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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Slynation(m): 5:13pm On Mar 23, 2021
Since 2016 and it just hit FP...that mod must be leaving in the past

Get rich and all the above will be void...
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by femmoy(m): 5:15pm On Mar 23, 2021
Handsome777:
One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)

… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.

The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "

However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.

Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.

It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.

The precise inverse is valid!

The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.

Rather, say more with less.

At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).

To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:

How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?

If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…

Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.

So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.

Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.

Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)

Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?

Am I baiting her with inquiries?

Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.

Hate to break it to you.

Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.

So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.

She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).

What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?

Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations
Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.

Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.

The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.

Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.

Why?

Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.

Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.

Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.

It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.

The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness.
Here's a critical idea...

She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"

Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.

To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!

Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.

Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.

For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]

I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…

However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…

Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.

In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive."
Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."

Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her…
Folks consistently do things like:

Messaging her excessively

Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp

Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…

She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it.
Alright…

SOURCE: www.nigerianinterest..com


All these shits just for a 10mins cum? Guy,best is to make money a d get more money,then you can bang any girl that comes your way without hassles.

No time for child's play.
I guess op is between 22 & 25 years old. My advice to you,better spend your youthful age hustling so u don't become slave to your mates.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by zeestone99(m): 5:18pm On Mar 23, 2021
Handsome777:
One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)

… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.

The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "

However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.

Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.

It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.

The precise inverse is valid!

The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.

Rather, say more with less.

At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).

To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:

How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?

If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…

Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.

So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.

Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.

Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)

Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?

Am I baiting her with inquiries?

Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.

Hate to break it to you.

Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.

So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.

She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).

What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?

Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations
Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.

Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.

The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.

Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.

Why?

Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.

Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.

Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.

It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.

The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness.
Here's a critical idea...

She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"

Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.

To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!

Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.

Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.

For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]

I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…

However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…

Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.

In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive."
Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."

Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her…
Folks consistently do things like:

Messaging her excessively

Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp

Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…

She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it.
Alright…

SOURCE: www.nigerianinterest..com

just have money. peace
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Jerryojozy(m): 5:22pm On Mar 23, 2021
Abeg..who get time for all these wahala? Go read Ubanja thread and u won't have issues.



Genius J
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Silentgroper(m): 5:34pm On Mar 23, 2021
AlphaSoul:

#7... grin grin
U must be very stupid 4 quoting d whole write up to write dz bullshiit.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by psyco: 5:44pm On Mar 23, 2021
A305:


WhatsApp or any other social media for communication should solely be used for logistic purpose.

Gbamsolutely!
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Silentgroper(m): 5:45pm On Mar 23, 2021
BrutusOj:
undecided All these Epistles just to date a girl or what?
Op must think dating a girl is a do or die affair.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Silentgroper(m): 5:52pm On Mar 23, 2021
Michelle55:
All these epistle just to have a decent conversation with someone? It's really not necessary, just don't converse in short hand with me and we will do just fine.
who ar u dat sm1n cnt converse wit in shrthand huh! .. Even michelle obama wouldnt dare tell me dat
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BRATISLAVA: 5:54pm On Mar 23, 2021
TriCee:
And what made you think I'm of the opinion that ''all women are trash/useless bitches''? That's a very myopic way to think.
I tried to balance my narrative to affect both genders, but you chose to pick on women? Haaa, easy o

No sir/ma, I don't need any manual to chat with people and I don't pick offense if they don't respond to my expectations. Be more open-minded.

Your brothers on the forum are fond of using such words to describe women that they chat with who don't fancy them.

Let's hope you're sincere in not picking offense. Young men of today pick too much offense.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Silentgroper(m): 6:07pm On Mar 23, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


Your brothers on the forum are fond of using such words to describe women that they chat with who don't fancy them.

Let's hope you're sincere in not picking offense. Young men of today pick too much offense.
One can sense how deeply hurt u are. To think some of these things said here are just meant 4 cruise.
God will ill u my sister
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Tonytonex(m): 6:22pm On Mar 23, 2021
That number 7 makes me want to lose the lady I suppose marry. hmmm
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Pharaoh4rin(m): 6:23pm On Mar 23, 2021
I don't know why some men have the feeling that we ought always woo ladies.
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Viganti(m): 6:39pm On Mar 23, 2021
Nah for who get time to chaik babe
Me that’s looking for money up and down
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by SweetDipBenny(m): 6:48pm On Mar 23, 2021
Bla bla bla
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by MrJavaS: 6:49pm On Mar 23, 2021
Guys hear my matter.

I was very close to a course mate of mine since 100 level (we are now in 400 level). I used to be interested in her romantically but she wasn't reciprocating so I gave up. She said herself that she considers me as just a friend. Then one day she posted the picture of her friend (in a different department). I saw the picture and said the girl is beautiful. She then said that if I like the girl she can give me her contact.

I said it's a bit inappropriate but she still gave me the contact (but said I shouldn't mention her name). I went ahead to chat the girl up but she ended up blocking me on WhatsApp.

