for her and get some where to stay..till she go..period. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by LORETA: 3:30pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
or else you go marry joana |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Nobody: 3:32pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Do nothing, leave Joanna in ya crib and wait for ya gf to land..... |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by vizkiz: 3:32pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
why didn't you tell her about joana in the first place The problem is not about you bringing a girl over...the problem is she isn't believing you dude If you had introduced. Your gf to her(joana) in the first place, she might still feel "a little" comfortable about joana staying for a while. But she getting to discover about it herself and you coming up with a "fake story" of her being you "working friend" wouldn't make her believe you "1%" 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by LORETA: 3:35pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
yes i n trust thsi dude again ..you wan dey chop to kpomo the same time hmmm |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by LORETA: 3:35pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
next time you should learn to tell your girl friend about some important people in your life |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by holycup(m): 3:38pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Accommodating a female frnd in ur flat for some time is not bad,jst make sure there's nothn romantic going on b/w the both of u. Women feels that*Cat and rat no get buisness* 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by happykidArotiba(m): 3:41pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
no its not wrong. Op. wait o, my house is free tho! |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Daguccizgreat(m): 3:43pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
The point is this, I hav told ma gurl abt joana long before nw bt she has never met her in person bc she doesn't stay in the same city wit me. I have been sincere to her abt the whole tin bt she wud not seem to believe it. vizkiz: why didn't you tell her about joana in the first place |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by vizkiz: 3:50pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Daguccizgreat: The point is this, I hav told ma gurl abt joana long before nw bt she has never met her in person bc she doesn't stay in the same city wit me. I have been sincere to her abt the whole tin bt she wud not seem to believe it.well i guess she's just trying to protect what she's gat or she's the jealous type. I hate it when a girl gets jealous |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Nobody: 3:58pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Daguccizgreat: Joana has been a good friend and Colleague of mine since 2009. We have never been involved in any romantic stuff together before. Our entertainment biz take us round a lot and any time she comes to work at my base she wud want to stay in my flat Instead of wasting money in the hotel. My gf recently saw a female bag in the visitor's room belonging to joana and confronted me. I explained every thing abt joana to her bt she insisted that I ask her to carry the bag and neva to come to my house again to spend even a night. She came around again last weekend for a job that will last up to 2 weeks. My problem is, I don't knw how to explain this to joana who has been a very good friend all these years. Should ma gf get the hint that she is around again, it will surely create serious conflicts bw us which I don't want to face...what do I do in this unwanted situation You are your own problem , your girlfriend had to find out about Joanna before you explained to her , anybody would naturally come to the conclusion that even if you guys aren't dating then you probably have an eye for her and anything can happen at anytime. Why isn't your girlfriend aware that Joanna comes around from time to time , why aren't they friends , what is wrong if she stays over at your girlfriend's place at times instead of yours ? You are the one bringing insecurities into your relationship 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Afrok(m): 4:00pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Daguccizgreat: I don't want to offend joana bc she did something I never imagined she cud do for me some years bak. I feel accommodating her any time she comes is my own little way of paying her bak. My gurl is a jealous specie that's my problemYeah! I get ur point... Most girls(if not all) are jealous, I think if ur girl can understand I really don't see any big deal there, since u've known Joana for years and ur relationship with her has not in any way jeopardize ur feelings or ur relationship with ur girl. Make her understand if she can but if she can't, make Joana understand except u wanna see ur babe leave bcoz of Joana (perfect excuse). |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Daguccizgreat(m): 4:11pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
My gurl is in school and doesn't stay in the same city wit me. I had wanted both to meet before nw bt it never worked out after all. neoapocalypse: |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Nobody: 5:11pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
No its not wrong,till your girl habours a man too. Then it will be 50/50. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by irishCream: 6:07pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
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Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Luckygurl(f): 6:20pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
U left Ur Gf out at some point, that's why the issue turned this way. Call Ur Gf and have a heart to heart discussion, explain issues to her. Make her understand that this trend has been on for sometime plus the fact that U feel indebted to Joana cos of what she did for you sometime ago. With this Ur Gf should have a change of mind.. If not, na to let Joan know things won't work out as before this time around.. And U, make sure U're not doing anything funny with Joan else the thunder wey go fire U still they do press up... 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Ivanspring(f): 7:05pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Op, what if your gf came to you with the same story, what would you do? Your answer to that question is my advice to you. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by philantoxx(m): 7:23pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
I smell fish all over.. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by littlemistress: 7:40pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
just imagine the kweshion...'is it wrong?" would you allow your gf to harbor a male friend in her hostel under the guise that he's her 'good friend'? have you forgotten the saying.. 'flee from all form of temptation' it normal for a woman to get jealous, weather your gf has met joanna before or not. why does she have to crash in your place all the time? dude, there's something you're not telling us |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Chipeculiar: 8:08pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
Its a pity that most persons have the wrong mindset and its killing us. before you get/got married, you've had friends and will still have friends. As long as av told my girl/guy everytyn, some tins shldnt be an issue, tho most people dont know dia boundaries. I see notin wrong in the ops accomodating her cos u might find urself in joana's shoes smday and it will be unfair to be denied as long as u av d right motive. I suggest dat you make joana speak with ur gf on phone tym to tym while shez around simple. ur gf is jst insecure |
Re: Is It Wrong To Harbour A Female Colleague In Ur Flat by Daguccizgreat(m): 9:47pm On Sep 29, 2014 |
I get ur point clearly babe. Am a very Open person and my gurl Knows it. The joana in question did somtin exponential to me that helped me to the point where I am today. I wud not want to strain my relationship wit ma gf bt joana is someone I made a promise to myself to help in any way I can. She is just a very nice lady littlemistress: just imagine the kweshion...'is it wrong?" |
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