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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by orunto27: 4:40am On Mar 21, 2021 |
You think you are clever and smart, God, The same God, you don't know, is watching you. God is very abundant in excellent intelligence. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 9:13am On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Peter didn't sink immediately he jumped onto the sea! He walked! Mat 14:29: "And he said, Come. And when Peter was come down out of the ship, he walked on the water, to go to Jesus." Then, he was distracted by the waves of the sea. Mat 14:30: "But when he saw the wind boisterous, he was afraid; and beginning to sink, he cried, saying, Lord, save me." Why was the second man ever to walk on water thereafter began to sink? Kobojunkie:Adam was obviously created as a Son to God and in God's image. How come it isn't automatic to be a son/child of God except through Christ? Kobojunkie:That is bad! Do you also have aversion to Peter, James, John, Luke's Act of the Apostles and Hebrew? I can't come down to your state. Kobojunkie:It's like saying that a British man is not bound to the Nigerian laws because he is not a Nigerian yet living in Nigeria. Unbelievers are already judged to the Second Death! Kobojunkie:A sinner repents in his coming to Christ. Your position is weird. In reinventing the wheel, you have slipped into many errors. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 9:29am On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Why did God create the institution of Marriage? Two unbelievers can have excellently beautiful marriage. Why? They have the same godless purpose! They don't have to worry about teaching their Children about God so that each can personally know Him by themselves. The family is condemned already for the second death. They probably don't care one bit about eternity. In the case of the marriage of Light and Darkness. One cares about her life in eternity, the other doesn't care one bit. The children are torn in-between Light and Darkness. Only a foolish, stupid or false Christian will knowingly walk herself down this path |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 9:58am On Mar 21, 2021 |
[url=https://classic.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+6%3A25-34&version=KJV]Christ taught[/url], Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof, but some supposed obedient Christian is more worried about some eternity! |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by lilvicky68(m): 10:09am On Mar 21, 2021 |
budaatum:Hmmm. but having eternity at heart will always keep you in check as christians |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 11:16am On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:When God created marriage, he never said anything about two believers and the lot you have there. Adam and Eve, the very first married couple where both condemned sinners in their marriage. Did God raise hell about it? You marriage was created for this world and ends in this world like every other relationship you have there with people around you. So stop trying to present them as something they at not..that which does not belong in this world and this world alone. ![]() Forget the lies you have been told..there is no "reunion" with loved ones after here in Heaven because the meaning of your relationships end here on earth. In Heaven what matters are those who do the Will of God. ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 11:22am On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Mal 2:15: "And did not he (God) make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And why one? That he (God) might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth." |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 11:26am On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:That, again, was for the Israelites, of which you are not. You are of the Kingdom of God and in the Kingdom of God, your marriage is of this world and of no meaning in Heaven. ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 11:31am On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:I am of God's kingdom. His rule operate over me. I belong to the household of God through His son. I will produce godly seeds as God gives me the opportunity and grace |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 11:46am On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:Again. Pay attention! You are NOT of the Kingdom of Israel so all that applies as far as Israel is Concerned does not apply to you. Your "seeds", if not of the blood of Jacob, are meaninglessness as far as God's plan for His people, Israel, is concerned. Israel is a Kingdom that belongs in this world, so unless you plan on giving up on Heaven to stay down here instead, living in the land of Israel(since that is the only way you can come close to qualifying for God's promise to the People of Israel as told you in Deuteronomy), I suggest again that you learn to stay in your lane. You are a gentile, and of the New Covenant, Jesus Christ, the Law in the Kingdom of God. And in this New Covenant, God seeks Sons, not " seeds". He seeks heirs, not peoples. So, your worldly relationships are meaningless in the Kingdom of God since those that matter in His Kingdom are those who do the Will of the Father. ![]() Jesus Christ through His own example made this known to you when you ignored His own mother and brothers, proclaiming instead that His mother, brother, and sisters are those who obey the Will of His Father in Heaven. ![]() He did not hide this Truth from you when He declared that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of Heaven. ![]() He provided you the biggest clue when He commanded that you must hate Father, mother, children, wife, etc. for His sake. The Truth of God never hid this Truth from you and it has been Truth for at least 2000 years and nothing to say or declare will change the Truth of God. ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 11:49am On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Israel is the olive plant. I have been grafted in Rom 11:17-18: "And if some of the branches be broken off, and you, being a wild olive tree, were grafted in among them, and with them partake of the root and fatness of the olive tree; Boast not against the branches. But if you boast, you bore not the root, but the root you." |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 12:04pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:You were grafted into the tree called Israel, by whom? Where? ![]() I mean I understand what Paul pretends to say here but where is the evidence of this grafting you speak of, assuming it means you are now a part of the Old covenant, which Jesus Christ and the same Paul warned you against the following of. Only God Himself, the one who bound His people could perform such a grafting sp where? ![]() You do understand that to be Israel, you have to be bound by the Covenant and all that goes with it? ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 12:28pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:When you alone are your own doctrinal reference. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 12:41pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:I have no clue what you mean by the above. As I ask you, where in the Bible does God inform you of this supposed draft which you claim through the person of Paul? Kobojunkie: To add, I honestly think that many of you who read from the letters of Paul as if gospel for yourselves don't realiae that you are when you cling to the words of men over the words of God Himself. Take for instance Paul's claim Abraham was justified by Faith. While Paul is right since according to God Himself, Abraham was blessed because Abraham obeyed God's commandments and two works of righteousness as God stipulated, after all that is what Faith is(obedience of Gods comandments resulting in the doing of works). GENESIS 26 VS 3-5. Yet many throw out the very core part of what Paul said sp you can cling to fantastical ideas in your heads, and in the name of PAUL. