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Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by BaddieFreak(f): 12:19pm On Mar 29, 2021
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Victorious12: 12:21pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?
Yes, it's much possible to smash and be frds.
It's maturity
..Me myself, m not ready to go into a relationship, I let I known to a girl, we could still smash and be frds....it's called FWB

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by BaddieFreak(f): 12:23pm On Mar 29, 2021
Victorious12:

Yes, it's much possible to smash and be frds.
It's maturity
..Me myself, m not ready to go into a relationship, I let I known to a girl, we could still smash and be frds....it's called FWB
That is the problem, a lot are not matured.

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by thatsleepboy1: 12:25pm On Mar 29, 2021
Nigeria is gone
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 29, 2021
Yes if she is useless NIGERIAN Girl.
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by BaddieFreak(f): 12:29pm On Mar 29, 2021
Naijahops:
Yes if she is useless NIGERIAN Girl.
What about the guys?
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by younglleo: 12:30pm On Mar 29, 2021
Smash nd be friends?
No wahala..
Be coming
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Mar 29, 2021
Totally depends on if you want to be. Some girls will just have sex with a guy and the next thing ghost them and vise versa. That's total immaturity. You don't know, one day you may need their help.

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by BaddieFreak(f): 12:49pm On Mar 29, 2021
Masonkaycares:
Totally depends on if you want to be. Some girls will just have sex with a guy and the next thing ghost them and vise versa. That's total immaturity. You don't know, one day you may need their help.
Not only the girls, it goes both ways

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Nobody: 12:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
I doubt any nigerian girl, will accept this, time is really not on ladies side unlike the guys.
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by FreeSpirited: 12:51pm On Mar 29, 2021
Depends. If they both respect each other. But what's the essence of friendship if there's no mutual gain.
The friendship usually break when there's no longer mutual gain or respect. For example, if one party denies the other of the opportunity to have sex again, or If either of the party loses the respect of the other. Which can happen for myriads of reason.
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Akuruoulo(m): 1:04pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:

What about the guys?
THAT GUY IS ALWAYS TALKING SHIT. JUST LET HIM TALK HIS SHIT
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Cholls(m): 1:25pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?

Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Alphajunkee(m): 2:33pm On Mar 29, 2021
From my experience it's mostly the girls that start loving up and looking for a relationship. It's hard to smash the brains out of a naija babe and she won't start disturbing u all the time

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by debbydams(f): 3:32pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?
its possible depending on their level maturity..this happened to my best friend, this guy came to buy things from her nd they becm friends, the guy asked her to help him get a space for business she did, they had sex nd his business is doing fine, tbh the guy lied to her that he's single meanwhile hes married...my friend just bon the matter till now she they are cool..

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Facts101: 3:36pm On Mar 29, 2021
debbydams:
its possible depending on their level maturity..this happened to my best friend, this guy came to buy things from her nd they becm friends, the guy asked her to help him get a space for business she did, they had sex nd his business is doing fine, tbh the guy lied to her that he's single meanwhile hes married...my friend just bon the matter till now she they are cool..

U sure say no be you be the girl

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by SILENTandSMART2: 3:38pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?

Oya let's smash and we're going to be friends tongue tongue
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by SILENTandSMART2: 3:39pm On Mar 29, 2021
Facts101:


U sure say no be you be the girl

You mad ni grin


Nah you type ham grin
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by BaddieFreak(f): 3:41pm On Mar 29, 2021
debbydams:
its possible depending on their level maturity..this happened to my best friend, this guy came to buy things from her nd they becm friends, the guy asked her to help him get a space for business she did, they had sex nd his business is doing fine, tbh the guy lied to her that he's single meanwhile hes married...my friend just bon the matter till now she they are cool..
You are right sha, it depends on how matured both parties are.
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by BaddieFreak(f): 3:42pm On Mar 29, 2021
SILENTandSMART2:


Oya let's smash and we're going to be friends tongue tongue

I would rather pass
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by SILENTandSMART2: 3:44pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:

I would rather pass


Are you mad ni shey it look like i am joking ?

Answer me jare what's the meaning of this
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by BareFacedLies(m): 4:25pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?

Yes we can smiley
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Victorious12: 8:57pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:

That is the problem, a lot are not matured.
My dear, age is not number..... First, YOU'LL have to be friendly with someone that can share little deeps things, how he reacts to things and thank past relationships...
is he a flirt or not....
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Nazgul: 9:07pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?
It depends, if the guy in question is only after the lady's body and the lady just wants good sex, then it's possible, cos the guy wouldn't commit and they lady won't bother either.
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Mar 29, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?
Who Do U Intend To Smash? Na So Agro Don Hold U Reach?
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by indodon(m): 10:20pm On Mar 29, 2021
I want make my money large like Nigerian problem
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Mar 29, 2021
Smash 1st time, 2nd, 3rd and so on.... It can't work. When they are not animals. The emotional attachment will definitely come up from one of them not to talk of Jealousy when an opposite sex (main chick/guy) comes around.

But life as it is now.... Anything goes. Smashers and smashees smashing up an dan. Both married and unmarried!

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Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Twelfthman: 6:09am On Mar 30, 2021
Yes I have no problem with that on my path. Some of my ex arent just fit for that and I am still friend with some other ex. So u see it depends on people
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by femi4: 8:34am On Mar 30, 2021
BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?
Yes, both ll pretend it never happened and never discussed it
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by debbydams(f): 11:51am On Mar 30, 2021
Facts101:


U sure say no be you be the girl
leave me jor
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by KunleBoye: 7:10pm On Apr 03, 2021
debbydams:
leave me jor

Even if you were, it's never a big deal.
And this speaks to the maturity everyone is pointing at.
Again, lots of Nigerians need sexual orientation as to how not to attach too much emotions to sex.
Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by debbydams(f): 7:50pm On Apr 03, 2021
KunleBoye:


Even if you were, it's never a big deal.
And this speaks to the maturity everyone is pointing at.
Again, lots of Nigerians need sexual orientation as to how not to attach too much emotions to sex.
im very emotional tho but I dont force people... Its a free World o

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