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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 4:02pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
https://www.nairaland.com/6469022/resigned-work-lagos-relocated-abuja On today's episode of simping... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 4:11pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Ketapu: That story can't be true sha... Very annoying. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:28pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
I think the main difference between a perceived alpha and a sigma is in their very core values. They're both believed to be equal in the hierarchy and in several ways similar. But a sigma approaches life in a quite nomadic free-will way, doesn't concern himself with societal systems and is often described as a lone-wolf. TRP isn't just some school to convert men to ALPHAs. In fact, several parts of it point to what a sigma man would do (like becoming free from popularly held and toxic social conventions). It also touches the flaws of the BETA man. Don't overburden yourself with personalities, we're not psychologists. Only the ALPHA is able to rule and comfortably succeed in a hierarchical system on his own terms. That is where every man should be. phantomx360: 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:59pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Looks, Money, Status Gents, the three things above are very powerful. It is more or less an avatar, and doesn't absolutely define an ALPHA man. You can have all three and be a grade A simp but try to level up with that in mind. I have said this before, your personality doesn't make a first impression. Don't make the mistake of pursuing those things to validate yourself. Instead, pursue them because it makes you a better man. Try to look more presentable. Know haircuts that fit your head, and on and on. Money, is a very powerful force and opens doors in our world. It may not be easy, but at least start by doing a review of your finances. People will tell you it doesn't matter, it's not everything until it becomes EVERYTHING in that truth-revealing moment. Status often determines how seriously people will take you. You don't need to be famous, just try to have a sphere of influence. We're all learning and growing, my hope is that we all crush the LMS scope of life and beyond. 31 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by RedpillAnalyst: 7:11pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
@nwaezeemmanuel Before Looks, Money, Status. I would add Mindset. The blackpill often talk about these characteristics as the main determinant of one's outcome in life. I agree Looksmaxxing and moneymaxxing can help, but they key thing is always to have the proper mindset. Lots of people looking alpha still act like simpd, many people with money don't have peace of mind. Reading History, Bible, Quran, about business and politics etc and applying this knowledge to daily life will keep you at peace and even increase your level attractiveness. Moreover, you'll always have an edge over many people and this in itself is like an aphrodisiac to women. 14 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:08pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Of course. Reason why i said it is more or less an avatar and that a simp can have all three. Life is a mindset game. I believe the mind is a man's most powerful weapon. That is one core part of TRP - restructuring the mind. Just wanted to emphasise that in the real world, and to help with standing out - those other things will help - and you can have the best of both worlds. Thanks for the extra clarity! RedpillAnalyst: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Raalsalghul: 10:17pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
luminouz: You'd be surprised what people could do in real life. At this point, I'd believe anything. 4 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Sadiqwest(m): 10:34pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
@Ubunja, i dont have the word to thank your for creating such a topic. But i will say that !may God give u all the thing you want. AMEEN. You help a brother here, i kow nothing about the REDFILL, i was just on my spiritual journey. Then i come across this topic, thank GOD that i am nt a simp, since childhood. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by FRANKOSKI(m): 4:01am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Peaceyw:HELP PEOPLE IF THEY SEEK IT,INTENTIONS ARE NOT THE SAME. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ikllbrokehoes(m): 6:56am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Saviolamemphix:Link please 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ikllbrokehoes(m): 7:00am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Jerry59:That bitch is one jobless bastard, imagine she switching accounts from her main to her alternate, that shows how lonely and jobless she is in the real world. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jerry59: 7:20am On Mar 22, 2021 |
ikllbrokehoes:That gender can’t really survive without wanting people’s attention... lol 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ikllbrokehoes(m): 7:21am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Jerry59:I'm telling you 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by yorubarere: 9:30am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Peaceyw:This is kinda dicey. I still give one dude my phone to make a call yesterday. The point is knowing who u re giving your phone and keeping eyes on the strange ones incase they want to pull a fast one on you. I am not a nice guy, but I understand when people are in need for help. If she made a call to a boy using your phone, tell her that will be her last chance cos she blew it... It she apologize and respect you for that. This boils down to individuals differences sha... I understand you can't be me and I can't be you. 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 9:53am On Mar 22, 2021 |
