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Should I Still Marry Her? by Obaseki500: 10:43pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
I have never been this confused in my entire life... I have a girlfriend that we have been dating for 6 years now... We are not married because I was not stable financially but now things seems to be much better and next year should be the year....I reside in Ibadan so she came in last year after her education to get a job, she's a nurse and we were staying together up till now. Sex has never been an issue between us up until December last year. We sleep on the same bed and we live in the same house but we have not had sex since December 2020 till date. She's right beside me as I type this message. Each time I go close to her, she tells me I am not entitled to sex because I have not paid her bride price. I just could not understand the sudden change in her attitude towards sex when wedding is next year. She also locks her phone and even WhatsApp. Now, I am beginning to have doubt about marrying her. 45 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by AlphaLover: 10:44pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
No one cares because we all know this is a made up post Una go dey write fake fake stories come post am here . Na so the other guy dey claim say his imaginary ex asked him to come manage her imaginary business . What I don't get is why make up all these stories ? Is it boredom? Or you feel so lonely you crave the attention of others ? Una get time o 397 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Xenry: 10:44pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
If you aren't screwing her, then another guy is doing it. Her phone is her cheating dairy, that's why she kept it away from you. You ain't financially strong and you want to marry? Well, as for me and my guys, we ain't entering into any relationship until we start to dey make 8-digits per annum. 176 Likes 15 Shares
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Obaseki500: 10:46pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
AlphaLover: Na watin dey pain me you dey talk make up.... What do I stand to gain in making up stories... Den dey use am give money ni? 46 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by AlphaLover: 10:46pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Obaseki500: Guy fem there Na fake post be diz How will a grown man come online and pos this problems so teenagers and kids can advise him? Such a man must have mental problems 153 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Obaseki500: 10:49pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
AlphaLover: Bros. must you reply to this message... Why not just look the other way if you don't have any reasonable thing to say. 40 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Kirkman: 10:56pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Obaseki500; since you said things are OK for you now financially, what are you waiting for? At least do introduction and traditional wedding the rest can come later. Just so you know, she has options, and mentally she has given you a time frame, once it elapses she's gone and no amount of begging will bring her back and she will move on to her next best option. She has tried enough 6 years is not child's play. 143 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by AlphaLover: 11:04pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Obaseki500: You mad sup this story just like 99% of this on this forum Bros take Npower form and stop this 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Ayemileto(m): 11:24pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Xenry: 8 digits per annum is small sha. Except it's dollars you're talking about. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Angelacruz: 11:33pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Then go and pay her bride price nah...six yes is enough except you wan to graduate wit MBBS. ..[img] 107 Likes 10 Shares
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 11:48pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
"Each time I go close to her, she tells me I am not entitled to sex because I have not paid her bride price. She also lock her phone and even WhatsApp" With the bolded, it's obvious you are in a long thing. When a girl is too conscious of her phone and always locks it, she keeps more than one man. Brother, your girl is our girl. 68 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Righteousness2(m): 12:12am On Mar 25, 2021 |
It is unfortunate that we live in a Generation where men and women live Joyfully in Fornication and Immorality and do not care about GOD'S Principles on marriage. It is Unfortunate that we live in times where doing Right is seen as evil while doing evil is seen as right. So because your Sin partner suddenly realizes that she has been messing up and decides to turn a new leaf, you are offended and want to leave? GOD Have Mercy on you! You need Deliverance 92 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Bola146(f): 12:24am On Mar 25, 2021 |
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by dawnomike(m): 12:29am On Mar 25, 2021 |
Obaseki500:Man up! Sit her down and talk this over with her to know where the problem lies... Learn to communicate effectively with your partner before you guys get married. We do not have time to be giving advise online on matters that should be discussed and settled by 2 adults. 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Tolu181: 12:42am On Mar 25, 2021 |
Obaseki500:o.p Na lie go kill you 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by punisha: 2:06am On Mar 25, 2021 |
u r a shameless man. stop using d word marriage to hold d innocent girl down. thank God she has woken from her slumber. u have knacked for 6years and feeling entitled. be there talking about next year and not show commitment on your own side. 72 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by olamide0147: 4:33am On Mar 25, 2021 |
She has realised that shiloh is around the corner 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by infogenius(m): 5:52am On Mar 25, 2021 |
Op, u are lucky she hasn't moved on. But she will definitely do so soon. She's obviously tired of ur games. U're just sleeping with her anyhow, u don't want to marry her (except with mouth) and u don't want another man that is worthy of her to marry her. Guy, make more proactive moves to tie the knot this year as next year is too far. You need to show more seriousness in getting married to her than screwing her. 64 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by danietohbadt(m): 6:02am On Mar 25, 2021 |
You've dated her for six years. Prior to December 2020, you've been "chopping" her. Don't be callous. That one don do. If you ain't going to marry her, let her go. Six years ain't no joke. And if you really want to "chop" her again, go and see her people and do the needful oga. She's a nurse, you guys will be fine. Sorry to say, since she has started hiding her phone, that means she has started talking to another guy, and that guy is probably promising her marriage already while she's stylishly waiting for you to propose. Taking into consideration the time she has spent with you. If you're not fast enough, I can bet you'll come back here on nairaland to tell us how you saw her wedding invite on a friend's status. Be wise.... Girls with good jobs are scarce, and obviously she's gonna be a good girl since you didn't mention any bad act about her 69 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by 1beat(m): 6:04am On Mar 25, 2021 |
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Ferdinandu(m): 7:21am On Mar 25, 2021 |
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by stanliwise(m): 7:30am On Mar 25, 2021 |
AlphaLover:More power to your elbow. Sometimes I think this post are paid post. one strange thing you would recognize is that most time the OP don’t respond to anyone posting answers either to request for more info or clarification. The paid poster Simply just ask and then a load of answers and then front-page material. It is just so stale 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by aumusa: 7:32am On Mar 25, 2021 |
Obaseki500: she's right though 4 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Nobody: 7:36am On Mar 25, 2021 |
The vices of Satan is really working. Someone's daughter has decided to do the right thing and you are insisting on another thing. If you know what is best for you better accept Jesus and do the right thing. Have a great day. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by ayo2008: 8:21am On Mar 25, 2021 |
Obaseki500: Sleeping with her abinitio was not right as is called pre-marital sex. Infact is called fornication. God hates it . Do the needful by marrying her legally 20 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by femi4: 8:24am On Mar 25, 2021 |
Obaseki500:After 6yrs , she's afraid you won't marry her if she continues to give you sex. Putting sex on hold might hasten you marrying her without further delay 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by Reex12(m): 9:06am On Mar 25, 2021 |
Righteousness2:oga oh wetin you dey find for romance section 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by bestman09(m): 10:00pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
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Re: Should I Still Marry Her? by simhosting: 10:00pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
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