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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by bitingcool: 3:26pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
McSquishi: A jobless man that sees doing his laundry as a task. That calls washing the plates of food he didn't cook or provide money for a belittling. I can bet his furking isn't even premium or d dhick size. Tell me why the woman won't be frustrated and express it Dear op, love your woman, help her before she asks. You will start experiencing honeymoon in that hot house. Heck. Your babe will even help you look for a job. Married men with money cook and Clean. Being a help meet is both ways. You got into cohabitation reality very fast and I xan tell you're in shock. Better wise up. No angel dey outside. Not even in the village talk less of the city. 8 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Emeka71(m): 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Zzor:I think that he should learn to stay with her because according to my knowledge; a male and a female are not supposed to be having issues. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Amb1045(m): 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
aroundtheearth:seriously you lack a lot. you're allowing the devil in you to get better of you. Yes we know he made a mistake and he's depressed due to the mistake so don't judge him rather let's find a solution the incident. depression is real and it can happen to anyone |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Juoflife1(f): 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
One coldstone for you. Imagine it's a woman that did this. The comments would have reached 12pages pocohantas: 2 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by yomi007k(m): 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
ABANGWABOI: You dey mind the SIMP...na him sabi ooo |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by franchasng: 3:27pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:Hahahahaha this your comment got me rolling on the floor, are you a guy Maybe in Abuja, I just don't like that fake city of corruption |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Hotguy27: 3:28pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman: To be honest, you could have done worst than what she is doing to you now if you had gotten a better job as soon as you moved to Abuja. Just go through the quote up here again. You never loved her especially as she did to you. You wanted to use advantage of her situations but karma is not patient to deal with you thereafter. The type of karma that was assigned to you in this case is an upfront type. Let me say it in clear terms - deep inside you, you know you don't love this girl for real. Just try and walk away very early and stop deceiving her. You will see how things will start being ok with you. 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Mikkystorm: 3:28pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Here's what you should do. Actually OP, the work is yours to do. Think of a business idea, a very nice one and also constructive. Women loves men who has vision and a set out plan. . Sit her down and talk to her about it. If it's taking a loan from her, do so. And hey, the business plan must be a plan you are 80% sure of being successful at. . If she's understanding, she'll adhere to it and help you out. Happy Sunday. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by gidiz(m): 3:28pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
I think the lady has done so much for you and it's because she truly loves you. Though it was wrong for you to have left what was at hand because you expected a job in Abuja. You guys have come a long way, drop that pride and settle things with her. No body wants to have a lady as a liability talk more of a man being the liability in this case. Be humble. Some inconsistencies in your writing, that you are usually home alone and yet she doesn't allow you take a walk. That's confusing, what do you do when home alone then? 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by pocohantas(f): 3:29pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: I have said it before, there is little or no benefit to being with a NIGERIAN man that is financially incapable. So I don’t blame women who would rather be 2nd wives to richer men, than be the only wife of a young hustling guy. The only thing they know how to do is provide, even that one na fight these days. Tell them to help out at home and they will start screaming EMASCULATING. What then have you been in the house all day doing? Massaging the prick you will use to knack her at night? If she gives this OP space now, he will use her money to be pursuing small small girls in Abuja. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by FRANKOSKI(m): 3:29pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:CALL ME NOW |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by BRATISLAVA: 3:29pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
franchasng: I've seen things. Young men with hands and legs will prefer to try and proposition older women, rather than work. It's not a corrupt city, just a place full of all kinds of people. The type that never makes it to fp |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Duplexxx: 3:29pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Is a pity never live with a woman let the woman live with you you are not the first having problems like this now you can see the evil of a woman she was the one depressing you not to get a job she want you to get a job but you're depressed never give up always go out from the house make friends they might help you get a fast solutions if you'll remain in that house with her Oboy you will fast grown white hair Na shame chai You left job and followed woman Na juju she used for you self Na your eyes don clear God will surely help you out Let me hear you say Amen |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by SeriouslySense(m): 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Next time you will not jump into relationship without a backup plan. How can you leave your life in Lagos to start with a woman in Abuja, who you are just getting to know, and you will live in her house, lol, who does that. I wish you success, may you have success.