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 12:51pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:We differ greatly about throwing out some Scriptures because they don't agree with your opinion. All Scriptures agree in Harmony! |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 12:55pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Loving your neighbours and your enemies even moreso ought to keep you in check if you are following Christ. You are being decent, and I can bet you are being rewarded for it right here on earth, but let me know if that's untrue. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 1:01pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:I don't throw out "scripture" ... instead I know what to believe and what to take with a grain of sand in scripture. Here's is what Jesus Christ Himself told you as far as what to feed yourself. There, He reminds you that what you should live by is the Word of God, out of God's own mouth, and not the words out of the mouths of men. We were called to accept(trust) and obey the teachings of Jesus Christ, the Word of God Himself. So that means every word that does not conform to the teachings from God Himself, should not be what we live on. You claim that all scripture agrees in harmony but you have yet to produce any actual reference of God Himself telling you that you are indeed drafted into the Olive tree called Israel. Why? ![]() Even following the old law of 2 of 3 witnesses as far as the establishment of truth goes, what other scriptural witnesses do you have to substantiate this claim of grafting? ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by lilvicky68(m): 1:17pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
budaatum:It's true.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 1:19pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
lilvicky68: Thanks and praises to the Almighty God. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 1:27pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: 2Tim 3:16-17: "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished to all good works." Unlike the Qur'an, the bible Scriptures are not dictated. Human beings wrote them as a chronicle of God's dealings with man for our instruction in righteousness that we may learn from such inspirations. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 1:37pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:He did not have enough fuel to power him. shadeyinka:Adam was created by God Himself, so obviously that meant He was a Son of God. But to suggest that only Adam was created in the image of God is false. Those who are born of the Spirit of God through Jesus Christ have become Sons of God as a result of having the Spirit of God inside of them. shadeyinka:I have an aversion for doctrines and traditions of men that does not line up with the truth of God. So, any teaching that does not line up with the very teachings of Jesus Christ(the Truth of God), though it be attributed to any one of His apostles, I consider the same way I would consider the doctrines and teachings of men. shadeyinka:A British man when in Nigeria is bound by Nigerian laws. But as long as He is not in Nigeria, he is not bound by such Law. In the same way, an unbeliever is not bound by Christ's Laws until he chooses to believe in Jesus Christ, and seizes to be called an "unbeliever". There is no second death for those who have been condemned to Death by God. Just as there is no second Death for Adam, there is no second Death for all others who followed in his footsteps. shadeyinka:There is no re-inventing of the wheels taking place in any of what I have said so far. And feel free to point out the "many errors" you claim to find in what I have said so far. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 2:02pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka: This is one problem with you Abrahamic religious fanatics, you pay lip service to peace but are ready to destroy peace in the name of your god and religious beliefs. Should the wife of this person encounter your type, her mind will get poisoned unnecessarily because of these kinds of unproductive ideas. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 2:02pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:We have already been through this shadeyinka: ![]() Kobojunkie:Try to keep up! |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 2:06pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka: So she should divorce him? Even your bible said it is OK to be married to an unbeliever if the unbeliever still wants to remain married. But no, fanatics like you want to destroy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 2:22pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Since on this issue, the conversation is going cyclic, we better end it. I won't shift, neither will you. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 2:24pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:Since the beginning of this conversation... I never once shifted my stance. I accept(trust) and obey the teachings of Jesus Christ, and it remains the same till the end. ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 2:49pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
LordReed:The Scripture is very clear on this. If a Believing wife finds herself married to an atheist for instance. 1. She should not seek for divorce 2. She must obey him as unto Christ except she is commanded to commit a sin against God. 3. The only reason for divorce is if the Atheist cannot go on with the marriage. 1Cor 7:12-13: "But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother has a wife that believes not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. And the woman which has an husband that believes not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him." |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 2:53pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
LordReed:What we advocate is that 1. A single Christian must not marry an unbeliever 2. If a Christian woman is ALREADY married to an unbeliever, she cannot divorce him and she must obey him 3. The only exception to 2 is if the unbelieving spouse is the one who seeks divorce. |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 2:55pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:Be sure to make it clear that these rules of yours have absolutely nothing to do with what God in fact commanded of you but instead are from the doctrines and commandments of men which you subscribe to as a person. ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 2:56pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:I accept(trust) and obey the teachings of Jesus Christ! I receive all my guidance from the Scriptures I do the work assigned by Christ to all his disciples! |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Kobojunkie: 2:59pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
shadeyinka:Now you made that second one up! Where in all I have said so far did you get the second one from? ![]() I think I have more than made it clear that I am not of the "The Bible is Holy" crowd. I receive all my guidance from the Word of God, not from what you call scripture and I am certainly not limited to what you call scripture either. ![]() |
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 2:59pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Okay 1. Marry an atheist! 2. Submit to his rule 3. Don't complain when a. Any of your children become an atheist b. Satan visits your home Are you okay now? |
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