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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Skepticus: 4:04pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
luminouz: Why do you think some of these stories aren't true? Even if it is a fake story from the OP, it's not fiction. His story is relatable and one that men can learn from. Especially those still caught up in the illusion of NAWALT. The OP's story is quite common in Abuja than most guys care to think. The guys who have found themselves in that situation because of their ignorance of the nature of women don't always voice out not to appear weak before other men. When I graduated years back and was still looking to get employed, I had a lady (they are mostly, older) made an offer like that to me promising to help get a job with an NGO linked with the UN in Abuja. All in our conversation, she kept hinting at "marriage". She was desperate but trying hard to hide it. I never fell for the trick because I always had the hunch that something wasn't right. She was single and 34 years old at the time and a highly ambitious career woman. Two red flags, though the first one was of more concern to me. If other men couldn't give their commitment to you, in your prime years and probably fûcked and pass you over, why should I be the one to "eat" their "leftovers"? Probably, your shitty, bossy attitude was a reason you were not considered worthy of their full commitment. I also understood that highly ambitious career women as such tends to be domineering though they hide it and act nice till you move in with them. If you are not mentally strong, they'll damage you so much that you'll almost go insane from mental torture, and eroding of your self-esteem. A lot of guys are in such arrangements as cohabiters and marriages where they are glorified "errand boys" in Abuja (and other parts of the country). You wouldn't notice till you get closer to them or they trust you enough to reveal their pains to you. Only a few men can play the games of manipulations that women use to manipulate women and getting resources out of them without being burnt. This goes beyond the red pill. Women are not your friends. 51 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 4:10pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
nwaezeemmanuel:Noted twice. Thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Drenimarcus(m): 4:12pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
If you feel your wife is being disrespectful to you in your marriage. Few tips. Ignore her while you work on your self, go on that self discovery mode (read more about becoming a high value man, hit the gym etc). Start looking into investing and creating wealth for yourself and your coming generations. The earlier men know that AWALT. The better for us. 25 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 4:37pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Drenimarcus:Noted man. tnx. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Drenimarcus(m): 4:54pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy: You remember the FCMB saga? the guy is dead and the girl involved and the md are living and going on about their lives. Let that be your motivation. 23 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 5:30pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
nwaezeemmanuel:U'RE CORRECT ON THE NEEDY PART. I WAS BEGINNING TO ASK FOR CALLS WHEN SHE GETS TO WORK, WANTING TO KNOW WHY SHE DIDN'T CALL ME, ALWAYS STRESS MYSELF TO DO STUFF FOR HER(EVEN WHEN I'M STRESSED OUT). I'VE ADVISED HER ABOUT OUR MARRIAGE UMPTEEN TIMES. AT A POINT SEF SHE SAID I SHOULD JUST STOP TALKING BEFORE I'LL GOOF AGAIN. HEHEHEHE, I DON SEE SOMETHING. MEEHN, I GO REDPILL AM TIRE. MY EYE DON CLEAR. 22 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 5:32pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Drenimarcus:MY LATE MUM TOLD ME, ‘IF U DIE because OF A WOMAN, PLENTY WOMEN WOULD WALK PAST UR GRAVE'. E NO WORTH AM AT ALL!!!! 19 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by dontai(m): 5:32pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
It's always man's fault, and which made them accidentally ......? 2 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 5:44pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
[quote author=Zabiboy post=100072381] Except for the ugly ones... Those who dont have the facial beauty or a charming physical figure to attract a man.... These kind of women have to work and develop their intelligence in order to provide for themselves and hope they meet someone who is foolish enough to accept them...Most times, they come on social media to lament that Men choose "beauty over brains" ![]() Esther Vilar did justice to this in "The Manipulated Man", the name of the chapter is "The emancipated female"...it's quite short...You all can check it out. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 5:50pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Junnior: Na you be oneties One serious vagina over how many hoes that want to suck you dry. You can be rolling with abundance mindset but once your account balance go down. We will check how far. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 5:53pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Skepticus: I get you bro. It's just so hard to believe someone will leave his job and relocate because another girl said so. On the matured women desperate for marriage issue, I don't lie to them. I tell them I'm not in for marriage. Whatever help she wants to render me,she can fuq off with it. Domineering women bore me to death. Unless I'm playing the cuckoo-in-the-nest game or I wanna fuq her for FWB sakes, I stay off such women. If they can't be humble and follow my lead, I have no use for them. Some men like being dominated and so you are right. Others are very lazy and prefer their women to take control and provide for them. Other subsets include sick and crippled men. My mama gave me the first redpill lesson in life. She said 'few women love you for you. There is always a benefit attached to a woman's love, something more attached to her commitment and something way more,attached to her tolerating marriage. Plain love is for fools. There is always a price'. I was just 7 years old when I heard this. I never forgot it. 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 5:59pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
