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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by luminouz(m): 4:12pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
mariahAngel: *Sighs* Have a nice week!!! |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by dfrost: 4:12pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Ishilove: Ishiloveeeee be calming down na... Everybody needs more love here and there. Take it easy on him. People are frustrated and are on the edge already. A little push and they are off the tip. naptu2 come and carry Ish off this thread please 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Munzy14(m): 4:12pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:Lol, bad mouth is normal.... If u can't hustle as a man, u will end up with ur mama age mate. But, if u remove that pride and hustle like a man, u will watch the bright light at the end of tunnel.. leave that lady, go and hustle... Words can kill faster than knife... ur mental well being is at stake here... A woman leaves her father's house to be with a man and never the other way, if u do so, u have handed ur position to her... Go out hustle and start footing bills before a frustrated single lady will kill u mentally before physically... A lesson to guys, stop leeching on women,even if she is wealthy, it is not in the place of woman to keep giving, one day na 2seconds everything go burst.. It usually starts with change in attitude before the last struck that will shatter the Camel's back. Work as real man, even if ur wife is buoyant, see her contributions as bonus, because e get y...One day she will make that utterance that might change una love story if not tolerated. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by kingsolomonjnr01(m): 4:12pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Acidosis: best advice ever... I love that resetting of brain part 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by jantman(m): 4:14pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman: Switchman You are suppose to know what happened to many men out there when their wives becomes the provider of the family. The ego of a woman is as high as the sky but I must tell you a story that is well planned. Many years ago I was working in a hotel where the manager don't appreciate my works and effort. Although he needed and trusted me more than the rest but he enjoy attacking my works. So I codedly start looking for a new job without anyone knowing and when I got a more better job I zap out instantly in a way that shocked my hotel manager. He waited for me that day to come to work but he was told I now works in a new firm. He felt pain and was very angry because he has lost a humble and honest worker I was very patient and my patience pays me till this day Just be a little patient and codedly plan your way of escape 2 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by mariahAngel(f): 4:15pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Montaque(m): 4:16pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Thank God your mumu plan didn't land you into marriage with her. Let it end here. There is a reason she is meeting you at her late 30s when you are not the only man in Abuja. 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by focus7: 4:18pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman: Oga pack out with dignity now before you are thrown out. Next time learn that a bird in hand is better than thousands in the bush |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by somehow: 4:19pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
What happened to using your car for ehailing in Abuja? |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Munzy14(m): 4:19pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Apostle82:Wise words buried in this comment... In this buhari economy, someone is hoping to secure a non existing job, while a lot of service providing entrepreneurship biz are here and there...And he even got a car sef... Laslas My dad told me in life, not everyone is working to be comfortable and wealthy, some are just here like escort for others who are serious... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by teemy(m): 4:19pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
For the first time in a long while on romanceland, I see both sides of the male-female divide agreeing on the same thing. 2 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Jaqenhghar: 4:22pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
pocohantas:My sister you hit the nail on the head. He is one of tyese NL alfa ( not alpha) males who believe a woman should wipe their asses. If I talk theu will call me SIMP. Isnt this worse than being a SIMP? 2 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Ishilove: 4:22pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
dfrost:Ayam calm my Oga. It's just that it's super irritating when grown men cannot use their brains. |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by luminouz(m): 4:23pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by BIGNAME2020: 4:25pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:
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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by mariahAngel(f): 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Jaqenhghar: 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Montaque:Gbam! If I tell these fools here they start calling me names. You cant get the best of women and expect her to foot your bills. Its usually the expired ones and the ugly that will give you money Evilneedle and co. Come and learn 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by dfrost: 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Ishilove: I understand. Don't worry. He will come through, someday. He only needs to appreciate the lady in question for paying the bills. Most won't do it. But he also needs to do something, no matter how menial it looks. 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Akuruoulo(m): 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Ishilove:IF U STAY AT HOME ALWAYS U DO THE CHORES THEN, AND U DNT EXPECT THE WOMAN TO BE FEEDING U AND ALSO DO HOUSE CHORES.THE GUY TRUELY MADE MESS OF HIMSELF. I ALWAYS TELL PEOPLE THAT THE ONLY REASON MEN THROW WOMEN OUT OF THE HOUSE IS BECUS MEN 96% OWNS THE HOME THEY LIVE IN. IF A WOMAN OWNS THE HOUSE, THEN SHE CAN ALSO KICK UR ASS OUT. LESSON " NEVER LIVE IN UR WIFES BUILT HOME FOR ANY REASON" 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Nobody: 4:26pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
You're indeed a gold digger. How on earth would you resign from work and follow a woman to Abuja ( The most expensive city in the country) ? Hope you have not sold your car? It will more better for you to leave that house now and go and the sleeping inside your car inside garage you register your car with to work..This will earn you more respect than be a house keeper to the pussy you're digging 2 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:28pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:You don't need a job but common sense. She takes care of bills, aren't you suppose to make her happy by helping out at home? From your writeup, you are proud and arrogant. Until you have a job learn to appreciate what you have because you are not entitled to anything from her. I hate nonsense. 3 Likes |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Oizee(f): 4:28pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
I don't know why I'm laughing...... |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Nobody: 4:29pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Zzor:i will pay for that hair, when can I come? 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Akuruoulo(m): 4:30pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
aroundtheearth:Why do u people always twist stories ? |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by mariahAngel(f): 4:30pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
teemy: True. Although, the truth is they both played each other. Only that the lady got fed up quickly. 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by coldFLARES1(m): 4:31pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman:Evidently, some people would have to experience some discomfiting situations personally to appreciate some advise some of us forerunners have given for free. . My brother, to the extent that you resigned to take the option to relocate following some issues with your employment (even though you said it could have be ironed out), I have no qualms with your moving to cohabit with her while hoping to land a job soon enough. To be consigned to doing chores to assist on the interim is to be expected especially if one is reasonable. To the bad mouthing....... . Just know again, that women aren't exactly wired to be breadwinners. The few that take those roles in their strides and don't rain down hell are an exception. It won't stop, until you are able to be a financial member in the union. Just like some others have advised, create a timeline save up to be on your own or to return back to Lagos. It could get worse! Though the background to my experience isnt same as yours, but I was thrown out in three days! Pele. All shall be well! |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Cooldiipo(m): 4:32pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
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Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by obashiakpu(m): 4:32pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Switchman: If it is bad month, you got to endure it. To be a good partner a man has to be deaf and the woman has to be blind. Bad mouth and women are 5 and 6, but wait o, why did you leave your job to live with a woman you are not sure of and you used your two legs to test the deepness of a River. Please manage yourself until things turn out well for you, no relationship is without its own peculiarities. Good luck 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Akuruoulo(m): 4:33pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Zzor:WOW U TRUELY WROTE THIS . SERIOUS FOR MY HARD WORDS, BECUS NOW I KNW THE REASON U HAVE BEEN LETTING OUT THOSE ADVISES |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by Akuruoulo(m): 4:34pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Zzor:IS THIS THE REAL Zzor ? |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by deltateam: 4:35pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Zzor: I like the soft spot I see in you. It turns me on. Just like the say, "You don't beat a man that is already down." 1 Like |
Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by MufasaLion: 4:36pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
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