I went ahead and further tried to convince the girl that I'm not a threat to her on telegram. That I'm a close acquaintance of a friend of hers. She went on ranting that her friend shouldn't have given me her contact without her consent. I told her to please not be angry with her friend.

Later I explained all that happened to my coursemate (who gave me her contact) and since that time she has been cold towards me.
I told her I'm very sorry for my actions but she insisted it's time we part ways.

What should I do?
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by studentofTruth: 6:49pm On Mar 23, 2021
Handsome777:
One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)

… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.

The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "

However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.

Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.

It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.

The precise inverse is valid!

The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.

Rather, say more with less.

At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).

To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:

How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?

If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…

Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.

So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.

Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.

Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)

Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?

Am I baiting her with inquiries?

Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.

Hate to break it to you.

Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.

So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.

She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).

What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?

Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations
Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.

Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.

The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.

Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.

Why?

Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.

Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.

Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.

It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.

The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness.
Here's a critical idea...

She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"

Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.

To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!

Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.

Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.

For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]

I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…

However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…

Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.

In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive."
Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."

Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her…
Folks consistently do things like:

Messaging her excessively

Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp

Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…

She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it.
Alright…

SOURCE: www.nigerianinterest..com

Jesu!
See thesis and research paper you want me to study, understand, and apply before I can get a partner; when I never build my own house?

Na im be say I go live alone because I don't have such time!

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by oyetunjibaba: 6:51pm On Mar 23, 2021
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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by kelvinunilag: 6:55pm On Mar 23, 2021
I nova learn the mistake of making money ,na mistake to date woman,what a life .
Tueh

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by phazotron(m): 7:19pm On Mar 23, 2021
Handsome777:
One the most baffling things is the point at which you get a lady's Whatsapp number (and she is by all accounts absolutely into you)

… But then after a couple of chats she appears to lose interest, misfire out, or go icy.

The characteristic response is to blame the lady. "She's a piece of Sh*t… "

However, in the event that you do that, you could be missing a monster crink in YOUR GAME that is less demanding to alter than you might suspect.

Truth be told, it's most likely you're making one (or a couple) of these basic "Whatsapp chat" mistakes that will murder your chances with a young lady:

Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction

Before you've had your first date with a young lady, she won't feel quite a bit of an association with you. As deplorable as it might be, you're most likely not by any means the only person messaging her on Whatsapp.

It's just plain obvious, a typical oversight most folks make when they're chatting a young lady on whatsapp is that they confuse reactions for fascination. Frequently when a person is getting a reaction from a young lady, he trusts that he's inspiring nearer to getting her out on the town or to enticing her.

The precise inverse is valid!

The more messages you send before getting together with a young lady implies to a lesser degree a chance you have of really getting together with her! Truth is stranger than fiction: regardless of the possibility that a young lady is RESPONDING to your writings, you're not getting yourself ANY nearer to really getting her out on the town.

Rather, say more with less.

At whatever point you're thinking about what to content a young lady, check whether you can say it less difficult, with less content. Most folks send pointless chats to ladies like, "How's your day?" or "Appreciating the warm climate?" These chats DO NOT bring you closer to a lady! They simply ask for a reaction (which doesn't mean anything).

To ensure you NEVER again squander whatsapp chats on pointless gab, make this brilliant inquiry from your own mind by asking yourself:

How is this message bringing this young lady and I more closer?

If your answer is basically "to motivate her to know her better," eradicate the message. It's not going to help you.

Mistake #2: Not Conveying "Fun"

Here is the straightforward truth. At the point when a lady gives you her number she is NOT marking a social contract to go out with you…

Furthermore, until it appears FUN for her… she's likely not going to try getting together with you.

So when you send exhausting chats that don't show any identity or don't evoke any feelings in her… in her brain you're not worth the inconvenience of getting together with.

Here are a few signs you're NOT being enjoyable.

Am I being firm and formal "Greetings. It was pleasant meeting you friday"… . (too firm. excessively formal)

Am I forcing her to keep the chat going?

Am I baiting her with inquiries?

Keep in mind, each message you send ought to make you appear like the FUN OPTION. The break from her exhausting day.

Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style

In case you're messaging an alluring lady chances are you are NOT the main person she is getting a whatsapp message from today.

Hate to break it to you.

Be that as it may, between different folks seeking after her, exes, colleagues, schoolmates, etc… she has a ton of folks competing for her consideration.

So in the event that you need to emerge number one in her life, your chats need to show your novel style and identity.

She ought to have the capacity to know its a content from you just by understanding it (regardless of the possibility that the name was blocked).

What words, expressions, accentuation, or emoticons are particularly yours?

Mistake #4: Having Long Text Conversations
Chat discussions are NOT the same as real discussions.

Whatsapp chats ought to be the "Super cool" not bluff notes of a typical discussion.

The more extended the discussion the more opportunities to mistake things up or keep running into awkward disarray of the chat.

Each time you get the telephone… hop directly into the good stuff Begin with a teasing nickname. Figure out how to rapidly start a feeling and make the late give careful consideration to you. Be charming!!!!

