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Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Roon9(m): 4:36pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Fahdiga: A man must be a man bro. You are 100% correct 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Lomprico2: 4:48pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Realestbae: that's why God still never allow you dey do anything. ![]() am sure your husband knows what u are capable of. 14 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by cococandy(f): 4:50pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
What were you people’s agreement on responsibility? Some family are strictly traditional where the man provides and the woman is the home keeper. In that case, what she makes from her job is really not for you to know or what she does with it either. As long as she’s faithfully keeping her side of the bargain and you’re keeping yours as well, peace should reign. Or so it seems. But what we normally have these days are people (husbands) who want a traditional wife but can’t keep their eyes of her money. If you ask them to do some of the wifely duties, they will say you’re insulting them, emasculating them and the devil is using you to break up the home. A true realistic marriage should not be rigid in roles and responsibilities. It never works in really life to be so rigid and unshakeable about who does what. Resentment always sets in at some point. Everyone should help each other. Imagine if she brought her income home without hiding. Maybe that house would be completed by now and both of you would be landlords. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by barbwire2(m): 5:10pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
You are on track for the most serious heart break of your life. If you forgive believe me she'll do something else worse and you'll a life regretting why you didn't leave her sooner when you had the opportunity to leave and remain sane... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by CHoccolaTE: 5:11pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Fahdiga:Men also take advantage of good women let's not deceive ourselves abeg. All genders get bad people, many human beings are bad and wicked but men keep crying and complaining about women day in, day out. Abeh make una let us hear word 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by armyofone(m): 5:31pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Realestbae: ![]() ![]() You see! Yeah men do it a great deal but i think it feels more painful here because it was a woman that played the game. They forgot women learn from the best teacher - a man. Realestbae, don't give up working and earning. For me, I will go for all money into one account. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by armyofone(m): 5:35pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
cococandy: In addition, that you are nagging them for asking for their help in the kitchen after putting in 100 hours of work outside the home ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by SamgoldBaba: 5:55pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Bornsinner7: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by sisisioge: 6:02pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Klass99: Awon plagiarizer ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by cococandy(f): 6:09pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
armyofone:don’t mind them. They can’t decide what they want |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by NomzyJust(m): 6:14pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Jodha: Is it your keypad or you don't know how to spell? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Nobody: 6:16pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Klass99:Boss lady is a disrespectful name? A name you feel you have no worth if you've not attained? |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by pocohantas(f): 6:29pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
When a Nigerian/African marriage crashes, the woman leaves with just her box. You guys would be happy. You even encourage yourselves to marry back home so that the standard can remain. You don’t fail to threaten her with second wife or getting thrown back to her father’s house. Women are watching... Yet you expect these same women to bring out their money, time and heart to build an “empire” with you? Lol. Y’all are quite delusional or just being fish-brained as usual. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Sixfeetbelle: 6:38pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
I don't understand why everyone is angry here. So she lied about her salary. And then what happened? Without her salary, would he still not provide for his family? Would he still not take up majority of the financial responsibilities of the house? Would he still not act in the title of man of the house? So why is her salary the bone of contention here? The only thing I see here being an issue is her demanding her loan for the car back. She offered that money willingly and shouldn't have requested for it. Otherwise, everything else is nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by EmmySparky(m): 6:42pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
this is really sad...but thank God it's not something partaining your kids parternity...then it would be really crazy |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by davidadenrele: 6:53pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Brotherly, Your story is deep and and a truly an inside life as once sang by naira marley my brother let her go!! you know why if your wife could do this at this difficult time in Nigeria trust me it will not end there ooo.....she might be advised to go diabolical or spiritual on your matter, her father and brother will never be happy cos you discovered their secret meaning they wont have access to cash flow any more we in Nigeria we have heard and seen some stories similar to yours. You married her and her family as it if your wife don't go spiritual over your matter her family will, you just blocked their chances of cash flow as its please be prayerful if possible invite your immediate family to know about this incident else if your enemy die by food poisoning tomorrow they would say E choke" cover up your story and thats the end my brother watch your back. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by armyofone(m): 7:56pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
davidadenrele: Bringing in his own family into the wahala is not a solution. Or you want bigger drama ? |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by luminouz(m): 7:58pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Realestbae:Will you shut dafuq up and find somewhere to hide ya face? Is this thread about you and your perceived slights? So he should allow his mother to die for your 300k business to come to life? What a fuqed up mindset. Why not kuku start poisoning him slowly now,so you can inherit his properties, that's if you are not already killing him slowly. ![]() ![]() ![]() 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by luminouz(m): 8:01pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Lmaoooo... What exactly is up with you today Seh? You ain't the normal you sis. You have been goofing back to back to fuqin back. The lie is a major part of the problem. A lying woman is a killing woman. And to pretend to that level in very fuqin insane. Weird that you can't see what others are seeing on the issue 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by dominique(f): 8:39pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
This stupid fake story that is being circulated all over social media, they've converted the money from cedis to naira. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Raalsalghul: 8:49pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: This is the most sensible thing you've said on Nairaland. |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Sixfeetbelle: 9:05pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
luminouz: He's angry about the lie because he hasn't lied before? Please. He isn't angry she lied about her salary, he's angry he's not getting a say on how that money is spent. That's why his plan is to stop building the house they were building together. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Sixfeetbelle: 9:18pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
luminouz: Your partiality is showing. Calm down. A stingy, lying man is now on the line and you're already finding excuses for him. Typical. Oya, let me find excuses for you too. Should she let her brother die of depression just to satisfy her well-to-do husband? Should she let rain and pneumonia kill her father in his thatch house when she can build a mansion for him? It's not as though the man is starving so wetin concern him concern her money? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by luminouz(m): 9:18pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Lmaooooooo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now I have seen it all!!! Will you Goan sleep!!! |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Sixfeetbelle: 9:20pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
luminouz: I noticed that when you run out of points to use, you start acting like a clown. It seems you're the one who's out of sorts today. We're not in a circus, dear. Address me like one would an intellectual being. |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by luminouz(m): 9:23pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: Lol... What are you on about? I ALREADY mentioned why the husband was angry biko. She lied and pretended and harangued him on the loan he took from her to buy her a car,she said she needed. If you still don't get the concept of lying in marriage, just marry me and I will teach you. ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Sixfeetbelle: 9:25pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
luminouz: And the lady you quoted, the husband isn't lying? |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by luminouz(m): 9:26pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle: ![]() ![]() ![]() Me clowning you shows you have nothing intellectual on the subject to offer me. Just half-assed conjectures. ![]() I'm done with this...Have a nice night |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by luminouz(m): 9:27pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Sixfeetbelle:Bye sis |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Sixfeetbelle: 9:28pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
luminouz: You just proved me right. |
Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 9:29pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
Glad I read comments before taking panadol over another MSN’s headache. Op iro po, iro po iro po...o tipo repete...o tipo repete...oti po oti po oti po! 1 Like 1 Share |
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