HELLO FELLOW RED PILLERS, I HAVE A QUESTION: HOW DOES A MAN SHOW RED PILL TRAITS TO A WIFE WHO FEELS TOO BEAUTIFUL TO SUBMIT TO HER HUSBAND? THANKS BROTHERS. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Olumyyde(m): 10:36am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy:Interested in the comments. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 11:16am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy:There is a saying: "don't try to salvage the irredeemable." This is simple rule and common sense that men find too hard to adhere to. If a wife is too proud of her beauty to submit to you and thinks the world revolves around her, dump her for good. 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 11:21am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Martinez39s: In as much as the truth sets us free, implementing it in reality can be dicey. You are talking of a wife who prolly has kids for him and have stayed with him for years, do you think he will find it easy to break up the marriage? The blackmail from family and friends nko? That's the litmus test of the redpill N.B: I will really like to know how OP story from like when they were dating or stuff. Unless she was desperate to marry, she would have displaying such tendencies during courtship. 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 11:23am On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy: Why don't you start the story from the beginning? Like when you met and toasted her till you married her! 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Martinez39s(m): 12:04pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
luminouz:This will be a good way to start. @Rinoxy Do you have children? 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 12:27pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
DAY 81, REDPILL 2021 The women you please today, you shall see them no more. The women you die for today, you shall see them no more. Authority: yourself first. 40 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Olumyyde(m): 12:42pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 1:15pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Martinez39s:OKAY, A QUICK RECAP: SHE WAS THIS SWEET, CALM, RESPECTFUL N NICE LADY ALL THROUGH THE DATING PHASE. I WAS THE NO-NONSENSE GUY. BUY SHE CHANGED FEW WEEKS INTO THE MARRIAGE; NAGGING OVER TRIVIAL ISSUES. THREATENED TO EVEN LEAVE THE MARRIAGE TWO MONTHS INTO THE MARRIAGE. I REDUCED MY HARDNESS A BIT (BECOMING MORE CONSIDERATE, NOT WANTING MY MARRIAGE TO SCATTER). IT LATER DEVELOPED INTO INSULTS, DISREGARD N DISRESPECT. FEW MONTHS BACK SHE STARTED GIVING ME THE SILENT TREATMENT. DOESN'T SHOW ME LOVE, ALL SHE'S CONCERNED ABOUT ARE HERSELF N THE KIDS (YEAH, WE HAVE TWO ADORABLE GIRLS). GUYS, I DID THE UNTHINKABLE, WENT ON MY KNEES TO BEG HER TO PLS COOPERATE WITH ME TO MAKE THE MARRIAGE WORK, BUT SHE DOESN'T CARE. I BEGAN FEELING UNLOVED N LONELY IN MY HOME, AND I'M THE ONE WOMAN KINDA MAN (MARRIED AS A VIRGIN). AS IN NOW EEEEEEHN!!!!!! I DON TIRE! I NEED TO GET MY RESPECT BACK. 10 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 1:18pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Olumyyde:sir, the only thing I can say is that your happiness is more important...........talk to her about d issue and hear what she has to say.. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DieRich5: 1:33pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy:INSULTS, DISREGARD N DISRESPECT. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 1:54pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy: Mehnnnn! This one tie gele o.. On a quick one: What we have discussed here way back has been that what a woman says she wants and what she really wants are two things. They want an Alpha, but they will shit-test you to know if you are truly one, before respecting you. One you fail that test, her respect reduces. And you have failed her tests big TIME. You should never have reduced your so called hardness.Those are the principles she saw before marrying you. When you started giving in to her demands, she lost respect and when YOU KNELT DOWN,her loss of respect became final. Women say they want a thoughtful,caring,loving bla bla bla'...doesn't mean they condone weakness. Women adore strength and once your wife saw you had none, she made your life hell. We also said it here before: Women are the custodians of redpill. If you lose frame,they will teach you hell and drive you to redpill frame again. Your wife doesn't respect you again bro and you have two options. 1: GO HARD AND GO FOR BROKE: Become hard on her and instill some rules. She insults or degrades you again, just send her out to her parents house. She must not come back till she learns decorum. You are the husband,the head of the home. She either accepts that or stay off. She earlier threatened to leave you and you capitulated. Lmaoooo, if I tell you how many times dramatic women say that shiit to me,I'd be a millionaire by now if I get paid a dollar for it. Just call their bluff and tell them to leave. Show her you can't be manipulated. 