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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 4:11pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

Same argument!
A True thinking Christian will NOT marry a non true Christian and certainly an atheist is off the list

Like a harlot is off the list? Or is the Bible just too big a book for you to bother reading it?

Hosea 3 King James Version (KJV)
3 Then said the Lord unto me, Go yet, love a woman beloved of her friend, yet an adulteress, according to the love of the Lord toward the children of Israel, who look to other gods, and love flagons of wine.

2 So I bought her to me for fifteen pieces of silver, and for an homer of barley, and an half homer of barley:

3 And I said unto her, Thou shalt abide for me many days; thou shalt not play the harlot, and thou shalt not be for another man: so will I also be for thee.

4 For the children of Israel shall abide many days without a king, and without a prince, and without a sacrifice, and without an image, and without an ephod, and without teraphim:

5 Afterward shall the children of Israel return, and seek the Lord their God, and David their king; and shall fear the Lord and his goodness in the latter days.

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 4:18pm On Mar 24, 2021
LordReed:


Watch them invoke their god of special pleading.

Who is "them"?

Why do you allow the bottom of the barrel to define the Gods for you like one who is too afraid to use your own brain in your own head?

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 5:18pm On Mar 24, 2021
budaatum:


Who is "them"?

Why do you allow the bottom of the barrel to define the Gods for you like one who is too afraid to use your own brain in your own head?

Unfortunately for me my dear buda, I often have to go down to the bottom of the barrel in order to meet them at their level or else I find myself talking over their heads since they are so low down. LoL
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 7:28pm On Mar 24, 2021
LordReed:


Unfortunately for me my dear buda, I often have to go down to the bottom of the barrel in order to meet them at their level or else I find myself talking over their heads since they are so low down. LoL

I saw you going low for days on end recently and wondered why you'd let the devil occupy so much of your time.

One should not allow "them" to define terms, which is why I did this with you in mind.

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 9:21pm On Mar 24, 2021
budaatum:


I saw you going low for days on end recently and wondered why you'd let the devil occupy so much of your time.

One should not allow "them" to define terms, which is why I did this with you in mind.

Ah, my dear buda, you know I have not yet developed your wisdom in speaking about religion and not religion. I hope someday I'm as wise as thou art.
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 9:23pm On Mar 24, 2021
LordReed:


I don't need belief in god to adhere to a system of morality, all moral systems are human made anyway. My morality is not in question because you don't know me, you only know that I don't believe in your narcissistic god. The beliefs in your head means nothing to me, your actions however are way more important. My wife doesn't go around killing babies because she believes in a narcissistic god who does, that is what is important. So again you have no point in bringing up my morality.
If you could fall in love with an active sponsor of suicide bombing of Bokoharam, how well can you exonerate yourself from your questionable character.
How is it different from saying that a woman who who TRUELY holds in highest esteem a confirmed narcissist and murderer of babies!

And your excuse is like justifying the sponsor of suicide bombing as nice and well behaved. Of course , she may never has directly killed anyone.

It's not different bro! Marrying a known supporter of terrorism cast doubt on your own morality!
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 9:25pm On Mar 24, 2021
HellVictorinho:

Nobody matters to your God.
Not even those that worship him.
It's not your concern how the reality game plays out. Those who love God experience everything this world has to offer including you
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 9:26pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

If you could fall in love with an active sponsor of suicide bombing of Bokoharam, how well can you exonerate yourself from your questionable character.
How is it different from saying that a woman who who TRUELY holds in highest esteem a confirmed narcissist and murderer of babies!

And your excuse is like justifying the sponsor of suicide bombing as nice and well behaved. Of course , she may never has directly killed anyone.

It's not different bro! Marrying a known supporter of terrorism cast doubt on your own morality!

Are you reasoning at all? Did I not just say that people's actions are the judge? In what way is believing in an arsehole god comparable to sponsoring terrorism? Gosh! Budaatum can you see the kinda bottom barrel I have to deal with?
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Nobody: 9:32pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

It's not your concern how the reality game plays out. Those who love God experience everything this world has to offer including you
It's everyone's concern how reality is.
Can you determine how God can be loved
Is everything the world has to offer beneficial to anyone?
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 9:40pm On Mar 24, 2021
budaatum:


Like a harlot is off the list? Or is the Bible just too big a book for you to bother reading it?

Hosea 3 King James Version (KJV)
3 Then said the Lord unto me, Go yet, love a woman beloved of her friend, yet an adulteress, according to the love of the Lord toward the children of Israel, who look to other gods, and love flagons of wine.

