Xenry:
When a guy starts to give you what he can't give to his fellow guys, just know that he would be expecting from you what his fellow guys wouldn't be able to give him.

LeeSantos:
1bit brain, he's a father Christmas to dash you money? he no get sister or mother?

when last have your family members giving you free money?


you don't want sex, you don't want relationship and you collect free ₦50k. you funny die. just can't stop laffng. Na wha oh.

ogbeni if you know what's good for you. return the money or return the phone. and when you are doing that make sure there is more than one eye witness.

Elove1:


Wisdom will not kill you

husseinaaa:
i met this guy 2018 in my madams tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

he usually come around he talks and joke with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us. to cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone am not working yet I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

so few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciate it.

so we communicate normally but just as a friend.

last month he started asking me out I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lost interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to or I should accept him. he is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life. either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

justosee:
she didn't force the idiot simp to give her the money

AsherAmari:
Hey see problem! I wish i can help you pay the idiot his miserable money back. You don't have to sleep with him. The guy trapped you.

Please look for help anywhere you can. Don't compromise your faith no matter what. I'm begging you.

Also put it in prayers that God should help you out of this trap.

God will fight for you. Ok?

Anfield247:

But sometimes, we need to be contented with what we have, okay! A phone of 50k should have told her that a toad doesn't run in the day in vain. I strongly believe she had a phone before the guy bought her a new phone.

AsherAmari:


No. She didn't have a phone. She also asked the guy if he wasn't going to use the phone as a bait and he promised her he wont, that was why she accepted it. If not, she didn't want to. He trapped her.

This is bad.
Op, try selling the phone.

AsherAmari:


No. She didn't have a phone. She also asked the guy if he wasn't going to use the phone as a bait and he promised her he wont, that was why she accepted it. If not, she didn't want to. He trapped her.

This is bad.
Op, try selling the phone.

LeeSantos:
1bit brain, he's a father Christmas to dash you money? he no get sister or mother?

when last have your family members giving you free money?


you don't want sex, you don't want relationship and you collect free ₦50k. you funny die. just can't stop laffng. Na wha oh.

ogbeni if you know what's good for you. return the money or return the phone. and when you are doing that make sure there is more than one eye witness.

dermmy:


You dey mind the op. Women of virtue and uprightness are scarce in present day Nigeria. Look at what this harsh economy has reduced our ladies to.

dermmy:


Only a cheap lady takes such harmless gift. How do you Nigerian ladies think these days? Do you people still have sense? It's like this harsh economy is really messing up with your brains.

Bouz:
Why will you accept a gift you can't afford for your self, isn't that long throat, 50k you didn't work for you get mind collect. Isn't that long throat. you better give him back his money. You get mind oh, 50k just like dat and common sense did not tell you it was a greek gift. this is how you girls sell your self out for material things. .

Nazgul:
You're a very greedy person...don't you know that gifts makes you indebted to the giver, meaning no one gives you something without expecting something back from you in return.

How can you collect 50k from a struggling guy without knowing that he's expecting you to submit your coochie to him?

I'll advise you to return his money back to him, since you've decided that you won't date or have sex with him, borrow, beg, sell your belongings... etc, just raise his money and give back to him so you can have peace of mind.

Cos struggling guys can be very dangerous when it comes to money. I've read countless stories here on Nairaland where people kill for sums which are far lesser than the amount in question. You don't know what he went through to get it, the menial jobs he must have done...so kindly give it back to him and use your head next time.

Good luck.

Sixfeetbelle:


Tell me honestly, are there not guys that can give a random lady gifts and not expect anything in return?

LeeSantos:
1bit brain, he's a father Christmas to dash you money? he no get sister or mother?

when last have your family members giving you free money?


you don't want sex, you don't want relationship and you collect free ₦50k. you funny die. just can't stop laffng. Na wha oh.

ogbeni if you know what's good for you. return the money or return the phone. and when you are doing that make sure there is more than one eye witness.

Sixfeetbelle:


How is she greedy? He offered, she accepted. Explain the greediness here

Quick question: are there not guys that can give a lady gift without expecting anything in return?

husseinaaa:
i met this guy 2018 in my madams tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

he usually come around he talks and joke with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us. to cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone am not working yet I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

so few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciate it.

so we communicate normally but just as a friend.

last month he started asking me out I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lost interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to or I should accept him. he is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life. either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

dermmy:


And you believe that funny narrative? Why was she asking the guy if he wasn't going to use the phone/money as a bait? And she expected the guy to tell her the truth? Nonsense.

The fact that she asked that question simply means she was suspecting something but greed won't allow her think like a sane human being that is the problem of present day Nigerian ladies money is their Achilles heel. That's why they are being used for ritual on a daily basis.

Zzor:
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husseinaaa:
i met this guy 2018 in my madams tailoring shop while I was learning as an apprentice.

he usually come around he talks and joke with everyone in the shop and we are all free with him after sometimes of showing good behaviours towards us. to cut the story short, one day he asked for my phone number that he wants to be communicating with me, so I told him I don't have a phone am not working yet I am still learning and he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should. then he said he just meant to buy for me as a friend and I thank him.

so few days later he gave me 50,000 to buy myself a phone and I collected it and appreciate it.

so we communicate normally but just as a friend.

last month he started asking me out I told him am not ready for relationship because the kind of suffering and stress I pass through to survive totally made me lost interest for anything like that, he got angry and told me to send back his 50,000 to or I should accept him. he is threatening me because he knows I cannot afford such money to pay him so I told him to give me time, I will refund it just to avoid problem but he said no time will be given that either I should give him my virginity or if I don't pay before next 7 days he will destroy my life. either by jazz or attack.

I just don't know what to do I need advice.

husseinaaa:

he smiled and promised to buy me a phone, which I told him if it's not just a gift he should not buy but if he wants to dash me for no reason like having intention of relationship or sex etc he should.