2. GO SLOW AND PLAY THE LONG GAME: This is what I call the silent game. Don't respond to her insults but do what an alpha will do. You prolly need her sexually and she clammed on that. Don't ask for sex again. Do your duties but act like she doesn't exist. No matter her threats, just ignore her BUT DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO IN THAT HOUSE, AT LEAST WHAT YOUR FORMER NO-NONSENSE SELF DEY DO BEFORE: Then, alongside, start being busy on the phone, forming lovey-dovey when some numbers call you. Make sure they are females(you have co-workers and sisters who can help you pull this off). Act happy when you are on phone and keep late nights too. Refuse her dinner(if she still gives you any because from what you wrote there, e be like say na you dey cook and serve dinner yourself),sleep in separate rooms and act totally unconcerned with her and her tantrums. The end result will be if she still loves you, she will become very agitated and starts being nosey. She might report you to people or threaten to leave. Don't budge. She will then become calmer and more humble once she sees you don't give a fuq. Then,you can reassume your alpha frame and set ground rules Tell her if she ever messes up again, you will get a second wife or leave her. If she doesn't change, then she is totally lost to you. Maybe, an ex or her friends have influenced her beyond reason. In such a case,the best thing to do is to divorce. I don't want that,but then,you can't save everyone and everything. N.B: you said you married as a virgin. What of her? If she was no virgin and your bed skills are lacking, she could become hostile to you. Are you doing your best in bed, sexually? The so-called issues started few weeks after marriage o. That is the redlight I saw. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 2:42pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
THANKS BROTHERS. I STOMPED ON THIS THREAD ON MONDAY LAST WEEK N STARTED PUTTING THE LITTLE I READ TO PLAY. BY FRIDAY I STARTED NOTICING NICE CHANGES IN HER(LIKE STYLISHLY WANTING TO TALK, SERVING MY FOOD IMMEDIATELY I COME IN, ETC). THEN I WAS LIKE, ‘THIS REDPILL STUFF SHOULD BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY O!' TRUTH BE TOLD GUYS, I SUBCONSCIOUSLY LET DOWN MY GUARD AGAIN. THEN SHE WENT BACK TO HER NEGATIVE ENERGY AGAIN, IMMEDIATELY I LOOKED FOR THE SLIGHTEST PROVOCATION TO CHANGE IT FOR HER, N I'M STILL ON IT. NOW, IS IT THAT I SHOULD NEVER LET MY GUARD DOWN AGAIN, OR TILL SHE'S FULLY, CONVINCINGLY CHANGED? U GUYS ARE THE BEST. GRACIAS. 23 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 2:44pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: Protein-rich foods like lean white meats, fish, eggs are the go-to foods when you start lifting. Whey protein supplements (post workout) is also necessary as you lift higher. If you are trying to bulk more and get bigger. Add a decent amount of carbs and fats to your diet and eat more frequently than usual like every 2 - 3 hours. At this stage, Creatine Monohydrate is a good pre-work out supplement to help you generate energy to lift more. Avoid steroids. Vitamin supplements are not left out. All I mentioned above may involve a lot of money and for a struggling guy still in school, it may be an issue. It doesn't stop struggling guys from visiting the gym and attain some level of fitness, if they can't build muscles. A good, fit body does a lot for self-esteem, social dominance, sex game and overall health. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:06pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
I won't tell you to divorce her, because that isn't a move for everyone. From your posts, I think you're slowly becoming needy. You've made it known to her the lengths you'd go just to make the marriage work while she watches and validates you. This is the best time to prove how ALPHA you can be. Show you can sustain yourself without her input. Divert your attention to your kids. She chooses not to cook for you, eat out or make your own meals. That sounds emasculating, but technically, you're in control and that beats begging her to no avail. Try to nullify anything that gives her an opportunity to bring you to your knees, vagina included. The idea is to remind her your value isn't hinged on her. Flip the script wisely and watch how things go. Rinoxy: 13 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:08pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
nwaezeemmanuel: 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 3:12pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
no response yet to my last questions |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:25pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
I think we really need to address these marriage issues. Being redpill-aware doesn't mean you cannot marry. The big problem is with the terrible social notions surrounding marriage and how easy it is for men to lose their masculine frame in marriages. For instance, the soulmate/one true love garbage popularized by Disney movies is one reason men will keep cuffing women blindly. The best approach is to let your masculine frame blossom pre-marriage. You're not marrying the perfect woman, you're molding her to your frame. For this reason, you may end up interacting with dozens of women. Most men are hasty with ONE-itis and cave in to social pressure, so they marry with little knowledge and have regrets. Please guys, marriage is not a goal. It is also not mandatory. In fact, if you must marry, don't approach relationships like you need to marry. 18 Likes |
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