luminouz:My guy can you please answer my last questions, we are all in these redpill together. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 6:13pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Let's talk about those Gs that make women drip wet when they see them. Broke niggas making women cheat on rich guys. Ma niggas I flow with ubunja. You don't need money to make a girl's vayjay cry for you. It's a natural phenomenon. There are guys that are not rich yet they are fücking girls. I ask you ![]() Do you want a girl that you can get with your resources or the other way round. UB says you are wasting your time if you are not tingling that thing. My colleague, a nigga just like me, earning 5 figures but chasing bigger dreams. His bïtch schooling in Calabar traveled to Owerri because of that thing U fit do am E no give am transport money to go back ooo E force am go back sef A girl that is schooling Missing you like that U know how many dick proposals she'll be getting in a day. Some of us are enjoying oooo 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Degrezhaa: 6:19pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
SOZINN:Bro am lost. can you elaborate more ? 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 6:19pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
luminouz: SOLID!!!! She told you when you were just seven Men she really loves you oooo 7 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 6:21pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
SOZINN: Lol..she told all her boys. My sister didn't need it. She already has the knowledge in her DNA! 11 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by temi1290: 6:25pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
dontai: Accidentally have sex?? 24 Likes
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by aomine(m): 6:33pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
IF WOMEN ARE HYPERGAMOUS IN NATURE MEN SHOULD BE POLYGAMOUS ALWAYS EMRACE HAVING OPTIONS THAT IS OUR POWER 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 6:39pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy: Yo bro... I know others have given their opinion on this....but one of my main concerns is the above... Abeg no matter what you do, create time your kids everyday man....Girls of these days need a Father figure..if you allow only your wife to do it, Get ready to be ashamed of them in the future... Spend time with your kids, avoid any form of arguments with your wife(silence is golden), be firm in your decisions and finally, try to keep your cool.. I'm not married, but i hope this, together with other opinions suggested here helps.. GL 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 7:05pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Zabiboy:Yes bro, I spend quality time with them. Left the office to go pick them from school, feeding them as I type right now(wifey's on duty). I love and spend time with my girls well. 13 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 7:15pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Degrezhaa: What should I elaborate 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 7:19pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Zabiboy: Especially arguing in front of your kids That shįt is damaging Thanks for this Bless up bro 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Benee1000(m): 7:41pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
For aspiring patriarchs and religious guys who desire stable monogamous relationships with females, a little advice for you. Females instinctively desire security (emotional, financial and physical), and are drawn or attracted to men who can or have shown capacity to provide this security to them. This isn't a bad thing as they need this security in order to fulfill their biological imperative (to raise kids with the best genes, in the best possible way), so the human species doesn't go extinct. However, when a female feels assured of this security, either by relationship, marriage, children etc., with time she becomes relaxed and then laxity sets in. she no longer feels the need to compete with other females for her man's security. By compete I mean sexually, emotionally and physically. She begins to dress for her comfort and not to appeal sexually, by tying wrapper at home, and dressing like a "married woman" outside. Her hair do is no longer priority and it's done when she likes and is solely for her comfort. Same with nails, and makeup. Her hygiene and diet no longer matter, she eats whatever and however she likes. she gets fat and out of shape because her shape no longer matters. she isn't competing with anyone. sex now becomes a luxury and not a necessity. However, if this continues unchecked by her man for a while, the shit tests starts coming, and the man starts wondering how it came to this. He asks himself what happened to the beautiful girl who made sure she was always at her best physically, sexually and emotionally early in the relationship or marriage, just to please him and have him seek no one else. He no longer finds her sexy and now gets irritated by her presence. The relationship or marriage has becomes stale. Attraction has become repulsion. The problem is you have given and assured her of her one true need: SECURITY. Yes, the security that came with your commitment to her in a relationship, marriage, and children. This problem is even worse for religious (christian) guys as the lady's assurance of security is further consolidated by her man's religious beliefs against cheating, divorce or polygamy. ladies married to religious men generally look less appealing than ladies married to non religious men, because of this. Dealing with this problem isn't a simple one as it requires high emotional intelligence and would be most effective at the early stage of any relationship with a lady, before marriage or children. The first step is know that though you can provide a lady with security (financial, emotional and physical) that comes with your commitment, never assure her of it. ladies unwittingly seek this assurance early in a relationship by consistently asking if a man loves them before and after sex, make him promise never to cheat on them, knowing his account balance and source of income, knowing his friends and family and becoming close to them, seeking his views about polygamy and religious beliefs etc. Never give her a definite response whenever she asks these assurance questions. Never assure her of that security. always leave her