2 So I bought her to me for fifteen pieces of silver, and for an homer of barley, and an half homer of barley:

3 And I said unto her, Thou shalt abide for me many days; thou shalt not play the harlot, and thou shalt not be for another man: so will I also be for thee.

4 For the children of Israel shall abide many days without a king, and without a prince, and without a sacrifice, and without an image, and without an ephod, and without teraphim:

5 Afterward shall the children of Israel return, and seek the Lord their God, and David their king; and shall fear the Lord and his goodness in the latter days.
Indeed the letters kills but it's the Spirit who gives life

Why did God ask Hosea to marry a harlot?
Hos 1:2:
"The beginning of the word of the LORD by Hosea. And the LORD said to Hosea, Go, take to you a wife of prostitutions and children of prostitutions: for the land has committed great prostitution, departing from the LORD."

Because the Land had committed great prostitution!

Why is God asking Buda to marry an atheist?

God asked Ezekiel to cook with human excrement. Perhaps your conclusion is that Christians should cook with excrement
Ezek 4:12:
"And you shall eat it as barley cakes, and you shall bake it with dung that comes out of man, in their sight."


Buda, you have a lot of learning to do!
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 9:54pm On Mar 24, 2021
LordReed:


Are you reasoning at all? Did I not just say that people's actions are the judge? In what way is believing in an arsehole god comparable to sponsoring terrorism? Gosh! Budaatum can you see the kinda bottom barrel I have to deal with?
When you won't read what's before your eyes.

The Christian woman truely loves , praise and support the God who you refer to as murderer, narcissist and murderer of babies AND you say she has a good character.

How does it make sense to you that a supporter o Bokoharam suicide bombing is of good character.

If birds of the same plumage congregate together, then you must be at heart a murderer and narcissistic murderer

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 9:57pm On Mar 24, 2021
HellVictorinho:

It's everyone's concern how reality is.
Can you determine how God can be loved
Is everything the world has to offer beneficial to anyone?
You are star dust, you do not need to know anything about how the reality of life plays out.

The world is a harsh place and a difficult reality examination of all humans.
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Nobody: 10:00pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

You are star dust, you do not need to know anything about how the reality of life plays out.

The world is a harsh place and a difficult reality examination of all humans.
I already know life is absurd.
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 10:05pm On Mar 24, 2021
And you who can not learn but presumes to know the mind of God can not think that perhaps God has a plan for this union like God had for Hosea and Ezekiel?

Is that perhaps because God does not consider you important enough to reveal the plan to you I wonder, or is it just that the plan is so people like you can learn to love from an atheist?

shadeyinka:

Indeed the letters kills but it's the Spirit who gives life

Why did God ask Hosea to marry a harlot?
Hos 1:2:
"The beginning of the word of the LORD by Hosea. And the LORD said to Hosea, Go, take to you a wife of prostitutions and children of prostitutions: for the land has committed great prostitution, departing from the LORD."

Because the Land had committed great prostitution!

Why is God asking Buda to marry an atheist?

God asked Ezekiel to cook with human excrement. Perhaps your conclusion is that Christians should cook with excrement
Ezek 4:12:
"And you shall eat it as barley cakes, and you shall bake it with dung that comes out of man, in their sight."


Buda, you have a lot of learning to do!
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 10:10pm On Mar 24, 2021
budaatum:
And you who can not learn but presumes to know the mind of God can not think that perhaps God has a plan for this union like God had for Hosea and Ezekiel?

Is that perhaps because God does not consider you important enough to reveal the plan to you I wonder, or is it just that the plan is so people like you can learn to love from an atheist?

Then let the Christian come out to EXPLAIN how God told her to marry an atheist!
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 10:12pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

When you won't read what's before your eyes.

The Christian woman truely loves , praise and support the God who you refer to as murderer, narcissist and murderer of babies AND you say she has a good character.

How does it make sense to you that a supporter o Bokoharam suicide bombing is of good character.

If birds of the same plumage congregate together, then you must be at heart a murderer and narcissistic murderer

And you need to stop drawing comparisons out of your arse. How is praising an arsehole god comparable to supporting terrorism? Is your god a terrorist? Think before you type abeg.
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 10:14pm On Mar 24, 2021
HellVictorinho:

I already know life is absurd.
No!
Life is hard and difficult. An examination that will cause a segregation between wheat and tares!
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 10:17pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

Then let the Christian come out to EXPLAIN how God told her to marry an atheist!

Explain to you? Why? In what way are you significant that "the Christian" who incidentally has not contributed a single word to this thread must come and explain to you the mission God has given her?