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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by GIdiata(m): 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Zzor: This one shock me ooo. coming from The female gender. Not just the gender it's from Zzor even after suspecting a foul play from the guy. Zzor typed dis oh today's Sunday yeah (Trying to keep the Sabbath day holy) |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Ghostmode2two(m): 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Even if she is your wife, don't live in a house owned by her. No matter how rough things are with you, keep praying and believing as things will work out fine but you must move out of that place ASAP my brother. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Elsueno: 3:31pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Gigolo things gone bad 4 Likes
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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by 4456thegold: 3:31pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
See how girls are responding to your post because of your mistakes. Guy u made a big mistake. You shouldn't have accept that. You know what, there is always a way out just leave the house and squart with guys. If u can drive do Uber, gather money and get your apartment though it will take time but u will succeed. Abuja is stress free area to stay. Please do it fast bf is too late because she is not ur Wife. Even if you are legally married to her a woman don't quite ur job and expect her to carry all the responsibilities. If no get job ur wife no go respect u ooooo. 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by yomi007k(m): 3:32pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman: Sorry bro. You seem not to know enough about women. Read this from page 1. https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/302 |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Kingzeez10: 3:32pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Sijo01:And you cant even spell stucked correctly oponu |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by pocohantas(f): 3:32pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Juoflife1: One ediot would have told us how Nigerian girls are useless. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by omosefeeguaibor(f): 3:33pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Your reality sounds like the movie acrimony... be consistent in your job search, and your cab hustle you'll find the breakthrough you deserve. No human is perfect, I want to believe you have learnt from this. And I hope that life be kind is you. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by BRATISLAVA: 3:33pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
pocohantas: LMAO! The op is sounding like he's been emasculated just to put this clothes in the washing machine. He's crying about it. Woe is him, he is doing his laundry and washing the plates, in a house he paid nothing for. House he is bringing nothing to the table in. What an extravagant ingrate. This woman he is dealing with is wise and wiser than him. Bolded is too true. Don't mind him. He's just whining, if she gives him an inch he will take her arm, torso and head to make her a walking mumu. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Ishilove: 3:33pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by bukatyne(f): 3:34pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Richy4: Very annoying and ungrateful OP. See his mouth like 'I cannot live in a small space' yet one kobo he did not have. I blame the woman. 8 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by A305: 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:You have made series of SIMPlified mistakes along the line. If she has money, the only way to get her to be humble is impregnate her turning her to your babymama(no marriage). She wouldn't want you to leave. Play the lovey dovey script you started with her, if possible wash her undies till pregnancy is confirmed. Or Get back to lagos to continue your uber hustle. You could stay with a relative for some months to raise money to rent a self con; life continues. But the lesson you should learn from this is; she is in her 30s — late for marriage because, she lacks good attitude to keep a man. You cannot save nor control her. It will only take an alpha with real money to make her submissive. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by BRATISLAVA: 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
bukatyne: He thought she's desperate and old, so he was dictating his terms. She agreed, but it seems he's unproductive and you know it's difficult to date a jobless woman, let alone a man. The guy is an ingrate. What more does he want her to do for him? 4 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by bukatyne(f): 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BarristerAlarig: Very nasty. 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Ketapu: 3:35pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
.... 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by franchasng: 3:36pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:Abuja is not an ideal city, it's a fake, city of corruption.. Everything there is a mirage of political corruption. Take away looting of Nigeria's commonwealth and that city is empty with no good value or service rendered to society. I am still in shock. Even as a foreigner that just landed a new country, I couldn't see myself spend a night at the house of a Russian girl I met. All through my higher institution days, I hated the idea of sleeping over at a girl's place, I condemned friends that did. In fact, I hate visiting female hostel to talk of sleeping over at a woman's house, tufiakwa. It's unfortunate that many guys today lack confidence in themselves and feel the only way to make it in life is through the backdoor, it's a shame. And the OP is still having the gut to complain of doing chores for the lady that housed him and feeding him. He is abnormal. I pray the lady read this thread, the guy is a very bad guy with foolish sense of entitlement 4 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by colizee(m): 3:36pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman you no wise at all. You should have left that house by now. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Oriakku: 3:36pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:At the bolded.women and sex are inseparable. I know whenever she needs sex she buys everything for you, pet you a little, after the 5 minutes show, she turns to beast again |
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