guessing and always on her toes with your response. covertly make her realize that you are the prize and let her observe that other ladies desire you. make her realize that she's always in a competition for your commitment. covertly let her know that if she messes up or no longer meets your standards or gives you wahala, that you will not hesitate to dump her for better options, whether there's children or not. let her know you are open to polygamy, even if you don't intend to. She will definitely whine and reel about your lack of assurance of your commitment, sometimes even threatening to quit the relationship. however, do not yield, it's a shit test. tell her she's free to go, that you can always get someone better, and guess what? she'd never leave. your only assurance to any lady should be that she's not assured of your commitment. why does this work? Ladies hate competition, but want it. they hate the thought of having to compete for the attention of a man, but relish it, and will gladly compete for a man if they find him high value enough. no lady believes another lady is better than her in getting a man. They know if a lady looks more appealing than them physically, but they never want to believe it nonetheless. loosing out on a man she considers high value to another woman is the most painful thing to a woman. it's makes her feel like a biological failure and a looser. a lady would rather share a high value man than lose him totally to another woman. Also, a lady having to compete with other ladies for her man gives her an indication she has made a good choice in securing a high value man (to fulfill her biological imperative), and his commitment to her makes her feel like a biological super human, that she's better than every other lady out there, and she's ready to do all she can to remain on top of the world. A lady who is assured of the commitment of her man sees no need to compete with other ladies for it. However, with time, she becomes bored and begins to wonder if she has made the best choice in a man, which instinctively prompts her to shit test him to prove his masculinity and self worth. A lady who isn't assured of her man's commitment will always be at her best, always trying to prove to her man that she's worth his commitment and no one else, even after marriage or children. No female wants to be a biological failure. So why should you? 45 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 8:06pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Rinoxy:Well it’s quite simple Crush her Ego but do it subtly and sometimes intentionally if your wife doesn’t want to submit because she feels too pretty tell her straight up that she’s not the most beautiful woman in the world and she shouldn’t let her beauty get in the way of being submissive to you unless she wants to be replaced by someone more beautiful younger and submissive. If you say these Words to her and don’t say another word on her submissiveness she’ll sit up . Or in other words Expose her to the Reality that she can be replaced even with the title of wife bestowed on her. 19 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Degrezhaa: 8:24pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
SOZINN:I don't understand what the write up is talking about. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Ketapu: 8:48pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
aomine: I'm currently reading another book by Rollo Tomassi. In the book, Rollo made it clear that the hypergamous nature of women is BIOLOGICAL i.e it is the work of nature. Personally, I've always known that men are naturally polygamous. We just want to taste different pussssies. Then, when I look at the two concepts (hypergamy and polygamy), I realized that both the society and our various religions have done a great job in suppressing the polygamous nature of men. On the other hand, the same society and religions have continued to encourage women to continue to be hypergamous. So much for gender equality!!! 29 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Rinoxy: 9:17pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
AlphaAlex:Hmm, I'm digesting this. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Brayss(m): 9:18pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Me : Do you have feelings for me ?
Her : yes and you ?
what should be my reply ?
p.s I Met her on facebook 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by aomine(m): 9:32pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
society have suppressed our polygamous power and increased women's hypergamous power fellow king always remember you are entitled to more than one woman nobody will shame Ned nwoko for having many wives so the key is to become so high value that you leave above opinion of society 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 9:48pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
aomine: 100% in support of spinning plates and having multiple wives or even concubines (side chicks), that's the only way to build and develop Alpha's frame necessary for maintaining an healthy relationship as an high valued man I will accept nothing less Women should know your polygamous nature and accept you for who you are, if they can't share a man of value like you they belong to the streets Monogamy make women have leverage over you as onetitis can eat you up in the long run when one settle down in the relationship turning you into a weak man or even a Simp as love weakens ones emotions Build yourself, your wealth ,get the status and be the prize that multitude women want to have and share Be a man,Be a fvcking King 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 11:07pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Women sexualize themselves as much as possible meaning through exercise, tight clothes, long hair, make-up, and so on and learn dance and other things. The woman will become trapped in her own game but she is certainly trying to get the wealthiest and socially desired male. Why the fvck won't you improve yourself and status to game effectively so you can have the abundance and optionality of multiple women,when women do it normally on a daily basis #GAME #PUA #REDPILL 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:16pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
I'm glad you are honest. I sincerely hope things get back to how it should be. Rinoxy: 3 Likes |
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