Are you God that she must explain herself to you?
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 10:18pm On Mar 24, 2021
LordReed:


And you need to stop drawing comparisons out of your arse. How is praising an arsehole god comparable to supporting terrorism? Is your god a terrorist? Think before you type abeg.
You accused God of the most violent crimes of narcissism and murder AND you still have an efontry to promote your kind marrying lovers and supporters of this "terrorist" God!

Only a sick person will not see a contradiction in this
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 10:20pm On Mar 24, 2021
budaatum:


Explain to you? Why? In what way are you significant that "the Christian" who incidentally has not contributed a single word to this thread must come and explain to you the mission God has given her?

Are you God that she must explain herself to you?
Buda!
Buda!!

You are more precise than this!

Explain to ME??

Where did you read that?

shadeyinka:

Then let the Christian come out to EXPLAIN how God told her to marry an atheist!
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 10:21pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

You accused God of the most violent crimes of narcissism and murder AND you still have an efontry to promote your kind marrying lovers and supporters of this "terrorist" God!

Only a sick person will not see a contradiction in this

And only a dumb person will keep making the sort of comparison you are making. A person believes in a narsehole god in their head but go about their daily lives being a good person to you that is the same as supporting terrorism. Can you not see how dumb that is?
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 10:30pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

Buda!
Buda!!

You are more precise than this!

Explain to ME??

Where did you read that?

So who are you asking "the Christian come out to EXPLAIN how God told her to marry an atheist", to?

To buda who already sees the Glory of the Lord at work in her and her family and in the fact that they are a lesson to you in this thread, or to you who is too blind to see what God is teaching you with the Christian's marriage to her atheist husband who is currently celebrating 7 years of glorious marriage and the upbringing of their wonderful daughter?

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 10:44pm On Mar 24, 2021
budaatum:


So who are you asking "the Christian come out to EXPLAIN how God told her to marry an atheist", to?

To buda who already sees the Glory of the Lord at work in her and her family and in the fact that they are a lesson to you in this thread, or to you who is too blind to see what God is teaching you with the Christian's marriage to her atheist husband who is currently celebrating 7 years of glorious marriage and the upbringing of their wonderful daughter?
Explain to who?
Probably you! LOL!!

1. A True Christian must never marry an atheist
2. If a Christian by any means is ALREADY married to an atheist, she must not divorce him. She must Love and Obey him.
3. Divorce is only permitted if the Atheist desires a separation
4. She must do her best to secure the Spiritual life of her children

Thank God for you. You are an exception that only a few has received
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 10:59pm On Mar 24, 2021
Thank God you are not God and that your opinion is irrelevant to the union of the op who is celebrating 7 years of wonderful marital bliss and will enjoy many many more.

shadeyinka:

Explain to who?
Probably you! LOL!!

1. A True Christian must never marry an atheist
2. If a Christian by any means is ALREADY married to an atheist, she must not divorce him. She must Love and Obey him.
3. Divorce is only permitted if the Atheist desires a separation
4. She must do her best to secure the Spiritual life of her children

Thank God for you. You are an exception that only a few has received

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by kkins25(m): 11:32pm On Mar 24, 2021
shadeyinka:

Explain to who?
Probably you! LOL!!

1. A True Christian must never marry an atheist
2. If a Christian by any means is ALREADY married to an atheist, she must not divorce him. She must Love and Obey him.
3. Divorce is only permitted if the Atheist desires a separation
4. She must do her best to secure the Spiritual life of her children

Thank God for you. You are an exception that only a few has received

Point one was given to you to reduce the emotional trauma you would encounter should your baby soul/mind become trouble for marrying a pagan. Is it not written in one of Paul's apostles that the grace of annointed spouse covers the un-annointed spouse?

Jesus christ whom you should emulate dinned confidently with the lowest of the low, for example the prostitute(alleged) that washed his feet with tears and smeared it with fragrance. Matured Christian's do not worry about point one.

If point one were valid then pray tell, what are the odds that the atheits wife wouldn't turn his heart away from God? If the spouse happened to be a Male, would the children follow the mothers belief of the fathers? You and I both know during jesus time the children were brainwashed with the fathers religion.

If it is permitted to continue fvcking an atheist one is already bonded to, then what is the rationale behind your point 1?

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 12:35am On Mar 25, 2021
budaatum:
Thank God you are not God and that your opinion is irrelevant to the union of the op who is celebrating 7 years of wonderful marital bliss and will enjoy many many more.

You seem blind tonight.
shadeyinka:

.....