Mistake #5: Going for the Meetup without Sparking Emotion

Here is another hard, cool certainty. On the off chance that you request that a lady hang out, without first starting a feeling.. she will quite often turn you down.

Why?

Since the greater part of the positive feelings she felt when she was with you have dwindled.

What's more, the thought of getting spruced up, and going to meet a person she scarcely knows (and the potential you'll end up being a creeper or simply unbalanced) is not worth the exertion.

Intelligently she can without much of a stretch talk herself out of it.

Which is the reason you MUST draw her in on a passionate level first.

It is MUCH less demanding to get a "yes" out of a lady once you've started a positive feeling.

The two most ideal approaches to do this are with being a tease or silliness.
Here's a critical idea...

She is NOT going to recall that all your great qualities. So you must remind her.

Mistake #6: Becoming so "Unsurprising or Predictable"

Lets say that through whatsapp chats you've now succeeded in getting a date with a young lady.

To begin with, you never need to fall into unsurprising examples. Bunches of folks utilize the same jokes, same inquiries, and same writings again and again. While it might be less demanding to fall into "lack of concern" with a lady you're dating, don't do it!

Rather, split things up with something zesty now and then. Advise her you have a "shock" to demonstrate her later. Tell her something helped you to remember her, however don't advise her what it is immediately.

Keep her think about what your next whatsapp message will be and you'll keep her inspired by you. Also, keeping the "flash" of a relationship alive is vital with regards to making an extraordinary sexual coexistence.

For whatever length of time that you don't get to be ultra predictable, you ought to have your young lady messaging YOU asking YOU when you're accessible to hang out.

Mistake #7: Thinking She's Different[b][/b]

I have pushed again and again "Never educate a young lady how you feel concerning her through Whatsapp chat"…

However, for quite a while I get messages from understudies recounting to me an anecdote about how they admitted their emotions to a young lady over Whatsapp chat…

Also, every time that action chases the young lady off.

In your brain, you're going to attempt to persuade yourself that "She is distinctive."
Alternately that "It won't chip away at her."

Be that as it may, the moment you let yourself know 'she's distinctive' you are making a course for losing her…
Folks consistently do things like:

Messaging her excessively

Paying her spouting compliments on Whatsapp

Not requesting that she hang out with you because of the fact that you're frightened…

She's not different from other ladies. What's more, if at whatever time you begin supposing she is, haul out this article and re-read it.
Alright…

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Most important thing is to be your authentic self and be open

Don't ever change your personality for no one especially girls

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 23, 2021
seunny4lif:
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2: Think abt Money grin grin grin grin
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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by witworth(m): 7:36pm On Mar 23, 2021
Probably, because some people did all these and it didn't turn out to be mistakes, so that's it
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Toks2008(m): 7:44pm On Mar 23, 2021
What is all these?

Guy abeg go and make money and forget all these.

Who get time for WhatsApp chatting?

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by jonvalek(m): 7:46pm On Mar 23, 2021
Did anybody actually finish reading this article or just skip through it? Because after reading the first two lines, i knew this was going to be a looong day, so i found myself staring at the end of the article within 5 seconds. WHAT'S HE TALKING ABOUT AGAIN?
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by BRATISLAVA: 8:13pm On Mar 23, 2021
Silentgroper:
One can sense how deeply hurt u are. To think some of these things said here are just meant 4 cruise.
God will ill u my sister

How is that hurt? I simply point out where men have gone wrong. If that is cruise, then it is gross stupidity. Abusing people isn't cruise.
God will ill you too.

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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by professore(m): 8:53pm On Mar 23, 2021
Ok
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Nobody: 8:58pm On Mar 23, 2021
Yemike:
Girls don't have style.
Before I started dating a girl I used to chat with her like my younger sister, I used to be very blunt but when we started dating I started respecting her.

I was surprised when she told me she liked the blunt and no nonsense version of me that I should drop the Mr nice guy act.

What do you mean by blunt
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Freelane33(m): 9:05pm On Mar 23, 2021
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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by Obyino: 9:29pm On Mar 23, 2021
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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by phazotron(m): 10:08pm On Mar 23, 2021
Toks2008:
What is all these?

Guy abeg go and make money and forget all these.

Who get time for WhatsApp chatting?


No mind d mumu
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by seunny4lif(m): 10:23pm On Mar 23, 2021
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Oloristarr:
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Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by seunny4lif(m): 10:24pm On Mar 23, 2021
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BurntSoul:


That's all the rules u need to succeed in every facet of life
Re: Whatsapp Mistakes Guys Make When Chatting With A Lady They Want To Date by seunny4lif(m): 10:26pm On Mar 23, 2021
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Incognito403:

Money is to men as beauty is to women.
Money can attract women to you but can't keep them to you.
Beauty can attract men to a woman but can't keep them to her.
Only a good personality guarantees a sustainable marriage.
Even you won't enjoy a marriage that is glued only by money.

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