Thank God for you. You are an exception of grace that only a few has received
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 12:45am On Mar 25, 2021
kkins25:


Point one was given to you to reduce the emotional trauma you would encounter should your baby soul/mind become trouble for marrying a pagan. Is it not written in one of Paul's apostles that the grace of annointed spouse covers the un-annointed spouse?
That is if the Christian is already married

kkins25:

Jesus christ whom you should emulate dinned confidently with the lowest of the low, for example the prostitute(alleged) that washed his feet with tears and smeared it with fragrance. Matured Christian's do not worry about point one.
Christians are in the world but not of this world therefore they should mix with people of this world to show them the light of God. The rule of Christ is that if anyone will not receive the message, Christians should dust their shoes and LEAVE. An atheist has decided not to relate with God therefore, the Christian should leave them alone to their delusion!


kkins25:

If point one were valid then pray tell, what are the odds that the atheits wife wouldn't turn his heart away from God? If the spouse happened to be a Male, would the children follow the mothers belief of the fathers? You and I both know during jesus time the children were brainwashed with the fathers religion.

If it is permitted to continue fvcking an atheist one is already bonded to, then what is the rationale behind your point 1?
For a Christian marriage is not just a Physical but Spiritual union. God hates divorce. Any marriage irrespective of its kind is a spiritual union and cannot be broken casually.

For me, it's not even about the husband turning away the heart of the wife or vice versa BUT the very high probability of some of the children loosing their eternity to satan because of the stupidity of the Christian who should know better.
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Image123(m): 12:47am On Mar 25, 2021
LordReed:


Indeed, the god disowns you simply because you divorced. Na wa for this their god.

Like saying na wa for God divorcing you SIMPLY because you divorced. You apparently see nothing wrong with your divorce but everything wrong with God's divorce/disown. Hypocrisy, double standards.
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by Image123(m): 12:52am On Mar 25, 2021
LordReed:


Hehe hehe, by the so called loving god who can't have people who don't love him. An abusive domineering personality, is it any wonder ⅓ of the angels don't want to be near him. LMAO!

But innumerable people love Him. Is this not selective yet again?
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by budaatum: 1:08am On Mar 25, 2021
shadeyinka:

You seem blind tonight.

No Shadeyinka, I'm not blind. I'm just not pandering to your slimy dishonest way of seemingly attempting to "meet halfway" as you do often after many pages of posts where you've ignorantly made out you are right and everyone else is wrong instead of admitting you were wrong and ungraceful all along.

You might think you and your ways are not noticed but not only has Christ spat on mud and rubbed it in our eyes so we can see, we have bathed in the Pool of Siloam too and will advise you do the same so that your eyes may open and you too can see.

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Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by shadeyinka(m): 6:04am On Mar 25, 2021
budaatum:


No Shadeyinka, I'm not blind. I'm just not pandering to your slimy dishonest way of seemingly attempting to "meet halfway" as you do often after many pages of posts where you've ignorantly made out you are right and everyone else is wrong instead of admitting you were wrong and ungraceful all along.

You might think you and your ways are not noticed but not only has Christ spat on mud and rubbed it in our eyes so we can see, we have bathed in the Pool of Siloam too and will advise you do the same so that your eyes may open and you too can see.

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Buda, you and your Atheists friends are the ones who are blatantly DISHONEST, DECEITFUL and without PROBITY!

Of course the TRUTH doesn't have DUPLICATE. I have spoken AND I AM of course unwaiveringly right and YOU are obviously wrong concerning this matter according to rational Christian thinking and the Scriptures.

1. What lessons can you learn from this
1Kin 11:4:
"For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father."
2. Is this Scripture applicable with respect to marriage?
2Cor 6:14:
"Be you not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion has light with darkness?"
3. Why would isaac pass this instruction to his Jacob?
Gen 28:1:
"So Isaac called Jacob and prayed that good would come to him. He said to him, "Do not marry one of the daugh-ters of Canaan."

4. Why do you think God gave instructions on marriage to the Israelites?
Deu 7:3:
"»Do not intermarry with them. Do not give your daughters to their sons or take their daughters for your sons."

True Christians have a higher standard bro! It's you who has no standard!
What You desire a pliable Christian with no conviction about anything who will put to risk her faith and the faith of her children over her stupidity!


Let me ask you a question:
Would you advise a Christian woman marry an unrepentant Cultist?
Re: How Can The Atheist Me Be Happily Married To My Christian Wife? See My REPLY by LordReed(m): 6:24am On Mar 25, 2021
Image123:


But innumerable people love Him. Is this not selective yet again?

Innumerable people loved Hitler, was that a stamp of approval?

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